Rethinking Mental Health for Kids Who Don’t "Fit the Mold"

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the complex systems surrounding your child's mental and behavioral health? In this episode, we dive deep into how families can bridge the gap between schools, medical providers, and home life to ensure every child thrives. Join us for a powerful conversation about advocacy, collaboration, and the importance of meeting children where they are.

In this episode, host Jae sits down with Dr. Katrina Ostmeyer, PhD, the founder of Beyond the Individual and a professor at the University of Kansas. Katrina shares her unique journey from academia to clinical practice, sparked by her own experiences as a parent of children who do not always fit the traditional mold. We explore the common frustrations of siloed systems where schools, insurance companies, and parents often find themselves at odds rather than working together.

Katrina explains why true collaboration is the secret ingredient to progress and how her clinic provides a continuum of care that empowers families rather than creating long-term dependency. We also discuss the vital role of parental self-regulation, exploring why parenting is often more about managing our own emotions than controlling our children. Whether you are navigating an IEP, seeking behavioral support, or looking for ways to better regulate your household, this episode offers practical wisdom and encouragement.

Chapters

0:00 Intro and Welcome

2:15 Katrina’s Journey to Psychology and Practice

5:30 Filling Service Gaps in Mental Health

8:45 The Problem with Siloed Systems

12:00 Collaboration Over Blame in Child Success

15:15 Parenting and Self-Regulation

18:30 Focus on Guidance and Autonomy

21:45 The Beyond the Individual Service Model

25:00 Moving Toward Independence in Therapy

28:30 Working with Schools and IEP Teams

31:15 Telehealth and Reaching Families Everywhere

34:00 Final Takeaways and Self-Care

35:51 End of Video

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