Ep 33: The dating challenge that changed everything for me
In today’s episode, I’m sharing a juicy story from my single days—when I unintentionally created a dating challenge that completely changed how I showed up in love. Spoiler: I didn’t meet my husband during the challenge, but it was one of the biggest shifts that helped me become magnetic and emotionally grounded in dating.
You'll learn:
- Why anxious energy is repelling the exact type of man you want
- The surprisingly simple tweak that made dating way more fun (and way less stressful)
- How a silly little spreadsheet helped me stop obsessing over “is he the one?”
- What magnetic energy actually looks like—and how to access it without faking confidence
This episode is for you if:
✨ You’re tired of dating feeling like a chore
✨ You keep overthinking every text, glance, or comment from the guy
✨ You want to feel confident, grounded, and have fun while dating
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DM me on Instagram @shondahowardlove or email me at shonda@shondahoward.com and tell me your biggest dating energy block—I’d love to help.
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