Ep. 60 - Embracing the Highs and Lows of Manifestation Work - The Process with Jocelyn Kelly Reid

“You can come back from anything. You’re intended to go through it so you can come out and show yourself something bigger.” — Jocelyn

Today’s guest is a fellow Pathway member who has come on the show to share her own experience doing the Pathway work. Jocelyn talks in-depth about her experience in childhood as a woman of color and how this influenced her upbringing. She describes her workshop experience, and how it’s brought her to a magnetic space in both dating and her career.

#In This Episode We Talk About:

• A relaxing week away in NYC, meeting people who are doing the Pathway
  work
• The effects for Lacy doing the fat-soluble protocol
• The new unscented products she’s using
• The new body of work Lacy has downloaded
• Jocelyn’s cultural background and upbringing, including the influence
  of her grandparents on her parents’ upbringing
• Both of her parents grew up/went to school during segregation; they
  raised Jocelyn and her siblings with a very “push forward” attitude
• Her experience as an African American growing up in a primarily
  Caucasian environment
• How this experience affects how others view her/how she views herself
• The author of the book More Than Enough serving as an expander around
  these topics
• Feeling that we are here for more than this
• How she identifies (or doesn’t) with all the different groups she’s
  associated with
• The archetypes we call forward in our most magnetic state — for
  Jocelyn, it’s more about how she feels than how she imagines herself
  in specific scenarios
• Her biggest rock bottom, and the conditions surrounding it
• How received the ping to get out of that rock bottom — the series of
  events that led her to get out of the situation
• Her anxious attachment to a guy in LA during this time, and the
  psychic premonitions about him
• Until you know who you are entirely, don’t go see anyone about future
  premonitions
• Everyone is meant to go through a conscious update, but it happens at
  different points in life for everyone
• During the rock bottom, work was one thing that remained constant
• The struggle in work feeling like an entrepreneur in a corporate,
  structured setting
• Jocelyn has a first-hand experience with the work and The Pathway
• How someone she dated served as a mirror during Unblocked Reparent and Shadow
• Perfectionism, and how this influences how Jocelyn accepts love
• Growing up, she always felt that something was missing in her
  friendships and relationships — the work has helped her form deeper
  connections with like-minded people
• Finding a safe space to express our emotions and owning the way we
  express ourselves
• What’s come up for her in her career/entrepreneurship while working
  through the Pathway
• Reconciling her career mindset with the work history of her parents,
  specifically growing up without her mom working
• The most valuable work upfront for her was shadow work - she
  experienced many things that were bigger than her
• How the work she was doing shifted things within her family dynamic,
  especially the relationship with her dad
• If something’s not moving or opening up, there’s still another layer
  of unblocking or expansion that you need to do
• During Unblocked Money she called forth a great opportunity for her career
• Everything in life is energetic, even if we put it on a physical
  item; it’s an energetic of worthiness
• Every time she would push this guy away, she would get magnetic in her
  career
• When you consciously ask for expanders, the universe will put them in
  front of you
• Her brother’s wedding served as a final expander for her romantic
  life — she has been dating more recently than she has before
• Besides Elaine, her brother’s wedding, and her aunt, Lacy is a big
  expander for Jocelyn; she also has several micro-expanders
• Three things in motion to manifest: 1. Finding expanders/being
  expanded in what you want 2. Being unblocked 3. Taking action
• Jocelyn’s current career manifestations and how they are creating
  magnetism in other areas of her life
• Expansion around identifying and pulling together someone she is
  physically attracted to and the chemistry is there, with someone who
  is emotionally available
• Knowing what your capable of and fully stepping into your financial
  worth
• Lacy answers some of Jocelyn’s manifestation questions around the
  next career steps and love
• Don’t get addicted to using healers, but use them when you need them
  — follow your intuition
• To be a new way in this world, the old way has to actually die

#Resources:

• To Be Magnetic
• Instagram: @tobemagnetic
• Newsletter
• The Forest Retreat House
• Instagram: @theforestretreathouse
• Book The Forest Retreat House for a Promo Price
• Lacy Phillips Live: The Manifestation Tour
• The Pathway
• A la Carte Workshops

NYC

• Oroboro Store
• Raku Restaurant

HEALTH

• Unique Hammond
• Dr. Karen Hurd

UNSCENTED

• Rosehip Seed Oil
• Shea Butter
• Osea Sea Vitamin Boost
• Osea Brightening Serum
• Osea Atmosphere Protection Cream
• Biossance Phyto Retinol
• Dr. Bronner’s Unscented
• The Seaweed Bath Co. Shampoo
• Evan Healey Shea Lips
• Suntegrity SPF
• Dara Dubinet
• Expanded x Ep. 22 with Shaman Durek
• More Than Enough, Elaine Welteroth
• Nick Werber
• The Winged Woman

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