The One-to-One Instinct

The 1-to-1 instinct has been equated to the sexual instinct in several enneagram spheres. In this episode, Kristen and Valentino watch a video that perfectly illustrates the phrase "one-to-one" and uses it to discuss how it's actually an attachment dynamic driven by the social instinct. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with one-to-one attachment dynamics, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTimestamps:00:00 - Social attachment dynamics02:57 - Ariana Grande and Drew Barrymore: a case study09:19 - Chemistry/connection in relationships12:01 - Social wounding and desire21:23 - Polarity and connection29:21 - Vulnerability in relationships39:48 - The conceptual battleground of social interactions45:24 - Self-preservation and energy management52:13 - Action vs. inaction in personality types55:31 - The nuances of image types#enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagraminstincts #personalitytypes #psychology #attachmentstyles #attachmenttypes #typology