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144: "Conflict Resolution Made Simple For Rational Minded Men" with James "Fish" Gill

100 min • 23 november 2023

We welcome in the uniquely brilliant genius of Fish Gill and his beautifully simple recipe for creating connection out of any relational conflict.

The greatest pain of every husband is feeling hopeless in transmitting their ocean of love for their beautiful Queen through their language and bodies in ways that she can feel and receive it.

Fish illuminates a simple pathway and repeatable process to end conflict and plant incessant seeds of connection and love that actually land supporting both hearts to thrive.
This ended up personally being one of Mark’s most emotional interviews yet.

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