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What is 'Soft Girl' Era? How Can I Be A Soft Girl? Entering Our Soft-Girl Era as Black Women, Learning How To Redefine Our Identity, and Embracing Femininity With Confidence. | REWIND

55 min • 16 december 2024

Tyra believes the 'Soft Girl' Era isn't new, but moreso of a revival or rebirth of how women lived decades ago. As Black girls, we don’t have to go along with the identities and stereotypes that have been put on us for years. We can choose to adopt a new lifestyle that fits what WE want for ourselves.

In today’s REWIND episode, Tyra and Bria Black chat about Soft Girl Era and what it means for black women. From letting go of the stereotypes put on us by society, to discovering more about who we really are and what makes us happy, Soft-Girl Era is helping black women learn to love and care for themselves better. We DESERVE to live life the way we want to live, and to finally put ourselves FIRST.

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Biggest Takeaways:

Soft Girl Era allows Black women to reject the stereotypes people have placed on them
Soft Girl is a lifestyle that focuses on self-care, self-love, and putting yourself first
Soft Girl Era is good for all areas of your life: mental health, career, financial, self-esteem, etc.

Read More about Soft Girl Era (articles referenced in this episode):

https://www.glam.com/1090415/heres-why-black-girls-on-tiktok-are-entering-a-soft-girl-era/

https://www.insider.com/how-young-black-women-are-manifesting-a-soft-life-2022-12

https://www.purewow.com/wellness/black-girls-soft-life

https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/how-to-enter-your-soft-girl-era

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