Episode 7. Oral Sex, Painful Sex & Changing Masturbation

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:

• I know she enjoys oral sex, but I’m not helping her reach orgasm. How can I get better at it?
• Sex still hurts most of the time, even though I’ve had it medically checked. What can I do?
• I’ve always masturbated the same way and I get frustrated when I try to change it. Where do I even start?

A relaxed, honest conversation about oral pleasure, taking pressure off orgasm, painful sex, vaginismus, body tension, comfort, mindful masturbation and changing long-standing pleasure habits.

In Question 2, Kat also mentions Nuri by Tabu, a warming internal wand / dilator-style support tool discussed as an option for gentle internal exploration and comfort.

Nuri by Tabu

No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.

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