Feb 3. Unflattering opinions

If someone impugns you or your honor (in the sense of attacking your “good name” or reputation) ignore him. If that isn’t possible, seek a graceful, even a humorous way out—like the American in France who once met a Frenchman’s challenge to a duel by selecting, for weapons, “apple pie at ten paces.” After all, what is that false “honor” but an affirmation of ego: the root cause of all suffering?! Suffice it if you, following your own conscience, act honorably. People’s unflattering opinions of you are not your problem, but theirs.

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