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Episode 205: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A response to Nancy Pearcey

82 min • 14 september 2023

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Our op ed with Baptist News that goes over the points in this podcast: https://baptistnews.com/article/do-complementarian-men-do-better-a-response-to-nancy-pearcey/

Our initial article responding to Josh Howerton's claim that conservative evangelicals have the best sex and marriages

https://baptistnews.com/article/do-conservative-evangelicals-enjoy-better-sex-and-marriage-a-response-to-josh-howerton/

Our podcast going over these same points (for those who would rather listen!):

https://baremarriage.com/2022/04/podcast-do-christians-have-better-sex-lives-a-response-to-josh-howerton/

Leonardo Cruz' critique of how Nancy Pearcey handled history scholars https://leo-cruz.medium.com/nancy-pearcey-pt1-44f98c2a3602

Our book The Great Sex Rescue, based on our survey of 20,000 women https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/

The IFS report that showed that conservative highly religious men were far more likely to perpetrate intimate partner violence (p. 36):

https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/reports/worldfamilymap-2019-051819.pdf

The book The Scandal of the Evangelical Mind

https://amzn.to/3r7BIe9

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