In this episode of Be Reconciled, Fr. Paul unpacks a profound verse from Song of Songs — “I am dark but I am lovely” — through the lens of sin, grace, and identity in Christ. With wisdom from the Church Fathers, he reflects on how our human weakness and spiritual darkness are not obstacles to God’s love, but doorways to transformation.
Joined by two young adults from the community, the conversation expands into practical and vulnerable questions about finances in dating and marriage, age and cultural differences in relationships, and what it truly means to lead as a husband.
From theological truths to real-life guidance, this episode is an invitation to see yourself as God does — seen, known, and lovely — even in your most broken places.
“Even if you are dark, you are lovely in the eyes of God.”