196: Q&A! No Libido, Writing Erotica, & Taking Charge

Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram!

QUESTION TIME STAMPS:

4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn’t like lingerie/games/toys/etc?”

7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?”

9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can’t- advice?”

16:00 “I’ve been married for a month and I haven’t had a climax, any advice?” 

17:36 “My husband hasn’t finished in over a month now, what do I do?”

19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?”

23:00 “Why don’t I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.”

24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?”

27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.”

29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won’t be able to relax enough.”

31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?”

32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don’t want to just lay there”

Links from today’s episode:

• Vaginismus Episode
• @painfree.intimacy
• Let’s Get Checked: KINGDOM for 25% off
• Christian Counselling $25 off your first month with our link!
• Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduling Sex
• Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire
• The Penis Book
• KS Prayer Bundle
• Better Sex Through Mindfulness
• Starting Life Together Bundle
• Ultimate Wedding Night Guide
• Awaken Love

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