Is This the Right Person? How to Trust Yourself in Early Dating

At some point in almost every relationship, you’re going to ask yourself: is this the right person for me?

And especially in the early stages of dating, that question can feel confusing. You might be weighing up attraction, overthinking your feelings, or wondering if there’s someone better out there.

In this episode, I talk through how to actually navigate that question, without rushing, overthinking, or ignoring what your intuition is telling you. Because not all doubt means something is wrong… and not all attraction means something is right.

We talk about:

•  the difference between “maybe there’s someone better” and “something feels off”
•  how dating apps can create the illusion of endless options 
•  why we’re often drawn to what feels familiar (even when it’s not good for us) 
•  attraction vs compatibility ... and why both matter 
•  what to do if you don’t feel an instant spark, but you like the person 
•  how anxious attachment can make calm, healthy connections feel unfamiliar 
•  the signs to pay attention to early on

You don’t have to rush this.

People meet people every day, fall in love every day, and also walk away from relationships every day. There’s no shortage of opportunity.

What matters is choosing something that actually feels right for you.

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