Episode 260: Shame Must Switch Sides: It’s Not Shameful to NOT Want Pornified Sex

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Gisele Pelicot famously said that "shame must switch sides"--and I think that applies to the evangelical church! Over and over again over the last few years ,when male teachers have presented a pornified view of sex and women have said "no", women have been accused of being prudes. But it is okay to reject objectification. A close look at Josh Butler, Gary Thomas coercing women into sending nude photos, and more--all of whom called us ashamed of sex for saying no.

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THINGS MENTIONED:

• Ngina Otiende’s initial article about Gary Thomas
• Our review of Gary Thomas’ book Married Sex 
• My original article about how Married Sex coerces nude photos 
• Our podcast where we talked about Gisele Pelicot 
• The Male Centric Sex podcast
• Theology in the Raw episode with Josh Butler 
• Brett McCracken about Josh Butler
• Twitter thread with Gary Thomas
• Juli Slattery’s article quoting me

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