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The whistleblowing book written by former Facebook executive Sarah Wynn-Williams is as explosive and shocking as expected, maybe more so. The author reveals personal stories that shaped her world-view and explains her conviction and hope to use her life to affect positive change. That same hope led her to pursue a career at a social technology company she seemingly envisioned as a champion for humanity. From there, she takes us with her into executive level meetings, haphazard trips abroad, and interactions with various staff that each provide startling enlightenment into the inner workings of a company with access to sensitive information about people around the globe. Due to revelations within this book, U.S. Senators are currently looking into Facebook's alleged collusion with foreign governments. Regardless of its entertainment value, Sarah may have accomplished her goal of affecting positive change. BONUS: a side quest refresher of the promising middle-aged man, Brett Kavanaugh

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Sutton and Kyle are the main focuses of Part 2 as Dorit laments how each offended her, or let her down, throughout the season, as Erika and/or Boz nod approvingly throughout. After a lengthy and exhaustive back and forth, Kyle finally apologizes for her combative stance about texting PK with a pledge of loyalty. Sutton gets chided by everyone for daring to flex her wealth in the "wallet" comment heard 'round the caviar tasting. Dorit unleashes a self-righteous tirade on Sutton, doling out smugly stated life lessons between low blows. Kathy and Jennifer Tilly join the group and continue to bring a much needed dose of comedy and positivity into an otherwise bleak environment. Andy gets honorable mention for stepping up to call out a few illogical statements, and for pointing out a few obvious arguments against Kyle getting upset with anyone mentioning MORGAN WADE a.k.a. those we now don't speak of.

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From the nationwide Hands Off Protest, where over 5 million people made their voices heard, to a whiney billionaire realizing the limits of his wealth and influence, and a record-breaking speech before the Senate, this past chaotic week had a silver lining. With a new/old tariff policy in effect, the country is re-learning why taxing our allies and largest import partners alike isn't great for the economy, no matter what an invisible man thinks. Meanwhile, we continue to see libraries, museums, art, government websites, education departments, and public broadcast channels targeted for censorship and revisionist history as U.S. residency and citizenship are marketed Willy Wonka style via a golden ticket. HHS firings, illegal deportations, retaliatory acts, and making sure Mel Gibson is armed are some of the current priorities for a warped administration. 

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The lovely and talented Kiki Monique, a.k.a. @thetalkofshame, joins this pod to discuss Beverly Hills Reunion Part 1 and this week's shocking Atlanta episode that revealed Kenya's motivation to check new cast member, Brit, in a way that led to Kenya being removed from the show. After reviewing an angry, late-night DM incident from Dorit's estranged husband to our fellow creator Emily Hanks, we delve into how misplaced newbie ambitions derailed what was meant to be a top-tier Atlanta cast. Then, we get into the "ordacity" of Erika Girardi coming for Garcelle, Kyle's off-camera life, and the psychology of Sutton. BONUS: Explaining the real story behind Erika being featured on a Brooke Candy song used in the film, Anora, and how that sad tale is one the Bravosphere has seen before.

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If Part one is any indication, this reunion bundle is going to be painful to watch. The separate factions mentality of the group continues to outshine any other dynamic. The majority take issue with Sutton and Garcelle throughout, labelling them as "mean girls" while lamenting their reign of terror - despite it being a connection forged from being pushed to the outskirts of the group across past seasons. Garcelle is singled out by almost everyone, for any perceived slight or insult, most of which resulted from her bravery in asking real questions on a show where much of the cast would prefer to ignore their issues. After learning that Dorit only came back because Lisa Rinna convinced her, I'm even more sure that the old cliques have to be broken apart in order for BH to regain its status as an exciting franchise.

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As the country waits to see if the approximately $80-100 million the broligarchy spent trying to sway voters in Wisconsin's judicial election pays off, breaking their election laws in the process, we review other major news of the past week. That includes an ill-fated trip to Greenland, news of Twitter's sale, a mini-exodus from Yale professors, the importance of due process, an update on the Signal text chain, plus ABC/Disney learning that a bully is never satisfied. BONUS: Why Dolly Parton is the best, and a warped Sesame Street episode

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The first installment in the "Low Pressure Book Club Series" is a review of 'Why Does He Do That?' by Lundy Bancroft. Packed with helpful lists of warning signs, debunked excuses, and key signs of abuse, this book was written to provide insight into the minds of men who don't respect their partners. Throughout, I work to explain unacceptable behaviors by comparing them to similar ones displayed by men on Bravo. The author relies on his 30+ years of counseling men to identify contributing factors and presents a path to change that relies solely on the angry man reaching a point where that anger no longer serves him.

Unfortunately, this review begins by discussing recently shared allegations by several women that say Lundy weaponized that same extensive counseling experience to prey upon their vulnerabilities. As a result, a book that presents a thesis that abusers are made, not born, now serves as a helpful guide in more ways than its author intended.

https://cryingoutforjustice.blog/2025/01/30/lundy-bancroft-is-a-predator/ 

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After an update on more blowback from Boz and Erika's 'Watch What Happens Live' digs at Garcelle's departure, the final moments of the finale are summarized. Mid-recap, I delay this pod by taking a break after hearing Erika still describe Tom as an accomplished lawyer. Then, a review of news from 2024 about Dorit and PK's pre-foreclosure from four months of missed house payments, on top of previously reported tax liens. Plus, updated legal info about two major lawsuits facing Erika, Tom's sentencing, and my recommendation on casting to save the franchise from clique fakery. BONUS: Recalling key hellish moments Garcelle withstood to be on this show.

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This extended finale required a two-part recap. We pick up on Sutton's trial at sea and shift into birthday dinner gear for Erika and Dorit. Sutton's delayed appearance, and hesitance to join, is a topic of conversation as Jennifer Tilly tries in vain to help her friend navigate a situation that neither feel like she can win. Garcelle finally approaches Kyle about not sticking up for Sutton, but her choice to teach Sutton a lesson by also not standing up for her on the boat leaves that critique falling flat. Meanwhile, Dorit and Erika continue to be the two off-base friends nodding and telling each other "exactly" as Boz works to connect with Sutton while appearing to lean further and further into clique territory. Kathy's all out of F's to give this episode, giving me the giggles and starting a new ice bag accessory trend.

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The purpose of this new spin-off pod is to look back at the week and review the most horrifying and cringe-worthy political moves and blunders from America’s Broligarchy era. Much of it is serious but some of it is absolute idiocy, either way, the hope is that you walk away knowing more about current political events after listening. All sources of information are listed on the Patreon. 

There's never a dull day in the Broligarchy but the past week was one for the history books. Between the move to begin dismantling the Department of Education after selling Tesla's on the White House lawn, to seeing prestigious law firms acquiesce, then hearing about for-profit detention center horror stories, listening to a leaked audio that's allegedly of the VP, and then learning about an unbelievably massive security breach via cell phone, all while a once-bold billionaire does his best Ruprecht character work, it's been a doozy.  

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A review of multiple motions to dismiss, a denial to delay discovery, and new provocative lawyer statements. Ryan Reynold's legal team responds to the Nicepool character as well as allegations that Ryan referred to Justin Baldoni as a "sexual predator" in their motion to dismiss as Blake's team cites a new California law as the basis for dismissing Justin's countersuit. Meanwhile, PR people Leslie Sloane and Stephanie Jones continue to wade through several legal proceedings. Finally, I summarize a TikTok tale posted by a woman who says she crossed paths with Blake Lively in Waco, Texas at a boutique hotel owned by Joanna Gaines. 

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The trip to Saint Lucia kicks off with a confrontational dinner, followed by a confrontational catamaran ride. The close friendship between Garcelle and Sutton is tested throughout as Garcelle bristles seeing Sutton defend Kyle and ultimately decides to let Sutton stand alone when fielding critiques. Jennifer Tilly and Kathy continue to bring levity even if it's questionable whether Kathy knows who Jennifer is. Erika makes a point of airing both new and old grievances towards Sutton throughout the episode and Boze finally gets the chance to observe Dorit in action. 

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As the ladies prepare to leave for a lavish vacation in Saint Lucia, we see Kyle and Dorit finally meet with their party-going separated husbands to discuss delicate matters. Kyle psychologically prompts hers to bring up photos of him smooching a younger woman while Dorit defers to hers as to the status of their relationship. Boze has her new man over for dinner with her daughter, Sutton and Garcelle discuss the ongoing rift with Dorit, Erika continues to make off-base comparisons and showcase her rental decor, Kathy shows us she keeps her hair extensions in plastic sandwich bags, Jennifer Tilly calls out the clique-is behavior of the group, and Dorit does the worst Sutton voice I've ever heard.

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A rapid-fire rundown of random inconsistencies, omissions, and public manipulations from both sides. From learning more about promo videos, hype articles, and pettiness, to staying focused about what does and does not matter for trial, this dive addresses an amalgamation of distractions and conundrums. Ultimately, my opinion is that each party has been their own worst enemy by undercutting their own assertions and losing the thing they both want more than any amount of money - public trust. The trial next year will be a circus but I hope those who can see through all the current noise will then be able to see through any courtroom spin. 

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Sutton's fashion show and Kyle's separated husband take center stage for this episode. Dorit has an awkward lunch with Garcelle, Kathy continues to provide cringeworthy comedic relief, Jennifer Tilly continues to be quirky and likeable, and Erika continues to drag out her storyline of redecorating to an extreme that would make Monique proud. BONUS: Charleston daquiri dress code drama and why there is no escape from politics in an era of upheaval and chaos

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A political deep dive to review where the country is at after the first 40 days of the latest administration. A look at key players and apparent leaders, executive orders, and other actions of note. Bravo references and jokes are peppered throughout a brain dump of sobering topics that include America's new crypto era, the chaos of mass government layoffs and cuts, objectives from Project 2025, details on various lawsuits, the bravery of historical and current military members, and why seeing the Zelenskyy meeting left me shaken.

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This episode revolves around Sutton and Dorit rehashing their "tete-a-tete" from the 4th of July party. Amidst an event to celebrate expensive potatoes, caftans, and jewels, the women jab, mock, and ridicule one another to the amusement of all attendees. Sutton delves into her baser impulses and coins the moniker "Poorit" as she flexes the hefty girth of her divorce settlement. Was it a horrid, distasteful look? Yes. Was it also accurate and amusing? Yes and yes. The episode ends with a collective gasp as the group sees Mo and a young woman splashed on the tabloid pages. BONUS: A mini update on significant changes I'm tracking for the legendary, and once prestigious, office of the Southern District of New York 

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Summing up The Hollywood Reporter article that posed the question of whether Justin and his Wayfarer friend group's shared Baha'i faith could have played a part in some of the on-set tensions. Then, a wrap up of Blake Lively's amended lawsuit, including an analysis of an "apology" email she sent to screenwriter Christy Hall, a realization about why I find one of their key arguments so insulting, and a rundown of what items still remain contested. BONUS: A rant about why Justin Baldoni isn't actually a feminist

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A review of the new items within Blake's amended lawsuit, including details about issues she and other women had with Justin Baldoni, Jamey Heath, and Wayfarer. A comparison of differing perspectives on incidents and information gleaned about those incidents from a new Hollywood Reporter article - that we'll talk about further in Part 14.

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After heading home from Augusta, the larger group prepares to attend a July 4 party at Dorit's house. As Dorit searches for the perfect body chain amidst a closet in disarray, Sutton arrives to an empty foyer and is subjected to 39min of waiting and muttering. From there, the scene is set for confrontation and outbursts from each cast member as Kathy looks on with a fan. BONUS: fun facts about maternal mortality rates

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Wading through the last pages of Justin Baldoni's 168-page "Timeline of Relevant Events" that presented new information and perspectives on specific complaints made by Blake Lively. Final receipts via public articles, production emails, and personal texts, supported Justin's claim that Wayfarer and Sony catered to escalating requests and schedule changes solely to keep the peace and ensure Blake would not only finish the film but also promote it. His PDF document ends with new revelations regarding timestamp data, found by TikTok sleuths, that seems to show The New York Times' access to those personal texts, and Blake's complaint, weeks prior to them reaching out to Justin's team for comment.

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After a quick review of a recently promoted podcast appearance by Justin Baldoni taped in November 2024, we dive back into the Timeline of Relevant Events PDF. New behind the scenes information and receipts regarding cast opinions on shooting the film, Colleen Hoover's BookCon event, dueling film edits and audience viewer scores, as well as a looming Contract of Engagement that may have never been signed by Blake Lively, all continue to fill in the gaps of a dysfunctional reality far more fascinating than any authored work.

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Sutton's trip to Augusta, Georgia to work on her strained relationship with her mother takes center stage in this episode. With Garcelle and Kyle by her side, she braves the trip to her childhood home where her family experienced the loss of her father. Sutton finally confronts her mother, Reba, about their lack of connection and we bear witness to the disappointing dynamic. Back in Beverly Hills, Dorit's upbeat mood about PK/PJ finally calling falls flat when Boze and Erika remind her of the stakes and his likely ulterior motives for smoothing the situation over after riling her up. Bonus: Karmic Social Media Soda Wars

*was so distraught after that episode I messed up my ending music and had to re-uploaded the file :/

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A full rundown of the last two episodes of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. From Kyle and Dorit finally squashing the "more than memes" text issues, to a look back at the nicer times between PK/PJ and Dorit before she laments him going MIA before resurfacing to send a tersely worded seven-page email, the episodes run a gamut of emotions for Dorit. Sutton's visit home to Georgia with Garcelle and Kyle reminds us about her challenging relationship with her mother, Reba. Erika spends $37k on luxury interior design and warns Dorit about being proactive in her situation with PJ/PK. Boze continues to deliver stellar commentary while not hesitating to dive into topics with the group and we get a Kathy sighting complete with a Capri inspired, lemon forward luncheon.

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The final episode of Season 5 for the Real Housewives Of Salt Lake City culminates in a flurry of chaos. From lengthy debates about Mormon standards, to attempting to follow Britani's train of thought, to dissecting micro-penis talk, this reunion covers a lot of bases. A highlight of the episode is that the longstanding Alibaba and alleged threesome feud between Whitney and Lisa finally comes to a head. BONUS: Why this, and so many HW reunions, remind me of Sartre's 'No Exit'

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This section of the reunion focuses on issues and spats concerning the husbands and their affronts to each other, and a few of the other housewives, before pivoting to Mary to discuss how she and Robert Jr. bravely shared his struggle with substance abuse and an update on how he's doing now. Between biatch talk, emotional moments, and circle jerks, this reunion was a rollercoaster of emotions true to the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City brand. BONUS: Strategies for staying sane in insane times

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A review of the amended lawsuit and a partial review of the 168 page timeline with new receipts that Justin Baldoni's legal team dropped via website. New information and details about what went on behind the scenes during production, like firing staff members for allegedly thinking Blake should be replaced, texts between Ryan Reynolds and Justin, and more texts between Justin and his Wayfarer cohorts about how to handle situations. The next dive will hopefully complete that timeline review and then we'll get into how Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds have acted during production as well as how they've publicly responded to the legal battle.

BONUS: A warning about woman hating propaganda pushers latching onto this scandal

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Reviewing receipts from Justin Baldoni's lawsuit that allege Blake Lively's goal was always to assert ultimate creative control over his movie, "It Ends With Us". Through text messages, emails, and voice notes, we're presented with a behind the scenes view into the unorthodox power dynamic between director/actress/lead co-stars. Through communications spanning the entire production, we read along as they navigate an awkward tug of war over wardrobe, script writing, directing, and editing decisions - all amidst a tense series of confrontations and union strikes. BONUS: The 2026 timeframe for this trial and where things stand now

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Now that Justin Baldoni filed his countersuit against Blake Lively, Ryan Reynolds, Leslie Sloane and her PR firm, I cross referenced his own allegations and explanations against her original complaint to see what claims have and haven't been addressed. While a few things seem to have been negated, the majority remain unanswered or left to interpretation of two differing perceptions. This pod focuses solely on her claim, and his defense, of sexual harassment while working on the movie. Upcoming pods will delve into the accusation that Blake's goal was ultimate creative control of the movie and the rights to its sequel, along with the PR scandal over personal text messages and confidential communications being leaked and allegedly cherry picked for misinterpretation.

CA Civil Rights Department (CRD) Definition of Sexual Harassment: https://calcivilrights.ca.gov/wp-content/uploads/sites/32/2020/03/Sexual-Harassment-Fact-Sheet_ENG.pdf

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Let's end a hellish week by recapping Part 1 of the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City Season 5 Reunion. The topics hit hard and fast when they start coming but most don't get to a full resolution before things devolve into yelling and nonsense. Still, Andy manages to ask about: if Whitney gets her jewelry from ALIBABAAAHHH, the status of Angie and Lisa in light of the "bad mom" comment, where Bronwyn and Lisa stand considering a startling rumor Lisa mentioned on the Bravo Aftershow, and Heather's new "meaner" side. Then we end with the husbands getting into it as we prepare for Part 2. BONUS: learning more about Whitney's jewelry website

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What better way to decompress from a week of chaos and unrest than to watch a woman with more Birkins than sense dramatically lament a situation she created? How dare people take issue with Kyle seemingly pledging loyalty to a friend's estranged husband? All that while continuing to refer to herself as a "girl's girl" makes for quite the journey into madness. Thankfully, Dorit 2.0 continues to reject BS like last season's shoes, Boze has a beautiful backyard AND Dorit's back, Erika placates both sides while leaning towards her clique roots, and Sutton, Garcelle, and Jennifer Tilly keep themselves sane while bringing us comedic relief. BONUS: A new wave of social media censorship and warnings, the danger of people eager to placate and ignore pivotal moments in history, and where you can find me on the scale of tolerance for hate groups - spoiler, my level is named Aldo Raine

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On MLK Day, in a mad world, lets talk about two women-centered films. Final thoughts of the 'Martha' documentary on Netflix and then Demi Moore's stellar performance in 'The Substance', as well as the lessons we can glean from both. Also, hold my hand as I rant about the much hyped TikTok ban that wasn't and worrisome censorship that appears to be popping up across social media platforms.

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This extended version of the episode was truly a hilling experience. I laughed, I cried, I critiqued. Breaking the fourth wall, throwing flowers, nip slips, cheap wigs, walk-offs, wild allegations, and claims of stagnant sales for Wild Rose - the finale has it ALL. This episode could provide an entire season's worth of content for other RH franchises. It's a journey of friendship, conflict, loyalty, and betrayal. 

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After a measured rant on the tragedy that is the American government catering to the whims of a bug eyed bro with $8M to spend on lobbying to get his way, we recap two episodes of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. In episode six, Dorit confronts Kyle about her innocent meme laden texts with PK, Kyle doubles down on the silliness of her caring after not caring previously and the innocent nature of the texts. Then in episode 7, Kyle reads a text she sent to PK and the ladies realize it's more than memes....meanwhile Garcelle celebrates her beach house and family, Sutton is still on the outs with Dorit and plans a pizza party for Erika, Boze introduces us to her man and weathers surgery, all while the former head of EJ Global works with a celebrity designer to refurnish her casita. 

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Another iconic Real Housewives of Salt Lake City episode that solidifies the sprinter van as THE best of all possible filming locations on any franchise. Nothing brings a divided group together like a common enemy, and that enemy swinging and missing on every excuse, accusation, and attempt to fight back makes for a legendarily cringe experience. Up against a new foe, Meredith is in rare form and slips into paranoia, Heather vacillates between emotional support and lecturing, Lisa feels betrayed, Mary seems satisfied, Bronwyn brings solid one-liners, Angie is the Queen of see-something-say-something and serves as a voice of reason, while Whitney shows compassion despite her anger. BONUS: A rant on Jen Aydin popping off at Jersey Mike's and my zero tolerance for idiots using the devastation of the CA wildfires to mock diversity within the Fire Department

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It finally happened, I watched the movie that spurned all the lawsuits and drama - and I have thoughts. A review the rom-dramedy? in the spirit of Mystery Science Theater 3000 and thoughts and research into the various distracting derelict lewks and random designer labels. From the acting to the dialogue, and the plot to the set design, the creative choices were all noticed and noted. BONUS: A newly released voicemail from Justin Baldoni, plus the internet reminded me about some Deadpool director drama that sounds familiar

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The conclusion of Justin Baldoni's jam packed lawsuit against the New York Times that covers a pile of alleged inaccuracies from their article regarding a "smear campaign" against Blake Lively. Full text message exchanges between Justin's team seem to present a different reality from the vindictive scenarios outlined in Blake's complaint. Justin's version tells a story of his small production house being blindsided and strong-armed into submission by a powerful celebrity couple. Multiple things can be true, and while several allegations weren't addressed, both sides want a jury trial which hopefully means every detail will be shared at some point.

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Justin Baldoni files an 87 page lawsuit against the New York Times, this episode reviews contradictions from statements made in Blake Lively's complaint. His perspective seems to be that she held something over Wayfarer as a bargaining chip of sorts to get her way, and that he and his team agreed to her escalating demands to keep the peace. They appear to frame her allegations as a means to regain positive public image that they state was not damaged by a "smear campaign" but rather her own tone deaf actions during the movie's promotional period. Each of their filings reflect very strong, and very opposing, perspectives. Part 6 covers the first half of his filing, Part 7 covers the rest as well as my summary thoughts after realizing one party is either lying or delusional.

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Review and recommendations of Netflix's 6-part series, 'Black Doves', and the Caroline Lindy's indie film, "Your Monster". Keira Knightly morphs into a super spy with impressive fighting skills and a comedic relief spy best friend in a series that I thought rivaled any action movie in recent years. Then, Melissa Bererra gives an outstanding performance as a young woman dealing with a pile of disappointments and challenges amidst a backdrop of musical theater and fantasy. BONUS: Jax Taylor's silent Cameo and the recent luxury handbag upset by the "Wirkin"

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The final portion of Blake Lively's complaint filed against Justin Baldoni and Wayfarer for alleged misconduct and a PR smear campaign. Enlightening information is shared via actual text messages that seem to make clear why Justin's messaging and behavior during the launch of the movie was so very different from the rest of the cast. Text messages between his PR and crisis comms team detail the lengths famous people can go to when focused on maintaining or building a positive persona - or working to destroy someone else's. Then, the recent blowback from PR land about allegations of firings v. resignations, client stealing, and ethical lines of the work they do.

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Sharing details and information from the legal complaint filed by Blake Lively's attorneys on Friday December, 20 that alleges rampant inappropriate conduct on the set of It Ends With Us. The complaint shares her perspective as to what life was like during the initial weeks of shooting the film in early May, through when strikes shut down production, and her efforts to improve the work atmosphere before filming resumed in early 2024. The list of allegations spans repeatedly making comments about women's bodies, mentioning porn, asking lewd questions, a lack of boundaries, and a seemingly unprofessional production team. Part 5 will cover what happened with the marketing and public relations efforts for the actors after the film had wrapped. 

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Dorit's DGAF season continues to give and give as the episode shows us various topics, from Sutton supporting Garcelle's move into her renovated beach house, Jennifer Tilly's Bel Air real estate collection, Boze's travels, Kyle's self love, and Erika's affinity for pizza and delusion - yet none are as entertaining as watching Dorit pop off on a smug Camille. That moment comes during a western fetish party Kyle throws, complete with mechanical bull, tattoo station, errant saddles, and wagon wheel decor. Sutton's attempts to lead the charge into a sorority atmosphere once again fall flat and lead to a cinematic masterpiece of mockery and contempt that results in Dorit snapping and not holding back, however much Erika tries to rein her in.

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As the trip to Puerto Vallarta/Vida Tequila commercial shifts from land to sea, Bronwyn reaches a breaking point and drops a bombshell on the group. Meanwhile, Britani spreads rumors and nastiness about Meredith, Mary arrives after making sure her son was on a good path, and we see another beautiful dinner end in chaos and fighting. BONUS: Bronwyn and Todd present a united front on WWHL, where Bronwyn shares a different take on the "infidelity" situation from what was alluded to on this episode

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As the ladies make their way to Mexico, we see Meredith gearing up to confront Angie, Bronwyn and Lisa navigating their tense frenemy situation, and Mary confiding in Angie about her son and that she'll be joining the group late to make sure he's okay. Once in Puerto Vallarta, Lisa's meticulous planning backfires when Bronwyn feels slighted by her room assignment - as Britani feels emboldened by hers. All things come to the surface at dinner, along with more haircare tips, and some beefs are squashed as others continue to go strong.

BONUS: Details on Bronwyn's injuries from a dog attack and how she dealt with it in light of two lawsuits being filed recently regarding their own dogs allegedly attacking delivery people.

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After an acknowledgment of chaotic school requests, holiday tasks, and a story about orbs, we settle in for a nice recap. The ladies pick up on a "to be continued" tiff at dinner in Mission Beach between Dorit and Kyle as the rest of the group watches the back and forth like a tennis match - and cringes as conversation devolves into a tangent about John Mellencamp's daughter, courtesy of Garcelle. The battle seems to fizzle while out to sea, only to gear back up as the ladies prepare to take to the sky. Sutton attempts to focus on sisterhood, friendship, and being open with each other but her plans are misunderstood by Dorit who's been fielding critiques from all sides. Meanwhile, Kathy continues to give us comedic relief and outstanding floral arrangements, Kyle brushes up on her wacky faces amidst interpersonal conflict a la Amsterdam, and Boze and Jennifer Tilly observe and try to enjoy themselves despite it all.

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Updates on the case as it stands with a disclaimer that Luigi should be viewed as a suspect, innocent until proven guilty, not definitively guilty until that is proven in court. Analyzing details of his online footprint and alleged evidence has provided more seemingly hidden messages that are reviewed before asking questions that arise when debating his connection. The topic that super cedes all others is the unity of the majority, the wave of their discontent that is calling out the abuse and misdeeds of privatized healthcare and insurance that has resulted in prioritization of money over health. As voices get louder, we're also witnessing a suppression of related content and an eagerness to make an example out of a woman who said specific words in anger after being denied a claim this week. Also, a look at civil unrest through a historical lens, morality policing, and why this next generation isn't as phased by violence as their elders may expect.

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A full rundown of what we currently know about the alleged United Healthcare vigilante, including the details of his arrest and charges in both PA and NY, his education, upbringing, life, and events that may have served as the catalyst for his actions. After wading through potential easter eggs and hidden messages he may have planned, we'll review his social media footprint that paints a picture of a young man questioning ethics and morality while struggling with ongoing health issues and pain. Throughout, the intent is to be clear about facts vs. media spin and recognize the eagerness that news sources seem to have to plant seeds of partisan discontent in a moment when the majority has found themselves unified.

BONUS: fun facts about how much Americans spend on healthcare and a rant about the Governor of Pennsylvania using his press conference to chide and shame

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After an update on new details about the United Healthcare vigilante, now known as The Adjuster, a recap of the last two episodes of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills begins. I catch up on E2 where viewers learned more cringeworthy information about PK, Kyle's issues with Dorit, Erika's ongoing fixation with money, and a framed picture Kyle can't seem to step to. Then, Kathy treats us to a beachside outing, filled with thoughtful touches, games, and fun elements - for Kyle to poop on. The culmination of the episode is Dorit once again standing up to Kyle and again refusing to accept blame for how she's been treated.

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After a summary of this week's NYC United Healthcare vigilante and witnessing the anger our country's greedy insurance companies have sown, we get into recapping the latest two episodes of Salt Lake City. The ladies try "camping" for an afternoon, Mary and her son have a heart to heart that has us rooting for them, and Angie and Lisa find peace as more infighting kicks off. At Meredith's bat mitzvah, several feuds come to a head with Angie taking on almost everyone and coining the term "high bodycount hair".

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After a PSA for all LLC and small business owners, we dig into Bravo news from the holiday week. After analyzing the one-two punch life has provided to the boy brained men of OG Vanderpump Rules, we break into a review of the movie musical Wicked. From fun facts about the stars and production, to an overview of the plot, to details about off-camera dramas, we hold space for all angles of this glorious stage to screen rendition and the talented women who brought new life to legendary characters.

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The worst was truly saved for last as the final part of the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion focuses on Pick-Me personified, Alexis, and her fresh batch of talking points from Shannon's ex. The show begins with a teaser that important news comes as soon as the reunion wraps. Then Andy, the cast, and viewers all witness more illogical madness as a reminder of why Jesus Jugs making a cameo this season isn't something that should be repeated. We're shown more footage of the man Shannon bought shoes for and hear enough of his side for a lifetime. The news that drops turns out to be information a few ladies held onto throughout the reunion, but Shannon is eager to be understanding, forgive, and move-on. We all hope her ex does as well.

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In what may be one of the most entertaining episodes of any Real Housewives franchise, we bear witness to several mic drop moments from women who have honed skills of verbal battle. Early on, we see our gruff Tater Todd, arms folded, and delivering a stern performance review of "did not meet expectations" to his direct report. Then, a fairytale presentation of Mary's Breakfast at Tiffany's event is littered with butlers, decor, and vitriol as the women address beefs old and new. Despite wearing thick winter garb, Heather comes in hot and aiming for Bronwyn, Angie and Meredith face off, Meredith and Whitney have a run in, everyone comes for Meredith's unique hairpiece choice, and Britani continues to look for love and attention in all the wrong places.

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The season premier starts with a bang as OG Dorit awakens from her long slumber. With plenty to say about PK, and after shaking off her Fox Force minion garb for armor to fight self appointed clique lead Kyle, Dorit stand out as the true showman of the episode. Several iconic moments unfurl before our weary eyes - Dorit puffing on a cigarette in her luxury SUV en route to Kathy's, Kathy getting an infusion mid-glam while listening to Dorit's separation tale like a wise Beverly Hills oracle, and Garcelle's realization that everyone in the group is now divorced or separated. We meet the new housewife, Bozoma 'Boze', an exciting addition who may be our first corporate businesswoman cast member, who was surprised to witness Kathy pulling her extensions out mid-event. If this episode is any indication, it's going to be a good season and we're long overdue!

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After a rant about Spotify's current policy to only allow for 12 hours of audio book listening per month, we check back in with the OC ladies as they continue their reunion. Should Katie be blamed for her daughter being a TikTok star who made a funny video about her mother's rivals? Can Emily understand that not everyone is a lawyer and, if they were, her career choice would be obsolete? Will Alexis recognize that she's been trained to be a mouthpiece for a scorned man? Does Heather understand that yelling at women whose children think she's mean does not help her case? We find answers to these questions and more in Part two of the Real Housewives of Orange County.

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The cast trip to celebrate Bronwyn's anniversary in Palm Springs is on its final leg as Bronwyn's husband, Todd (a.k.a. Tater Todd), is on his last nerve. Whitney and Lisa manage to settle their Alibaba beef but Lisa and Bronwyn don't come to a good place about their disconnect regarding Heather, and Meredith manages to start a new issue with Sean about her perception of a comment he made on a podcast...which have become the uncredited housewife in too many franchises. The group goes on a racecar outing, we learn intimate information at a group dinner that will pop-up in my mind a decade from now, Bronwyn is gifted a $4M diamond necklace, and we get more insight into her relationship dynamic with Tater Todd. Also - Lisa spirals when she has to ride home in coach, hence the title of the episode

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The news that John Mellencamp's daughter, a self proclaimed "accountability coach", has been having an ongoing affair with her horse trainer (despite his wife Karli giving birth alone as he was off with the Tedster, then finding out, believing them that it was over, and then having to find out again with a newborn) led to an unexpected side-quest into researching the world of California equestrians. After a discussion on the awful details, and why I view affairs on a scale of varying factors, we delve into what the hell is happening on the RHONY reboot. With the latest episode detailing a third attempt at a rehearsed storyline in as many months, the cast seems to be floundering to fill air time with authenticity. BONUS: trademarking my mantra for our new political dumpster fire era, "Let it burn, that's how men learn"

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As the ladies of Salt Lake City jet off to a lavish Palm Springs vacation, tensions remain high between newly sparring couples. Heather dishes to Meredith and Lisa about her confrontation with Bronwyn, and that conversation serves as a catalyst for issues later in the episode. From the push-fest between John and Justin at Angie's anniversary party, to lingering Alibaba accusations, to the simmering resentment brewing between Lisa and trip host Bronwyn, no amount of custom jewelry could distract the ladies from their ongoing battles. The episode ends on a To Be Continued after Todd and Bronwyn deliver an ultimatum to their guests because he has apparently never seen any Real Housewives show before. BONUS: Telling you about the MARTHA doc I'm currently watching on Netflix and how private equity has come full circle for the SLC husbands

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After a Veteran's Day tirade, and an update on a self loathing elven incel, we get cozy on the couches for Reunion Part 1 for the Real Housewives of Orange County. This episode was packed with confrontations - Tamra's ongoing focus of Shannon's alcohol consumption, Jen's relationship and Ryan's level of involvement with the bookie gambling scandal (that I detailed in my podcast dive on Ippei Mizuhara), Emily's confidence that she figured out something nefarious about Ryan that the FEDS missed, and an attempted hit job on Katie that backfires on Heather and Emily.

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As frenzied incel energy swirls around us, there's never been a better time to learn about the 4B movement, step up your personal safety strategies, and seek inspiration from women who stood up to the same kinds of threats, intimidation, and misogyny - and who ended up becoming historical figures for it. There's also never been a better time to find a good book or show to help soothe the nerves. I review the new series, "Rivals" (on Hulu and Disney +) with a summary of its 1980's English countryside plotline, including my opinions on the draw of its enemies to lovers story, and why it's winning so many people over.

Bonus: an excerpt from my latest romantasy book "Steel Heart, Iron Claws" and why you may want to stock up on romantasy books and other goods that may soon be deemed illicit

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The masses made their choice for the next President and I have some thoughts on what that means, what got us here, and what the hell we do now. Whether you focus on misinformation campaigns from foreign governments that cultivated seeds of discontent a la Cambridge Analytica, or core values of racial bias and white supremacy that continue to linger, or the resistance of over 34% of our citizens to realize the power of their vote, there's no shortage of factors that contributed. As an homage to facts and figures, we review key metrics that served as a focus of hate and division in our ongoing culture war before addressing what we can try to do in the coming years to stay safe and sane.

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Hold my hand on election day and listen as I ramble a summary of the latest Real Housewives of Orange County episode between rants. Axe throwing, isometric crunches, and stucco climbing, what doesn't this episode have? As Tamrat switches strategies, Jen's engagement means an engagement party complete with a "tacky 80's bridesmaid's dress" theme brought to us by the mind of Alexis. Drama ensues for every rivalry as Shannon bumps heads with an unexpected challenger - Katie's husband Matt. And no, we don't escape the finale without having to see Johnny Dbags. Bonus: a new IG-esque ending template makes me rage.

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Relaying adventures of record-breaking, swing-state canvassing for Kamala Harris over the weekend before delving into the follow up of a "To Be Continued..." episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. Angie's 25th Anniversary party continues to serve as the backdrop for Alibaba rumorszzz and aggression between the Barlow's and Roses. A major point of contention is when John Barlow repeatedly gets in between Justin and Lisa as he hears F bombs being directed at her - Whitney blames Lisa for causing her husband's awful reaction and I take a moment to reflect on the toxicity of that viewpoint. Bronwyn plans a couples trip and has to decide who to invite, which results in a conversation with Heather that quickly turns sour.

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A discussion of the highlights of the third and fourth* books in the series by Sarah J. Maas, A Court of Wings and Ruin and A Court of Frost and Starlight - including a few spoilers! Also, a list of grievances with ACOTAR that have popped up during the dramatic and breathy audiobook. A rundown of updates per character as the series progresses, with an obvious effort to tee up new characters for their forthcoming storylines and spin-offs, yes please. Various theories and possible hidden meanings behind both major and nuanced plotlines are also reviewed.

Bonus: the importance of speaking up for people and issues you care about, especially if the only reason you're silent is to avoid or appease bullies

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The final days of the London trip come to a chaotic conclusion as Shannon struggles to get feces out of her body - and friend group. The toxic entity that is the Tamrat/Tambat/Tamratputin has regrouped after being read to filth by Jen and recalculated to target Katie and bring up any possible spec of dirt it has on Shannon, regardless of collateral damage. Despite drama involving children, and getting emotional about being perceived as mean, Heather continues to support her new bestie. Jen and Gina shine in their respective moments of acknowledging manipulation, calling out bad behavior, and setting boundaries.

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This episode centers around Angie's 25th Anniversary celebration where the cast takes the opportunity to be in a room with zero sound dampening as their backdrop for multiple confrontations. Bronwyn calls Heather to the mat about her meddling and hypocrisy, Mary and Lisa also air their grievances to Heather, and Britani gets a shock when Whitney's husband decides he wants to get into women's business and stir up mess. The event culminates with Whitney Drew's extensive investigation into Lisa Barlow, including a comprehensive presentation of receipts and evidence, just kidding, Whitney has nothing but the word of a random account so Lisa goes off and calls in her cyber cavalry.

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An update on the journey into A Court of Thorns and Roses (ACOTAR) before a recap of an episode that revealed family secrets and connections between Lisa and Bronwyn, showing a heartbreaking and endearing side of this season's new cast member. Meanwhile, Whitney continues to hunt for a conspirator that she believes is responsible for alerting the internet about her jewelry line, Prism, having an apparent copy on Alibaba. By the end of the episode, she's confident about finding the "truth"...all based on the word of a stranger who runs an online account. Finally, Britany wears us out with more camera time for her gum chewing Osmond offshoot, Lisa vows to stop caring about it, and Mary continues to bring comedic relief due to her irritation of it all.

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Tensions rise as the Real Housewives of Orange County tour London, work through conflicts, and absorb the revelation that Shannon found a text defining Alexis' role in the lawsuits from years ago. Tamra continues to talk crap about everyone, Heather has lingering hurt feelings post-mammogram outing, and Shannon finds another jaw dropping text - this time from Tamra. Jen shines in this episode, filling my heart with pride as we watch the sweet baby dove take fight and turn into a bird of prey, on the hunt for a little Tamrat. BONUS: current news on Jen's ex wanting to amend their divorce settlement after claiming she's made defamatory statements, and an OC history lesson about how Tamra's opinions on evictions, and spending habits that follow, have changed

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A double header to get us caught up! We see the OC ladies embark on a London adventure, complete with speed boats, stewing resentments, and a smoking gun receipt from 2018. Then we catch up with the SLC ladies, mid-Milwaukee fun, as they tour beer factories, go curling, and fight about random things in sprinter vans. Alibaba controversy, gossip, and drag shows, what else could you ask for? BONUS: the prestige of the Les Clef d'Or concierge

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Detailing more lawsuits filed against Sean Combs, a.k.a. Diddy, including former Danity Kane member Dawn Richard, as well as his legal team's ongoing efforts to get bail granted as he currently awaits trial from a Brooklyn detention center. The indictment filed by the Southern District of New York is reviewed, with details of the exact charges and possible prison time for each. Media clips spanning the decades of Diddy describing his white parties are shared, alongside highlights of specific celebrities, now under scrutiny, who publicly aligned themselves with Diddy - as well as celebrities who openly criticized him. BONUS: Storytime, an unfortunate evening with jabronis who thought they were very important for their business ties to Ashton Kutcher

TRIGGER WARNING: SA, DV, and disturbing content.

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Credit to Entertainment Tonight, TMZ, and The Conan O'Brien Show for audio of Diddy describing his white parties over the years.

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Katie's dinner party wraps up with Emily lightly grilling Ryan, and despite us not being clear on his profession, plays dumb like it's his job. Gina shows off home improvements, ladies peruse outdoor furniture, Heather and Emily finally discuss the fashion show faux pas. Alexis and her coach get mic'd up for a confessional but the episode culminates with the message that, it's Shannon's 60th birthday and she'll send a curt text if she wants to.  

BONUS: A rant on for-profit prisons, the 13th Amendment, and how incarceration has become a business 

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https://news.wsu.edu/press-release/2020/09/15/privatized-prisons-lead-inmates-longer-sentences-study-finds/ 

https://www.opensecrets.org/news/2021/02/biden-phases-out-private-prisons/

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The ladies go on a luxurious trip to Milwaukee. Whitney serves as their jovial host and arranges for a choice of gambling or scavenger hunting bobble heads before a VIP experience at a Bucks game. Throughout the adventures, simmering feelings of betrayal and mistrust linger between the Wendy's infused G-Wagon girlies - Bronwyn, Heather, and Lisa. Meredith has hot goss about Whitney's jewelry company apparently sourcing baubles from Alibaba, Angie feels burdened by knowledge about Britani's "best friend" with benefits, and everything comes to a head in a Bucks suite with lobster corn dogs. BONUS: Solving the mystery of what does Seth does in Ohio and being haunted by Mary's unconventional use for super tampons and heavily fragranced enclosure

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An unexpected double header after realizing that the second book in Sarah J. Maas' series is a LOT more enjoyable than the first. No major spoilers shared but listen at your own discretion because overall themes and obvious outcomes will be discussed. Why Tamlin never got my heart rate out of the resting zone, how Rhys seems like the kind of guy who would laugh at all your inappropriate jokes, and whether either would hold your hair back if you got sick. Each book is ranked 1-5 based on three categories: Spice, Adventure, and Character Development. BONUS: a Cate Blanchett movie recommendation

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Lots of Orange County social media drama happened this weekend as Tamra dealt with the consequences of a highly inaccurate statement she made on Watch What Happens Live and Shannon weathered yet another storm. Then, episode twelve shares the news of Shannon's ex demanding $75k hitting the press, her reaction, and an unfortunate butt dial that gives Tamra more fodder. A dinner party at Katie's house is the main focus as Ryan and Jen finally come face to face with Eddie and Tamra to address podcast comments and perceptions in a calm and mature manner...jk, Tamra has too many martinis and it goes off the rails.

BONUS: a rant on women's sizing

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Feeling and healing abounds in Utah as the ladies recuperate after a blockbuster premier. True primary colors show when Heather sees that Bronwyn is working hard to play all sides. Lisa and Angie fail to move past their rift, Mary doubles down on disliking Britney, and Britney comes to a sad realization about her Costco buddy. Also, Meredith wants a bat mitzva and Bronwyn's unique taste in attire is rivaled by her art selections. BONUS: Why I Hate Private Equity! The definition, how it operates, and examples of its relentless scourge upon this country.

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Explaining the allegations against Sean Combs, a.k.a. Diddy, that began in November 2023 with a shocking lawsuit filed by Cassie Ventura, and ended with a Federal investigation and eventual indictment by the Southern District of New York. Part 1 details Cassie's filing, as well as ones made by several other individuals who came forward after her, all of which describe a world of predatory behavior, rampant abuse, and a network of people enabling its existence.

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The focus of this episode of The Real Housewives of Orange County is a tumultuous taco party that ends with Emily cursing Alexis out and me feeling alive. Leading up to that glorious moment, we see Emily preparing to talk to Heather about how she felt singled out at the recent charity fashion show, Shannon on tour, Tamra and Katie socializing with their daughters, Jen dealing with her teenage son, and Gina stealing lemons. Bonus: Pixar, a hair mask, a sad pumpkin, body image pressures thrust upon women to hold us down, and why I love hormone talk.

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Take my hand and come on a side quest into a stream of consciousness about Bravo News of the week and two new movie releases. This pod answers questions like: What's the latest about Jax and Brittany? Who were the SLC newbies again and what are cast members fighting about online? Are any new movies worth watching? In anti-spoiler fashion, overarching themes and intro details of movies are shared, but major plotlines are spared. You'll get an idea of why I liked Dinner In America without knowing everything that makes this indie movie about a punk rock band and a young woman struggling to be herself, a cult classic in the making. Likewise, you'll get a snapshot of the characters and direction of Netflix's Rebel Ridge without feeling like you've already seen it. BONUS: background on "civil asset forfeiture", a rant on child marriage laws in this country, and why I love the History Channel show, ALONE.

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The Utah ladies come into their 5th season with a bang. We see them gather, swathed in furs and PVC, at Lisa's "besos" party. Meant to celebrate these dearest of friendships, the event quickly devolves into unbridled grievances from last season. We learn about new cast members and watch them navigate the chaos, walking the tight rope of being memorable without establishing a feud - a challenge one newbie fails right out of the gate. At the dinner portion of the evening, Whitney finds herself battling several of the women as they carrying grudges and receipts but goes head to head Lisa, resulting in a face-off for the ages.

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In what is hopefully the last and final dive into exes Luis and Vanessa, we wrap up their contentious 2020 legal battle that dissolved their engagement and pivot to newer allegations of undercover patients, secretly recorded therapy sessions, hacking, and spyware from separate cases filed in 2023 and 2024. Per the last season of Real Housewives of New Jersey, Vanessa's 2023 request for a Permanent Restraining Order is reviewed as well as a 2024 case that introduced allegations of hacking and wiretapping.

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Back to Sonoma we go! The ladies forest bathe, make biscuits, drink wine, and Tamra puts her finger in Emily's butt. They all participate in Heather's fashion show to support Family Equality but Emily takes issue with comments and treatment that feels different from the other women. The group bears witness to further evidence that nothing Shannon does will allow her to be released from her ex's crosshairs. Alexis realizes the group is not enjoying the constant barrage against Shannon, and quickly switches tactics, while Gina once again must weather accusations of plotting to set up Katie in what would be the Bravosphere's most boring and nonsensical hit job. BONUS: More romantasy books, copper wire grounding talk, and you better vote. Go to Vote.gov to check your registration.

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No-spoiler reviews of five and a half new Romantasy books including both the "Godkissed Bride" and "Castles of the Eyrie" trilogies from Evie Marceau, as well as the initial premise of "A Court of Thorns and Roses". Then we delve into another beloved heroine's quest as we continue to watch Shannon be emotionally terrorized at the hands of her ex and his pick-me minion, but this time in a beautiful Sonoma spa setting! The episode is full of surprises as the ladies support Heather's launch of a champagne line with proceeds going to Family Equality, and rally around Shannon as she learns of the video threat hanging over her head and makes a final decision about her ex's demand for $75k. Book reviews last 18min, RHOC recap begins after that.

Bonus: Black Mirror episode recommendation, LV luggage info, and a look into accommodations and spa services at Dawn Ranch. 

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A rant about high-stakes games we're forced to play when dealing with American healthcare, reading two hyped romantasy books in two days, and a recap of Real Housewives of Orange County/The Shannon Show. Shannon gets a car fitted with a breathalyzer, Emily reflects on her anger with Jen, and a lackluster, off-off-off Broadway performance of The Traitors.

Bonus: An exciting trip is in my future, and why I hate the movie "Passengers".

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The second part of the dive into a lengthy court case that resulted from a dramatic breakup between Luis Ruelas and Vanessa Reiser in 2020, a relationship that has continued to produce legal issues well into 2024. Court documents detail allegations of missing engagement rings, mistreatment, money transfers, and outbursts at charity events involving Seth Meyers, Jake Gyllenhaal, and the foundation of beloved actor/Veteran's advocate Gary Sinise. Ex-husbands and ex-fiancée's are brought up, as well as allegations of Catfishing and ex's in cahoots.

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A brief update on Tom Girardi being found guilty and what court cases are next. Then, a discussion of JDJ and Alexis announcing their engagement (perfectly timed just before the reunion taping) before a rapid recap of episodes 6 and 7 that cover rival girl's trips, several heart to hearts, an apple pie being violated, and a sit-down meeting for ex-BFF's, and current frenemies, Tamra and Shannon.

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An audio version of my 2021 Instagram dive where a cursory search to learn more about Teresa's new man, Luis Ruelas, led to a lengthy court case with his ex-fiancée, Vanessa Reiser. The winding tale and transcripts seemed to be the source for multiple news articles about his character. A thorough review of the case painted a picture of a dysfunctional relationship, one that both parties should be thrilled to be free of, yet their legal drama has continued into 2024. We start with a story about a bitter breakup, where it all began. Future parts will follow the journey that led it to became fodder and weaponry between cast members on The Real Housewives of New Jersey.

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The last part of the IEWU dive that focuses on theories about how this all could have been handled better, the importance of true intentions and purpose when dealing with sensitive subject matter, and what Justin Baldoni has been seen doing during this drama. It also outlines Blake's acting family, Ryan and Blake's philanthropic efforts, Ryan's investment in Mint Mobile, and interesting details from Blake's 2010 Interview Magazine Q&A with Ben Affleck.

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Looking into Blake Lively's now defunct Preserve.us website, plantation wedding, mea culpa for plantation wedding, but finding so much more, including examples of Preserve's products, blogs, and top-tier marketing that helped launch it. A review of how Blake and Ryan met, a discussion on her hair care line, and more details about the "little bump" interview heard 'round the internet.

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A random side quest to explain the layered drama surrounding the premier of the Colleen Hoover adaptation of "It Ends With Us" that has people wondering why the cast seems so divided and why the Director/Lead, Justin Baldoni, and Producer/Lead, Blake Lively, have such differing views on what the movie is about and how it's being marketed to viewers.

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A rundown of two RHOC episodes that focus on Katie's desire to expose what she believes is a lie from Heather about setting up paparazzi pictures, with a text from L.A.'s Pap Czar as proof. Gina stresses over Katie talking about Heather because nothing says true friendship like fear of repercussions. Tamra and Emily can't resist getting all up in the mess as Tamra also manages to maintain solid footing atop a very high horse about her ex-amiga Shannon, piling on Alexis' relentless pursuit of camera time, justice for her two-bit boyfriend, and the $75k he allegedly gave to Shannon during their relationship. Gina and Emily maintain their critiques of Jen living well despite financial ruin and the Dubrow's shameless name dropping continues to serve as a solid replacement for ipecac, handy in an emergency but unwelcome in daily life. (Ep 5 begins at the 25m25s mark)

BONUS: Tailoring "A Little Bit Alexis" from Schitt's Creek for the exit song.

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Describing the Montreal OSHEAGA festival experience, basking in the warm glow of talent that is Chappell Roan, before providing a summary of her rise to fame. Then, a quick synopsis of ten "romantasy" adventure novels, including common themes as well as how they differ. These books include: The Stone Circle Series by Ophelia Wells Langley, The Dark Halos Trilogy and A Fated Vow by Amanda Aggie, and The Villains and Virtues Trilogy and Bound to Fall by A.K. Caggiano.

Bonus Content: Why I avoid flying on Boeing's 737 Max and the Girardi embezzlement trial that is now in progress.

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Dolores' dream of healing the great divides by facilitating an airing of the grievances goes sideways as insults fly and rivalries intensify. The last supper's official co-host, Jen Fessler, exits stage left at the first sign of discord and Dolores is left to handle the group on her own. As old vendettas are rekindled and a new shocking discovery is revealed, the group confirms the level of dysfunction and side plotting that has taken over the show. We witness a bittersweet, mostly bitter, potential end to what has been a pillar franchise of the RH world.

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As the women prepare for their sit-down Festivus event, they meet up in small groups to discuss the meeting with Teresa's lawyer/friend, Margaret's alleged pre-reunion plotting session from last season where Dolores' Patterson side comes out, and Margaret alludes to having a bomb to drop about Jackie...

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Promises of a healing retreat, rumors of a meeting to reveal treachery, and rival boyzz nights are the highlights of this episode. As Dolores continues her soon to be pointless search for a grand retreat, Joe Gorga and Luis have rival boyzz nights with very different agendas, but the main focus is a sit-down with Teresa's lawyer/friend who will share groundbreaking information about Marge's involvement with Luis' ongoing court case with his ex-fiancée. A meeting that may have been overhyped, just a bit.

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This episode picks up where the blowup at the coffee shop between Gina and Jen left off, the ladies all feel that Jen should have avoided financial difficulties while she remains glammed and confused as to what she could have done differently. A game of flag football brings the group together and gives them an opportunity to apologize and move on - except for Shannon and Alexis who have a battle over a boutique gym and trainer. Speaking of moving, Travis moves out of Gina's home as she sticks to her guns about protecting her financial stability and not wanting his divorce drama to become something they can't survive. Emily shares her challenges with her new fitness focused lifestyle, Shane shines in a confessional, Katie continues to build her beef with Heather as Sutton makes a cameo and advises against it - and Heather has to wear polyester.

Bonus content: A review of the Ballerina Farm article from thetimes.com that has people discussing the pitfalls of idolizing trad wife life.

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An update on the Chappell Roan concert quest, status report of being neck deep in fantasy adventure books, and a recap of the latest episode of Real Housewives of New Jersey. The episode focuses on several beefs being squashed, an ongoing court case that's taking a toll on Teresa, a glamourous stay-late-over event at Rachel's house, and leaves us asking ourselves, if a tree falls and Joe Gorga doesn't turn it into a prank, did it really happen?

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Episode two picks up as Alexis and Shannon have just finished their lawsuit/John D.B. Jansen focused spat. We see Shannon survive more tests and feats of emotional strength, including a face off with former bestie Tamra, before the party wraps - and all in sky high heels no less. Shannon and Heather meet and find a way forward despite Heather's friendship with Alexis. Tamra expresses her ongoing concern for Jen's finances and relationship to Eddie over a biker lunch. We learn more about Katie's background and Emily gets everyone ready for a flag football game. Gina's disappointment in Jen's eviction and what it means to her reputation, stews and spreads throughout the episode until the two finally meet, but instead of squashing their beef, it grows and consumes everyone in the small coffee shop.

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A rant about the new lawsuit against Ariana from her petty worm ex, and a specific statement from his lawyer that seems to paint at a legal excuse. Then, the Jersey ladies reconvene after the Tulum tussle to show support for Melissa's Envy fashion show and then Teresa's live podcast taping for a show that is now defunct. Marge and Dolo work through issues as the rest of the group ignore or exacerbate theirs, culminating in an unexpected sass bomb from Danielle that puts Jen Aydin in Dolo's crosshairs and makes for a tense 10-min break from the podcast taping.

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The franchise that started it all returns for its 18th season with a bang as we see Shannon deal with the aftermath of her DUI and toxic relationship. As Shannon works to atone for her mistakes, Gina can't help but enjoy the irony after being chastised by Shannon for her own DUI years prior. Emily and Shane continue to provide comic relief as Jen deals with an eviction and we meet new housewife, Katie, a friend of Sutton's. Meanwhile, former housewife Alexis/Jesus Jugs, who is now dating Shannon's ex, gears up to have more moments in the sun. Fully embraced by Heather and Tamra, Alexis is emboldened to stick up for her new man and we see that this season will test Shannon unlike any other.

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Heard something about a financial scandal involving the Feds and that Orange County Housewife Jen's fiancée, Ryan, but don't know the details? This is the pod for you. A look into the key players, what the Feds say they did, the charges they face, how Ryan was allegedly involved, and what's next. It's a tragic tale that involves a talented Los Angeles Dodgers player, casinos, high stakes gambling, bookmaking, and an ultimate betrayal of trust and abuse of power.

Bonus content: a quick synopsis of The Battle of Chavez Ravine and a walk down memory lane to visit the cash cow house of cards that was Countrywide Financial Corporation, pre-housing bubble.

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An impromptu movie review of the new Netflix rom-com A Family Affair starring Nicole Kidman, Zach Ephron, and Joey King that had me laughing, crying, and laughing again. After acknowledging the movie's writer, Carrie Solomon, for crafting top-tier jokes, heartwarming storylines, and relatable and likeable characters the overall plot is discussed. Other romcom movies are recommended throughout.

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New developments in the Karen Read case, according to her legal team, jury members have spoken out about coming to a unanimous decision of two of the three charges, causing her team to file an affidavit and motion to dismiss those charges. That motion and what jury members have allegedly said are detailed after discussing additional information pertaining to Brian Higgins, Jen McCabe, Jen's sister Nicole and Nicole's husband Brian Albert that wasn't included in the initial summary episode.

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The aftermath of the Tulum Tussle is felt in each faction as Jen Fessler gets caught in Rachel Fuda's crosshairs while army crawling between cliques. The episode revolves around the re-launch of Danielle's Boujie Kids clothing line, a scary situation for Marge and Joe, and Teresa hoping Danielle and Jennifer Aydin will make up. As each side processes, re-tells, and reenacts the event to their liking, viewers are left to wonder whether peacekeepers are the answer or if there's truth to the quote that a friend to all is a friend to none.

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Wish you could go to lunch with a friend and have them explain the ins and outs of the Karen Read trial you keep hearing about? Walk you through key players, events, and courtroom dramas? This deep dive podcast does just that. From the fateful January night in 2022 that resulted in the untimely death of Officer John O'Keefe, to the revelations about how his crime scene was handled and how investigators have behaved, to the courtroom drama that has ensued as his longtime girlfriend Karen Read defends herself as the person prosecutors believe was responsible for his death. By the end of this podcast you'll understand why this case as garnered national attention and galvanized people to show their support for Karen Read.

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As the Tulum party begins, people arrive for a night of merriment and glitter at Teresa's tranquil home, but her two buddha statues are no match for the unrest these ladies carry in their souls. A chill settles in the air as Jackie hits a dead end with Dolo, and as Danielle comes to a startling realization about Jen Aydin that ends with the ladies getting physical. The aftermath leaves Dolo and Teresa questioning things, Jen Aydin with a sudden bout of amnesia, and Bill Aydin seemingly undisturbed.

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A discussion of breaking news about Kenya Moore, followed by a brief moment of Swiftie romance acknowledgement, and Part 1 of a thorough recap of the Real Housewives of New Jersey Tulum Tussle, Season 14, Episode 8. The episode begins with cast members reeling from recent revelations about exposed trash talk, charity event allegations, and Jackie's perilous stance that she has information that could ruin Margaret. As everyone but the Gorgas gear up for a Tulum themed party at Teresa's, they have no idea that the biggest rift is about to come from inside their own clique.

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A rant about Justin Timberlake apparently being given a warning not to drive by the same officer that later arrested him followed by a rant about a new documentary exposing the abysmal treatment of professional football league cheerleaders before a recap of Real Housewives of New Jersey Season 14 Episode 7. This episode begins with the aftermath of the failed Fuda, Teresa, Luis sit-down and shifts to preparations for the Gorga housewarming party later that night. As the prosciutto is hung, Marge gears up to confront her former friend Jackie, Rachel gets ready to fill Melissa in on the sit down that became a yell off, Dolo picks up an unwelcome gift, and Jennifer Aydin prepares to talk to Danielle...because in Jersey, the beefs are as thick as the drawn on dicks.

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A riveting new fantasy book series, Justin Timberlake's DUI arrest, the premier of HBO's House of the Dragon, and why everyone can camp, but camping isn't for everyone before a recap of Real Housewives of New Jersey Season 14 Episode 6. This episode focuses on Danielle's Bougie Kidz clothing line at New York Fashion Week, Marge handing out her non-alcoholic beverages at a charity event, Joe Gorga figuring out how to show us more butts, the Jennifers bonding over a shared margarita, Jackie again tossing the friendship dice, and a sit down between the Fudas, Tre, and Luis.

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Let me tell you something about this family...we begin with background on Dina's seemingly dysfunctional marriage to Tommy Manzo, as documented in their episode of VH1's 'My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding', to their lengthy divorce, and Tommy's violent reaction to Dina moving on with new man David Cantin. Details of the Manzo family's alleged ties to organized crime are shared as it relates to networks and connections Tommy utilized to exact his calculated revenge. A June 2024 update from the U.S. Attorney's Office, District of New Jersey, is explained, as well as what trials and outcomes we can expect to hear more about in the coming years.

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A synopsis of the recent IG dive on Vinivia, an "interactive live streaming app" company whose CEO was just put on blast by a high-profile, family run, L.A. events producer, The Wife of the Party, after chasing invoices and still being owed around $300k. Vinivia is the same company Luis Ruelas has been hyping, appearing in their promotional and informational videos, and stating, "that's what I do for a living" after describing it to paparazzi. Then, a quick discussion of Meghan King's recent display of disdain towards helpless woodland creatures before delving into a summary of events, issues, sit-downs, and confrontations that have taken place across RHONJ episodes 2-5.

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The bittersweet end of the finale episode of Season One of The Valley focuses on the demise of two couples 6 months after initial filming wrapped. We see Jesse and Jax finally facing repercussions for their shortcomings as husbands. Meanwhile, Michelle and Britney appear to have found peace and stability being on their own, despite both having to move themselves and their children out of their family homes. While Jesse has mostly accepted his harsh new reality, Jax doesn't seem to grasp the severity of the situation as he continues to gaslight a fed up Britney and cancels a long awaited therapy session - we can only assume he'll wait to work on himself for the cameras when Season 2 begins filming.

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Part one of a two part finale recap shows the group settling back in after Big Bear and preparing for the grand opening of Jax's (and Britney's) oxygen rich bar in Studio City. While Zach gets fired up about Janet not trusting him and plans to confront her about their issues, Kristin goes in hoping to make peace with Michelle. Britney continues to show consideration and kindness to Jax by getting his family there, and Jax continues to say he's stressed when she brings up his shortcomings. Bonus: we discover and walk through the full menu at Jax's.

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Mica's 911 call is shared along with clips of interviews with her father, Michael Francis, her best friend, Charlotte Korn, as well as the fisherman who found Mica's belongings, and JP himself via a Tik Tok live. Details and theories about where Mica and her belongings were found at Lumber River State Park are reviewed. We also learn more about Solid Rock's Dare 2 Care Mission and why Mica's family has asked that people not donate to it. A church elder's past, one that resulted in him being listed as a sex offender, is detailed before hearing his informative statements about JP, a plane, and Solid Rock. Lastly, we outline the connections JP's lawyer has to Lumber River and artificial intelligence (AI). #justiceformica

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Several questions from Part 1 have now been answered so we begin by updating information on the timeline of events leading up to Mica's death before reviewing public statements made by former parishioners, girlfriends, and love interests of JP's. Then, Myrtle Beach police reports, as well as affidavits from Mica's sister Sierra Brown, brother Nate Francis, and new filings from JP's ex-wife Alison, reveal startling and heartbreaking revelations.

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An introduction to Jax's new girlfriend before a recap of the final big bear episode that wraps up with a surprise baby shower and fantasy cosplay dinner. We learn that Danny can catch a fish and is a real person with flaws but, more importantly, is quick to apologize for them. The spirit of Harry Styles serves as Jesse's wingman, Britney reaches a new milestone about her marriage, and Janet tries to stay positive about giving birth after hearing stories from the moms. The episode includes a quick proof of life check-in on Kristin and Luke and a sobering reminder of why no-fault divorce is important to fight for.

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We kick off a new season of New Jersey with an explanation of conflicts from last season's reunion, past and present social media drama, and accusations from ex-wives. To watch Jersey is to become an expert at navigating a volatile quagmire of emotions that remains consistent even as children head off to college and Nonna's bring focaccia. The episode centers around different groups, that now won't interact, as they come together for the first time at a birthday party for the neutral friend to all involved that is Jen Fessler.

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The Big Bear babymoon trip continues with underwhelming confrontations, women reaching their boiling points, husbands lamenting relationship issues while seeming obtuse about their own shortcomings, and petty social media moves from the uninvited. Highlights include: Brittany finally snapping and unleashing pent up rage upon Jax after he relentlessly accused her of being intoxicated vs nauseated, Jason and Janet dubbing this trip a "babymoon from hell", and the menfolk misusing the term "Napoleon complex". Also discussed is the 2023 movie Napoleon and the 1990's drug Trimspa that Jesse once modeled for with Anna Nicole Smith.

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A rat encounter video from Kyle Richards provided sheer joy and amusement this week, relive the moment before a recap of the Valley's latest drama, this time at an increased elevation. We see the cast learning to accept the strict babymoon invite list as cliques and continued misunderstandings abound. In Big Bear, relationship issues are exacerbated by struggling couples, because having an audience makes things more fun.

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The fractured "valley crew" continues to navigate life post-Pushfest where icing out Kristin is the remedy of choice. Meanwhile, Kristin focuses on her t-shirt company and sampling reptilian cuisine. A group hibachi and game night highlights relationship issues and furthers the friendship divide, then Kristin's event follows suit, and the drama continues with an awkward announcement about a group trip...minus some of the group.

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This episode is a direct result of the ask from Mica Miller's family, after she was found deceased on April 27, 2024, for anyone who does deep dives to look into her circumstances. Mica was allegedly seeking a divorce from her preacher husband who stated that her passing was self inflicted in a sermon he gave the day after she was found.

This podcast provides a summary of the situation as it has been presented to the general public and shares independent research sourced from: newspaper articles, court documents, Myrtle Beach publications, interviews and sermons from Mica's preacher husband, Mica's family and friends, and Mica's own words as shared on her social media pages.

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An episode that Bravo fans hoped would bring answers to questions like: What consequences will there be for Pushfest? What ramifications will befall Jesse for getting physical with the group and requiring two producers to get involved? What terse words will Jax have for his bro after learning that his wife was nearly trampled? How will Zach move on from Jesse treating him like a slow motion crash dummy testing the structural integrity of a hotel hallway?

The episode picks back up at the conference room dinner that is now garnished with filming ultimatums, before bringing us to another informative boyz night, highlighting new issues between Luke and Kristen, existing ones between the Lally's, and we see Jax finally take Britney out for a date night - only to make her cry.

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Full recap of the episode where Jesse bulldozes through a hallway of people while wearing a graph paper suit. The journey of the episode spans expanding our knowledge of Luke's life in Colorado, Kristin's conviction that she's a great friend to Michelle, Jax's love of gossip and being compensated for dramatizing hair loss, Jesse's plans to assess his ego through psychedelics, and Britney's intent to be included in the opening of Jax's bar.

The arguments that lead up to the pushfest are as enlightening as the event itself, with Jesse in full delusion mode and Michelle eager to pawn him off to either a pop-up shop lady or Britney's mawmaw.

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The NSFW finale of the Erika Jayne Vegas residency documentary focuses on high stakes drama of lackadaisical gyrating just prior to the show's opening night at House of Blues. We learn a variety of fun facts, from Erika's reiterated belief that Tom is suffering from cognitive decline, to her team's stance that their true opinions of her performance can't be caught on camera, to Mikey's singular vision of what a lady amidst pleasure looks like. Between ego, delusion, contrived drama, and donuts, this documentary had it all.

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A recap of the pussy pattin' propaganda documentary of Erika Girardi's "comeback" as Erika Jayne via a Vegas residency at the House of Blues in August 2023. We watch low impact dance rehearsals and witness her fond memories of Tom, whom she still seems to enjoy describing at his professional peak. We hear her reminisce about her old life of obscene wealth and spending before lamenting her Vegas show's current budget and trying in vain to secure $100k more. Denied by the showrunner for already being over budget, and failing to get a personal loan, our heroine must overcome the odds...and the show must go on.

This recap is of the first half of the 2-hour special, due to fatigue. The second half will be posted separately.

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A rundown of the 2016 Secret Service led prosecution of Chris Psaila, half of the celebrated L.A. design house, Marco Marco, after Erika Girardi's allegations of $787, 117.88 worth of fraudulent charges on an AMEX card Tom paid but had begun to object to, with Volkswagen asking, "Now why am I in it?"

A review of Chris' 2023 lawsuit allegations that Erika's longtime choreographer Mikey Minden, assistant Laia, and an AMEX representative/investigator also played a role in maliciously prosecuting him, plus a description of his receipts filled with texts, sketches, and images supporting legitimate charges for goods and services that challenge his now dismissed indictment that could have resulted in over 150 years in prison. Just this month, Erika lost an attempt to dismiss his lawsuit and a Secret Service buddy of Tom's filed to remove himself from this narrative. After listening to this pod, you'll understand why.

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A recap and opinion of Hulu's second documentary detailing crimes spearheaded by Tom Girardi and the Girardi | Keese law firm. Failings of the California Bar Association are highlighted as well as the current status of ongoing legal battles for both Tom and Erika, including an overview of the Marco Marco lawsuit referenced on an episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills when she mentioned wearing a wire in a federal investigation. The 2-hour documentary also provided an update on several client-victims and focused on a group who welcomed a sit-down with Erika in the hopes that she would no longer refer to them as "alleged".

This recap cites the Hulu documentary and L.A. Times articles.

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In this dive we learn more about the chaotic path the custom made earrings have taken that involves multiple robberies, a lengthy HOA lawsuit, and a dalliance with tax authorities, all of which led to the bankruptcy trustee having ample documentation when the time came to confirm items purchased with client funds. We also review bad karma origins of another piece from the "Girardi Collection" and contrast Erika's desire to hold onto the spoils of ill-gotten goods with others who were eager to part with lavish gifts unknowingly funded by Tom's clients.

This dive cites information from multiple L.A. Times and N.Y. Times articles, as well as court case filings.

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Back in the winter of 2020, rumors and nastiness regarding Jen Shah's workplace connection to Trump "University" began to percolate. This pod explains Jen's connection to that grift, as well as detailing the company where she worked before just before striking out on her own to lead a national telemarketing scam. Brace yourself for details that include a waterboarding lawsuit so you can cite it when asked to defend working from home.

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Coming soon - the High & Low podcast, where the highs and lows of reality shows, movies, and the human condition are met with humor and a low tolerance for B.S. hosted by Bravobravoduckingbravo.

So, click that subscribe button, take my hand, and get ready for recaps, deep dives, and rants from the Bravosphere - and beyond.

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A full rundown of Bravocon 2023, the good, the bad, and the $7 water, from the perspective of a former event project manager, reluctant traveler, and Bravocon 2022 NYC attendee. Learn what to pack if you attend the three-day extravaganza, benefit from the lessons learned, and plan out how to have the best experience. All the highs, all the lows, and all the feedback on how the event was great - and how it could improve for next time. All that and more in this premier episode of the podcast that brings you recaps, deep dives, and rants from the Bravosphere, and beyond.

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