PDA in Young Adults: Navigating Autonomy and What NOT to Do in the Teen to Adult Transition

If you're parenting a PDA young adult who has withdrawn from independence milestones like leaving their room or working, this episode is for you.

Chantal Hewitt explores the challenges of PDA autism parenting and the "services cliff" that suddenly removes support when they reach adulthood. Hear three key mindset shifts: withdrawal as recovery, how independence looks different for PDA young adults, and how parental roles evolve.

What You Will Learn in This Episode:

• Why withdrawal by a PDA young adult is often a sign of recovery, not regression
• How independence for PDA young adults can look very different from traditional expectations
• The critical mindset shifts parents can adopt to better support their PDA young adult
• Why the "services cliff" creates unique challenges at adulthood and how to navigate it
• How parental roles evolve and why your support still matters during this transition

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Explore these topics:

• ⚡ Regulation & Safety: Understand why PDA is a Nervous System Response.
• 🗣️ PDA Foundations: Master the shift to Declarative Language & Safety.
• 🏫 Education & Advocacy: Navigating masking and School Refusal.

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