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Episode 284: The Problems with the Book His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley

105 min • 22 maj 2025

Let's take a close look at the book His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley! Bethany Jantzi and Ngina Otiende join me to look at some of the things that we find problematic about the book--and explain why evangelicalism needs better resources!

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