Susie Verrill - My Parenting Story

What does it feel like to raise and advocate for a child with ADHD and autism, in systems that weren’t designed for them?

In this episode of the All Aboard ADHD podcast, Claire is joined by Susie Verrill, Parenting and Lifestyle Influencer, writer, and mum of three. Susie shares her experience of raising a son with an AuDHD profile: from the early signs she noticed in preschool and the school’s dismissive response, to navigating the long NHS diagnostic process, adapting family life, and parenting in a way that works for her child, even when it doesn’t match other people’s expectations.

They discuss:

🧩 Early Signs and Gut Instinct: emotional dysregulation in preschool, strong family “radar” for neurodiversity, and why the fact that “he has friends and makes eye contact” was enough for teachers to overlook him.

🏫 School Resistance and SENCO Support: the disappointment of being shut down by teachers, the harmful “just boy behaviour” narratives, and the turning point when Susie pushed for proper SENCO involvement.

🩺 Diagnosis Through the NHS: the long wait, “throwing everything at it” with practical supports, then how the diagnosis brought relief and validation, rather than shame.

⚡ ADHD in Daily Life: craving novelty, extremes of focus and distractibility, sleep struggles, social energy, and the familiar “I’m bored” crash after big days out.

🏡 Parenting Differently: using screens as regulation, having flexible expectations around clothes, manners and mealtimes, plus embracing a loud, chaotic, and loving home.

💛 Strengths and Hope: Susie shares her love for her son’s clear boundaries, blunt politeness, humour, physical energy, curiosity, and her belief that “there is space in the world” for him exactly as he is.

If you’re parenting a neurodivergent child and feeling dismissed, judged or unsure if you’re “doing it right,” this warm and honest conversation will leave you feeling less alone, more validated, and more confident to trust your instincts and build a life that fits your child’s brain.

Further resources and links:

• Find Susie on Instagram @susiejverrill

• ADHD coaching and resources from Claire: https://allaboardadhd.com

• Follow Claire on Instagram & TikTok: @allaboardADHD

The views shared in this episode are those of the guest, based on their professional expertise and personal experience. This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, educational, or psychological advice. Please consult a qualified professional for personalised support relevant to your individual circumstances.