Men in the Arena – Christian Men’s Podcast
The Men in the Arena podcast equips Christian men in the stress bubble of life: married, with kids, building your career and trying to follow God while leading your family well. We’ll help you become your best version, equipping you to honor God in your marriage, parenting, work, church and community!
Tuesday’s podcast is Equipping Men in Ten – a ten-minute, laser-focused teaching from Jim Ramos to help you become your best version of a man.
Friday’s podcast is a high-octane interview with an expert in the realm of masculinity and Christian manhood, with authors like John Eldredge, Gary Chapman, Gene Getz, Patrick Morley, and Emerson Eggerichs. Jim reads their books and boils down their teachings into a powerful interview to help you learn from their expertise.
Your host is bestselling author and speaker Jim Ramos. Jim has authored 9 books, including the bestseller ’Strong Men Dangerous Times: 5 Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World’, ’Tell Them: What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters’, ‘The Field Guide: A Bathroom Book for Men’, and the 5-book Strong Men Study Guide men’s small group curriculum. Jim’s high-energy storytelling and conviction will call you out, build you up, and motivate you to become the man you’ve always known you could be.
The Men in the Arena are calling you into the Arena of manhood. We’re calling you out of the faceless, nameless bleachers, and calling you UP to be the best version of you. Because when a man gets it, everyone wins.
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The Most Misunderstood Words in the Church: Mercy, Grace, Judgment & Wrath – Message at the MAG EP 869
Are you dishing out judgment when you should be offering mercy? Is your version of justice undermining God’s grace?
In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos delves into mercy, grace, judgment, and wrath. If you don’t understand these principles, you're fumbling the fundamentals of the Christian life. These aren't just theological buzzwords—they determine how you lead, love, and respond when it counts. It's time to stop defaulting to wrath and judgment, and start choosing the power of grace and mercy.
(Check out Weldon Hardenbrook's 'Missing from Action' which was mentioned in this message!)
This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ’s World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com.
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life’s difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Remove THIS Word From Your Marriage NOW - Podcast Highlight: Kim Kimberling EP 868
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 770, Love Through the Decades: How to Make It Long-Term in Marriage w/ Kim Kimberling. Check it out!
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com.
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life’s difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
3 Powerful Questions Men Asked in The Locker Room EP 867
Today’s episode is a special peek behind the curtain of The Locker Room—our bi-monthly Zoom call where men tackle life’s toughest questions and connect directly with Jim Ramos on all things relating to Biblical masculinity. We dive into real struggles that Christian men face.
Here are three powerful questions from some recent Locker Room sessions with practical, no-fluff wisdom for men who want to lead, fight temptation, and grow strong in Christ.
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life’s difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com.
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
The ‘Serpent’ and ‘Dove’ Paradox: What Jesus Meant – Message at the MAG EP 866
Jesus calls us men to walk a powerful paradox—bold in truth, but gentle in spirit.
In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos breaks down what it looks like to be a tactical, discerning noticer of people without losing the humility and purity that makes the gospel irresistible. You’ve been sent out like sheep among wolves, not to be passive or polite, but to be cunning, observant, and unwavering in truth.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon.
This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ’s World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com.
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life’s difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
The Hidden Battle Plan Written in Scripture - Podcast Highlight: Jeff Voth EP 865
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 686, Becoming a Serpent Crusher: How to Crush the Enemies of Your Best Version w/ Jeff Voth. Check it out!
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com.
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life’s difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Dad Bod to God Bod: 6 Rules + 7 Steps – Equipping Men in Ten EP 864
The “dad bod” is just another lie the world sold you. The Bible instructs us to treat our bodies as a living temple — but for many of us, it's a ticking time bomb.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses why the dad bod is not biblical, not healthy, and not sustainable if you want to lead well, live long, and finish strong. Men, reject the soft lies of comfort culture, embrace discipline, and steward your bodies with purpose.
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com.
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life’s difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
How Wives Speak Life: Powerful Words That Build or Destroy Men w/ Dave and Ann Wilson EP 863
What if the secret to your success as a husband starts with what your wife says—and what you don’t say? Your wife's words may be slowly breaking you and she probably doesn't even know it.
In this week’s expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by the hosts of FamilyLife Today, Dave and Ann Wilson. They get brutally honest about the real battles that rage inside marriage—especially the ones we don't see. From nearly calling it quits on their 10-year anniversary to learning the secret power of a wife's words, Dave and Ann take us deep into the trenches of married life and what it takes to win there.
Order the Wilson’s new book, ‘How to Speak Life to Your Husband’. (Using our links to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
3 Marriage Lies Destroying Your Home - Podcast Highlight: Aaron Freeman EP 862
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 695, Fight Smarter: Fight FOR Your Marriage by Fighting WITH Your Wife (the Right Way) w/ Aaron Freeman. Check it out!
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
The Dangerous Men ‘Coaching’ Christian Men Online: Who Should You Follow? – Equipping Men in Ten EP 861
Are you blindly following the wrong leaders? Could you be letting unqualified voices shape your soul?
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos exposes the trend of self-proclaimed “coaches” flooding the internet with no real accountability or biblical backbone. Too many men are allowing themselves to be discipled by leaders who wouldn’t last five minutes under the biblical qualifications of 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 ('Dialed In'). If you want to be a man who leads with strength, integrity, and unwavering faith, you need to know WHO you’re letting disciple you.
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Why I’m Still a Christian: 20 Years of Debates, Where Famous Atheists’ Best Arguments Failed w/ Justin Brierley EP 860
Why are so many young men turning back to Christianity in a culture that’s moving in the opposite direction? Is their faith intellectually credible — or is it just blind belief?
In this week’s expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Justin Brierley, host of the groundbreaking Unbelievable? podcast, to dive deep into the raw truth about faith, doubt, and the rising tide of young men reclaiming Christianity. Justin shares his powerful journey from skepticism to conviction that is shaping a new generation of believers.
Order Justin’s new book, ‘Why I'm Still a Christian’ and the others mentioned in today's episode. (Using our links to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
- The Surprising Rebirth of Belief in God - Justin Brierley
- The God Hypothesis - Steven Meyer
- Heaven - Randy Alcorn
- Mere Christianity - C.S. Lewis
- Can We Trust the Gospels - Peter Williams
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Why Society is Sabotaging Your Daughter's Self-Image - Podcast Highlight: Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield EP 859
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 635, How to Connect with Your Daughter: 15 Tools for Girl Dads - Part 2 w/ Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield. Check it out!
Leaving SOFT Christianity Behind: 4 Ways Modern Christian Men Are Dangerously Soft – Equipping Men in Ten EP 858
Men, are you man enough to face your weaknesses? It takes real courage to confront your weaknesses head-on.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos pulls no punches as he challenges men to confront the areas where they fall short. Drawing from his bestselling book Strong Men Dangerous Times, this episode will push you to stop hiding from your struggles. Men, let's seek wholeness—mind, body, and spirit—and strive towards becoming solid and complete.
Pick up Strong Men Dangerous Times (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
The SECRET to Becoming an On-Fire Christian Man w/ The Kendrick Brothers EP 857
Men, how do you go from a decision for Jesus to a life as a sold-out, on-fire follower?
In this week’s expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Alex and Stephen Kendrick (better known as ‘The Kendrick Brothers’), the filmmakers behind films like 'Courageous,' 'War Room,' ‘Facing the Giants,' and 'The Forge.’ They discuss their new book, Devoted to Jesus: From First Steps to Fully Surrendered and what it takes for a Christian man to become a true disciple of Jesus.
Order the Kendrick’s new book ‘Devoted to Jesus: From First Steps to Fully Surrendered’ -https://tinyurl.com/Devoted115(Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
00:00 Introduction and Welcoming the Guests 00:47 Discussing Favorite Movies and Their Impact 02:11 The Journey of Facing the Giants 03:28 The Success of War Room and Courageous 06:12 The Importance of God's Favor and Faithfulness 12:17 Family Legacy and Breaking Chains 24:11 Devoted to Jesus: The Book and Its Impact 27:23 Teaching Young Men to Dig into Scripture 27:50 The Importance of Small Group Discipleship 28:52 Overcoming Temptation and Evil 32:45 The Power of Surrender in Faith 40:30 The Role of Faith in Pleasing God 43:08 Practical Applications of Discipleship 50:19 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsChristian Men: Your Most Important Battlefield is Home! - Podcast Highlight: Heidi St. John EP 856
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 699, Loving Your Wife Through Brokenness (How My Husband Did It) w/ Heidi St. John Check it out! (https://tinyurl.com/Battle115)
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This NEW Definition of Manhood Changes Everything – Average Joe Conversation w/ David Everson EP 855
Are you living as the man God called you to be—or the one culture expects you to be?
In this ‘Average Joe’ conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos brings in David Everson, a local leader at The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Jim and David unpack the meaning of true masculinity. Together, they dive deep into the contrast between cultural expectations of manhood and biblical standards for being a man.
If you're tired of the confusion and want clarity on what it means to be a godly man, this conversation is for you.
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
The Bible’s Most POWERFUL Second Chance Story – Message at the MAG EP 854
Men, do you believe God still has a plan for you, even after you’ve blown it? We can all learn from Peter — a man who failed publicly and painfully, yet was restored by Jesus and used powerfully.
In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into failure, redemption, and the relentless grace of God. Drawing from personal experience, Jim confronts the fact that we all fall short. This isn’t about pretending to have it all together. It’s about recognizing our flaws, stepping up, and turning to Christ — the only source of real, lasting redemption.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon.
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
The CRIPPLING Mistake Christian Men Make With Goals - Podcast Highlight: Jon Acuff EP 853
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 673, A 3-Step Plan to Achieve Your Goals w/ Jon Acuff Check it out!
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon patreon.com/themeninthearena
3 Powerful Questions Men Asked in The Locker Room EP 852
Today’s episode is a special peek behind the curtain of The Locker Room—our bi-monthly Zoom call where men tackle life’s toughest questions and connect directly with Jim Ramos on all things relating to Biblical masculinity. We dive into real struggles that Christian men face.
Here are three powerful questions from some recent Locker Room sessions with practical, no-fluff wisdom for men who want to lead, fight temptation, and grow strong in Christ.
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
How to Stay Calm in Any Storm (Like Jesus Did) w/ Justin Kendrick EP 851
Men, do you want to develop an unshakable spiritual grit that can stand when everything around you is falling apart?
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Justin Kendrick, author of the book ‘How to Quiet a Hurricane: Strategies for Christian Endurance in the Midst of Life’s Storms’. Justin brings powerful insight from his book and lays out what it truly means to be a man of faith in the face of adversity.
This conversation is a must for fathers, husbands, and leaders who are done playing it safe and ready to dig deep.
Order Justin’s Book 'How to Quiet a Hurricane: Strategies for Christian Endurance in the Midst of Life’s Storms’ (https://tinyurl.com/storm115 -Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
00:25 Discussing the Book: How to Quiet a Hurricane 03:24 Exploring Christian Endurance 06:14 The Weakness Paradox and Paul's Thorn 14:01 The Three Major Temptations 20:20 The Theology of Suffering 26:12 The Illusion of Safety 27:53 The Fear of Safety and Eternal Purpose 28:12 John Patton's Revelation and Overcoming Fear 29:16 Living Courageously with an Eternal Perspective 30:23 Ecclesiastes and the Abundant Life 31:06 Suffering and Redemption 36:36 The Role of Silence in God's Plan 40:19 Fatherhood and Modeling Faith 46:06 Balancing Discipline and Fun in Parenting 49:22 Encouragement for Men to Build Endurance 56:21 Conclusion and Resources for Spiritual Growth
Strong Men, Broken Culture: Restoring God's Design - Podcast Highlight: Chris Harper EP 850
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 697, Become a Better Man: The 4 Pillars of Masculinity w/ Chris Harper Check it out!
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
How God Redeemed Our Marriage (the Full Story) w/ The Rudans EP 849
Is it possible for one encounter with Jesus to restore a marriage and change generations? If you're struggling in your relationship, praying for your spouse, or just need a reminder of God's ability to turn things around, this testimony will encourage you.
In today’s conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Adnan Rudan and his wife Kristy for a first-of-its-kind, in-studio Hero Story. Adnan opens up about how surrendering to Jesus flipped the script on his life, saved his marriage, and changed the trajectory of his entire family — with help from Men in the Arena.
This testimony is solid proof: no man is too far gone, no marriage too damaged, and no family too broken for God to redeem.
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Tithing vs. Giving: What the Bible Actually Teaches – Message at The MAG EP 848
Men, you may be trapped in living with a ‘poverty spirit’. Do you view money as a tool for God’s kingdom — or as something to fear or hoard?
In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos challenges us to re-evaluate our views on money and giving. Jim stresses the importance of living with a spirit of abundance, generosity, and making the gospel appealing through good deeds.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon.
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Healing vs. Shame: The BATTLE in Church Culture - Podcast Highlight: Sam Black EP 847
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 684, Healing from Porn: Your Ultimate Purity Resource List w/ Sam Black Check it out!
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
I Found the Proverbs 31 for Men! Unpacking 9 Marks of a Man from Job 29 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 846
There’s a blueprint in the Bible for what it means to be a Godly man—have you seen it? That’s right, the Bible doesn't just tell men to lead—it shows us how!
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses what he calls the Proverbs 31 for men, drawn straight from Job Chapter 29. This episode is a call to action for men who want to walk with purpose, lead with conviction, and reflect Christ in every part of their lives.
This message was inspired by 'Missing from Action: A Powerful Historical Response to the Crisis Among American Men' by Weldon Hardenbrook. (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
From Porn Set to Pulpit: Lies That Almost Destroyed Me w/ Joshua Broome EP 845
What happens when you believe the lies the world tells you about your identity? Is it possible to walk away from those lies and step fully into freedom through Christ?
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Joshua Broome, author of the book ‘7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life’. Joshua Broome's life journey is nothing short of miraculous. From growing up without a father to becoming entangled in the porn industry, Joshua opens up about the darkest seasons of his life and the incredible transformation he experienced through faith in Jesus Christ.
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What to Do When You’re TRIGGERED by Your Spouse – Podcast Highlight: Aaron Freeman EP 844
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 695, Fight Smarter: Fight FOR Your Marriage by Fighting WITH Your Wife (the Right Way) w/ Aaron Freeman. Check it out!
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Raising Kids Who WANT to Come Home – Average Joe Chat w/ Sam Gipson EP 843
What does it really take to build a deep, lasting bond with your kids, especially during the teen years? How do you discipline your kids in a way that doesn't drive them away?
In this ‘Average Joe’ conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos is joined by his friend Sam Gipson. Sam, a high school teacher and men's ministry leader, shares insights into the challenges and rewards of parenting teens. This is a practical, honest conversation for men who want to avoid alienating their kids and want to learn how to set a strong foundation for a positive relationship with your children when they become adults.
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How Jesus Confronted Narcissism at the Last Supper – Message at The MAG EP 842
Men, we have it backwards. What if real power doesn’t look like winning—but serving?
In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks one of the greatest paradoxes of the Kingdom of God: If you want to become the greatest, you must become the least. Can you serve the ones who hurt you? Can you love without applause? This is discipleship for grown men.
This message comes from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon.
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Saying NO to Cohabitation (Even When It's Tempting) – Podcast Highlight: Brant Hansen EP 841
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 639, Becoming The Man The World Needs W/ Brant Hansen. Check it out!
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Stop Living Wounded: 7 Stages God Uses to Heal Men – Equipping Men in Ten EP 840
Many men confuse being “strong” with being numb. We hurt others by staying broken—and are you ready to truly heal?
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses the 7 stages of true healing. We challenge you to own your story, rise from your pain, and pass down hard-earned wisdom through healing to the next generation.
For more on this check out Patrick Morley's book 'From Broken Boy to Mended Man: A Positive Plan to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Break the Cycle'
Check out Episode 586 with Bruce Hebel which is mentioned in this episode!
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Just 5 Minutes Can Transform Your Ability To HEAR Jesus w/ John Eldredge EP 839
Men, our lives are constantly buzzing with noise and distractions. How can we truly connect with Jesus?
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to John Eldredge, author of the influential book 'Wild at Heart' and his newest book “Experience Jesus. Really”. John shares wisdom and practical steps on how to experience a deeper relationship with God amidst the chaos of the modern digital world.
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Why Your Wife Gets Upset When You Try To Help: The Listening Secret Most Men Miss – Podcast Highlight: Bill Farrel EP 838
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 624, Your Wife Doesn’t Communicate Like You: How to Leverage Your Communication Styles for a Happier Marriage w/ Bill Farrel. Check it out!
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3 Types of Dads of Teens: The HARD TRUTH from a Youth Mentor - Average Joe w/ Dale Collver EP 837
Are you stepping up as a father and mentor in today's world?
In this ‘Average Joe’ conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos brings back Dale Collver, Men in the Arena’s original podcast producer! Dale is a seasoned youth ministry leader and Discipleship Director at The Gate Community Youth Center. Dale shares his journey, the 3 types of dads he sees as he works with teenagers, and how men like you can shape the next generation. It’s time to step up—because men, you have what it takes to make a lasting impact on today’s youth!
Check out the podcast referenced in this episode for parenting guidance and wisdom with Kirk Martin!
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STRONG Men with CARING Hearts: The Call to Father the Fatherless – Message at the MAG EP 836
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Is Looking at Porn Digital Adultery? – Podcast Highlight: Nick Stumbo EP 835
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 678, Breaking the Porn Cycle: The 7 Pillars of Freedom from Sexual Sin w/ Nick Stumbo. Check it out!
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God Hit Me in the Head (Literally!) - Amazing Hero Story w/ The Rudans EP 834
From Rock Bottom to Redemption!
Tune in for a powerful, no-holds-barred episode as Adnan Rudan and his wife Kristy share their incredible journey. Adnan, a dedicated policeman, hit rock bottom—but that’s when he found God and Men in the Arena. Facing a shattered marriage and battling inner demons, Adnan turned to faith and found a path to redemption.
Surrounded by strong men and fueled by the guidance from this podcast, his transformation is nothing short of extraordinary. From a conflicted husband to a steadfast, loving leader of his home, Adnan’s story is a testament to strength, resilience, and the power of redemption. (This is a 10-minute excerpt from a 45-minute interview that will air at a later date. Stay tuned!)
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Biblical Thought Control for Christian Men: Master Your Mind w/ Kyle Idleman EP 833
Men, are your thoughts holding you back? Taking control of your thoughts could be the key to unlocking spiritual and personal transformation.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Kyle Idleman, author of ‘Every Thought Captive: Calm the Mental Chaos That Keeps You Stuck, Drains Your Hope, and Holds You Back. Kyle, a prominent pastor and author, dives deep into the power of mental transformation through biblical principles. Discover practical and spiritual strategies to renew your mind and unlock significant transformation in your life.
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The Easy Way a Man Can Change a Fatherless Boy’s Life in One Hour - Podcast Highlight: Rick Magee EP 832
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 800, Becoming a Rescuer: How One Man Rescued Me w/ Rick Magee. Check it out!
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My Next Book According to Chat GPT – Equipping Men in Ten EP 831
What if we let ChatGPT write a book using Jim's past work? Would it align with the principles of Men in the Arena?
In this week’s engaging 10-minute episode, Jim dives into ChatGPT’s take on what "it" thinks he would write his next book, “Guardrails”, about. Tune in to see how AI interprets Jim’s ideas and the core principles of his work.
Discover the books that inspired this unique AI version of “Guardrails”.
Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World
Guts and Manhood: Four Irrefutable Attributes of Courage
Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God
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‘Life Verses’ Aren’t Enough: Why Every Christian Man Needs a DEATH Verse – Message at the MAG EP 830
What’s the one verse that drives your life and shapes your faith journey? Men, we need a verse to call our own that challenges us to live purposefully.
In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos introduces the idea of a 'death verse'—a scripture that will define you when you meet Jesus face to face. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon.
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Why Duck Dynasty Almost Didn’t Happen - Podcast Highlight: Willie Robertson EP 829
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 744, Becoming A Gospeler W/ Duck Dynasty’s Willie Robertson. Check it out!
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5 Techniques Strong Men Master for Healing That ‘Males’ Avoid – Equipping Men in Ten EP 828
Are you ready to heal and step into victory? Becoming your best version takes more than just willpower—it requires the right tools and actionable steps.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks five transformative steps to go from being broken to mended. With deep biblical wisdom and practical advice, this episode offers a roadmap you need to rise up and become the man you were meant to be.
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One Critical Thing Godly Dads Do DAILY (Instead of Scrolling) – Message at The MAG EP 827
Can storytelling really shape the future of your family and community? Storytelling isn’t just about preserving history— it can empower your tribe and strengthen your leadership.
In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos emphasizes the importance of storytelling within familial and tribal contexts, drawing from Job 29 where Job reflects on life before his tragedies. This message brings NEW life to the ancient practice of passing down traditions.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon.
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What to Do When You’re Burned Out (and How to Prevent It) – Podcast Highlight EP 826
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 674: AMA #5: Avoiding First Responder Burnout.
For a related episode check out EP 700: Inner Peace for Peace Officers w/ Paul Lee.
Tactical Listening: Listen Better Than Other Dads (5 Ways) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 825
Men, are you genuinely listening to those around you, or are you simply waiting for your turn to talk? Becoming the best version of yourself in Christ includes learning to be the best listener, so you can truly support and minister to your loved ones through every season of life.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos reveals the 5 secrets every man should know to master the art of listening. Whether you're struggling to connect with your spouse, children, or friends, these practical strategies will help you become a better listener and a more effective communicator.
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The Naked Truth: What Christian Sexual Freedom Looks Like w/ Cynthia Garrett EP 824
Men, are you ready to step up and protect your wife and daughters, while standing strong against the world’s distorted messages? God calls us to be protectors, leaders, and to walk boldly in His truth!
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Cynthia Garrett, author of ‘The Naked Truth: Reclaiming Sexual Freedom in a Culture of Lies’. Cynthia is a dynamic and influential voice in today's cultural conversation and shares her compelling life story, and the importance of a God-centered approach to relationships. She challenges us men to rise to the occasion, honor women, and reclaim a biblical understanding of sexuality.
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QUICK HIT (3 Min): Becoming a Disciplined Man: Make Decisions Against Yourself – Dialed In Man of God EP 823
Do you need self-discipline? Jesus is the ultimate disciplined man! In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Disciplined man like Jesus, and what the Bible says self-discipline in the life of a godly Christian man looks like, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a disciplined man. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
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Men’s Group Recruitment: The 5 C's Method for Building an Unshakeable Men's Small Group – Equipping Men in Ten EP 822
Want to build a men's group that lasts? There is a proven strategy for recruiting and retaining men for a thriving ministry.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses the ingrediants for successful recruitment in men’s ministry. Men, your next step in building an impactful men’s ministry starts here!
Pick up the Men’s Ministry Playbook to learn more!
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Modern Christian Parents are Ditching the ‘Sex Talk’: Here’s What They Do Instead w/ Rodney Wright EP 821
Guys, are you ready to take back control of the sex education your kids receive? It’s been an ever-growing trend to let outside influences shape our children’s understanding of sexuality.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Rodney Wright, author of ‘How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex’. Rodney is a seasoned veteran with Pure Desire Ministries and shares his wisdom on how to guide your kids through these sensitive topics with confidence and clarity. Men, this isn’t just a conversation, it’s a call to action to break the silence in our faith communities - it’s more important than ever!
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3 Dad Regrets Every Father Must Avoid (Before It's Too Late) - Podcast Highlight: Barrett Johnson EP 820
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 872: 5 Leadership Secrets Jesus Used That Dads Need to Know: Leading Your Kids How Christ Led the Twelve w/ Barrett Johnson.
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Weeds: 3 Ancient Temptations Still Destroying Christian Men Today – Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 819
What "weeds" do you find yourself continuously battling in your life? How do they affect your spiritual growth? What practical steps can you take today to start rooting out sin and planting seeds of love, joy, and peace?
In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into the critical steps of identifying and removing the “weeds” that stop us from living a life full of purpose and growth. Using wisdom from Galatians 5 and the Parable of the Sower in Matthew 13, he discusses how to aggressively root out sin and intentionally plant seeds that lead to a fruitful, God-honoring life.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.
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The #DadPrep Method: Stop Being Just a Father, Become a DAD w/ Jeff Springer EP 818
Dads, we all aspire to leave a lasting legacy behind but the stress bubble can beat us down over time. Are you getting the support and encouragment you need to stay in the fight?
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Jeff Springer, author of '#Dad Prep' and founder of Suit Up Ministries. Jeff delves deep into the importance of strong male role models, the critical role of fathers and mentors, and how playing the long game can transform lives and communities.
Men, don't miss this empowering episode designed to inspire and equip us for the monumental role they play in shaping the next generation.
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QUICK HIT (3 min): Becoming a Gentle Man: Be a Gentle Giant Among Men – Dialed In Man of God EP 817
Christian men are called to gentleness, NOT weakness. If gentle is not weak, then what is it? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Gentle man like Jesus, and what the Bible says gentleness in the life of a godly Christian man looks like, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a gentle man. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
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How a Christian Soldier Loves His Enemies in Combat w/ Lt Col Stuart "Scar" Sullivan EP 816
Radical, all-out faith and forgiveness is rare—especially in the midst of a high-stakes military mission.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Lt Col Stuart "Scar" Sullivan, a former B-2 stealth bomber pilot turned passionate faith leader. They explore Scar's incredible journey, including his powerful military experiences and the life-changing moment that led him to fully embrace Christ. Men, if you're finding it hard to forgive and find true peace this episode is for you.
Check out www.commitallin.org to find out more about All In Ministries, and the powerful message of his book, Operation No Coincidences.
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BODY COUNT: Dealing with Your Wife’s Sexual History w/ Richard De La Mora EP 815
Do you struggle with your wife’s sexual past? Find yourself dwelling on thoughts of her with other men, or resentful that she didn’t save herself for you? God's grace can transform your relationship, even when facing your partner's past mistakes.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Pastor Richard De La Mora about his journey of love and redemption with his wife, Brittany, a former adult film star. Brother, if God can provide healing and redemption for them, He has it in store for you, too!
Check out Richard’s Book https://tinyurl.com/bodycount115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
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How Trauma Became His Greatest Gift to the World – Podcast Highlight: Wess Stafford EP 814
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 483: Just A Minute With A Child W/ Wess Stafford EP 483
How Some Dads Stay Close to Their Teens (While Others Lose Them) – Message at the MAG EP 813
What does it mean to be a father who stands strong yet flexible in the face of life's challenges? It can be difficult to be present and supportive, no matter their age, and foster strong, lasting relationships with your children. Today, Pastor Jim Ramos gives practical and biblical advice on how to stay "connected" to your children and family, no matter what life throws at you.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person by checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or you can bring him to speak at your next event.
Check out the Trailer for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakable115
This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
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Almost Daddy: Abortion’s Hidden Impact on Men w/ Gregory Mayo EP 812
How does the emotional toll of abortion affect men, and why is it often overlooked? In a society that often ignores male grief, what can men do to break the silence and find healing?
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos talks to Gregory Mayo at the National Conference for Ministries to Men in Kansas City. Gregory, a credentialed speaker and founder of the 'Almost Daddy' ministry, shares his personal experiences with the emotional consequences of abortion for men. It’s time to address the grief and experience true emotional freedom and healing.
Check out Greg’s book 'Almost Daddy' (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
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Ryan Miller’s Story of Walking Away from Fame - Podcast Highlight EP 811
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 734, WILD Obedience: What Real Biblical Masculine Strength Looks Like w/ Ryan Miller.
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5 Must-Know Tactics to Launch a Thriving Men’s Ministry – Equipping Men in Ten EP 810
Ever wonder why so many men’s ministries are failing to ignite change? Could it be that we’re missing the mark by not truly understanding the needs of the men we serve?
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses ways to enhance your ministry's impact. He gives real-life examples that can spark genuine change. Don’t miss these practical tips to level up your ministry!
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Your Mental Toughness Blueprint: A Christian Man’s Guide to Grit w/ Dustin Diefenderfer EP 809
How can you stay dangerous, no matter your age? It takes work ethic, grit, and the ability to be comfortable with discomfort.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos interviews MTNTOUGH founder Dustin Diefenderfer, an expert on mental toughness. Through raw, real-life stories from his journey in fitness, business, and spirituality, Dustin show why these elements are non-negotiable for living a life of purpose and impact. Stay dangerous, stay ready.
Check out the Trailer for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakable115
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Kirk Martin on Why Tone of Voice Matters with Your Kids - Podcast Highlight EP 808
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 614, Calm Parenting: Discipline Without Anger w/ Kirk Martin.
The SIMPLE Men's Ministry Event That Actually Gets Men To Show Up w/ Glen Dry EP 807
This week, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Glen Dry from Man to Man Discipleship. Glen is a powerhouse in ministry, having launched impactful programs like Steak Night and Sportsman's Church. In this episode, he breaks down his bold and transformative approach that’s been bringing men back into fellowship and solidifying their faith alongside other strong men.
Visit www.mantomandiscipleship.org for more information.
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Good Dads, Bad Kids: When Christian Dads are NOT Responsible for Their Kids Choices (Defining 'Household Management') - Message at the MAG EP 806
Men, we’re called to lead, protect, and provide. But what do we do when things don’t go as planned? What’s our true role in God’s eyes? In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos takes us deep into the historical context of households during the Apostle Paul’s time, exploring the powerful Greek terms for 'children' in the Bible. It's time to take a hard look at our roles as protectors and providers—and strengthen them for the sake of our families. This is our duty. Let's own it.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Just Man: Do What Is Right Even When It Isn’t Popular – Dialed In Man of God EP 805
A man of God seeks justice. Our world has perverted what justice looks like, but our God is the God of justice. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Just man like Jesus, and what the Bible says justice in the life of a godly Christian man looks like, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a just man. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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9 POWERFUL Ways Christian Men Can Level Up Their Life in 2025 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 804
The world tells you to level up by chasing power, status, and self-interest. But that’s not the path the Bible lays out. If you want to become the best version of yourself, there are some core values that will get you there—not the empty hustle the world promotes.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos lays down the blueprint for leveling up your life—from a Division 2 mindset to a Division 1 way of living. Jim breaks down nine critical principles and weaves in biblical wisdom to ground these lessons in a deeper, spiritual context. This isn’t just about being a better man; it’s about becoming the best version of yourself—mind, body, and spirit.
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What Makes a TRUE Man of God? (20 Powerful Traits Revealed) – Reverse Interview w/ Patrick Morley EP 803
Have you ever wondered how to reach your full potential as a man of God? The journey to becoming a fully realized man of God can feel daunting and overwhelming, but it has to start somewhere.
In this week’s unique interview, Patrick Morley interviews Jim Ramos about his USA Today bestselling book "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God." Patrick Morley, a men’s ministry giant (of ‘Man in the Mirror’ fame), dives in with insightful questions to unpack Jim's life-changing book. Join us in this exciting episode as they delve into some of the 20 key characteristics that define a man functioning at full capacity.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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Dave Wilson on His 2 Biggest Parenting Mistakes - Podcast Highlight EP 802
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 471, Imperfect Parenting and How to Be Good at It w/ Dave Wilson.
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The Most CHALLENGING Season Christian Men Face (Like Bible Heroes) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 801
Are you feeling like your talents or gifts are being wasted during this season of life? Does it feel like you're stuck living in the shadow of what you thought your life would look like?
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into the power of "obscurity"—a critical but often overlooked season in a man's life. Drawing on biblical figures like Moses, Jesus, and Paul, Jim explores how periods of hiddenness shape character, strengthen faith and build patience.
Men, don't quit when the spotlight's off—your best is being built in the shadows.
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Becoming a Rescuer: How One Man Rescued Me w/ Rick Magee EP 800
Men are born to RESCUE and LEAD. It’s in our DNA. But too many boys grow up without a father figure to instill this core virtue. If you’re ready to step up, take charge, and lead a mission that truly matters, this episode is where you start.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos interviews Rick Magee, COO of KOZ (Kids Outdoor Zone). KOZ is a powerful ministry for men, offering training and a solid curriculum to reach fatherless/fathered boys in their community.
Check out kidsoutdoorzone.com to learn how KOZ is reshaping futures. Find out how YOU can make a real impact. Time to answer the call, men!
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Clarence Schuler on Avoiding 'Hot Button Words' in Marriage - Podcast Highlight EP 799
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 435 Keeping Your Wife Your Best Friend w/ Clarence Schuler.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Faithful Man: Building Guardrails Around Your Bride – Dialed In Man of God EP 798
Are you a faithful man? You can become one. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Faithful man like Jesus, and what the Bible says faithfulness in the life of a godly Christian man looks like, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a faithful man. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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Reboot: Living with Passion w/ Wess Stafford
Life is too short to live it without purpose. Wess Stafford has an amazing story and a challenging message for us all!
Dr. Wess Stafford, President Emeritus of Compassion International, is an internationally recognized advocate for children in poverty.
Wess’ life experiences have uniquely prepared him for this role. With earned undergraduate degrees from Moody Bible Institute, Biola University and a master’s degree from Wheaton College, as well as a Ph.D. from Michigan State University, Wess often says, “Everything I really need to know to lead a multinational organization I learned from the poor, growing up in an African village.”
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Reboot: No More Christian Nice Guy w/ Paul Coughlin
This is a reboot of a past episode #239 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
Paul Coughlin is an expert witness regarding bullying and the law, and is a FoxNews analyst and contributor. He is a popular speaker who has appeared on Good Morning America, Nightline, C-Span, The LA Times, The New York Times, Newsweek and other media outlets.
In his ground-breaking book, No More Christian Nice Guy, Paul explains why being a “nice guy” is disastrous to everyone involved. Instead, Paul shows how the abundant life that God has for us is found through a more assertive orientation toward life, growing faith, saving marriage, bolstering careers, and in some cases even saving life itself.
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Reboot: Perception vs. Reality in Changing Your Marriage w/ Jason Karampatsos
This is a reboot of a past episode #239 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
Dr. Jason Karampatsos is the lead pastor of New Life Assembly of God in Janesville, Wisconsin, the co-founder of the City of Refuge Counseling Network and the author of The Elephant in the Marriage. As an ordained minister and a licensed counselor with a Ph.D. in pastoral counseling, he helps men navigate both spiritual and mental health challenges.
He writes extensively on the impact of perspectives and perceptions upon everyday realities and especially upon marriages. He is an active speaker for men’s conferences, marriage retreats and workshops and speaks to pastors and churches across the country on how to thrive in their relationships.
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Reboot: Practical Ideas for Leading Your Family at Christmas
This is a reboot of a past episode #502 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
The Star of Bethlehem documentary is no longer free on YouTube, but it is available to stream at bethlehemstar.com.
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Anepilemptos: Without This Even the Strongest Christian Man Will Fall – Jim Ramos at the NCMM Conference EP 793
Ever wondered what it truly means to live above reproach? Are you living a life worthy of being called a leader?
In this message, Jim shares a powerful story and biblical truths to push you to examine your life and confront the areas where you need to rise up. It's time to step up and live with integrity, no loose ends, no excuses.
(This message is from the NCMM National Conference for Men's Ministry Leaders held in Kansas City. Visit ncmm.org for information on the 2025 conference.)
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10 Marriage-Saving Guardrails: Marriage Rules That Prevent Affairs – Equipping Men in Ten EP 792
Marriages are breaking down at an alarming rate. What are you doing to safeguard your own? Are you letting the culture erode your relationship?
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos takes on one of the most pressing issues men face today: divorce. You'll get armed with 10 critical guardrails every man should have in place to keep his marriage rock-solid—and even a bonus guardrail for singles. Whether you're married or still single, don’t miss this episode—your marriage and future may depend on it.
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The Dying Seeds Paradox: What Jesus REALLY Meant – Message at the MAG EP 791
Death Ground. Alexander the Great famously burned his ships to eliminate his troops' option of retreat, compelling them to fight with everything they had.
Today, Pastor Jim Ramos challenges us to read a common passage with a new perspective. This message calls Christians to stop living in fear of failure and instead, adopt a long-term, sacrificial perspective that leads to real, flourishing faith.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Teacher of the Word: Cut it Straight – Dialed In Man of God EP 790
Can you teach others about God? How about those in your household, your wife and kids? If you can’t articulate your faith, that’s a miss, brother! In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a teacher like Jesus, and what the Bible says about what exactly the godly man needs to be able to do, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is able and ready to teach others. He doesn’t have to know everything, but he needs to be ready and willing to teach. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
Understanding God’s Grace: What Most Christian Men Get Wrong About Grace w/ Joby Martin EP 789
Many men are walking around claiming they’ve met Jesus, yet their lives look no different. When you’ve truly encountered Jesus, your life won’t stay the same. Just like getting hit by a freight train changes EVERYTHING, an encounter with the resurrected Christ should leave a mark.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos interviews Joby Martin, author of “Run Over By the Grace Train: How the Unstoppable Love of God Transforms Everything" and founder of The Church of Eleven22 in Jacksonville, FL. Pastor Joby will challenge you to live with real power and purpose and break down what real grace and forgiveness look like.
Here are the links to Joby's book discussed in this episode: https://tinyurl.com/Grace115 - Run Over By the Grace Train (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
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Discerning God’s Voice: 6 Tests That It’s Really God Speaking – Equipping Men in Ten EP 788
Do you ever wonder if you're hearing God's voice or if it's just your own thoughts? You're not alone, many men struggle with this question.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shares six powerful ways to distinguish between God's Holy whisper and the noise in your own mind. You'll get practical steps to gain clarity and guidance in your relationship with God.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Leader: Do Something. Anything. Just Lead. – Dialed In Man of God EP 787
Do you struggle to lead the people around you? God calls all men to be leaders. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming the leader Jesus has called you to be and what the Bible says about Godly leadership. The Dialed In man of God is a Leader. Using Paul's teaching, Jim explains how, as a leader, we are called to build "walls" around our loved ones to protect them. No matter what personality type, leadership style, or temperament, God has called all men to lead. It's time to do something. Anything. Just lead.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
Why Good Dads Give Up (And How to Prevent It): Don’t Bench Yourself w/ Kent Evans EP 786
Great dads show up, lead, and stay in the fight. But even the strongest man can hit a breaking point and feel like walking away.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos interviews Kent Evans, author of “Don't Bench Yourself: How to Stay in the Game Even When You Want to Quit." Kent dives into why so many men pull themselves out of the game and, more importantly, how to avoid it.
Men, stay in the game, stay strong, and reclaim your role as the leader your family needs.
Here are the links to Kent's book discussed in this episode:
https://tinyurl.com/offthebench115 - Don't Bench Yourself (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Man of Integrity: 7 Powerful Habits that Build Unshakable Integrity - Equipping Men in Ten EP 785
Are you just a man who talks about integrity, or are you truly living it? It isn't easy. It means stepping up when it's uncomfortable and choosing courage over convenience.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos breaks down the seven key practices for living a life of unshakable character, straight from his bestselling book Dialed In. If you’re ready to level up and own your character, this episode is a must-listen.
You can order your copy of ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
Hidden Miracles You're Missing Every Single Day: Regaining Your Holy Curiosity w/ Mark Batterson EP 784
Life is stressful. When you're grinding it out in the stress bubble, it's easy to miss how miraculous God is. It's time, men, to rediscover our sense of wonder, meaning, and faith. From the facts of DNA to the deeper significance of life's design, there are hidden miracles we can draw inspiration from every single day.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos interviews Mark Batterson, author of “A Million Little Miracles.” In this episode, Mark dives into how cultivating a "holy curiosity" can transform the mundane into the miraculous and open your eyes to the wonders all around you.
Here are the links to Mark's book discussed in this episode:
https://tinyurl.com/million115 - A Million Little Miracles (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Sacrificial Man: Think of Yourself, Less – Dialed In Man of God EP 783
Do you sacrifice for the people around you? There’s nothing more Christlike than sacrifice. Do you sacrifice your desires, dreams, and hopes for the sake of those you love? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Sacrificial man like Jesus, and what the Bible says about what exactly the godly man sacrifices, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is Sacrificial. He sacrifices specific things in his life in the service of others and God. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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5 Leadership Secrets Jesus Used That Dads Need to Know: Leading Your Kids How Christ Led the Twelve w/ Barrett Johnson EP 782
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Barrett Johnson, author of “Disciple Them Like Jesus: Leading Your Kids the Way Christ Led the Twelve." You'll walk away with a practical, 5-step plan and the confidence that you are building a legacy that will stand strong.
Here are the links to Barrett’s books discussed in this episode:
https://tinyurl.com/disciple115 - Disciple Them like Jesus
https://tinyurl.com/MeetMe115 - Meet Me in the Middle
(Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
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When Religion and Politics Collide: 3 Questions Every Voter Should Ask – Equipping Men in Ten EP 781
In today's increasingly divided culture, it can be easy to keep faith separated from politics. Taking a political stand while staying rooted in biblical principles can feel nearly impossible.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shares 3 guiding principles he's implemented to make his political decisions. We can find security and peace knowing that even though our culture and leaders change, the truth of the gospel never does.
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Living an Undaunted Life with Kyle Thompson EP 780
Many resources aimed at men often miss the mark when it comes to fostering true spiritual, mental, and physical resilience against life's challenges. We need to be prepared to confront spiritual and cultural darkness as we strive to follow Jesus.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos interviews Kyle Thompson, founder of Undaunted.Life Kyle covers many topics for the rugged Christian who is eager to deepen his faith and grow as a man.
QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Respected Man: The Greatest Gift One Man Can Give Another – Dialed In Man of God EP 779
Are you a respected man? Do the people around you respect you? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Respected man like Jesus, and what the Bible says about the respect earned by and displayed by the goldy man, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is Respected. He does certain things to gain the respect of those around him. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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Become God’s Man: 3 Ways Jesus Followers Differ from ‘Jesus Fans’ - Jim Ramos at Man Camp EP 778
Are you just a fan of Jesus or a true follower? Being a true follower is tough. It requires us to give our unconditional commitment. It's a willingness to break free from our comfort zones. It's a call to leave behind excuses and fully embrace becoming God's man.
This message from Jim Ramos was given at the Men in the Arena's 2024 Man Camp held at Young Life's Washington Family Ranch. You can come to see Jim Ramos in person at Man Camp 2025. Check out menintherena.org for more information and to register. Man Camp 2025 will be held May 2nd - 4th at Young Life's Washington Family Ranch in Oregon.
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7 Things Smart Dads Should NEVER Do With Their Kids – Equipping Men in Ten EP 777
Are you unknowingly wounding your kids? Is your parenting style setting your kids up for success or struggle?
In this important video, Jim Ramos explores 7 things smart dads should never do when it comes to parenting. Every child wrestles with questions like “Do I have what it takes?” and “Am I good enough?” As fathers, we must provide the support and guidance to answer these questions positively. Jim will discuss practical strategies for new dads or seasoned parents alike.
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How Jim’s Football Coach Brought Him to the Lord: Witnessing for Normal Guys w/ Gary McCusker EP 776
You’re a normal guy, not a pastor. But one relationship you have might end up reaching thousands of people for Christ. It all starts with you. Meet Gary McCusker, Jim Ramos’s spiritual father. Gary has a remarkable ability to connect with people on a personal level. Yet this ability is rooted in principles we can all learn and implement.
Four decades ago, Gary believed that Jim had the potential for transformation and redemption. Today, Gary’s investment in Jim is making a difference in thousands of men. You’ll walk away from this episode with a better idea of how normal guys like you can leave a spiritual legacy like Gary’s by investing in the people you see every day.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Devout Man: Get Religious with God – Dialed In Man of God EP 775
A Christian man is called to be Devout. This doesn’t mean becoming a pastor or priest, but it does mean specific things for your daily behavior and habits. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming Devout like Jesus, and what the Bible says about the devotion displayed by the godly man, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is Devout. He does certain things RELIGIOUSLY. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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Load Up Your Relational Toolbox: Relationship Strategies for Men w/ Greg Smalley EP 774
We all want to build stronger connections. But as men, sometimes it feels like we lack the tools that seem to come so naturally to women when it comes to relational communication.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos interviews Greg Smalley, author of “Men's Relational Toolbox.” He shares practical tips and insight on how we can immediately improve those relationships that mean the most to us.
Here is the link to Greg’s book: https://tinyurl.com/toolbox115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Dad Blessings: 5 Ways to Connect with Your Kids – Equipping Men in Ten EP 773
Could you use some everyday, practical ways to connect, engage, and encourage your child? Even though being a dad is one of the most rewarding roles in life, this world is overrun by examples of absent and unengaged dads.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches five proven ways you can unconditionally bless your children. Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned pro, these practical strategies will inspire you to be the best father you can be!
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Media in Your Christian Home: Videogames for Christian Kids w/ Brent Dusing EP 772
We are all trying to find ways to nudge our kids towards Christ. It's an uphill battle because of the influence of secular media and video games that are so prevalent in our culture. What if there was a way to let your kids explore and enjoy screen time but in a safe, Godly environment?
In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to the CEO and founder of TruPlay, Brent Dusing. TruPlay is a gaming platform created to bring high-quality, fun, and biblically sound entertainment to audiences worldwide. Brent discusses how TruPlay was founded and how it's bringing safe, quality games to this next generation.
You can download the TruPlay Games app on your iOS or Android device or check them out at www.truplaygames.com.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Good Man: No More Mr. Nice Guy – Dialed In Man of God EP 771
A good Christian man is NOT a NICE GUY. In fact, NICE GUYS are ruining this world. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about the difference between a nice guy and a good man like Jesus, why you should be a good man, not a nice guy, and what the Bible says about the kind of good Christian men should strive for, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a good man. But he is NOT a Christian nice guy. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new USA Today bestselling book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ released September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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Love Through the Decades: How to Make It Long-Term in Marriage w/ Kim Kimberling EP 770
What do you picture your marriage looking like in ten years? What about twenty? Will it be better than it is today? One thing is for sure: it will be different. The good news is there are some things you can start doing now and ensure your marriage makes it long-term and thrives.
In this week's interview, author Dr. Kim Kimberling joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "Love, Intimacy, and Sex in the Second Half.” Dr. Kim shares his experience from his 54 years of marriage on what we can do to bulletproof our marriages.
Here is the link to Dr. Kim’s book: https://tinyurl.com/SecondHalf115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Generous Man: You Can’t Out-Give God – Dialed In Man of God EP 769
Are you a generous man? There’s an easy way to tell. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you how to know if you’re a generous man like Jesus, and what the Bible says about generosity, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a generous man with his wealth, time, and talents. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new USA Today Best Seller, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ released September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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Men Under Fire: A Conference for Leaders of Men w/ Scott Haima EP 768
Are you called to be a leader of men? Are you currently serving in a leadership position? It can be lonely at the top, pushing against the cultural norms and bureaucracy of the church to reach men.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos interviews Scott Haima, Executive Director of the National Coalition of Ministries to Men (NCMM). He shares the importance of men’s leaders collaborating, encouraging, and becoming a resource to other men in the trenches.
To attend the 2024 NCMM National Conference, visit https://ncmm.org.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Hospitable Man: Mi Casa es Su Casa – Dialed In Man of God EP 767
Note: Jim accidentally says the wrong Greek word in this episode, "Xenophilia" which means 'the love for, attraction to, or appreciation of foreign people, manners, customs, or cultures' - the actual word outlined in the book is 'Philoxenia' which combines filo, which means "love", and xenos, which means "stranger" and covers the concept of hospitality.
Christian men, you’re called by God to be “hospitable,” but our culture defines the word wrong! Hospitality actually means something totally different in the Bible. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Hospitable man like Jesus, and what the Bible says about hospitality, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a hospitable man. He welcomes a very specific type of person into his home. If you don’t know what type of person yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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Revival is Coming: What Christian Men Should Do About It w/ Joe Oden EP 766
Are you tired of witnessing a decline in moral values and a departure from a God-centered culture? What can you do TODAY to counter this trend and push back? In this week's interview, author Joe Oden joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "Prayer That Ignites Revival: The Catalyst to Every Spiritual Awakening”. Joe shares why we can be hopeful and sheds light on why revival and awakening could be right around the corner.
Here is the link to Joe’s book: https://tinyurl.com/ignites115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Protector: Never Start a Fight. Finish It. – Dialed In Man of God EP 765
A Christian man is called to be a Protector. Protecting the weak and helpless in in the job description for the man of God. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Protector like Jesus, and what the Bible says about violence and protecting others, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a protector. He doesn’t shy from conflict, but rather enters into it in order to protect the weak and powerless. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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How to Endure and Finish Strong like Job - Jim Ramos at The MAG Ep 764
Do you feel tethered to your past failures, hurts, and insecurities? Men, we are called to show grit and push past our shortcomings to let the world feel the full force of who we are in Christ. In this message in the “Take Courage” series from the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos shares how we can develop grit and ensure we can endure life's hardships and finish strong.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing.)
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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Dialed In’ Book Release Day! Celebrating a Men in the Arena Milestone! - Equipping Men in Ten EP 763
It’s Dialed In’s official release day! Join pastor Jim Ramos as he celebrates a major milestone - the official launch of his first traditionally-published book. Learn about the journey to get here and how God has shown up in unexpected ways. We’re praying that He will use this book to impact millions of men! If you haven’t ordered your copy yet, now’s the time - every order this week counts towards our bestseller list status!
Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God -> tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Peacemaker: Peacefaker, Peacebreaker, or Peacemaker? – Dialed In Man of God EP 762
There are 3 types of men in conflict: peacefaker, peacebreaker, and peacemaker. You know Christian men are called to be peacemakers, but how do you do that without being a doormat? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you becoming a vigilant man and what the Bible says about vigilance, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a peacemaker. He doesn’t shy from conflict, but rather enters into it in order to bring peace. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Vigilant Man: Keep Your Head in the Game – Dialed In Man of God EP 761
STAY VIGILANT! Men, are you staying vigilant? What does vigilance look like for the godly Christian man? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you to become a vigilant man and what the Bible says about vigilance, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a vigilant man. He keeps his head on a swivel for himself and those he loves. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Moderate Man: Everything in Moderation – Dialed In Man of God EP 760
Brother, you’ve heard “everything in moderation,” but is there an area where this isn’t true for you? Does something have control of you instead of the other way around? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you to become a moderate man and what the Bible says about moderation, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a moderate man. His only master is Jesus, and nothing else masters him. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Calm Man: Keep Calm and Carry On – Dialed In Man of God EP 759
Brother, do you lose your cool? Are you becoming a calm man, or is your temper and anger out of control? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about how the man of God deals with his emotions, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a calm man. He is an emotional rock. If that’s not you yet, this episode will help.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Witness for Christ: Missionary or Mission Field? – Dialed In Man of God EP 758
Christian man, are you the missionary, or the mission field? You might be surprised at the answer. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about the man of God’s role as a witness to others, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a witness. He is a missionary, and doesn’t defer that job to his pastor or church.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Servant like Christ: Wear the Servant’s Towel – Dialed In Man of God EP 757
Christian man, are you a servant like Jesus? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about the a man of God’s role as a servant to the ones he loves (and the ones he doesn’t), pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a servant. Brother, it’s time to put on the servant’s towel.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Becoming a Blameless Man: Live Above Reproach – Dialed in Man of God EP 756
Christian man, are you living above reproach? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about your integrity as a man of God, pulling from Titus and Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a blameless man. He has no dark corners, no hidden secrets.
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and Timothy, as laid out in his new book, ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality.
You can pre-order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
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QUICK HIT (4 min): Introducing ‘Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God’ (recorded in South Africa) EP 755
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5 Tips to be a SOLID Dad: Become the Dad Your Kids Deserve - Equipping Men in Ten EP 754
Are you a soft and weak dad, or a SOLID one? The opposite of soft is not hard - it's SOLID. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines 5 tips for how you can take your fatherhood from weak and soft to SOLID and STRONG.
Pre-Order Jim Ramos' new book 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
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Should I Marry Her? How Do You Know She's "The One?" - Equipping Men in Ten EP 753
Is the woman you're dating "The One?" How can a man know? In this week's 10-min equipping episode, Jim Ramos helps you decide if the one you're with is the soul mate God has for you.
Pre-Order Jim Ramos' new book 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
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Christian Men DATING: Choosing a Christian Girlfriend (5 Things to Look For) - Equipping Men in Ten EP 752
How should Christian men choose who to date? Christian dating can be tricky. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos gives you 5 things to look for in the women you date. If you choose a Christian girlfriend and date her using these 5 guidelines, you'll end up with a woman who is wife material.
Raising Strong, Confident, Godly Kids: 7 Christian Parenting Pro Tips - Equipping Men in Ten EP 751
How can a dad raise strong, confident, godly kids? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos gives you 7 pro tips for dads. Implement these 7 things in your home and parenting, and you'll raise children that grow into strong, confident adults.
For more on how to become the man God made you to be, pre-order Jim Ramos' new book on Amazon, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
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I'm a Christian...Now What?? 5 Next Steps for New Christians - Equipping Men in Ten EP 750
So you've given your life to Jesus - what do you do next? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through 5 simple things you should do now that you're a Christian.
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How Do I Know For Sure I’m Saved? Am I Really Going to Heaven? – Equipping Men in Ten EP 749
Are you REALLY saved? Is the prayer you said in middle school enough to get you to heaven? How can you know FOR SURE that you’re saved?
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about how to know if your salvation is for real.
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Jonah in the Bible: Saying YES to God – Message at the MAG EP 748
Do you struggle to say YES to the things God places on your heart? It’s a struggle for many of us, including Jonah in the Bible. Today, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches from the story of Jonah and the power of saying YES to God’s will and the dangers of saying NO.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.
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Becoming Spiritual Leader: How Christian Men Can Get Started on Spiritual Leadership - Equipping Men in Ten EP 747
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When Can Christians Get Divorced? When Divorce is OKAY According to the Bible – Equipping Men in Ten EP 746
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Should Christians Still Tithe to the Church? What the Bible REALLY Teaches About Tithing - Equipping Men in Ten EP 745
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Becoming a Gospeler w/ Duck Dynasty’s Willie Robertson EP 744
Do you hesitate to share your faith in Christ? Worry that you’re not qualified? Wonder how to do it without sounding weird? In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Duck Dynasty’s Willie Robertson to talk about his new book,Gospeler: Turning Darkness into Light One Conversation at a Time. He shares why many Christians never move to the stage of sharing their faith, and how you can get started. You’ll walk away with practical, simple ways to start conversations and make sure you’re a “Gospeler” for Christ.
Willie Robertson’s Book:
Gospeler: Turning Darkness into Light One Conversation at a Time ->tinyurl.com/gospeler115
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Should Christians Smoke Weed? Is Marijuana OK for the Christian Man? – Equipping Men in Ten EP 743
Is it a SIN for a Christian man to smoke pot? Now that marijuana is legal in many states, does that make it OK? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos explores whether the Bible has anything to say about weed and its place in the life of a Christian man.
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How Christians Can Do Politics BETTER w/ Curtis Chang EP 742
Have you lost a relationship over politics? Most of us have. The Church has slowly been divided based on partisan beliefs, and God is calling you to bridge the gap. The intersection of faith and politics doesn’t have to be messy. Thankfully, the Gospel shows us a better way.
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Curtis Chang, theologian and faculty member of Duke Divinity School. He dives into his newest book “The After Party: Toward Better Christian Politics” which helps Christians navigate political conversations and rebuild relationships.
Curtis's book: The After Party: Toward Better Christian Politics
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Is the Bible Sexist and Misogynistic? Responding to Accusations of Sexism in the Bible - Equipping Men in Ten EP 741
Christians are sexist!” “The Bible is misogynistic!” We’ve all heard the accusations: many atheists and deconstructing Christians assert that the Bible endorses the oppression of women. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos responds to the accusation that the Bible is a work that subjugates women and endorses sexism, and teaches you how you might be reading certain passages wrong.
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Legend vs. Legacy: A Rite of Passage Recipe w/ Chuck Stecker EP 740
How do your children KNOW when they have crossed into adulthood? There is an entire generation of young people who crave significance in a world of confusion, violence, and immorality. How can you help your children find their way to become Godly adults?
In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Chuck Stecker, an expert in intergenerational ministry. He presents the lost art of "Rite of Passage", and tells you why it needs to be reinstituted and how you as a father can implement it. Prepare for a rite of passage ceremony recipe for your son or daughter.
Check out Chuck's book, Men of Honor, Women of Virtue: Raising Kids to Keep the Faith https://tinyurl.com/MENofHonor740
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5 Ways Good Dads Can Show Up (Even After Divorce) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 739
Are your kids part of the 48% of children today who won’t reach 18 years of age with both parents still in the home? If so, or even if your family is still intact, this episode will help you SHOW UP as a dad.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you how to be so consistent that your presence builds a firm foundation in your kids’ hearts. You’ll walk away from this episode with 5 boots-on-the-ground tactics to stay engaged with your kids.
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The Biblical Case for Wife Kids (even in Second Marriages)– Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 738
Are you married? Your wife is greater than your kids. Remarried? Still true! The Bible shows us that your wife is greater than your kids, even in the tricky situation of remarriage. In this message at the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos lays out the biblical case for this counter-cultural assertion, WIFE > KIDS.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.
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Become a Level 5 Dad: What Level of Father Leadership Have You Achieved? – Equipping Men in Ten EP 737
We all want to be successful leaders and fathers in our homes. But how do we properly assess where we’re at and what areas we can improve? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos breaks down the 5 levels of leadership a dad can obtain. Jim asks you to get real with yourself to make an honest assessment of your level of leadership and consider how you can move up to be a level 5 leader in your home.
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1 Hour to Fix Your Marriage w/ Drs. Paul and Virginia Friesen EP 736
Need a full-service revamp of your marriage? Today, Jim Ramos is joined by power couple, Drs. Paul and Virginia Friesen, as they help you avoid marriage pitfalls, offer tangible advice, and encourage you as you battle for your relationship with your wife. This unique husband-and-wife episode offers fascinating insight from a women’s perspective. You’ll walk away with tangible steps and tools to make sure you come out victorious in your marriage.
The last time Paul and Virginia appeared on our podcast, it was the one and only time Jim’s wife Shanna has come on the pod with him! It was raw and powerful. Listen to that audio episode here.
Check out Paul and Virgina’s book, The Marriage App: Unlocking the Irony of Intimacy https://tinyurl.com/marriageapp115
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Mr. Know-It-All: 6 Secrets Your ‘Know-It-All’ Attitude Reveals About Your Heart – Equipping Men in Ten EP 735
Are you a know-it-all? Do you have trouble taking criticism? Pretty sure you don’t need direction from others? Find yourself judging the way others do things? Having a TEACHABLE spirit is vital when you’re living out your best version of life in Christ. Even so, many of us walk around with a “know-it-all” attitude. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you 6 secrets a “know-it-all” attitude reveals about your heart and how it plays into your “Season of Manhood” (see "Seasons of Manhood" Part 1 and Part 2 )
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WILD Obedience: What Real Biblical Masculine Strength Looks Like w/ Ryan Miller EP 734
Calling all WILD MEN! You know you’re called to be a strong Christian man, so why does the Bible tell you to be “meek?” And why does God keep calling WILD, UNRULY men to his cause? This world wants to break men like you, but God has different plans. This week, Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos is joined by evangelist Ryan Miller, known on Instagram as “Dude with the Good News” @dudewithgoodnews for a deep dive into what WILD Christian masculine strength really looks like.
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Write Your Obituary: Do This ONCE to Change Your Life Forever – Equipping Men in Ten EP 733
Men, are you stuck in the daily grind? Wondering if you’re getting anywhere? Often we can’t see the forest for the trees. How do you zoom out to see the bigger picture in the Stress Bubble? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the activity that he did once 25 years ago which still impacts his life today. In fact, the ministry of Men in the Arena is a direct result of it!
Men, it’s time to write your own obituary! You’ll walk away from this episode with Jim’s 10 hints and a step-by-step action plan for how to look to the end of your life in order to change your life right away. If you do this activity once, it will help you live a life of meaningful achievement and purpose starting today.
Read 26-year-old Jim Ramos’ PROPHETIC obituary.
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Sex and the Single Christian Man: Honoring God with Your Body Before (or After) Marriage w/ Dr. Carol Tanksley EP 732
How should a single Christian man approach sex? What does honoring God look like when single, dating, or divorced? In this second episode in our two-part series on “SEXpectations," Jim Ramos is joined by Carol Tanksley, MD DMin, to discuss biblical principles for how to honor God in your sex life during all seasons. The first episode focused on married sex. This week's interview focuses on sex and the single, dating, and engaged Christian man.
Dr. Carol's Book: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
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The Men’s Ministry Playbook: A Proven Strategy to Impact Men – Equipping Men in Ten EP 731
No men’s ministry at your church? You can start one! Today, Jim Ramos, pastor and founder of Men in the Arena, will walk you through his newest resource. Born of thirty years of starting transformational small groups, The Men’s Ministry Playbook contains his proven strategy to help you launch and grow a men’s ministry at your local church.
For our free resources designed just for men’s ministry leaders, check out meninthearena.org/mensministr
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SEXpectations: God’s Design for Your Sex Life w/ Carol Tanksley EP 730
Are you disappointed by your sex life? Many Christian men in otherwise happy Christian marriages are not getting the sex they hoped for. There are hidden motivations, lies, and expectations that may be manipulating your views on sex! In this two part series on “SEXpectations," Jim Ramos is joined by Carol Tanksley, MD DMin, to discuss biblical principles for how to honor God in your sex life during all seasons. This first episode focuses on married sex. Next week's interview will focus on sex and the single, dating, and engaged Christian man.
Dr. Carol's Book:
Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships -> https://tinyurl.com/sexpectations115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)[Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
How to Start (or Reboot) a Men’s Ministry: Avoid the #1 Mistake Made by Men’s Leaders – Equipping Men in Ten EP 729
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How to Start a Men's Group w/ Jay Penton EP 728
Starting a men’s group can be daunting, and even for those who want to, it can be a struggle to find resources and a game plan to get one off the ground. Today, Men in the Arena's Director of Outreach Jay Penton joins Jim Ramos to break down the process he uses to help men start small groups at their churches. You'll walk away from this episode with practical steps to start a men’s group.
Men's Ministry Playbook - meninthearena.org/playbook
Help! I'm Starting a Men's Group - meninthearena.org/pages/help-im-starting-a-mens-group
Men's Ministry Resources - meninthearena.org/pages/mens-ministry-resources
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Masculinity is Not Toxic: Six Loads Only a Godly Man Can Carry - Equipping Men in Ten EP 727
There are ignorant voices in the world calling masculinity toxic. True masculinity is a blessing to the world, and there are some loads that God designed only men to carry.
In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shows you how to use the weight of who you are to be a blessing to your world. When a man gets it—everyone wins.
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Boys to Men: Guiding the Next Generation of Males to MANhood w/ TJ Greaney EP 726
What’s the difference between a Male and a Man? A Man shows up. A Man follows through. In this week’s interview, Jim Ramos is joined by TJ Greaney, the founder of Kids Outdoor Zone, the nation’s fastest growing hunting, fishing and outdoor ministry, to discuss how God can use the men of the Church to reach today’s young males and help them become men. You’ll walk away from this episode with practical, tangible ways that you can help the next generation of men.
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Which Man Are You? The Four Seasons of Manhood [Part 2] - Equipping Men in Ten EP 725
Ever feel like the season of life you're in will never end? Are you in the stress bubble trying to keep up with all the pressures of life? In Part 2 of his series "Seasons of a Man's Life", Pastor Jim Ramos shares the final 2 seasons of manhood ("fall" and "winter"), and how each season is vital in creating a complete life that’s well lived.
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DAD 101: The Spirit of Fatherhood w/ Larry Hagner EP 724
There are so many voices telling you how to parent, how do you sift through the worldly advice and get to the true spirit of fatherhood? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Larry Hagner from Dad.Edge to discuss the roots of healthy, godly parenting. He offers practical advice to get you on track to make a lasting, positive impact on your kid's life.
Larry’s Book: The Spirit of Fatherhood -https://tinyurl.com/spirit115
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What Season of Manhood are You In? The Four Seasons of Manhood [Part 1] – Equipping Men in Ten EP 723
Ever feel like the season of life you're in will never end? Are you in the stress bubble trying to keep up with all the pressures of life? In Part 1 of his series "Seasons of a Man's Life", Pastor Jim Ramos shares the first 2 seasons of manhood ("spring" and "summer"), and how each season is vital in creating a complete life that’s well lived.
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How to Forgive the Church (People) that Hurt You w/ Wendell Morton EP 722
Have you been hurt at church? One of the biggest barriers to men going to church is the people IN the church! In this week's interview, Pastor Jim Ramos is joined by Wendell Morton to teach you practical ways to deal with the wounds you've received from 'church people.' How do you stay in church even when it's filled by sinners? How do you forgive and release the bitterness that makes you reluctant to go on Sunday, or has even driven you away from the church altogether? You'll walk away from this epsisode with strategies to overcome hurt and release the only prisoner of unforginessness: you.
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Becoming Courageous: Increase Your Courage Over Time – Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 721
Did you know courage is a character trait developed over time? Like weightlifting, men have to practice, struggle and persevere to build the “muscles” of courage until it becomes who we are. The good news: God wired men to be courageous. Like a cattle brand, God has stamped the desire to be courageous into men. But it’s up to you to make that choice. In this final message in the “Take Courage” series from the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos shares how we can make sure our character is SOLID and not easily swayed by the worldly pressures men face.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing. If you'd like to bring him to your church to speak or run a workshop for you men, reach out soon!)
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Trafficked NO MORE: How YOU Can Help Sex Trafficking Survivors (Without Leaving Home) w/ Shannon Sloan and Amanda Kozlowski EP 720
You hurt for the victims of sex trafficking, but what can you DO about it? There’s a way you can help survivors of sex trafficking without leaving your home. In this week’s unique and powerful interview, Jim Ramos is joined by sisters Shannon Sloan and Amanda Kozlowski to talk about their ministry, the Free Bird Initiative. They share powerful stories of rescue and redemption and teach you how you can honor your own wife while helping empower sex trafficking survivors.
Free Bird Initiative: freebirdinitiative.org
Ring True: ringtrueco.com https://ringtrueco.com/product/subscriptions/ring-of-the-month/
GHOST: Genesee Human Oppression Strike Team:https://www.gcsomichigan.com/ghost (online safety training for parents)
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What Christian Wives Want: 4 Things She Might Not Know She Needs From You – Equipping Men in Ten EP 719
Congrats brother, you’ve married a strong Christian woman. But, what does she NEED from you? In her core, what does she need and want from you on a daily basis? In today’s 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the 4 core desires of every woman and the practical ways you can meet those needs. Jim pulls from Michael Thompson’s (ep. 710) book KING ME(https://tinyurl.com/kingme115), taking his principles and breaking them down so you’ll be able to take action starting today!
Michael’s book: https://tinyurl.com/kingme11
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It Stops With YOU: Breaking the Cycle of Childhood Trauma and Sin w/ Patrick Morley EP 718
“I’m fine” says every man…but it’s not true. We live in a broken world and every man brings brokenness to the table. How do we sift through our brokenness to find healing? How do we break the cycle of childhood trauma and generational sin? And how do we forgive those that contributed to our brokenness? This week, Jim Ramos is joined again by men’s ministry giant Patrick Morley (of ‘Man in the Mirror’ fame, listen to our interview about that book here), to discuss his new book, ‘From Broken Boy to Mended Man: A Positive Plan to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Break the Cycle.’ This episode will help you identify your areas that are broken, create an actionable plan for healing them, and deal with the scars from past brokenness.
Patrick’s Books:
From Broken Boy to Mended Man - https://tinyurl.com/wounded115 (using our link helps support the ministry, thanks!)
Man in the Mirror - https://tinyurl.com/mirror115
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The Godly Husband: 3 Steps to Achieve Spiritual Leadership at Home #717
One of the biggest questions men ask is, “what does a spiritual leader look like and how do I become one in my home?” In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos reviews 3 practical ways men can lead by example using 1st Timothy 4:15. You’ll walk away from this episode knowing how to start your journey to become the spiritual leader in your home.
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Strong OR Courageous? How to Be Both – Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 716
Strength and courage. Can you have one without the other? These words are used over and over and commonly paired up in the Bible. In this message, Jim teaches the importance of why these words are often paired together, and what it means when you only have one of the two. This episode will challenge you to look in the mirror, face your fears, and tap into your strength as you strive to live a courageous life.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.
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Meet Jim: Upcoming Men in the Arena In-Person Events
Want to meet Jim Ramos in person? In this week’s equipping episode, Jim Ramos tells you about 3 upcoming in-person events on both coasts where you can come out and meet him.
mancampwfr.com
meninthearena.org/meetjim
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The Christian Man’s Divorce Survival Guide: Healing from Divorce w/ Dale Brown EP 714
Divorcing Christian? Chances are you—or someone you’re close to—has dealt with the pain of divorce. Today Jim Ramos is joined by Dale Brown to walk you through 9 critical steps for healing from divorce. These are personal practices that will help you survive, heal, and thrive. Dale gives practical advice to anyone dealing with the aftermath of divorce and will teach you how to lean into God and other godly men, and use the pain you’re feeling now for good later.
Here’s the link to Dale Brown’s book, ‘Daily Survival Guide for Divorced Men: Surviving & Thriving Beyond Your Divorce Days 1-9’ https://tinyurl.com/divorce115 (using our link to check out the book supports our ministry – thanks!)
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7 Lies Christians Believe About God: What the ENEMY Wants You to Believe – Equipping Men in Ten EP 713
Are you believing LIES about God? You might be surprised. The enemy tells Christians these 7 lies about God and his nature to try to keep us away from Him. Thankfully God’s Word can dispel them. You may be hindered from living your best life in Christ because of common lies many men believe. In today’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos lists 6 lies you may believe about God (found in Michael Thompson’s book, “King Me”), adds in a bonus 7th, and teaches you how to dispel them with the Biblical truth.
Unseen and Unappreciated: Breaking Out of Your Season of Obscurity w/ Jeremy Wade EP 712
Do you feel unseen in your daily life? Do you question where God has you and how he’s using you? You may be in your season of obscurity. You’re in good company – even Jesus had a season of obscurity! In this week’s interview, Former Seattle Police Officer Jeremy Wade joined Jim Ramos to share his journey and how he questioned where God had him serving. They unpack how to know if you’re in a season of obscurity, how you can survive and thrive while in it, and how to break out of it as you say ‘yes’ to God’s will.
Jeremy served with the Seattle Police Department for 13 years where he was awarded the Medal of Valor and Officer of the Year. He also served as the executive director of the Seattle Police Chaplains Association. He is the founder of Mission First Alliance, a gospel-focusedfirst responder alliance.
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How to STOP Being a Coward: God Won’t Give You Courage – Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 711
How can a coward get courage? It’s not a commandment, it’s not a mosaic law, it’s not a fruit of the spirit and it’s not a Spiritual gift. So what is courage? Today at the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos covers the first attribute of courage and also addresses mythes about courage that keep men from living courageous lives. Your step out of cowardice and into a courage starts here.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person by checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing. If you'd like to bring him to your church to speak or run a workshop for you men, reach out soon!)
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King Me: Becoming the Hero in Your Story w/ Michael Thompson EP 710
Every man has a kingdom. Not every king rules well. If you ever feel powerless at work or home, wonder how to become the hero in your life story, or just want to make sure you're wielding the power God has given you well, this episode is for you. In this week's interview, author Michael Thompson joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "King Me: Loving and Leading in a Wounding World" and help you reclaim the heroism, power and authority God made you to wield.
Here is the link to Michael's book: https://tinyurl.com/kingme115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
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The Theology of Work: What the Bible Says About Your Career as a Christian Man - Equipping Men in Ten EP 710
You work hard, but are you working the right way? Will you be done working when you're retired? What place should work have in the life of a Christian man? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through a brief theology of work, teaching you what the Bible says about the work you're doing to provide for your family, and helps you identify ways you might be viewing work wrong.
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What Christian Men Do Wrong in BED: You're Wife's Big "O" - Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 709
Did you know that the Bible talks about your wife's "big O"? It does! What does a Christian man look like in the bedroom? In this week's message, pastor Jim Ramos and the guys from The MAG talk about what the Bible has to say about your O, hers, and how to have the bedroom intimacy that every man dreams of.
Here is the link to the book referenced frequently during the message: The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Gregory -> http://tinyurl.com/sexrescue115
This message is from The MAG, The McMinville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing. If you'd like to bring him to your church to speak or run a workshop for you men, reach out soon!)
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The Mistake Millions of Husbands Are Making: Framing Your Wife - Equipping Men in Ten EP 709
Are you one of the millions of men who are making Jim's biggest marriage mistake? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares his biggest marriage mistake. This topic consistently goes viral on our social media channels, with millions of wives chiming in to saying their husband is making this very mistake. Listen up, men. Your wife might have been one of them!
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Let's Talk About SEX, Baby! What Married Sex Should Look Like - Jim Ramos at The MAG, EP 708
In this message, Pastor Jim Ramos opens up his Sex Box, teaching you the lies our culture tells us about sex and what married sex is supposed to look like.
This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person by checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing. If you'd like to bring him to your church to speak or run a workshop for you men, reach out soon!)
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Learn Your DAD TYPE: Which of 8 Types of Dad Are You? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 707
The Dad Type Quiz is live! Take it at meninthearena.org/dadtype
What type of Dad are you? We've discovered there are 8 basic types of dad, with their own strengths, issues, and challenges. Your career type and phase of fatherhood changes the issues you face as a dad. In this week's equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines how we came up with the 8 different Dad Types, helps you identify which one you are, and outlines some of the challenges your particular type faces.
This episode pairs well with the Dad Type Quiz at meninthearena.org/dadtype. Take the quiz to learn your type, get a customized result based on your fatherhood phase and career, and get resources tailored to where you are in your fatherhood journey.
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Don't Use A.I. for Love Letters: How to Write a Valentine's Letter to Your Wife w/ Kevin Brewer EP
Avoid Divorce with This 9-Step Couple's Meeting Framework - Equipping Men in Ten EP 705
Have you ever noticed that men are often "blindsided" by divorce? Too many men seem to be losing their wive's hearts without realizing it until it's too late. If you want to avoid that fate, this week's 10-minute equipping episode is for you. In this episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the 9-part "Couple's Meeting" framework outlined in Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman's excellent book, "The Argument Hangover." [Check out the book here: https://tinyurl.com/argument115] Watch our interview with Aaron Freeman here.
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Finding Purpose Beyond Career and Achievement w/ Jeff Kemp EP 704
Do you define yourself by your career? Is your self-worth shaped by your achievements? As men, culture tempts us to find our value in what we do and how much we can produce. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by former NFL quarterback Jeff Kemp to discuss how we can rise above the production expectation and find our worth in the right things.
Here's Jeff's Book: (checking out the book through our link supports Men in the Arena - thanks!)
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DON'T Call Your Wife Your 'Partner': Why This Term is Anti-Biblical - Equipping Men in Ten EP 703
Have you noticed married Christians calling their spouse their "partner?" Many modern Christians are using this antibiblical word to describe their husband or wife. In this 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you why this word should never be used and how to correct others when they do.
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The Christian Leader: What Christian Leadership Looks Like IRL w/ Jeremy Stalnecker EP 702
You’re a man, and you know God has called you to lead. The problem is, you don’t know what that looks like in realtime. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos was joined by Jeremy Stalnecker, the co--founder of the Might Oaks Foundation. You’ll walk away from this episode with simple but profound leadership techniques to help you take those you love from where they are to where they need to be.
Here are the links to the books we talked about today:
Leadership by Design - http://tinyurl.com/leadership115 March or Die - http://tinyurl.com/marchordie115
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5 Health Rules to Change Your Body This Year - Equipping Men in Ten EP 701
Are you overweight? Exhausted? Busy? Out of shape? This is your episode! In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares his "one word" for 2024 and the 5 health rules he has committed to live by this year.
In addition to the 5 heath rules, a big part of Jim's fitness this year is his commitment to do the MTNTOUGH fitness program. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com
Inner Peace for Peace Officers w/ Paul Lee EP 700
Are you a LEO or first responder? Do you see people at their worst? Maybe you find yourself resenting the very people you're suppose to be helping? This week, Jim Ramos was joined by Paul Lee, the Executive Director of the FCPO (Fellowship of Christian Peace Officers), for a powerful conversation about how peace officers and first responders can find peace in the midst of the storm.
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Reboot: How to Identify Blindspots in Your Life
This is a reboot of a past episode #61 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
Reboot: How to Make 2024 the Best Year of Your Life
This is a reboot of a past episode #514 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
REBOOT: How to Make SMART New Year's Goals
This is a reboot of a past episode #410 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
Reboot: How to Achieve Your Goals w/ Paul Cole
This is a reboot of a past episode #338 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
Reboot: 12 Days of CHRISTmas: 12 Ways to Lead Your Family to Him
This is a reboot of a past episode #602 of the Men in the Arena Podcast
Reboot: Practical Ideas for Leading Your Family at Christmas
This is a reboot of a past episode #502 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
Loving Your Wife Through Brokenness (How My Husband Did It) w/ Heidi St. John EP 699
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You're VERY aware of your wife's broken areas, but it's not always clear what to do about them. It helps to hear how another guy did it right! In this unique episode, we get a refreshing female perspective on how one husband tackled the problem of his wife's brokenness. This week, podcaster Heidi St. John joined Jim Ramos to give you practical tips and examples of what her husband did to love her through her brokenness and small steps he took—that you can adopt—which added up over time to help her heal and create a thriving marriage.
3 Types of Christian Man: Which One Are You? - Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 698
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In this 30-min message given by Jim Ramos at a local gathering of Christian men, Jim discusses 3 types of Christian men. Jim challenges us to look in the mirror, recognize which type of man we are, and consider how we need to change to protect those in our circle.
This message was given at The MAG (the McMinnville Arena Gathering for Christian men) in McMinnville, Oregon.
Become a Better Man: The 4 Pillars of Masculinity w/ Chris Harper EP 697
What does it take to level up as a man? This week Jim Ramos is joined by BetterMan CEO Chris Harper to explore his 4 Pillars of Masculinity.
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Christian Man: No Pain, No Gain - Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 696
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In this 30-min message given by Jim Ramos at a local gathering of Christian men, he teaches you what "No Pain, No Gain" means for the Christian man.
This message was given at The MAG (the McMinnville Arena Gathering for Christian men) in McMinnville, Oregon.
Fight Smarter: Fight FOR Your Marriage by Fighting WITH Your Wife (the Right Way) w/ Aaron Freeman EP 695
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Do you fight with your wife about the same things over and over? Does a fight sometimes derail your intimacy for days or weeks? You're experiencing an Argument Hangover! In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Aaron Freeman, co-author of the book "The Argument Hangover." Aaron shares practical tips for how to shorten that disconnect after a fight, and teaches you how you can fight with your wife in a way that will bring you closer together instead of further apart.
Men, Build Your WALL: How to Protect the Women in Your Life - Jim Ramos at The MAG EP 694
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In this 30-min message given by Jim Ramos at a local gathering of Christian men, he teaches you what it means to become a WALL around the women in your life. The message draws from Deuteronomy 22:8 - "When you build a new house, build a low wall around the edge of the roof so you will not be guilty if someone falls off the roof."
In it, he also includes his 10 Marriage-Saving Guardrails to protect your marriage from infidelity - a list of 10 rules/things you should NEVER do with the opposite sex.
This message was given at The MAG (the McMinnville Arena Gathering for Christian men) in McMinnville, Oregon.
Becoming a Man of Grit, Tenacity, and Mental Toughness w/ Dustin Diefenderfer EP 693
Every man asks the same question over and over in his mind: “Do I have what it takes?” In other words, am I TOUGH ENOUGH? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by MTNTOUGH founder Dustin Diefenderfer, an expert on mental toughness. They unpack one myth about toughness that you may believe, and teach you how to get more mentally and physically tough.
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Here's the book mentioned in the podcast:
The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter
Dustin founded MTNTOUGH to help individuals become more mentally tough, believing this is the key for them to reach their specific personal and professional goals. “Ever since I was young, I noticed certain people had something others didn’t. I wanted to know how they got it... and how to help other people get it. That’s why I built MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab. To be the best in the world at mental toughness...Ultimately, so our customers can have a better life.” Dustin’s areas of expertise include ultra running, mountain and hunting conditioning. Dustin has completed numerous ultra marathons and marathons, running 12 marathons in one year to support his work in Africa. He has spent his entire life pursuing his passions in the mountains of the Western United States. “Hunting has always been my passion and backcountry hunting has tested my mental toughness like nothing else, and without a doubt has made me a better man.”
Men Carry Heavy Loads: 6 Loads the Godly Man Carries - EP 693
The man of God carries a unique load. Six, in fact! In this 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you six things a godly man carries to His world that help those in it win. When a man gets it—everyone wins!
Strengthening the Faith of Your Public School Children w/ Tony Rorie EP 692
Are your kids in public school? In this week's interview, author and former principal Tony Rorie joined Jim Ramos to discuss how to train children in the principles of chivalry, honor, moral excellence, and courageous leadership in the context of public school.
God's Design for Man: 5 Core Differences Between Men and Women - Equipping Men in Ten EP 691
Men and women are different. This shouldn't be a controversial statement, but it is! In this episode, pastor Jim Ramos unpacks five things he's discovered about how, generally speaking, GOD (not culture) made men and women INHERENTLY different.
When Jesus Asks... Just. Say. YES. w/ Kirk Milhoan EP 690
Are you struggling with God's calling on your life? Is God asking you to do something way outside your comfort zone? In this week's interview, Hearts and Souls ministry founder Kirk Milhoan joins Jim Ramos to discuss the radical outcomes you'll see, and the doors that will open, when you say "yes" to God.
How to Be TOUGH: The 4 M's of Toughness - Equipping Men in Ten EP 689
Think you're TOUGH? Don't be so sure. There are four areas of toughness, one in which even 80% of Navy Seals are statistically weak. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, author and pastor Jim Ramos outlines the four M's of toughness and helps you determine if there's an area you need to get tough.
NO MORE YELLING! Anger-Free Dad Tactics for Winning Power Struggles with Your Kids w/ Kirk Martin EP 688
Find yourself yelling at your kids? Or repeating your own dad's angry parenting patterns, the very ones you swore you'd never use? You know you shouldn't yell, but how else can you win power struggles and get through to your defiant kid? In this week's interview, Kirk Martin, host of the Calm Parenting podcast, joined Jim Ramos for another power-packed, tactical episode to equip you to become the calm dad you know your kids deserve.
Which Type of Christian Are You? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 687
There are two types of Christian men. Which one are you? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos identifies the difference between a "Christian" and a real follower of Jesus. You'll wall away from this episode knowing which type of Christian YOU are, and what to do about it.
Becoming a Serpent Crusher: How to Crush the Enemies of Your Best Version w/ Jeff Voth EP 686
Are you CRUSHING IT living as the man God made you to be? Or are there areas where you've been CRUSHED by the enemy? This week, Jeff Voth joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, Serpent Crusher: A Plan to Become a Better Man By Crushing the Things that Crush You. They discuss what a Serpent Crusher looks like, areas where men tend to be crushed in life, and how you can get out of the shape you've been crushed into and into the manly, masculine shape for which you were created.
Serpent Crusher Book on Amazon (using this link to check out the book helps support our ministry): https://tinyurl.com/serpent115
Christian vs. Non-Christian Marriage: The Biblical Love Triangle Part 2 - Equipping Men in Ten EP 685
This is part two in this series contrasting Christian and non-Christian marriage.
Did you know that two Christian spouses don't necessarily add up to a Christian marriage? Divorce is an epidemic in the Church because Christians are approaching marriage like functional athiests. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you about the Bible's Love Triangle and gives you seven ways that a Biblical marriage differs from a worldly one. You'll walk away from this episode with a clear idea of the ways that you and your wife may be approaching your marriage wrong, and how to get back on track.
Healing from Porn: Your Ultimate Purity Resource List w/ Sam Black EP 684
Are you ready for sexual integrity? This week Sam Black joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It. You'll walk away from this episode with a list of the resources you need to find your healing once and for all.
Are You Two Christians in a NON-CHRISTIAN Marriage? 7 Ways to Tell: The Biblical Love Triangle Part 1 - Equipping Men in Ten EP 683
Did you know that two Christian spouses don't necessarily add up to a Christian marriage? Divorce is an epidemic in the Church because Christians are approaching marriage like functional athiests. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you about the Bible's Love Triangle and gives you seven ways that a Biblical marriage differs from a worldly one. You'll walk away from this episode with a clear idea of the ways that you and your wife may be approaching your marriage wrong, and how to get back on track.
Fan or Follower? Jim Ramos Preaching at Redeemer's Church in Reedley - Sunday Sermon EP 682
Are you a Christ FOLLOWER? You sure 'bout that?
In this Sunday Sermon given by pastor Jim Ramos at Redeemer's Church in Reedley, CA, Jim walks you through the time Jesus was approached by three different fans, what He told them they needed to do to become true followers, and how you can become more than a fan of Jesus.
Prayer That Actually Works: The 5 P's of Effective Prayer - Equipping Men in Ten EP 681
Ever feel like your prayers aren't doing anything? Do you wonder if you're praying the wrong way, or for the wrong things? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the prayer method that he credits with growing Men in the Arena from 15 men in a coffee shop to impacting millions of men worldwide: the 5 "P's" of EFFECTIVE prayer.
7 Secrets of Effective Dads w/ Ken Canfield EP 680
If you're gonna be a good dad, you need these 7 things in your tool belt! This week, Dr. Ken Canfield joined Jim Ramos to discuss his bestselling book (more than 100,000 sold) The 7 Secrets of Effective Fathers.
Why Men Die First: The Mantle of Manhood - Equipping Men in Ten EP 679
Ever wonder why men tend to die before women? There are practical reasons and spiritual ones. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos explores the mantle of manhood and the story of Zuriel, the Mason, the Warrior and the Moving Man. You'll end this episode better equipped to the carry the load in your own life.
Breaking the Porn Cycle: The 7 Pillars of Freedom from Sexual Sin w/ Nick Stumbo EP 678
Are you stuck in a cycle of sexual sin? It's time to break free! In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Nick Stumbo, co-host of the Pure Desire podcast, to discuss his book, "Setting Us Free." They walk you through the seven pillars of sexual freedom and how to break the cycle once and for all.
Setting Us Free on Amazon
AMA #9: A Christian Response to Transgenderism and Gender Identity Issues - Equipping Men in Ten EP 677
In this Ask Me Anything episode, pastor Jim Ramos answers the following questions submitted by followers on social media:
1. "How do I respond as a Christian to gender dysphoria/transgenderism/gender identity issues?"
2. "You talk about all the journals you have written over the years. What is your process for journaling?"
AMA #8: Should I Say 'I Love You' Even If I Don't? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 676
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Jim Ramos answers these three questions submitted by followers on Men in the Arena's social media:
- "Should a husband say 'I love you' even if you are struggling with loving her or even if you aren’t there? Would that be a lie?" -opsymops on IG
- "I just want to know what you think about being a warfighter and a Christian, and if pilots/soldiers should feel convicted in this regard?" - Will G on Instagram
- "Hey Jim, do you have a favorite father son devo or book study to do together? Son is 18."
AMA #7: Christian Men and Sexy/Thirst-Trap Social Media Accounts - Equipping Men in Ten EP 676
AMA #6: Is Marriage Still Worth the Risk for Men? | Minimum Required to be 'Married'? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 675
In this AMA episode, pastor Jim Ramos answers three questions submitted by followers on social media:
"With the way marriage screws over the husband if a divorce happens and the wife can take half his assets and his kids, is it really worth the risk?" - FAQ
"What is the bare minimum required to qualify as 'married?' Don’t want to get the government involved." - FAQ
"What's your favorite Bible verse and person in the Bible?" - lyjt493 on Instagram
AMA #5: Avoiding First Responder Burnout | Reconnecting With Your Spouse - Equipping Men in Ten EP 674
In this AMA episode, Jim Ramos answers these two questions submitted by followers on our social media:
"I am a police officer and am in the Coast Guard reserve. I have spent my entire adult life in service to my community and/or country. I feel my calling is to protect people but am starting to feel burnout. What do you recommend I do?" - Jed emailed to info@meninthearena.org
"I've been married 18 yrs, for 8 years he hasn't talked to me, touched me, we sleep in the same bed but it's like roommates. As a Christian I feel conflicted as it says we shouldn't divorce. Is there any guidance you can provide as to what is the best way a Christian can go about this situation?" - Ila L. on Instagram
A 3-Step Plan to Achieve Your Goals w/ Jon Acuff EP 673
Men, you know you have potential, but how do you reach it? How do you choose which goal to pursue, and once you do, how do you get there? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by bestselling author Jon Acuff to discuss his new book, All it Takes is a Goal. They discuss the three zones that high-performing men bounce between and a 3-step plan for busting you out of your rut so you can achieve what God made you for.
AMA #4: How to Choose a Church - Equipping Men in Ten EP 672
In this AMA episode, Jim answers this question submitted by a follower:
- "How do you pick a church? I want to know how Jim Ramos would pick a random town in a random state, move there, and pick a church. What are the things you look for that are reasons to stay, reasons to leave? I believe youll be blown away at how many people take notes on your answer and use it when hunting down a church." - Jacob D.
AMA #3 Advice for Divorced Dads, Fathers and Men in the Stress Bubble of Life EP 671
In this AMA episode, Jim answers 3 questions submitted by followers on social media:
- "How should I handle my ex-wife bashing me to our kids?"
- "How can I lead my kids into a real, deep and authentic relationship with God?"
- "How can I prepare for the 'Stress Bubble of Life' and how can I thrive in the mist of it?"
AMA #2: Advice for Single, Dating and Engaged Christians - Equipping Men in Ten EP 670
In this AMA episode, Jim answers 4 questions submitted by followers on social media:
- "How do I find my spouse? I’ve been praying and waiting.” - Guboyz89 on Instagram
- "When should a young person know they are ready for marriage?" - Andrea D. on Facebook
- "If men are usually not as far along spiritually as women at the beginning of the relationship, how can a woman know if a man has the potential to be a good husband?" - TikTok
- "How long should a couple be engaged? Do you think you and Shanna got married too fast?" - Facebook
AMA #1: How to Know You've Been Called to Vocational Ministry; Why I'm Always Walking in the Woods EP 669
Jim kicks off an AMA series to answer listener questions.
This week he answers:
"When you were called into the ministry (like I believe I am being called into right now) how did you truly know? When did you know it was your calling from God to be in ministry?" - Logan W. on Facebook
"Why do you make videos in the woods like you just buried a body and you're running from the cops?" - Ro E. on Facebook
What's Your Life's Calling? 3 Tests to Figure Out What God Made You For - Equipping Men in Ten EP 668
Men, what is your unique purpose? What did God put YOU - specifically - on the planet to accomplish? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos outlines what does and doesn't constitute a "real" life's calling, describes common misconceptions of what makes a life's calling, and gives you 3 questions you can ask yourself to test and discover what God's calling on your life may be.
Fix Your Marriage BY YOURSELF: 10 Ways a Husband Can Change His Marriage - Equipping Men in Ten EP 667
How to Prep Without Breaking the Bank: Christian Prepper #5 - Equipping Men in Ten EP 666
It might seem expensive to prepare your family for emergencies, but you can do it without breaking the bank. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines how a Christian man can prep without blowing his family's budget.
Part 2 | When the Lights Go Out: The 9 B's of Preparedness, 4-9: Christian Prepper #4 - Equipping Men in Ten EP 665
In the last episode, Jim Ramos taught you the first 5 items on the "List of Lists" a.k.a. the '9 B's of Preparedness' for when the electricity, internet and online connectivity are gone. In this 10-minute equipping episode, he outlines B's 5-9.
Here are the books mentioned in the episode:
- One Second After -> https://tinyurl.com/onesecond115 By William Forstchen
- World Made by Hand: A Novel -> https://tinyurl.com/worldmade115 By James Howard Kunstler
- Patriots: A Novel of Survival in the Coming Collapse -> https://tinyurl.com/patriot115 By James Wesley Rawles
- How to Survive the End of the World as We Know It: Tactics, Techniques, and Technologies for Uncertain Times -> https://tinyurl.com/howtosurvive115
- Dare to Prepare - 6th Edition 2020 Printing -> https://tinyurl.com/dareto115 By Holly Drennan Deyo
When the Lights Go Out: The 9 B's of Preparedness, 1-5: Christian Prepper #3 - Equipping Men in Ten EP 664
Christian man, if the electricity went out and didn't come back on, what would you do? The outage of electricity and internet represent a major danger in an increasingly internet-reliant world. If this happened, would you be ready, or panicking with everyone else? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the 9 B's of Preparedness a.k.a. "The List of Lists."
Bonus: Jim Ramos Preaching on 'Christian Anxiety' at Yamhill Christian Church EP 663
As anticipated, we received some pushback on Jim's 10-minute equipping episode on how Christians can deal with anxiety (episode 659). He addresses some of the concerns raised, and elaborates on the point, while preaching at Yamhill Christian Church in this bonus audio-only episode.
How to Start Prepping with the Survival Rule of 3s: Christian Prepper #2 - Equipping Men in Ten EP 662
Christian man, are you prepared to lead your family through the worst? If the pandemic taught us anything, it's that hard times WILL come - it's just a matter of when. As a leader, you bring peace to your family and set yourself up to help others when you are prepared. This week, Jim Ramos unpacks how to start prepping using the Survival Rule of 3s.
Prepping as a Christian Man #1: Should Christians Be Preppers? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 661
Should a Christian man be a prepper? Does prepping indicate a lack of faith in God? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos gives his take on prepping and looks at what the Bible says on the subject.
Here's the book Jim mentions in the podcast: One Second After, by William Forstchen (Using this link to check out the book helps support Men in the Arena. Thanks!)
This is the start of a 4-episode series on prepping. Follow the podcast in your podcast app so you see the rest of the series right away as they drop.
GODLY Violence: Can a Christian Man use PHYSICAL FORCE? If So, When? Biblical Perspectives on Violence - Equipping Men in Ten EP 661
Is it ever okay for Christians to use physical force? This can be a touchy subject in Christian circles. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, we dive in to see what the Bible says about using physical violence and force. How do we balance the tension between the God we read about in the Old Testament vs. the God we read about in the New Testament?Pastor Jim Ramos continues to process what the Bible says as we ask the question, is there GOOD violence?
4 Ways to Get Courage: How Christian Men Became Courageous in the Bible - Equipping Men in Ten EP 661
Brother, do you need courage? Is God calling you to a place you've never been, or to something you're not sure you can do? Several times in his life, pastor Jim Ramos was deathly afraid of the next step God was calling him to take. Each time, he did a comprehensive study of 'courage' as it shows up in the Bible. He discovered 4 attributes of courage that will help you make the courageous move today.
(Years later, that comprehensive study became his book Guts and Manhood: Four Irrefutable Attributes of Courage. You can listen to it on Audible here.)
Book referenced in the episode: No More Christian Nice Guy by Paul Caughlin (using this link supports Men in the Arena)
Courage According to the Bible: Debunking Courage Myths - Equipping Men in Ten EP 660
What is courage, and how do you get it? It may not be what you think. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos debunks many of the views we’re taught about courage that aren’t biblical. We look at examples of courage from the Bible that are typically interpreted wrong or viewed incorrectly, and debunk common courage myths. You'll walk away from this episode ready to take the courageous path in your own life.
What is a Man's 'Stress Bubble' of Life? How to WIN While You're In It - Equipping Men in Ten EP 659
Man, are you in the Stress Bubble? There are multiple pressures that combine to create the "Stress Bubble" season of a man's life. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos describes 4 dangers that can happen when a man is in the Stress Bubble and how you can become your best version even while battling through this hard season of life.
Here's the YouTube video where you can see Jim's balloon illustration: https://youtu.be/XvXZ7adtdKk
How Christians Should Handle Anxiety: 4 Ways to Eliminate Anxiety - Equipping Men in Ten EP 659
Society tells us that anxiety is a diagnosis we carry with us. But what does God say about it? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos looks at how God handles anxiety in Scripture and teaches you 4 steps for tackling your anxiety that are grounded in the Word of God.
Husbands: BURN THE SHIPS - Avoiding Digital Infidelity - Equipping Men in Ten EP 658
Brother, are you ALL IN on your marriage? Are you sure? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines a common mistake that married men make, and one step you can take to ensure that your marriage thrives.
This episode pulls from principles outlined in Reggie Campbell's excellent little book, What Radical Husbands Do.
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4 Battle Cries of the Man Who is Finishing Strong - Equipping Men in Ten EP 657
When it comes to finishing strong, you can't get much better than Caleb in the Bible. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos pulls from the life of Caleb in Numbers 13 and Joshua 14 to give you four battle cries of a man who is finishing life strong.
Winning Your Young Adult Kids Back to Faith: How to Love Them Back to God - Equipping Men in Ten EP 656
Is your young adult child rebelling, or threatening to leave the faith altogether? Even kids raised in a solid Christian homes can end up doing stupid stuff that doesn't match Christian values. If that's you (or you're worried it will be the moment your kids reach college), there's hope. There are choices you can make that increase the likelihood of your young adult child coming back to the Church. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Men in the Arena founder and pastor Jim Ramos gives you 7 steps you can take to love your child back into a relationship with God.
7 Secrets of the Smart Step-Dad: How to Do Blended Families Right - Equipping Men in Ten EP 655
Are you a step-dad, or about to be? How does a dad navigate a second marriage with a blended family successfully? How can you avoid the traps and set yourself up for success? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through the 7 principles outlined in blended-family expert Ron Deal's excellent book, The Smart Step Dad: Steps to Help You Succeed.
For more on Ron's book and step-parenting, listen to Ron's three interviews on the Men in the Arena podcast.
3 RED FLAGS for the Christian Heart: Where's Your Heart Headed? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 654
Christian, where is your heart headed? Are you slipping into the danger zone? In this week's 10 minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos gives you 3 red flags for the Christian heart. These three "H's" 🚩🚩🚩 will help you figure out if your heart is headed towards trouble.
Unlocking Your Best Version w/ Jay Penton EP 653
Wondering what your next step is for unlocking your best version and living it over a lifetime? This week, Jay Penton, Men in the Arena's new Director of Outreach, joined Jim Ramos to share how he can help you achieve your best version.
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7 Steps to Become a Leader of Men - Equipping Men in Ten EP 652
Have you ever considered leading men? Odds are that most of the men you know don't have a men's small group, but a consistent group of guys to lock shields with is a game-changer in a man's life. This week, Jim Ramos walks you through the 7 steps needed to launch a team.
Breaking Out of a Marriage Rut w/ Rich Millentree EP 651
Is your marriage stuck in a rut? Do you feel like you're just going through the motions? If your marriage is spinning its wheels but can't seem to get traction, this episode is for you. This week, Rich Millentree, host of the Growing in Marriage podcast, joined Jim Ramos to help you and your wife take the small steps that will get you big traction and headed in the right direction!
5 Mistakes Even Good Dads Make - Equipping Men in Ten EP 650
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If you're listening to this podcast, you're probably a pretty good dad. But there are 5 common mistakes that even GOOD dads make. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos describes the five types of mistaken dad he's seen over and over again in 30 years of ministry, and helps you course-correct if you've fallen into one of the "good Christian dad" errors.
Are you the: Rubberband Dad? Bulldozer Dad? Kids-First Dad? Working Dad? Religious Dad?
Find out in today's episode.
Parenting Through a Crisis w/ Jay Holland EP 649
When a BOMB drops on your life, how do you get through it? Death of a spouse, cancer diagnosis, divorce papers, mental illness - none of us gets through this life unscarred. The question is, when the INEVITABLE crisis comes, who will you lean on? And as a dad, how do you walk your kids through life's hardest circumstances? This week, Jay Holland, the host of the Let's Parent on Purpose podcast, joined Jim Ramos to talk about his journey through crisis with his kids and what got him through it.
Here's the book with the brotherhood accountability questions referenced in the podcast: Character That Counts by Rod Handley.
[If one of your buddies or someone at your church is going through grief, this series of 4 tiny books is designed to help you support him through the process: Journeying Through Grief by Kenneth C. Haugk. Our Men in the Arena board chair keeps a set of these on hand at all times to hand out.]
Television and the Christian Man: Who's the Tool, the TV or You? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 648
How much TV do you watch each night? If you're a typical American, it might add up to more than you think. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos takes a look at television's place in the life of a Christian man.
Some of the ideas in this episode are related to our audio-only interviews with Matt Friedman (Kill the Flatscreen and Discipleship and Your Kids) about his book, Discipleship in the Home.
Achieving Financial Freedom While in the Arena w/ Ryan Arzner EP 647
Financial worries keeping you up at night? A Christian man doesn't have to be a poor man! Ryan Arzner joined Jim Ramos to help you achieve financial freedom in the stress bubble. Resources: The Rat Race Rich Dad CASHFLOW Board Game Tax Free Wealth by Tom Wheelright Rich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki Rich Dad's CASHFLOW Quadrant: Rich Dad's Guide to Financial Freedom by Robert T. Kiyosaki
Jim's Top 17 Books for Men: Your Manly Book List - Equipping Men in Ten EP 646
In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines his top 17 books for men, along with why they are must-reads for every man. His list includes 2 Bibles, 3 biographical adventures, 6 fiction, and 6 nonfiction. Add these books to your reading list.
Here are direct links to his top 17 books for men:
BIBLES:
- The Bible: New Living Translation Filament - complete with all-important ! at John 19:30.
- The Chosen Blended Harmony of the Gospels
BIOGRAPHICAL ADVENTURES:
- Undaunted Courage by Steven Ambrose
- Endurance by Alfred Lansing
- River of Doubt by Candice Millard
FICTION
- One Second After by William Forstchen
- Old Man and the Sea by Earnest Hemingway
- The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandino
- Call of the Wild (White Fang) by Jack London
- This Present (Piercing the...) Darkness by Frank Peretti
- Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkein
NON-FICTION:
- Forgiving Forward: Unleashing the Forgiveness Revolution by Bruce Hebel
- Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
- What Radical Husbands Do by Regi Campbell
- Developing the Leader Within You by John Maxwell
- How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
- Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World by Jim Ramos (Now available in Audiobook format! You can finally listen to SMDT in your car!)
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Masculine Methods Used By Jesus w/ Josh Khachadorian EP 645
Do you believe Jesus is the ultimate man? If so, then His life must hold the keys to how men like YOU should live. This week, author Josh Khachadourian joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, The Standard: Discovering Jesus as the Standard for Masculinity. They explore how Jesus controlled conversations; how He managed His team; practiced self-mastery; and the ancient disciplines, actions, and methods He employed (that you can adopt) to influence those around you.
Why Wife is Greater Than Kids for the Christian Man - Equipping Men in Ten EP 644
Men, who do you prioritize in your family? Who is the most important person in your world? Your wife? Your kids? You mother? Does this change if you’ve been remarried and have kids from your first marriage? In today’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through what the Bible teaches about where you family priorities should lie, and what it means for your family, step-family, wife (1st, 2nd, or 3rd), and kids.
Discerning Truth in a World of Spin [Part 2]: How to See Through the Assumptions That Control You w/ David Richardson Part 2 EP 643
Wedding vs. Marriage: Smart Wedding Choices that Reduce Divorce Rates - Equipping Men in Ten EP 642
The average wedding today costs almost $30,000! And half of the time, that $30K investment is flushed down the toilet in divorce. However, there are wedding planning choices that you can make to reduce the chance of your marriage dissolving and that wedding investment being wasted. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos offers you a new way to look at marriage and your wedding day.
Discerning Truth in a World of Spin [Part 1]: How to See Through the Assumptions That Control You w/ David Richardson EP 641
One Job Only a Man Can Do: Calling Out Femininity in Our Wives and Daughters - Equipping Men in Ten EP 640
Men, do you know that you have a unique role in fostering beauty and femininity in the women in your life? It’s a job that only a man can do. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you 5 things you can say to call out the femininity in your wife, your daughters, and your granddaughters.
Becoming the Man the World Needs w/ Brant Hansen EP 639
The world needs real men, real bad. And there are all sorts of conflicting ideas and messages about what a "real man" is (and is not). This week, radio host and author Brant Hansen joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book The Men We Need: God's Purpose for the Manly Man, the Avid Indoorsman, or Any Man Willing to Show Up and provide you with a specific, actionable picture of what God created you to be as a man - a "Keeper of the Garden” - and what that means for you today.
Is Your Wife Ugly? One Question Every Husband Should Ask - Equipping Men in Ten EP 638
When you look at your wife, what do you see? Is she still the glowing bride you married, or does she look worn out, tired, and joyless? In this week's 10-minute Equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you to ask this important question and what to do about it.
Is It Time for You to Change Careers? How to Know w/ Trent Fisher EP 637
Accepting Your Wife - Equipping Men in Ten EP 636
How to Connect with Your Daughter: 15 Tools for Girl Dads - Part 2 w/ Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield EP 635
The Deeper Meaning Behind Your Marriage Pet Peeves - Equipping Men in Ten EP 634
Is there something about your wife that really bugs you or frustrates you? It may be a sign of something deeper going on. In this 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos unpacks one way that you can change the course of your marriage.
Reboot: No More Christian Nice Guy w/ Paul Coughlin
Men, are you making the mistake of being NICE? Many men in the church mistake goodness with niceness. In this reboot episode, Jim was joined by Paul Coughlin, author of the book No More Christian Nice Guy: When Being Nice--Instead of Good--Hurts Men, Women and Children to teach you the difference between the two.
How to Connect with Your Daughter: 15 Tools for Girl Dads - Part 1 w/ Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield EP 633
Dad, is distance growing between you and your daughter? Was your relationship better when she was a little girl? As she’s growing into a young woman, are you struggling to understand her, or concerned that you might not be getting it right? This week, we brought back one of our all-time favorite guests - Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield (“The Dad Whisperer”). She sat down with Jim Ramos for a deep-dive, two-part podcast where she unpacks all 15 of her tools for girl dads from her book 'Dad, Here’s What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter’s Heart.’ She mentioned that this is the first podcast interview that has ever covered ALL 15 of her practical tools for dads! (They might even help you with your wife, too.) You’ll walk away from this podcast with strategies you can implement with the women in your life TODAY.
Is She Your Soul Mate? 4 Questions Dating Men Should Ask - Equipping Christian Men in Ten EP 632
Single guys, how do you know the woman you’re with is THE ONE? How do you find your soul mate? And should you date a woman who doesn’t believe the same things you do? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos gives you 4 questions you should ask yourself before you choose to marry the girl you are dating.
Reboot: What Radical Husbands Do w/ Regi Campbell
Today we're rebooting one of Jim's favorite episodes, his interview with Regi Campbell, the author of a small but mighty book, 'What Radical Husbands Do.'
Using Pain To Discover Your Best Self w/ Shane Sunn EP 631
Has your hobby gotten out of control? How do you know if it has? What are the signs when you are out of balance? How do you protect your children and your marriage from your passions? This week, author Shane Sunn joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, 'Moon and Sunn: Memoir of a Fishing Legend and His Son’ and help you consider whether your pastimes are causing harm in your life and family, and if so, what to do about it.
How a Christian Man Should Treat His Wife - Equipping Men in Ten EP 630
Why do so many marriages fail? How should a Christian man treat his wife to help his marriage thrive? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the principles of the “Eight-Cow Wife” and the “Five Star Man” to help you understand how you as a Christian man should treat your wife.
The OG Christian Series #1: Stability of the OG - Jim Ramos at The MAG
This is the first of six installments in our “OG (“Original Gangster” aka “Old Guy”) Series. In it, we'll take a deep dive into each of the six expectations of “older men” (aka Elder Statesmen) listed in Titus 2:2, “Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, (sound) in love, (and sound) in perseverance.” This week, Jim Ramos will teach you about the STABILITY of the OG.
Reboot: Escaping Performance-Based Religion w/ Wayne Jacobsen Ep 628
Are you stuck in thinking 'do good, get good, do bad, get bad?' Performance- and works-based religion are in the heart of every Christian man. In this classic episode, co-author of 'The Shack’ Wayne Jacobsen joined Jim Ramos to discuss how you can avoid the trap of performance-based religion in your own life.
5 Ways to Tech-Proof Your Kids - Equipping Men in Ten EP 627
Reboot: Measure of a Man w/ Gene Getz
In this classic episode of the Men in the Arena podcast, Gene Getz joined Jim Ramos to discuss his classic book, Measure of a Man. How do you measure up?
Overcoming the Invisible Marriage-Killer: How to Fix the Elephant in Your Marriage w/ Jason Karampatsos EP 626
Has your "happily ever after turned into struggling to keep your marriage alive? You might have begun your marriage with an incomplete picture of each other that is silently, invisibly destroying your relationship. This week, Jason Karampatsos joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "The Elephant in the Marriage." This episode will help you discover what is trampling your marital satisfaction and how to fix it.
(Jason's previous two appearances on the Men in the Arena podcast are in episodes 239 and 240.)
10 Things Great Dads Do (That Average Dads Don’t) - Equipping Men in Ten EP 625
Are you a great dad? How do you know? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos gives you a 10-item checklist to help you know if you’re average, mediocre dad or an excellent one.
Bonus: How Clean is Your Cup? - Jim Ramos at The MAG
In this bonus recording of Jim Ramos speaking at a local gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon, he outlines his new theme for the year - "Clean the Cup" - and what it means to the Godly man.
Your Wife Doesn’t Communicate Like You: How to Leverage Your Communication Styles for a Happier Marriage w/ Bill Farrel EP 624
Fighting? Miscommunication? Hurt feelings? Ever feel like you and your wife are speaking completely different languages? That’s because you and your wife have different communication styles. This week, author Bill Farrel joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, ‘Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti.” He explains why communication seemed so much easier while you were dating, and teaches you to leverage your differences to make a happier, more solid marriage. Understanding how God made men and women to communicate will change your marriage forever.
The Godly Man’s Habits: 7 Marks of a Godly Man - Equipping Men in Ten EP 623
Christian men, there are 7 specific habits that Godly men build into their lives. Are they built into yours? On this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares what a Godly man does, and helps you identify whether you have a blind spot that is holding you back in your faith.
Bonus: Who Are You? How to Figure Out Your Unique Purpose - Jim Ramos at the MAG
In this bonus episode, Jim Ramos asks WHO ARE YOU? God has a unique design for each man. Here's how to figure out yours. We will be look at the story of Moses in Exodus 3-4 to answer the three most important questions a man can ask:
- Who am I?
- What was I made for?
- What am I going to do about it?
The McMinnville Area Gathering (MAG) is a weekly Men in the Arena gathering held in McMinnville, Oregon. Each week, Jim Ramos speaks to this local gathering of men in his community, and we share his teaching with you.
Defying the Doctors: ‘You’ll Never Do Another Push-Up’ to 65,000 w/ Dustin Newman EP 622
When Dustin Newman was 22, a devastating motorcycle accident tore off half his leg and ruined his left arm. The doctors said he’d never do a normal, full push-up again. In 2022, he joined the Men in the Arena push-up challenge and did 65,000! This week, Dustin joined Jim Ramos to dig deeper into his inspiring story of overcoming the odds with God’s help. You’ll walk away from this episode inspired and ready to push through the challenges and tough circumstances you are facing today.
MANLAWS: 101 Ways to Get Your Man Card Revoked (and Rules to Live By) - Equipping Men in Ten EP 621
Reboot: Your Wife IS Crazy! (So Are You) Love and Respect w/ Emerson Eggerichs
In this classic episode from 2018 (back when the podcast was the “Man Card” podcast), author Emerson Eggerichs joined Jim Ramos to discuss his foundational book for marriage, "Love and Respect.” He describes the “crazy cycle,” where a marriage begins spiraling out of control, and teaches you to stop the cycle in its tracks.
The Godly Man’s Greatest Asset (It’s Not Love) EP # 620
Do you have the Godly man’s greatest asset? While Godly men should love others, there is actually a more foundational trait that comes before it. In this week’s extended teaching, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what to look for in yourself and other men. If you're looking at a Godly man, this will be the first clue.
Reboot: How Young Men Can Choose Greatness w/ Gary Chapman
In this classic episode from 2020, Jim Ramos was joined by author Gary Chapman, author of "The 5 Love Languages" to discuss his book for young men, "Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions that Brave Young Men Make.” This episode is a great opportunity for you young men to learn from one of the giants of Christian ministry.
The Godly Man’s Mission: 5 Identifying Traits of a Godly Man - Equipping Men in Ten EP 619
What is a Godly man? There are 5 things Godly men do that set them apart from the rest. If you are a follower of Christ, God has an assignment for you. He created you for a specific mission that you are uniquely designed for. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the 5 identifying traits of a Godly man and how to uncover the purpose God has laid out just for you.
Family Board Meetings: The Simple 3-Step Method for Connecting With Your Kids w/ Jim Sheils EP 618
Dad, you have just 18 summers to create a lasting connection with your children! Do you feel distant from one of your kids right now? Are you mistaking physical proximity for quality time? This week, author Jim Sheils joined Jim Ramos to teach you a simple, 3-step method to create connections with your kids that will last a lifetime.
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Grow as a Man of Prayer: 5 Time-Tested Tips - Equipping Men in Ten EP 617
You know you SHOULD pray, but do you have trouble blocking out consistent time for prayer? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares 5 time-tested, simple ways for you to become a man of prayer.
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Reboot: Are You Wild at Heart? w/ John Eldredge
In this classic episode from 2017 (back when we used to be called the “Man Card” podcast and the ministry was called “The Great Hunt for God") Jim Ramos was joined by author John Eldredge to discuss his groundbreaking book, Wild at Heart. Before this interview started, John saw the rack on the wall over Jim’s shoulder and asked, “who killed the baby buck?”
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Digital Rehab: Does Your Family Need a Screen Time Detox? w/ Brad Huddleston EP 616
Is your family addicted to screens? Are you feeling the pressure to get your kid a smart phone? This week, Brad Huddleston, author of Digital Cocaine joined Jim Ramos for a second time to make a case for a drastic reduction in your family’s screen time and to help you decide if your family needs a digital detox.
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Grow in the Word: The Easiest 4-Step Method to Become a Man of ONE BOOK EP 615
Do you struggle to be in the Word most days of the week? Do wish you knew the Word of God better than anyone in your family? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you personal, time-tested steps to help you become a "Man of One Book."
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Bonus: Are You a Man of Your Word? Jim Ramos at The MAG
Why is it so difficult for you to stay true to your word?
Weak men communicate weakly. Their communication is soft and non-committal. They text first, then email, and use face-to-face or a phone call as a last resort. They make phone calls but leave no messages. They say “maybe” instead of “no.” They say, “I’ll try” knowing they will not. They say “Yes” knowing they will never follow through because they are too cowardly to say what they mean, when what they mean is, “No.” We used to live in a world where a man’s word and a handshake meant something. Now we need contracts and lawsuits to get weak males to follow through. The man of God is different. The man of God is a man of his word—or he should be. It is time to go old school. It is time to return to the words and example of Jesus who said what he meant, meant what he said, and did what he said he would do.
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Calm Parenting: Discipline Without Anger w/ Kirk Martin EP 614
Dad, are you tired of yelling at your kids? Does your child seem to push all your buttons? Do you struggle with how to respond to rebellious or disobedient kids in a way that is loving but also holds the line? In this week's episode, Kirk Martin, host of the Calm Parenting podcast, joins Jim Ramos to teach you how to regain your calm and discipline your kids WITHOUT the anger.
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What's YOUR Hero Story? Why Your Story Matters: MitA's 365 in 365 Challenge EP 613
Have you made changes in your life? Changes that are so significant that your loved ones are starting to notice? Has God used the ministry of Men in the Arena to change your world? If that's you, we want to hear your story. This year, Men in the Arena is tackling a new Hero Story challenge, and we need your help to hit our goal!
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Bonus: What Does It Mean to Be a Man of God? Jim Ramos at The MAG
On vacation recently, I (Jim) was asked if I were a “Christian.” I strategically responded, “No, I am not but I do love and follow Jesus.” Why did I choose those words? Because I have found that as Americans we (it may be global, but my experience is limited) throw around the word “Christian” without recognizing its significance. Here, the word Christian is nearly synonymous with a politically conservative, gun-owning, blue-jeans-wearing, homeowner, rural American.
These could not be further the actual truth of this radical word. The word Christian means “Christ-one” or someone who is one with Jesus. To follow Jesus is a life-changing, plan-wrecking, purpose-giving, heart-altering event, and a lifelong process.
To water it down to an in-the-moment decision that somehow transcends life into eternity is manipulative at best, deceptive at worst, and contrary to everything the Bible teaches about salvation.
Nowhere in Scripture did Jesus ever call his followers to make decisions for Christ. He called them to make disciples of Christ. Matthew 28;16-20
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Quit or Finish Strong? The ONE Deciding Factor EP 612
What separates those who quit from those who finish? Knowledge? Giftedness? Raw strength? We looked at the 41 guys who finished our 65,000 Push-Up Challenge and found their characteristics in common. This week, 12 of those finishers, including Rod Handley - the guy whose push-up journey after his cancer diagnosis inspired the challenge in the first place (EP 505)- joined Jim Ramos to identify what kept them going to the finish line.
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Goal-Setting 101: Lessons from 45 Years of Achieving and Failing Personal Goals - Equipping Men in Ten EP 611
Are your New Year's Resolutions abandoned already? Ever struggle to set goals you will actually achieve? Do you know how to work with God to decide on your goals? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines the lessons he's learned over four decades of goal-setting, both from successes and failures. He outlines some ideas he's taught before, and also some new techniques he has used in recent years when a goal requires forming a new habit.
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Bonus: Hospitality Isn't What You Think: The Hospitable Man, Jim Ramos at The MAG
You've been taught 'hospitality' all wrong! When Jim Ramos discovered what it truly meant 2 years ago, it wrecked him. He realized that over 30 years of ministry, he hadn't been getting hospitality right, and even taught it to his kids wrong. In this episode, we hope you get a clearer picture of what hospitality really is and isn't. This will change what you do TODAY. The MAG is a weekly gathering of men in McMinnville, OR. This episode is from the Full Capacity Man Series.
Why the Intersectionality Worldview is Contrary to Biblical Christianity w/ Elmo Winters EP 611
Are you wondering where buzz words like “privilege,” feeling “safe,” “antiracism,” and replacing wife with “partner” come from? These come from a worldview called "Intersectionality." This week, Elmo Winters joined Jim Ramos to make a case for why this worldview is antithetical to biblical Christianity.
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Why You Can Trust the Bible - Part 5 - Equipping Men in Ten, EP 610
In part Five of our series 'Why You Can Trust the Bible,' pastor Jim Ramos will share why you should trust the Bible.
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Bonus: Sword, Shield or Cross? The Protector, Jim Ramos at The MAG
When should a Christian man fight, and when should he turn the other cheek? You've been taught the meaning of "turn the other cheek" wrong. By the end of this episode, you'll be able to answer these two questions: What does it look like for a Christian man to protect others? In what ways do you protect those you love, the weak, and the powerless?
The MAG is a weekly gathering of men in McMinnville, OR. This episode is from the Full Capacity Man Series.
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Igniting Your Inner Man's-Man w/ Brian VanCleave EP 609
Does following Jesus make you a weaker, softer man? Ever heard men say that they won’t receive Jesus because it'll make them 'less of a man?' Maybe you've hesitated to go all-in for the same reason. This week, author Brian VanCleave joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, 'Jesus, A Man's-Man.' By the end of this episode, you'll understand why Jesus makes you more of a man than you could imagine, and how to ignite the man's-man within you.
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Challenge Yourself and Your Family in 2023. Here's How! - Equipping Men in Ten EP 608
Looking for a way to pull your family together in 2023? Want to challenge yourself like never before? Is your body begging you to do something to reclaim lost ground? This week, Jim Ramos introduces our 2023 fitness challenge, the Coast-to-Coast Team Challenge. By the end of this episode, you'll know how to use this challenge to achieve both your fitness and family leadership goals.
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Love Better: Assessing the Strength of Your Marriage w/ Les Parrott EP 607
This interview went off the rails, in the best possible way! In this episode, Les Parrott joined Jim Ramos to talk about a book, but instead they ended up discussing his new tool called "Better Love" and how you can assess your marriage's strengths and weaknesses. By the end of this episode, you'll have a better idea of where your marriage is at.
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Reboot: How to Make New Year's Goals You'll Actually Reach - Equipping Men in Ten 606
Are your goals SMART?
- Specific
- Measurable
- Attainable
- Realistic
- Time Sensitive
In order to reach your goals these are very important things to consider.
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Are You in the Men in the Arena Army or the Bleachers? How to Tell EP 605
Do you know the difference between a fan and a follower? Our world defines 'follower' wrong. In this episode, Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos explains the difference between a fan and a follower, gives you some tests to figure out which you are, and brings some very special guests on to the show to illustrate what being part of the Men in the Arena Army looks like. If you have supported Men in the Arena in any way over the past year - through prayer, virtual teams, merch, donations, hero story submissions, etc. you don't want to miss this episode.
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Reboot: What Does Christmas Leadership Look Like? Practical Tips - Equipping Men in Ten EP 604
Jim gives you some practical things you can do this Christmas to keep Christ in Christmas. You can also find some great ideas from past Christmas episodes. Check out Episodes 304, 306, and 405.
The Bethlehem Star on Youtube.
Boots on the Ground:
What do you do to bring your family closer to Jesus on Christmas?
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7 Traits That Separate Strong Finishers From Wrong Finishers w/ Bill Newton EP 603
Do you have what it takes to finish strong? Ever wondered why so many men today finish wrong and so few finish life well? We even see it in the Bible! If you want to be one of the few men who finish life with an exclamation point instead of a whimper, you'll need 7 critical traits. This week, Bill Newton joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, 'ENDURE: A Christian Man’s Guide to Finishing Strong.' This episode will help you diagnose if you're on the right path, teach you the 7 characteristics that separate strong finishers from wrong finishers, and help you get what you'll need to be a man who runs his race well all the way to the finish line.
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12 Days of LEADING Christmas: 12 Ways to Point Your Family to Christ This Season - Equipping Men in Ten EP 602
Are you tired of your family's Christmas being all about gifts and spending money and not about Christ? Do you get to the end of the season and realize that, despite your good intentions, it was still all about the STUFF? This equipping episode is your Christmas solution. In it, we lay out 12 practical ideas for how you can draw your family closer to Christ. By the end of this episode, you'll know what to do differently this year!
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Her Body, Our Choice: Abortion's Devastating Impact on Men, and What YOU Can Do About It w/ Victoria Robinson EP 601
Are you a man whose partner had an abortion and you're struggling to heal? Are you on the fence about whether life begins at conception? Or do you wonder if, as a man, you have the right to have an opinion about this at all? This week, Victoria Robinson joined Jim Ramos to talk about her book, They Lied to Us, Too, which describes the impact that abortion has on millions of "Forgotten Fathers." They discuss the scientific and Scriptural evidence for life at conception, startling statistics that show God at work in unwanted pregnancies, and what you should do as a man if the abortion has already happened.
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Why You Can Trust the Bible - Part 4 - Equipping Men in Ten, EP 600
In part four of our series 'Why You Can Trust the Bible,' pastor Jim Ramos will show you how both external and internal evidence makes the Bible the most RELIABLE literary work ever written.
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10 Tools for your Fathering Toolbox w/ Kent Evans EP 599
Are you a dad raised by a single mom? Are you a dad raised by a father who was there but not really there? Are you a dad raised by a father who wasn't a Christian? Thousands of Christian men are raising families but have no idea what they're doing. If that's you, this week, Kent Evans joins Jim Ramos to help you solve that. They talk about his book, “Bring the Hammer," and Kent introduces you to 10 new tools for your fatherhood tool belt. By the end of this episode, you'll be a better dad.
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Why You Can Trust the Bible - Part 3 - Equipping Christian Men in Ten EP 598
The Uniqueness of the Bible
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Bonus: Jim-Ramos Preaching at Yamhill Christian Church: You're Getting Hospitality All Wrong
Jim Ramos preaches on "The Hospitable Man" from Titus 1:7-8 and 1 Timothy 3:2. What you thought was hospitality may be blown up by what the scripture actually means.
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Why You Can Trust the Bible - Part 2 - Equipping Christian Men in Ten EP 597
If the Bible was written by mere men, then how can you call it the inspired Word of God? In Part 2 of his series on trusting the Bible, Jim Ramos explains why you can trust that the Bible is from Him, and can trust how the church fathers determined what made it into the Bible.
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Preparing Yourself for the Hill You'll Die On w/ Admiral William “Dean” Lee EP 596
Christian man, at what point will you say 'this is the hill I will die on?' It's time for us to rise up, men! It's time for the men of God to stop being silent! If you're sick and tired of being sick and tired, you are going to love this podcast episode. This week, Vice Admiral William “Dean” Lee joined Jim Ramos to help you prepare your mind to "throw your stars down" and be ready to sacrifice it all.
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Why You Can Trust the Bible - Part 1 - Equipping Christian Men in Ten EP 595
How do you know that we can trust the Bible? How do you know the Bible is true? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, the first in a series, pastor Jim Ramos walks you through 4 claims the Bible makes about itself and how they can help you trust the Bible.
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Bonus: Jim Ramos Preaching at Hermiston Nazarene Church on Psalm 46:10
Jim Ramos is speaking at Hemiston Nazarene Church from Psalm 46:10. Jim share how he listens to the voice of God. When was the last time you went into a quiet place to hear from God?
How to hear from God
- Heart of a Champion, Are you all in for Jesus?
- Pencil of a Sharp Shooter, Carry and notepad and pen or pencil.
- Eyes of a Hunter, Look for God in the midst of life.
- Ears of the Preyed upon. Listen for God’s voice.
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Using Your 3 Masculine Strengths to Change Your World w/ Elliott Hulse EP 594
What does it mean to be a strong man in a culture that demonizes masculinity? This week strongman, strength coach and fitness YouTuber Elliot Hulse joins Jim Ramos to teach you to harness three areas of masculine focus to impact your world.
https://www.elliotthulse.com/home
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Your Wife is NOT Your Partner: Marriage Covenant vs. Contract - Equipping Christian Men in Ten EP 593
Christian man, DON'T call your wife your "partner." This week, Jim Ramos explains why the trend of married men calling their wives their "partner" is actually detrimental to Christian marriages, and explains in detail the difference between a marriage contract and the Biblical Covenant of marriage.
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Becoming a Great Dad When YOU Didn't Have a Father: How to Overcome Your Childhood, and Mistakes to Avoid w/ Joe Martin EP 592
Did you grow up without a father? Maybe your parents were divorced at an early age, and you only had part-time access to your dad. Maybe your “dad” was little more than a sperm donor who dipped out when he was unwilling to accept his fathering responsibility. Maybe your parents are still married, but you grew up with a father who was consumed with work. He was physically present but never really there. In this episode, Joe Martin joined us to teach you how to overcome these setbacks to become a great father. Joe grew up fatherless in the "hood." He shares his candid journey, hard lessons learned, and how you can reap the rewards of great fathering.
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Real Men Show Up: A Lesson from Jesus - Equipping Men in Ten EP 591
Christian man, are you TIRED? Are you stressed? We don't call that 20-year period where you're raising your family The Stress Bubble for nothing. You're not alone - Jesus was tired, too. But he showed up. This week, Jim Ramos walks you through a time when Jesus was tired, and what He did. He outlines three ways that you can show up like Jesus.
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Getting Up Strong When Life Knocks You Down Hard w/ Chris Norton EP 590
Are you going through tough times? Has life knocked you down and you're struggling to get up? Or, maybe you're wondering if you have what it takes if bad things come your way. In this week's interview, Jim was joined by Chris Norton, a young man who was literally knocked down and was physically unable to get up. His story is so inspiring that Netflix produced a documentary about his journey to get back up again. His story will equip and motivate you to get back on your feet.
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The 4 Phases of Fatherhood: Which Dad Are You? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 589
Dad, which phase of fatherhood are you in? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos walks you through the 4 different phases of fatherhood. Each phase has different challenges, benefits, and goals. By the end of this episode, you'll know which type of Father you currently are and what your goal should be for this season as Dad.
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Bonus Episode: How Dads Can Become Strong Men in Dangerous Times - Jim-Ramos on the Dad.Work Podcast
On this episode, Jim Ramos was interviewed by Dad.Work Podcast.
Jim talks about how dads can become strong men in dangerous times, including the four phases of fatherhood, the ascent, peak, and descent of the masculine journey, what kids need from their fathers, and so much more. This interview fired up Curt Storring and Jim imparted great wisdom.
Defeating Shame: 4 Practices to Eliminate Shame and Addiction from Your Life w/ Ted Shimer EP 588
Are you finding an addictive behavior hard to kick once and for all? Do you have a negative mental script that you end up replaying over and over? Ted Shimer, the author of Freedom Fight, returned to dig deeper into one of the toughest roots of addiction - shame - and to teach you four key ways to eradicate the shame that is keeping you stuck.
After you listen to our interview head over to the Freedom Fight website for your free thirty-day trial. thefreedomfight.org/30day.
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Prayer Warrior: How to Pray Using the Lord's Prayer Outline - Equipping Men in Ten EP 587
You've heard the Lord's Prayer countless times, but did you know it provides a step-by-step outline for your daily prayers? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor and Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos walks you through how to use the Lord's Prayer as a model for your own prayers, explaining how Jesus' words should impact what you pray today.
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Forgiving the Unforgivable: 7 Steps to Overcome Your Bitterness and Find Freedom w/ Bruce Hebel EP 586
We know that we're supposed to forgive, but what if someone has wronged you so deeply that you don't know where to start? Are you ready to find freedom from the bitterness that's been dragging you down? In this week's interview, Dr. Bruce Hebel joined us to teach you how to forgive using his 7 Protocols of Forgiveness. You've heard it before: "Bitterness is the poison we drink hoping someone else dies." You've been drinking poison, brother, but this episode is your 7-step antidote.
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The Prayer Warrior: 4 Pro Tips from Jesus on Prayer - Equipping Men in Ten EP 585
If we want to know how to effectively pray, we should go straight to the Pro, right? Jesus did more than give us The Lord's Prayer, he also spoke and modeled four ways to pray that made His prayers more effective. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, author and pastor Jim Ramos walks you through 4 prayer tips drawn straight from the words and actions of Jesus Christ. By the end of this episode, you'll know how to pray more like the Pro.
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Opportunity Leadership: STOP Planning to Start Getting Results at Work and Home w/ Dr. Roger Parrott EP 584
The man who fails to plan is planning to fail, right? But what if your plans are actually getting in the way of what God wants you to achieve at work and with your family? Dr. Roger Parrott joined us to teach you Opportunity Leadership - a new model of leadership that puts traditional planning on its head, but will actually equip you to achieve your mission as a husband, father, and Godly man by 'capturing change instead of creating it.'
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Prayer Warrior: The Easiest 5-Step System for How to Pray - Insight from Psalm 46:10 EP 583
Did you know that prayer is NOT talking to God? We tend to think that prayer is just an inner monologue directed at the Almighty, but that couldn't be further from the truth. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, author and pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what prayer is and isn't, and a simple 5-step process you can use to connect with God at a deeper level.
Psalm 46:10's 5-step process for prayer:
#1: Be still and know that I am God
#2: Be still and know that I am
#3: Be still and know
#4: Be still
#4: Be
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A 90-Day Reboot to Your Best Self: 7 Steps to Get You Back on Track w/ Frank Rich EP 582
Are you ready for a reboot in your life? There are multiple times in life when a man needs to reboot, recalibrate, or pivot. The loss of a job. A terrifying health prognosis. A moral or ethical failure. The man who refuses to pivot is the man of mediocrity. In this episode, Frank Rich joined us to teach you how to walk through 7 steps over 90 days to get back to the man God made you to be.
Frank Rich is a former bodybuilder, entrepreneur, podcast host of the Superhuman Life, and men's health and recovery coach. He is the founder of Rebuilt Recovery, helping men recover from the habits and failures that are holding them back to rebuild their lives.
Boots on the Ground:
Buy a journal and start the journey of writing down your thoughts from the day.
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The Prayer Warrior: How to Know When God is Speaking to You - Hearing and Discerning God's Voice - Equipping Men in Ten EP 581
Have you ever wondered if that's God speaking to you or just indigestion? Ever worry that maybe the internal voice you're hearing in prayer is not God's voice at all, but rather your own desires? People talk about receiving messages from God, but when He's not sky-writing in the clouds, how do you know it's from Him? In this week's Equipping Men in Ten, author and pastor Jim Ramos teaches you 4 Biblical tests to tell if what you're hearing is from God or not. He also gives you 4 questions you can ask yourself to make sure that the messages you receive aren't just your own will or negative outside influence. By the end of this 10 minute equipping episode, you'll be able to confidently hear and discern the voice of God in your own life.
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How to Make Your Life Matter: Achieving Man's Silent Quest for Significance w/ Aaron Walker EP 580
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The Prayer Warrior: 4 Things You Need to Hear God's Voice - Equipping Men in Ten EP 579
Are you a prayer warrior? Are your prayers powerful and effective? In this first episode in a series equipping you to pray like a warrior, Jim Ramos will teach you the four things you need to have in place in order to hear from God clearly. These four things are PREREQUISITES for the strong Christian man who hears God. Do you have them?
Four Prerequisites to Hearing the Voice of God
Heart of a Champion
Are you ALL IN for Jesus? Does he have all you. Has he wrecked your plans for His?
Eyes of a Hunter
Drive with me for 5 minutes and you will be scared. I am always looking for wild game. Shanna is as good as me now out of necessity. God is all over the place if we would take the time to hunt for Him.
Pencil of a Sharpshooter
If I don’t have my notepad and pen, I have a Fraternity Dude named Siri. He is always taking my notes and sending emails as God speaks to my heart.
Ears of the Hunted
Big ears & Eyes to the side. Are you
aware? Is your head always in the game? You’re alert as if your soul depended on it? Look around. No rush. What do you smell? What do you feel? What do you see? What are you touching? In THIS moment what is God saying to you through these things?
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Porn: Your Scientific Path to Freedom: How to Eradicate the 6 Roots that are Keeping You Stuck w/ Ted Shimer EP 578
Welcome to our best porn podcast. Ever. Ted Shimer wrote the best book Jim has read so far on porn addiction and how to get free, and the interview didn’t disappoint. Here, Shimer teaches you the 6 scientific roots of your porn use, and gives you practical steps for eradicating them from your life for good. 500+ podcast episodes make for a lot of books and interviews about porn, but this one is Jim’s favorite, HANDS DOWN.
Ted Shimer has mentored men since 1991. He is a Dallas Seminary-trained Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional-Supervisor who helps people overcome the bondage of pornography in the context of making disciples.
Ted is the Founder of The Freedom Fight, an online porn addiction recovery program, and the author of the book, The Freedom Fight, The New Drug and the Truths that Set Us Free, which is our topic for today.
Boots on the Ground:
- Go back and review the six roots that lead a person into porn and identify which ones mostly affect you.
- Lock down the smartphones in the hands of your kids!
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Which Are You, Follower or Participant? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 577
In life, we get to choose whether we are going to sit back and watch or get into the game. We want to challenge you, men, to get into the fight.
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Dad, How 15 Minutes a Day Can Change Your Family Tree w/ Mirthell Mitchell EP 576
In a disconnected age, how does a family connect? Mirthell Mitchell, founder of the 7-million-follower Onyx family brand, shared with us how God brought him to a place to connect with his kids in a new (old?) way that just takes 15 minutes each day.
Mirthell also told an AMAZING story of how his own father responded to his teenage rebellion (drugs, partying, wrecking a car) in a way that ended up turning his life around. We discussed how the Holy Spirit can guide and inspire us to parent each child differently. If you have a rebellious teen, this is a can't-miss conversation.
Mirthell is the founder of the Onyx brand (and family), which is an African-American family of entertainers and entrepreneurs with over seven million followers across social media.
Before going into the entertainment industry, he was a pastor and a Family Therapist and still has a passion for bringing families together. He has a YouTube Original show called Onyx Family Dinner among many other things. He has partnered with the likes of people like Dr. Oz, Matthew McConaughey, and was invited as guest on the 2021 Presidential Inauguration program.
“Let’s get our Boots on the Ground”:
Start doing one meal a week together as a family. Eventually, your goal is to do one meal a day during weekdays.
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REBOOT: Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Finishing Strong EP 575
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials
Finishing Strong Book/Organization
Brett Clemmer (Ep 233) No Man Left Behind
Clair Hoover (Ep 417) NCMM
Jim Whitmore (Ep 449) NCMM
Patrick Morely (Ep 366) Christian Man
Bud Lindstrand (Ep 219) MODA
Jack Deere (Ep 247) Even in our Darkness
Gene Getz (Ep 253) Life Essentials Bible
Gene Getz (Ep 255) Measure of a Man
Jerry Boykin (Ep 318) Never Surrender
Ron Deal (Ep 350) Smart Stepdad
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REBOOT: Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Leading Courageously EP 573
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials
Leading Courageously Book
- My favorite episode came from here
1. Bill Farrel (Ep 201) Red Hot Monogamy
2. Jason Karampatsos (Ep 239) Elephant in the Room
3. Gary Chapman (Ep 344) 5 Love Languages
4. Don Minter (Ep 178) 31 Days
5. Willard Harley (Ep 128) His Needs Her Needs
6. Michelle Watson Canfield (Ep 443) Let’s Talk
7. Wess Stafford (Ep 48) Too Small to Ignore, Just a Minute
8. Emerson Eggerichs (Ep 361) Love and Respect
9. Regi Campbell (Ep 293) Radical Husbands
10. Paul and Virginia Friesen (Ep 421) Interview w/Jim & Shanna
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Managing Happiness: How Business Principles Can Improve Your Marriage w/ David Henzel EP 572
You go into work with a plan, why not use the same strategies to achieve happiness at home? Entrepreneur David Henzel joined us to teach you to apply 6 business principles to your family life to maximize your effectiveness in your marriage and parenting.
David Henzel is the CEO of Upcoach and an entrepreneur for over 20 years. His passion is to help individuals and their organizations reach their full potential. Aside from Upcoach (Coaching Delivery System), he has a small portfolio of companies and his passion project Managing Happiness (Peak Performance Group Coaching for entrepreneurs.)
https://www.managinghappiness.com/
“Let’s get our Boots on the Ground”:
What’s next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard?
Here it is. Sit down with your wife and identify ONE area of your marriage that needs immediate attention.
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REBOOT: Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Pursuing God Passionately EP 571
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials
Pursuing God Passionately Book
10. Seth Barnes (Ep 184) World Race
9. Jeff Deyo (Ep 269) Awakening Pure Worship
8. Michael Thompson (Ep 195,197) Heart of a Warrior
7. Robert Lewis (Ep 342) Raising a Modern Day
6. Greg Matthews (Ep 305) Wild Awakenings
5. Kenny Joyner (Ep 445,447) Without a Father
4. Bill Perkins (Ep 227) Jesus Story
3. Wayne Jacobsen (Ep 265) The God Journey/Shack
2. Justin Overlander (Ep 441) The Chosen
1. Rick Robinson (Ep 479) His Story
REBOOT: Living a Life That is Beyond Average w/ Robert Owen EP 570
Most men live an average or below-average life. What does it take to live above average? You will love this episode with Robert Owen!
Robert Hamilton Owens is a man of many hats. He’s been and done a lot – mountain climbing, radio and TV personality, keynote speaker, minister, Ironman, philanthropist, triathlete, Special Ops Pararescue man, and father of five – to name a few. But of all the pursuits he’s undertaken, there’s one title that best describes this literal force of nature: Robert is The Fittest and Mentally Toughest 66-Year-Old in the World. Period.
Robert was born and raised in Orange County, California without ever having met his parents. Adopted by a California judge, Robert was raised as a special-needs child who was unable to play kickball with his classmate due to the corrective shoes he was required to wear through sixth grade.
Boots on the Ground: What are your 3 take-aways from this podcast? What are you going to do with it?
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REBOOT: Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Fighting Apathy EP 569
Jim lists his Top 10 Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials of Manhood
Fighting Apathy Book
10. Kenny Luck (EP 164) Dangerous Good
9. Paul Cole (Ep 338) Just a Bartender
8. Stephen Mansfield (Ep 130) God and Guinness
7. Elmo Winters (Ep 374) Overcoming Racism
6. Clarence Shuler (Ep 435) Keeping your wife
5. Paul Friesen (Ep 297) Lovin’ Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain’t No Jesus.
4. Todd Wilson (Ep 380) Family Man Ministry
3. Paul Coughlin (Ep 316) No More Christian Nice Guy
2. Brad Huddleston (Ep 453) Digital Cocaine
1. Allen Schwartz (Ep 281) Leadville 100
REBOOT: Imperfect Parenting, and How to Be Good at It w/ Dave Wilson EP 568
Dave Wilson joined us to talk through his biggest mistakes as a dad:
TOP FIVE PARENTING MISTAKES
Mistake #1: I left my soul at the office
Mistake #2: I was nicer to the mailman than to my kids
Mistake #3: I forgot the Bullseye
Mistake #4: I neglected my marriage
Mistake #5: I didn’t hug enough
He also walked us through what fatherhood looks like in its different seasons:
The Four Stages of Parenting:
1. Discipline stage (ages one to five)
2. Training stage (ages five to twelve)
3. Coaching stage (ages twelve to eighteen)
4. Friendship stage (ages eighteen plus)
For the past twenty-five years, Dave Wilson and his wife Ann have been featured speakers at Family Life’s Weekend to Remember®, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country. Dave and Ann host a radio show for Family Life with featured guests on marriage/relationships/money and parenting.
Dave has served as the Detroit Lions Chaplain for thirty-three years. They have three grown sons, three daughters-in-law, and four grandchildren.
Dave and his wife co-authored the book, No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality which is our topic for today’s discussion.
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Boots on the Ground: Listen to Family Life Today.
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REBOOT: Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Protecting Integrity EP 567
Jim lists his Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials of Manhood
Protecting integrity - The Trailhead
10. Sam Black (Ep 334) Covenant Eyes
9. Joe Martin (EP 261) Real Men Connect
8. Matt Loehr (EP 263) Whose Got your back
7. Bill Hendricks (EP 352) Men of Influence
6. Rod Handley (EP 394, 396) Character that Counts
5. Tom Wilson (EP 411) Five Essential to Engage
4. Bill Perkins (EP 88, 227) 6 Rules, Battles, Jesus Story
3. Rick Johnson (EP 301) Power of a Man
2. Earl Wilson (Ep 126) Restoring the Fallen
1. John Eldredge (EP 94) Wild at Heart
REBOOT: Winning the Digital Cocaine Battle and Navigating Through It With Your Family EP 566
Brad Huddleston joined us with some alarming statistics regarding screentime and our kids' use of technology, what it does to their brains, and what to do about it.
Brad Huddleston is an internationally respected speaker, consultant, teacher and author on the important issues such as technology and culture. He has worked with universities, schools, churches and law enforcement, and spoken to hundreds of thousands around the world on both the advantages of well-used technology tools and the dangers of the growing trend toward technology addiction. Brad has an on-going collaboration with the Bureau of Market Research (BMR) and its Neuroscience Division at the University of South Africa. Brad has a degree in Computer Science and a Diploma of Biblical Studies and is a credentialed minister in the Acts 2 Alliance (A2A) movement in Australia. He's also a frequent guest on radio and television and author of Digital Cocaine: A Journey Toward iBalance and The Dark
Side of Technology: Restoring Balance in the Digital Age. Brad and his wife, Beth, live in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley in Virginia (USA).
REBOOT: What is the Apex of Manhood? EP 565 w/ Jim Ramos
If there is a creator and He created you, don't you think he has a plan for your life? And in order for you to know what that plan is shouldn't you pursue the one who made you? What are some ways you pursue God?
REBOOT: Keeping Your Wife Your Best Friend w/ Clarence Shuler EP 564
In one of Jim's favorite marriage episodes, Clarence Shuler joined us to teach you how to make your wife your best friend.
Dr. Clarence Shuler was filmed as a marriage expert for one session of Oprah’s “Love Goals” reality show in 2020. He & his wife Brenda are members of FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team. He serves on the Fatherhood CoMission Board. Clarence partners with Gary Chapman and speaks at The Five Love Languages and Date Night events. He has authored 10 books including our book for today, Making your Wife your Best Friend.
"Conflict is not about winning. It’s about understanding."
"If couples prays together, they have a 1 in 10000 chance of divorcing."
"How I treat the gift (my wife) is a reflection of my worship for God."
Boots on the Ground
Ask yourself this question, and your wife. Are you a pleasure to be married to?
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How to Help a Buddy in Crisis: Learning to Shut Up w/ Joe Bradley EP 563
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.
Joe Bradley and his wife, Debbie, have been married for twenty-six years, have two grown children, and are now living life somewhere beyond the ‘stress bubble’ years and those of retirement. A Colorado native, he is an avid outdoorsman, finding himself closest to God when the only roof overhead is an aspen canopy or the milky way. A police officer for nearly thirty years, Joe hopes to spend whatever time remains empty nesting with his beloved wife, hunting with close friends, fly fishing, and pouring into the life and faith of others.
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REBOOT: Unleash Your Best in Life and Work w/ Eric Boles EP EP 562
Former NFL Wide Receiver Eric Boles joined us to help you identify roadblocks at work and home and how to get past them.
Eric Boles is the CEO and Founder of The Game Changers, Inc., a noted global expert in talent development and peak performance. Eric greatest impact and focus is on people. His perspectives on managing and leading change, transforming culture and overcoming complacency are laced with practical tools and principles that can be applied to a man’s personal life.
Eric learned many of his principles of peak performance, team dynamics and leadership from his experience as a Wide Receiver with the National Football League. Eric is the author of a book entitled “Moving to Great...Unleashing Your Best in Life and Work.” Which is our focus of today’s episode.
Boots on the Ground
Write down each of the questions in the 4 quarters and answer them honestly and Ask your wife if you were honest
- Who Am I?
- How Did I get Here?
- Where Am I Going?
- How Do I Get There?
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Parenting the Stupid Years: How to Navigate Your Adult Children's Bad Decisions w/ Dale Collver EP 561
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.
Dale Collver is the Operations Manager and Podcast Producer for Men in the Arena. He also worked with me for 8 years in youth ministry. Dale lives in McMinnville Oregon with Heather, his wife of 26 years. They have 3 adult daughters, Hayley, Hannah, and Hayden, and one adopted son Noah who is 8 years old.
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SUMMER REBOOT: Your Best Marriage Now! w/ Paul and Virginia Friesen EP 560
This is a special episode with Jim and Shanna Ramos, and Dr's Paul and Virginia Friesen. You do not want to miss this one!
Dr's. Paul and Virginia Friesen have been involved in Family Ministries for more than 40 years through family camps, church staff positions, speaking, consulting, and writing. In 2003, they founded Home Improvement Ministries (www.HIMweb.org), a non-profit organization dedicated to equipping individuals and churches to better encourage marriages and families in living out God's design for healthy relationships.
As the lead resource couple at Home Improvement Ministries, the Friesen's regularly speak at marriage, men’s, and women’s conferences in the US and internationally, as well as local family and parenting seminars, and have an ongoing ministry with professional athletes. Paul and Virginia both have Doctorates in Marriage and Family Therapy from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary.
Between them they have authored more than fifteen books and curriculums on parenting and marriage, including Letters to My Daughters, In Our Image, Raising a Trailblazer, Before You Save the Date, The Marriage App, and most recently, Lovin’ Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain’t No Jesus.
Paul and Virginia were married in 1976 and are the parents of three young adult women, two of whom are now married to wonderful, Godly men. Their middle daughter is living fully for Christ as a single woman and trusting God for His best. Paul and Virginia’s greatest joy in life is knowing that their children are “walking in the truth.”
Boots on the Ground
Sit down with your wife and ask each other for forgiveness. Also, take notes on these applications and do them.
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Defining the Marriage You Want w/ Garrett Schooley EP 559
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.
Garrett Schooley lives on the central coast of California with his wife Michelle, and 3 children Isaac (14), James (10), and Ruby (8). They are licensed foster parents. He is an elder at his church in Morro Bay. He works as a foreman for a landscape company in San Luis Obispo.
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SUMMER REBOOT: Investing For Your Future w/ Rick Robinson EP 558
In this podcast episode we hear from the semi-retired founder and CEO of Robinson Nursery Incorporated, Rick Robinson.
Rick shares about his philosophies for giving, and to whom. What does good stewardship look like and what he believes God's Word tells him to do with his resources is also discussed.
It’s no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose. -Jim Elliot
Boots on the Ground: Take a step of faith in your stewardship journey by giving 10 percent.
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Three Steps to Find Your Path of Excellence w/ Kai Munshi EP 557
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.
Kai is a former U.S. Marine Corps infantry officer and federal law enforcement officer. He still works for the government in the field of training and education. He and his wife Sheri have been married for over 20 years. They live on Saint Simons Island in Georgia. Kai serves on the Men in the Arena Board of Directors
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SUMMER REBOOT: Helping Your Blended Family Thrive w/ Ron Deal EP 556
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman
His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today.
Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting.
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Fathering the Fatherless: Why Changing Others Changes You w/ Sam Roberts Jr. EP 555
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.
Sam Roberts Jr. is a Men in the Arena National Team Captain. He lives in Baker City Oregon with his wife of nine years, Bethany, 5-year-old daughter Avery, and 2-year-old son Levi. Sam is a diesel mechanic, worship leader, and outdoorsman. He loves to serve the church, camping, fishing, hunting, and boating. His unwavering faith journey started as a young child and has been guided by many great men whom he is thankful for. His single sentence testimony is “God is always faithful.”
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Not-So-Spiritual Truths About Spiritual Leadership: Jim Ramos at Yamhill Christian Church EP 554
This special Father's Day episode is from Jim Ramos at Yamhill Christian Church.
What is that ONE WORD? It is mind-boggling how many men are caught off guard by that ONE WORD. That ONE WORD has stopped men in their tracks.
That ONE WORD has caused some of the most successful leaders I know to scratch their heads in dismay. That one word has paralyzed some of the most action-oriented leaders I know.
When we hear that WORD “Leader” we lose our minds! What does it mean to be a leader of my family? So far, we have spent every week on one dude…YOU. Now we are turning up the heat because it isn’t about you. It is also about those GOD HAS COMMISSIONED YOU TO CARE FOR. That ONE WORD—LEADER— has led to much confusion and it’s been that way for two millennia. Look at the pastoral Epistles for example.
Paul spent more time in the Pastorals describing THAT ONE WORD than any of the other nineteen qualities, most of which being one-word descriptions.
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Crafting a Personal Growth Strategy w/ Jeff Dyck EP 553
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.
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Jeff is currently serving Men in the Arena on the Board of Directors and is one of its National Team Captains where he leads a virtual team of men from around the country. Jeff is also an elder at Yamhill Christian Church, Yamhill, Oregon. Jeff retired in February 2021 from 35 years in the steel industry with the last 16 years as President of Cascade Steel Rolling Mills, a company of Schnitzer Steel where he oversaw 400 employees. Jeff received his BS and MS in Metallurgical Engineering from the Colorado School of Mines. Jeff has been married to his fabulous bride, Julie, for the last 34 years and is a proud father of three adult children.
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SUMMER REBOOT: Just a Minute with a Child w/ Wess Stafford EP 552
When you see a child what happens in your soul? For Wess Stafford he knows that one moment, one word can launch them into greatness. So, Wess doesn’t miss a chance to make a mark for Jesus in a child’s heart.
Dr. Wess Stafford is President Emeritus of Compassion International, one of the world’s largest Christian child development organizations, partnering with more than 60 denominations and 7,000 local churches and serving over 2 million children in 26 countries. Wess has worked both overseas and in leadership positions at ministry headquarters for four decades and served as President and CEO of Compassion International for 20 years.
Wess is an internationally recognized advocate for children in poverty, speaking up for those who cannot speak for themselves.
He earned undergraduate degrees from Moody Bible Institute and Biola University, and a master’s degree from Wheaton College, as well as a Ph.D. from Michigan State University.
The author of Too Small to Ignore: Why the Least of These Matters Most and Just a Minute: In the Heart of a Child, One Moment Can Last Forever.
Get your copy of Just a Minute: In the Heart of a Child, One Moment ... Can Last Forever.
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Seeking Manly Advice: Overcoming Pride to Become Your Best Version w/ Fred Workman EP 551
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.
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Fred Workman is a 57-year-old medical doctor, specializing in Hospital Medicine. He is one of our volunteer Men in the Arena National Team Captains. Fred is married to his amazing bride for 32 years and has three grown children. Fred is a self-proclaimed “men’s group junkie with a passion to encourage and mentor men to fight for their spiritual mission.”
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SUMMER REBOOT: Tips to Becoming a Daughter Whisperer from the Dad Whisperer w/ Michelle Watson EP 550
This summer we will be reposting a few of our favorite interviews. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield immediately stuck out for us. Every dad needs to hear this episode.
In January 2010 Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield founded The Abba Project where she leads dads of daughters ages 13 to 30 to dial in with more intention and consistency to their heart space. She leads a local group in Portland, Oregon annually every year from September through May. (you can read more under The Abba Project)
Dr. Michelle has coached offspring Abba Project groups in Virginia and Washington State, with more to come.
Dr. Michelle has written a book for dads of daughters titled, Dad, Here’s What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter’s Heart and it’s also available in audiobook form in her own voice on Audible here.
Her second book, “Let’s Talk, Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters” is filled with scripts for dads to equip them to strategically lead their daughters into conversations that matter, with a focus on greater depth that will allow her to know herself better!
Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield hosts a radio program called The Dad Whisperer where her purpose is to provide practical resources for dads, especially those with daughters. (available here, iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and Google Podcasts)
http://www.drmichellewatson.com/
Boots on the Ground For every daughter you have, sit down with them and ask them to talk, and ask to hear their heart.
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That ONE WORD: What the Bible Says to Men About Spiritual Leadership EP 549
There are three very specific things the Bible requires of a man who is the spiritual leader in his home. He must Protect, Provide and Preside, but it cannot stop there.
Jim will unpack how the Full Capacity Man steps into his leadership role in his family.
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Finishing Strong: Habits to Achieve Greatness w/ Mike Goins EP 548
Named the 2022 Man of the Year by Men in the Arena, Mike Goins will be 76 next month and is an avid snow skier, road biker, and golfer. This guy has lived a noteworthy life worth learning from and imitating.
Mike spent his career as the CFO of four Universities retiring in 2011. Since then, Mike served as a volunteer with CASA, Friendsview Retirement Community, Young Life, his local Church, and Men in the Arena where he has served as Board Chair and Treasurer.
He also leads two Men in the Arena teams—one local and one virtual. When he isn’t volunteering he is an avid snow skier, recently teaching his granddaughters how to ski. He rides thousands of miles annually with his bike club and is a regular on the golf course that butts up to his backyard.
He is a mentor and father figure to me and many others. For embodying what it means to live as your best version Mike Goins was selected as the Men in the Arena Man of the year for 2022.
Boots on the Ground:
Which habit do you need to work on?
- Spend major time with your kids
- Diet
- Exercise
- Rest: Sleep, day off, vacation
- Quiet time with God
- Serving others
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AMA 12: What is Truth? EP 547
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers this question; What is Truth?
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The State of Men: What MITA's Social Media Tells Us EP 546
Caitlin is a Digital Marketing Consultant based in California. She has degrees in marketing and web and information technology, and has spent the last 14 years helping ministries with their marketing from home while homeschooling her four kids. Caitlin has known Jim for 27 years, ever since he was her high school youth pastor (she witnessed Jim's infamous "dumping-trophies-onto-the-ground" sermon illustration) and he spoke at her wedding. She influences much of Men in the Arena's digital presence, including the website, social media strategy, and advertising. Boots on the Ground:
Start praying 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 for your life, and marriage.
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AMA 11: How Do You Do Self-Care to Stay Balanced? EP 545
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers this question;
How Do You Do Self-Care to Stay Balanced?
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Breaking Out of a Rut: Reclaim Your Passion for Life w/ Nicky Billou EP 544
What are you doing with your dreams? Are you even dreaming? In this episode, Nicky Billou will challenge you to take your dreams and get active in going after them!
Nicky Billou is the Founder of the Sovereign Man Movement. Host of the Sovereign Man Podcast, and the Thought Leader Revolution Podcast. Helped save 60+ marriages from divorce. Author of 7 books, including Finish Line Thinking: How To Think & Win Like A Champion, and The Thought Leader’s Journey, which is our subject today.
Boots on the Ground:
Send out a probe. Answer the three questions we discussed and start doing something now as you transition.
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AMA 10: For Wives: How to Equip Your Husband for a Successful Marriage EP 543
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers this question;
How could a woman better equip her husband to ensure a successful and awesome marriage?
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Porn Star to Pastor: Overcoming Shame from Your Past w/ Joshua Broome - EP 542
There was a 6-year period when Joshua was one of the most successful adult film stars in the world making over 1,000 films at a rate of 20-25 a month.
He became famous, rich, and traveled the world, but soon discovered that none of those things filled the emptiness in his heart.
He quit the industry in 2012 and gave his life to Jesus soon after due to the influence of his bride, Hope. The redemption story of what God did in his life is one that men everyone needs to hear.
Joshua is currently a pastor at the Good News Baptist Church in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, and travels around the country preaching his faith.
Boots on the Ground
Men, it is vital that we protect all our devices against porn. Get Covenant Eyes on all your devices.
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Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers the question, should Christians get tattoos?
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Willy was born in Uganda, lost both parents when he was young. Willy was raised by family and community members and was supported through Compassion International as a little boy.
As an orphan child, he was hungry for God to change his community and when he got an opportunity to go to school as an adult, Willy started Give Hope Ministries International, an orphanage school and ministry in Busia, Uganda where they now have 479 children in the program!
Boots on the Ground:
Go to www.ghmi.org and subscribe to their newsletter.
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AMA 8: How Often Should a Married Couple Have Sex? EP 539
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers this tough question. How Often Should a Married Couple Have Sex?
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Unleashing the Risk-Taker Within You w/ Kenny Luck EP 538
God is with you. He wants you to win and He created you for more than you can imagine. Are you paralyzed by the fear of the unknown?
Kenny Luck is the Lead Pastor of Ministries at Crossline Church in Laguna Hills, California. He is an ECPA Platinum award-winning author of 24 books covering marriage, family, and men's issues. Kenny has been a featured guest on FOX News and is the driving force behind the Every Man Global LIVESTREAM and podcasts heard around the world. In 2022 he will be touring with Jesus Culture and Hillsong United in 4 cities for the Dangerous Good City Transformation Tour in partnership with A-21 and Capital Records to reach men, raise awareness, and reduce demand in the fight against sexual slavery. Kenny has been married to his wife Chrissy for thirty-three years (in a row). They have raised three wonderful millennials (Cara, Ryan, and Jenna) and live in Southern California.
Boots on the Ground:
Take Risks because God’s Got you!
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AMA 7: How Do I Save My Marriage On My Own? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 537
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers this tough question. What do you do when you are trying to save your marriage and your wife isn’t receptive to any of your ideas?
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Becoming a Generalist: Using Your Power to Gain Mastery Over Your World w/ Morgan Snyder EP 536
Are you a well-rounded man? Are you a master at one thing in your life? You may need to bring some men around you that will help you learn other skills that will help you become better at other critical things in life.
Morgan Snyder is the founder of BecomeGoodSoil, the comprehensive apprenticeship track of Wild at Heart where he serves on the Executive Leadership team. Morgan has worked alongside John and Stasi Eldredge at Wild at Heart for more than two decades.
He is the author of Becoming a King: The path to Restoring the Heart of Man, which is our subject for today.
https://becomegoodsoil.com/knife
Boots on the Ground:
Start carrying a pocket knife.
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AMA 6: Is Masturbation a Sin?- Equipping Men in Ten EP 535
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers:
Is Masturbation a Sin?
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Rap, Martial Arts, and Sharing Your Faith w/ Philippe Prosper - Equipping Men in Ten EP 533
Is there evidence in your life that says you love Jesus? Does He overflow from you onto others?
Philippe Prosper is also a former professional martial artist and international Kung Fu champion. He is the Christian Business Men's Connection Area Director in Washington DC, where he disciples businessmen and influential artists.
He is passionate about making Christ famous both in the marketplace and the entertainment arena sharing Christ with the likes of Shaquille O’Neal, Nick Canon, and many more.
Boots on the Ground
Ask God to put an opportunity in your path to share what is in your heart for Jesus.
Philippe@grandmasterstudio.com
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AMA 5: Dealing with Heartbreak After Divorce, Men's Ministry Pitfalls - Equipping Men in Ten EP 533
How should a man deal with heartbreak in a marriage relationship that ended in divorce? The ex is now with someone new but still is hopeful to get back. Thanks. - Roberto B.
Common pitfalls to avoid in leading a men's ministry. - The Marksmen
1. Doing it without physical and verbal support from your pastor
2. Not doing it because Church leadership is not behind it
3. Making it event-driven instead of discipleship driven
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Overcoming Relational Blind Spots w/ Eddie Capparucci EP 532
We have all picked up problematic coping mechanisms as we grow into adults. Dr. Eddie helps us to identify them and work through them.
Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed Christian counselor, certified in treating Problematic Sexual Behaviors and the creator of the Inner Child Model for treating sex addictions. He is the author of several books, including Overcoming Relational Blind Spots, which is our subject for today.
Boots on the Ground:
Sit down with your wife hold her hand and just ask her about her day. Do not try to pursue sex. Just connect with her.
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AMA 4: Honoring Women, Physical vs. Spiritual Health, Choosing a Church - Equipping Men in Ten EP 531
In this Episode Jim will answers these questions:
Where do you get honor women from? Tik Tok
[In response to physical health affecting spiritual health reel] Hey brother, do you have any scriptures you can share on this topic?- Ben B.
[Go to church Reel] Any tips on what to look for when looking for a new church? I am skeptical of all of them but at the same time feel like a homeless Christian.- bmaxwell5
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Ignite Your Zeal for Life. Seven Flames of the Man on Fire w/ Steven Mansfield EP 530
In this interview, Steven Mansfield will share from his book, Men on Fire, about the fires his book is designed to ignite in your soul. The tending of the fire afterward belongs to you.
The Fire of Heritage
The Fire of Battle
The Fire of Destiny
The Fire of Friendship
The Fire of Love
The Fire of Legacy
The Fire of God
Author of Mansfield's Book of Manly Men, Building Your Band of Brothers (both also available in Spanish), and Men on Fire. Founder and President of GreatMan Global, teaching men worldwide the philosophy, art, and skills of manly excellence and equipping them to combat toxic masculinity wherever it may be found.
Boots on the Ground:
What’s next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard?
Here it is.
Which Fire needs your immediate attention?
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AMA 3: Choosing Book Topics, Knowing God's Will vs. Your Will, What a Dad Should Teach His Firstborn Son - Equipping Men in Ten EP 529
In this Episode Jim will answers these questions:
How do you figure out what to write for your books?
– midatlanticmortgageguy
How do you tell the difference between God's leading and your own will? – SPG
-Bible
-Godly Counsel
_is it something I would not choose or say
-Fruit…will it bless people
-Will it help or challenge be
What a dad should teach his firstborn son. – Jennajayyyy
- Check out my REELS on IG
- Son of blessing
- Most mistakes
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Breaking Through the Noise to Find Your True Self: Alone Season 7 w/ Joel Van Der Loon EP 528
Participant on History channels Alone and Discovery channels Bushcraft Build Off. Wilderness survival and Connection to nature. Learning from our hunter-gatherer ancestors. The importance of spending time alone in nature with our creator.
Boots on the Ground
Take a full afternoon in the wilderness and reflect and find gratitude for what God has given you.
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AMA Series 2: How to Discuss LGBTQ With Your Kids - Equipping Men in Ten EP 527
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers:
Q: How to Discuss LGBTQ With Your Kids
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Living a Legendary Life When You're a Dad on the Edge w/ Larry Hagner EP 526
Do you want to be the best dad and man you can be? Do you want to live a legendary life? Larry Hagner shares what he does that will help you on this journey.
Larry Hagner is the creator of The Dad Edge Podcast. Featured as one of the top dad podcasts on iTunes, the show has received over 5 million downloads. Larry is the author of 2 bestselling books. He has featured some of the most elite humans on the planet. He lives in St. Louis with his wife Jessica and their four boys.
Larry Hagner is the creator of The Dad Edge Podcast. Featured as one of the top dad podcasts on iTunes, the show has received over 5 million downloads. Larry is the author of 2 bestselling books. He has featured some of the most elite humans on the planet. He lives in St. Louis with his wife Jessica and their four boys.
Boots on the Ground
Think about a struggle you have. Answer this question: What is the cost of doing nothing about this thing? Then, takes steps towards fixing that thing.
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AMA Series 1: Responding to Unbelief in Your Adult Kids, Sinless Perfection, Skills Every Man Should Have - Equipping Men in Ten EP 525
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes.
This week Jim answers:
Q: How do you constructively deal with unbelief in your grown children?
Q: Sinless perfection. Just your thoughts and understanding on the subject.
Q: What are some practical skills you think every grown man should have? What are some good ways to learn/grow those skills?
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Find Your Mentor: Improving Your Life Through Mentorship w/ Dean Brenton EP 524
Dean Brenton is the President of Impactus | Promise Keepers Canada. Dean has been an active part of denominational, national, and parachurch committees, initiatives and events as well as international and local mission projects. He previously served for 13 years as the Executive Director of Ministry Development and Strategic Initiatives/Executive Director of Church Ministries for the Pentecostal Assemblies of Newfoundland and Labrador (PAONL). He also served as a Part-Time Instructor with Tyndale University (Toronto, ON) and Queen’s College (St. John’s, NL).
For more than twenty-five years, Impactus | Promise Keepers Canada has been at the forefront of calling men to follow Jesus Christ, and to be men who will have a godly impact in their families, workplaces, churches, and communities. Our vision is to see every man become, grow and live as a disciple of Jesus Christ. We do this by providing leadership resources to churches and men's ministry leaders to disciple their men, and by providing resources like articles, videos, podcasts and events direct to men.
Boots on the Ground
Identify an area in your life that lacks consistency and it has cost you your best version. Pursue that thing until it becomes routine in your life.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Recap- Equipping Men in Ten, EP 523
The Full Capacity Man Review
Chapter 1: The Blameless Man
Chapter 2— The Servant
Chapter 3—The Witness
Chapter 4—The Calm Man
Chapter 5—The Moderate Man
Chapter 6—The Vigilant Man
Chapter 7—The Peacemaker
Chapter 8—The Protector
Chapter 9—The Hospitable Man
Chapter 10—The Generous Man
Chapter 11—The Good Man
Chapter 12: The Devout Man
Chapter 13— The Respected Man
Chapter 14—The Sacrificial Man
Chapter 15—The Leader
Chapter 16— The Teacher
Chapter 17—The Faithful Man
Chapter 18—The Just Man
Chapter 19—The Gentle Man
Chapter 20—The Wise Man
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How Your Daily Choices Can Fight Sex Trafficking w/ Alan Smyth EP 522
Currently, Alan serves as the Executive Director for Saving Innocence, an anti-human trafficking, community-based organization focused on child victims of sex trafficking. Based in Los Angeles, Alan has responsibility over Direct Services and Business Operations. His main focus includes budgeting and resource development, strategic partnerships, staff development, and client services. You can learn more about Saving Innocence at www.savinginnocence.org.
“Fight For Me” are words he heard directly from a survivor of sex trafficking. Alan’s unique view into this tragedy has given him a backstage pass to this horrific exploitation of children. Co-authored by Jessica Midkiff, herself a survivor of child trafficking, this book speaks directly to the hearts of men and our responsibility to step up and take leadership in the remedy.
Nefarious: Merchant of Souls
Boots on the Ground:
Research Saving Innocence and get involved!
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The Full Capacity Man, The Wise Man - Equipping Men in Ten, EP 521
In 1 Timothy 3:2 Paul uses a unique word translated in many ways, one of which is prudent—“An overseer, then, must be…prudent.”
Wikipedia explains prudence as, “The ability to govern and discipline oneself by the use of reason. It is classically considered to be a virtue, and one of the four cardinal virtues.” It is showing care and thought for the future. Merriam-Webster says, “The prudent are marked by wisdom. They are shrewd in the management of practical affairs. Discreet.”
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Sharing Your Faith in a Hostile Culture w/ Alok Naskar EP 520
Boots on the Ground
Find an organization from around the world and get involved with them.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Gentle Man - Equipping in Ten, EP 519
The Full Capacity Man is a gentle man.
An overseer, then, must be…gentle. —1 Timothy 3:2-3 (Titus 3:2)
“All who are truly godly and are real disciples of Christ have a gentle spirit in them.” Puritan leader Jonathan Edwards called gentleness.”
—Jonathon Edwards (1703-1758)
American revivalist Preacher
It’s the strong hand, not the weak one, that must learn to be gentle.
—Gary Thomas
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God Starts with Men, Jim in Greenville, Mississippi EP 518
This episode was recorded live in Greenville, Mississippi at the First Baptist Church, men's Wild Game Night. Jim shares how God starts with men to do great things and you are that man that God wants to use.
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What's Your Hill to Die On? Discerning God's Mission for Your Life, Equipping Men in Ten EP 517
I have noticed something in guys that attend the church that I want to address. Since our target is men in the stress bubble of 28-55 years old this will be very helpful.
Biblically speaking every Christian is a minister and every minister has a ministry.
Here is the problem I want to address. It is the man who does not serve others because, as he puts it, his family is his ministry. THIS IS ADMIRABLE and THIS STATEMENT PUTS HIM IN AN ELITE CLASS OF MEN.
But here is the lie. God has called ALL MEN are ministers to the family. This is a biblical mandate to love, lead and serve the family unit.
The Biblical Mandate is DIFFERENT from your Personal Mission. Your mission is what things God has wired your to-do and placed on your heart Based on your SHAPE.
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Surviving Life's Plane Crashes w/ Flight 232 Survivor Jerry Schemmel, EP 516
Jerry Schemmel is a survivor of United Airlines flight 232 that crashed landed on July 19, 1989.
Jerry grew up in Madison, SD, with his six siblings. He attended Washburn University in Topeka, KS where he played on the baseball team. After receiving his undergraduate degree in Communications in 1982, Jerry went to law school at Washburn University School of Law and earned his Juris Doctor in 1985.
He has been both an assistant baseball coach and head coach, at the college level. He spent 10 seasons as a radio broadcaster for the Colorado Rockies, after 18 seasons in the same role with the Denver Nuggets.
Jerry Schemmel wrote two books. First, Chosen To Live, from 1996 that chronicles his experience from surviving the crash of Flight 232. And The Extravagant Gift, as an outreach book.
Everybody has their own plane crash.
-Jerry Schemmel
Boots on the Ground:
Where are you headed towards a plane crash? Chart a new course for your life and trust God in 2022.
Link to the crash video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocpFuJ2wbhU
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The Full Capacity Man must be a Just man! Jim Ramos explains what a just man looks like in this episode.
For the overseer must be…just.
—Titus 1:7-8
“Justice is truth in action.”
—Benjamin Disraeli
“I believe the current concept of social justice is incompatible
with biblical Christianity.”
― Voddie T. Baucham,
Fault Lines
Masters, grant to your slaves justice and fairness, knowing that
you too have a Master in heaven.
—Colossians 4:1
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How to Make 2022 the Best Year of Your Life w/ Jim Ramos EP 514
Jim Ramos is speaking at Maranatha Church in Wyoming Minnesota on how you can make 2022 the best year of your life.
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Bonus: The Chapter a Day Audio Bible
This bonus episode comes to you from John Stange and he is covering Genesis Chapter 1.
DesireJesus.com is a ministry of John Stange. If you’d like to say “thank you” for the content John is creating, click here to buy him a coffee.
John is a follower of Jesus, husband to Andrea, and father to four great kids. He holds degrees in Bible, Education, and Counseling, is a certified speaker, trainer and coach with the John Maxwell Team, and serves as the Lead Pastor of Core Creek Community Church in Langhorne, PA. John is an adjunct professor at Cairn University, where he teaches courses on church planting, theology, and counseling. He also serves as the Director of the National Mission Board which is a ministry that is focused on church planting and church health.
John hosts three podcasts, "The Chapter-A-Day Audio Bible," “Daily Devotions with Pastor John,” and "Dwell on These Things." At present, his shows have been downloaded over 7 million times by listeners throughout the world. All three podcasts can be freely accessed via your favorite podcast app or by clicking here.
John's books are focused on spiritual growth, leadership, marriage and the practical and applicational aspects of following Jesus. He recently signed with Penguin Random House to publish his latest book “Dwell on These Things” which is a 31-day-challenge to talk to yourself like God talks to you.
The Full Capacity Man, The Faithful Man - Equipping Men in Ten, EP 513
- Guardrail #1
Never develop an emotional connection to another woman.
Proverbs 29:3 and 5:3-4
- Guardrail #2
Never be alone with a woman behind closed doors or alone in public.
Proverbs 8:11-12
- Guardrail #3
Never engage in negative talk about your marriage or wife with another woman.
Proverbs 24:3 and 30:20
- Guardrail #4
Never compliment a woman unless your wife is present or somehow woven into the compliment.
Proverbs 17:24
Example: ―Your hair looks nice that color. My wife dyes her hair too but I love her no matter what color her hair is.
- Guardrail #5
Never have longstanding counseling relationships with another woman.
Proverbs 2:16 and 14:8
- Guardrail #6
Never make physical contact with a sensual area of another woman even if it’s just a hug.
Proverbs 5:20 and 6:26
Example: Front hug as opposed to a side hug.
- Guardrail #7
Never make foul, rude, or sexual comments.
Proverbs 10:23, 10:31, and 7:5
- Guardrail #8
Never give a gift or card to another woman that is only from you.
Proverbs 12:26
Example: Sign the gift or card from you and your wife, or from ―us‖.
- Guardrail #9
Never have non-business related communication with another woman
(text, instant message, social media, phone calls, etc.)
Proverbs 1:20 and 2:6
- Guardrail #10
Never assume your wife is living by your standards. Be engaged.
Proverbs 2:11-13, 4:5, and 5:1
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The Chosen: The Jesus You Never Knew, w/ Producer Chad Gunderson EP 512
In this episode, Jim interviews Chad Gunderson, the producer of The Chosen. Chad explains why Jesus is portrayed the way he is in this series. The Jesus in The Chosen relates to the rest of humanity. He is a man that men want to follow. You will love this episode!
Chad Gundersen’s producing career began over 25 years ago while in college at the University of North Texas. While there, Chad co-founded Night & Day Films in 2000 and made numerous award-winning commercials, music videos, and short films. Going out on his own in 2006, Chad started Gundersen Entertainment where he worked alongside studios like 20th Century Fox, Lionsgate, and Sony to produce multiple life-changing films. Some of his more notable projects include Like Dandelion Dust starring Academy Award Winner Mira Sorvino and Barry Pepper, The Trial starring Matthew Modine, Hoovey starring Patrick Warburton, and Lauren Holly, as well as the children’s animated series, Owlegories. In 2015, along with producer Chris Juen, Chad started Out of Order Studios, where they have produced numerous TV shows, animated projects, and feature films, including the ground-breaking TV series, The Chosen.
Boots on the Ground:
Watch Season One of The Chosen
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Three Causes We Care About - Equipping Men in Ten EP 511
In this episode, Jim Ramos shares the three causes that are very important to us.
Missionaries
Military (oversees active)
Men in Underdeveloped Nations
Strategic partnership: We believe in forming strategic partnerships with diverse, Christ-centered people, and organizations around the world, who will ultimately put Jesus on display. (Matthew 6:10, John 13:34-35, 1 Corinthians 3:2-7, and Philippians 1:13-18)
By “diverse” we are not talking about America. We are talking on a global level.
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4 Ways to Start Building Your Legacy for 2022 w/ Gary Greeno EP 510
Gary Greeno is a pastor, motivational speaker, educator of 30+ years, author, and former basketball coach. His passion is to help people find and live out their purpose while living out the Godly legacy they truly want to leave. Today we will be discussing his book, The Legacy Game Plan: 4 Keys to Living Intentionally
Jim and Gary discuss in detail the 4 Part Game Plan for Living Out A Godly Legacy.
First, Fortify Your Foundation by,
- Choose Christ Daily
- Keep The Past in The Past
- Get Around Godly People
- It’s a Slow Process
Second, Feed Your Faith
Third, Fix Your Focus
Fourth, Finish Strong
Boots on the Ground:
Set a fitness goal this year with micro-goals. Join me in doing 65,000 pushups this year.
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What We Believe and Why - Equipping Men in Ten EP 509
In this episode, Jim Ramos shares what we at Men in the Arena believe and why it is important.
Christ-centered: We unapologetically trust Jesus Christ to protect, grow, and bless Men in the Arena. We will stand up, speak up, and show up for Jesus even to the point of ridicule, persecution, and death. (Luke 1:37, 1 Corinthians 3:7, 2 Timothy 3:12, and Hebrews 10:39)
Biblically-based: We believe the Bible is the infallible word of God that provides moral absolutes. Everything we speak, write, or represent, will be Biblically accurate to the best of our abilities and interpretation of Scripture. (Psalm 119:9-10, 2 Timothy 3:16-17, Hebrews 4:12, and 2 Peter 1:20-21)
Strategic partnership: We believe in forming strategic partnerships with diverse, Christ-centered people, and organizations around the world, who will ultimately put Jesus on display. (Matthew 6:10, John 13:34-35, 1 Corinthians 3:2-7, and Philippians 1:13-18)
Organizational Integrity: We believe in impeccable organizational integrity. We will be transparent in our financial dealings, ministry reporting, and verbal interactions. (Job 27:5, Proverbs 10:9, Matthew 22:16, and 1 Timothy 3:1-6)
Morally Pure: We believe in living a life that glorifies Jesus, guards those we love, and protects the organization.(Proverbs 5:18-20, Acts 1:8, 1 Timothy 3:1-6, 2 Timothy 2:22, and Hebrews 13:4)
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What Michelangelo's 'David' Can Teach You About Becoming Your Best Version of a Man w/ Chris Widener EP 508
God wants to help you rid yourself of the things that slow you down. He wants to chisel and hone you into the creation he has intended you to be. Jim Ramos interview Chris Widener on his book, The Angel Inside.
Chris Widener has been named one of the top 50 speakers in the world and is a member of the motivational speakers Hall of Fame. From his childhood filled with drama, 28 homes in 11 different schools being shipped afterward with relatives twice, to becoming one of the most well-known motivational speakers, Chris Widener will inspire you. He is the author of 22 books that have been translated into 14 languages.
Boots on the Ground:
Pray and ask God to show you who he wants you to become in 2022. When he reveals this to you, pick up the hammer and chisel and start chipping away at your life until you become that man.
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Top Books for Men from Men in the Arena Pt. 2 - Equipping Men in Ten EP 507
Top Books for Men
Listed Alphabetically by Author’s last name
9. The Measure of a Man by Gene Getz
Why? Gene’s is the first book to define the biblical qualities every godly man must strive for. His book, written over 50 years ago has sold over a million copies to date.
Episode #: 255
10. The Elephant in the Marriage by Jason Karampatsos
Why? Find out what brings satisfaction in the marriage by reading this ground-breaking work. You may be shocked.
Episode #: 239
11. Ten Things Great Dads Do by Rick Johnson
Why? Rick is one of the least know best authors to speak to men in decades. IN his book, Rick whittles fathering down to ten great fathering principles.
Episode #: 154, 156
12. Raising a Modern Day Night by Robert Lewis
Why? Every father raising sons needs to read this book. Lewis helps dads navigate through rite of passage ceremonies with their sons.
Episode #: 342
13. Six Rules Every Man Must Break by Bill Perkins
Why? This was the first book about manhood I ever read and it was a game changer as I broke free from extra biblical rules and church expectations that drove my life.
Episode #: 88
14. The Jesus Story by White Horse Publishing (Bill Perkins)
Why? Not specifically for men, this is a blended version of the Gospels with no chapter or verse refences. It is a game changer that every man must own.
Episode #: 227
15. Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His world by Jim Ramos
Why? What did you expect? This Amazon #1 bestseller is the first book I’ve read that clearly defines what a man is and does. You’ll walk away knowing what it takes to live as a man. Episode #: 426 (428, 430, 432, 434)
16. Just a Minute by Wess Stafford
Why? This book changed how I acted around little children. Often ignored, now whenever a child enters the room I act as though I was standing on holy ground because of this great book written by the greatest man I ever met. Just a minute can change a child!
Episode #: 483
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Top Books for Men from Men in the Arena Pt. 1 - Equipping Men in Ten EP 506
Top Books for Men
Listed Alphabetically by Author’s last name
- What Radical Husbands Do by Regi Campbell
Why? This book is short, easy to read, and offers memorable and practical advice for being a better husband. It me the first time I read it but how clear, honest and succinct this book is.
Episode #: 362
- Let’s Talk: Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters by Michelle Canfield
Why? Michelle, aka The Dad Whisperer, is a woman who teaches men who to talk to their daughters. All her resources are exceptional.
Episode #: 433
- Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Why? Over 14 million copies have been sold., This is a classic book every man should own so he can love his wife to the best of his ability.
Episode #: 344
- No More Christian Nice Guy by Paul Coughlin
Why? This was a monumental work for the majority of Christian men who think being a good man is synonymous with being nice. It is not.
Episode #: 316
- The Smart Stepdad by Ron Deal
Why? With divorce rates at over 50% Deal helps dads with stepchildren avoid the pitfalls that can ruin a second marriage. Being a child of divorce myself, I cannot stress who important this book is
Episode #: 423
- Love and Respect by Emmerson Eggerichs
Why? Selling millions of copies this is a must-read book for husbands who want to avoid the “crazy cycle,” learn to speak their wife’s language and live their best marriage.
Episode #: 203
- Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
Why? Twenty years later and men are still talking about it. Eldredge lists the three core passions of every man. Those passions resonated with my soul, and they will with yours too.
Episode #: 94
- Red Hot Monogamy by Bill and Pam Farrel
Why? Did you know monogamous Christian couples report having the most satisfying sex life? Find out how yours can be numbered among them in the no holds barred book for couples
Episode #: 201
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Stage 4 Cancer to 65K Push-Ups w/ Rod Handley EP 505
Inspiration for our 65k Push-Up Challenge! This interview will be a huge inspiration for you on your push-up journey. Rod Handley inspired our challenge! Rod had Stage 4 cancer, and was so weak that he couldn't do a single push-up, but then decided he was going to do 200 per day, 6 days per week. By the end of the year, he was cranking out 200 strict push-ups! This is a must-listen.
Rod Handley is the Founder & President of Character that Counts, a ministry established in 2000. Rod speaks all across the nation to men, women and teenagers about character, integrity and accountability issues. He has written over 30 books including "Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours?" which details the “why’s” and “how’s” of accountability. For over 35 years, Rod has shared at hundreds of men’s events, conferences and retreats all across the nation.
From 1986-1999, he served on the staff of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, including 11 years as the COO/CFO. He has also spoken at hundreds of chapel services for a number of NFL, NBA and MLB teams, including serving as team chaplain for the Kansas City Royals (1995-2009) and the Seattle SuperSonics (1986-89). Rod and his wife Janna live in Lee's Summit, MO and they have four children.
Here's How the 65k Push-Up Challenge Will Work:
- Record your reps on the calendar here!
- At the end of each month, we'll send you an email asking for your check-in. Simply reply to that email with a pic of that month's calendar.
- If you hit the 65,000 push-up goal before midnight December 31, 2022, you have officially slayed this challenge.
- At the end of the year, you'll send photos of your completed calendar. We'll send you a certificate of completion and some commemorative merch (still figuring that part out, but we've got some cool ideas).
FAQs and Housekeeping Stuff:
- Q: Do they have to be strict push-ups? A: No. They can be strict, knee, wall, box, incline - I don't care what you do as long as you do it. The guy who inspired this challenge started out unable to do a single push-up and by the end he was knocking out 200 a day. Challenge yourself and improve.
- Q: Do I need to videotape myself to prove I did them? A: Nah, honor system. You'll send us photos of your calendar for accountability more than anything. If you give me your word of honor that you did them, I'll believe you.
- Q: I did 64,999 push-ups because [insert excuse here]. Can I still get my certificate, merch, etc.? A: No participation trophies.
- Q: What inspired this challenge? Where did the number 65,000 come from? A: This challenge was inspired by my friend Rod Handley from Character that Counts. He was recovering from a rare form of cancer and decided to do 200 push-ups per day, 6 days per week and came up with that 65k goal. At first he couldn't do a single push-up, but by the end of the year he was cranking out 200 a day. If he can do it, so can you! Next Monday, I'll be interviewing Rod about his experience with this push-up challenge on the Men in the Arena podcast. That'll be really motivating and inspiring on your push-up journey, so make sure to listen to that episode.
- Q: How many emails am I going to be getting here?A: For the challenge, you'll get one each month for your check-in. Maybe also an occasional one if I think of something inspirational to say to you about it, but it's not going to be frequent. You'll also automatically start receiving our Weekly Equipping Blast each Friday. It's designed to equip you to be a better man, so I'd encourage you to check it out, but if you don't want it you can manage your email preferences to only receive emails about the 65k Push-Up Challenge. We won't share your email or identity with anyone.
- When you post videos or pics to social media about your progress, use the hashtag #65kpushupchallenge and tag us @themeninthearena so we can reshare and hype you up!
- If you have friends that want to start late, tell them to hit us up. The more the merrier.
- If you're not familiar with Men in the Arena, check out our website to learn more about us.
If you have any questions I haven't addressed here, feel free to email us at info@meninthearena.org or DM me on our Men in the Arena socials.
Let's get after it! Pushing-Up to Become His Best Version,
Jim Ramos
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Porn: Overcoming Sexual Temptation w/ Sathiya Sam EP 504
Sathiya Sam helps men overcome sexual temptations with his 5 principles.
Sathiya Sam is a coach and speaker that helps men live with confidence and integrity. A recovered addict himself, Sathiya is the creator of DeepClean – a research-based and Bible-backed system for overcoming porn addiction. DeepClean has helped everyone from college students to medical doctors regain control of their lives and walk in greater levels of freedom. He is married to his lovely wife Shaloma and based out of Toronto, Canada.
Website - www.sathiyasam.com
Free Recovery Guide - www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com
The Last Relapse (Book) - www.sathiyasam.com/books
Unleash The Man Within Podcast - www.sathiyasam.com/podcast
Facebook - www.facebook.com/sathiyamesam
Instagram - www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam
Boots on the Ground
Get Covenant Eyes on all your devices.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Teacher - Equipping Men in Ten EP 503
The full capacity man knows the Bible, he shows that the Bible is in him, and he apposes false teachings.
An overseer, then, must be…able to teach.
—1 Timothy 3:2
For the overseer must be…holding fast the faithful word, which is in accordance with the teaching, so that he will be able both to exhort in sound doctrine and to refute those who contradict.
—Titus 1:7 and 9
Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth.
—2 Timothy 2:15
“A thorough knowledge of the Bible is worth more than a college education.” —Theodore Roosevelt
“A Bible that’s falling apart usually belongs to someone who isn’t.” —Charles Spurgeon (1834-1892)
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How to Keep Christ in Christmas: Practical Ideas for Leading Your Family’s Celebration w/ Jim Ramos EP 502
Jim gives you some practical things you can do this Christmas to keep Christ in Christmas. You can also find some great ideas from past Christmas episodes. Check out Episodes 304, 306, and 405.
The Bethlehem Star on Youtube.
Boots on the Ground:
What do you do to bring your family closer to Jesus on Christmas?
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The Full Capacity Man, The Leader - Equipping Men in Ten EP 501
Men, you are called to be the leaders in your home. You are also the spiritual leader. This should not cause you fear because you are not sure what to do. It should, however, cause you to do something. Anything. Just lead.
“A leader is one who sees more than others see, who sees farther than others see, and who sees before others see.” -Leroy Eims
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500th Episode Celebration! w/ Jim Ramos
Thank you for for helping us get to Episode 500! Because of our listeners we have been able to reach men in 126 countries and help them take a step closer to becoming their best version in Christ.
In this episode we take a stroll back to some of the good, bad, and ugly episodes. We look at how we have progressed and share how God has had his hand on us.
Links to great podcasts:
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How to Be the Man Your Wife Married w/ Bob Thomason EP 499
Bob Thomason shares how he stays close to Jesus, loves his wife, and lives faithfully for Christ. He does this by keeping the things that he did in the beginning. Bob has a true belief that Jesus is the restorer and there is always a second chance.
Do you love your wife, if, or do you love her, because? -Bob Thomason
There is no stronger man than one humbly submitted to Christ. -Bob Thomason
If you want to know who you are you have to know the God who made you. -Bob Thomason
Boots on the Ground
Ask yourself this question, Do you take a shower before you take a bath? This is as great time to recommit yourself to Jesus.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Sacrificial Man - Equipping Men in Ten, EP 498
The sacrificial man lays his life down for others. He fights for the great kingdom causes in this world. He willingly serves others when it is not convenient. This man is a Full capacity Man.
THINK OF YOURSELF, LESS
For the overseer must not (be) self-willed.
—Titus 1:7
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Winning in Life w/ Hall of Fame Football Coach Ad Rutschman EP 497
In this episode you will get life wisdom from the winningest coach in college football.
"Discipline is not what you do to a person but what you do for a person." -Ad Rutschman
Adolf "Ad" Rutschman (born October 30, 1931) is an American football coach, former baseball coach, and college athletics administrator. He was a head football coach for 24 seasons, head baseball coach for 13 seasons, and served as athletic director for 25 years at Linfield College. He is the first athletic director emeritus in the history of the college. He also served as head coach of football and baseball at his alma mater, Hillsboro High School.
The 5-step formula for success:
- Set the goal in writing
- Make a plan
- Check the plan (Do you believe it?)
- Put the plan in action
- Stick with the plan (Don’t deviate)
Mail a check for $18 to Team Rutschman at 2142 NW Pine Hurst Dr. McMinnville Or 97128 for a copy of Winning with Class.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Servant - Equipping Men in Ten, EP 496
Are you a servant to others? Are you compelled to serve because the living Spirit lives in you? The Christian man is a servant.
“Beware of the false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits. Grapes are not gathered from thorn bushes, nor figs from thistles, are they? So every good tree bears good fruit, but the bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. So then, you will know them by their fruits." —Matthew 7:15-20- NASB
It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspiresto the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do.—1 Timothy 3:1
I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you.—John 13:15 (NLT)
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The Full Capacity Man, The Devout Man - Equipping Men in Ten EP 494
A devout man has certain characteristics that set him apart from other men who call themselves “Christians.” How are you doing in these areas.
For the overseer must be…devout.
—Titus 1:7-8
Paul, a bond-servant of Christ Jesus, called as an apostle, set apart for the gospel of God.
—Romans 1:1
Devoted to consistent church attendance.
Devoted to a pure and holy life of Biblical obedience.
Devoted to separation for Christian service.
Devoted to W.A.L.K.I.N.G. with God.
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GodBuddies: Finding the Right Male Friendships w/ Rich Gorecki EP 493
In this episode Rich Gorecki talks about men and their need for authentic relationships with other men. Who do you have in your inner circle?
Rich Gorecki is a self-professed “regular kind of guy” who writes from his own struggles with work-life balance that teetered on depression and his experiences with friendships. Rich's concept of “GodBuddies” led to his personal blog and recent book about a man's need for deeper, more authentic friendships based on raising boys, the cultural issues for men, participating in Bible studies and study retreats, and speaking on the topic of friendships. Rich is an elder at his local Presbyterian Church, trained Stephen Minister, and leader of its men’s group. He is a former Assistant Scoutmaster, coached his kids' teams, and volunteered with various local organizations. Rich lives in the western suburbs of Chicago and is married to his high school sweetheart, Cyndi, with whom they raised three boys into young adult men.
Boots on the Ground
Identify who functions as your Paul, Barnabas and Timothy?
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Crafting a Rite of Passage for Your Son: One Thing Every Father Must Do - Equipping Men in Ten, EP 492
In this episode Jim challenges fathers to do some sort of rite of passage with his kids. How will they know they entered manhood? It is up to fathers to usher them into this stage in their lives. It is also important to bring other men around them to share what manhood looks like.
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The Five Marks of a Man w/ Brian Tome EP 491
Brian Tome shares what the five marks of a man are. By this definition, are you a man? At the end of the podcast we will ask you to identify what areas you need to work on.
Brian Tome is the founding and senior pastor of Crossroads Church, 2017's fastest-growing church in America. Brian has authored four books including his best-seller, The Five Marks of a Man. He also hosts The Aggressive Life podcast. As an entrepreneur, Brian has opened several other non-profits and started Man Camp, a primitive weekend camping experience that has helped tens of thousands of men reclaim the code of manhood. An avid adventure motorcyclist, Brian rides tens of thousands of miles and camps more than 30 nights a year. Brian has also released an adventure ride TV show called Phantom Lake. He is married with three children and lives in Cincinnati, Ohio.
Boots on the Ground:
Identify which of the fives areas you are the weakest. Are you a man of vision, are you a man who takes a minority position, are you a team player, are you willing to work hard, and are you a protector.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Good Man - Equipping Men in Ten EP 490
The good man is not always a nice man. The Good man does good things, spends time with good people, and his actions are good. Men, stop being a nice man and be a good man.
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Living a Life That is Beyond Average w/ Robert Owen EP 489
Most men live an average or below-average life. What does it take to live above average? You will love this episode with Robert Owen!
Robert Hamilton Owens is a man of many hats. He’s been and done a lot – mountain climbing, radio and TV personality, keynote speaker, minister, Ironman, philanthropist, triathlete, Special Ops Pararescue man, and father of five – to name a few. But of all the pursuits he’s undertaken, there’s one title that best describes this literal force of nature: Robert is The Fittest and Mentally Toughest 66-Year-Old in the World. Period.
Robert was born and raised in Orange County, California without ever having met his parents. Adopted by a California judge, Robert was raised as a special-needs child who was unable to play kickball with his classmate due to the corrective shoes he was required to wear through sixth grade.
Boots on the Ground: What are your 3 take-aways from this podcast? What are you going to do with it?
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The Full Capacity Man, The Generous Man - Equipping Men in Ten EP 488
A full capacity man is a generous man. He knows that he can not out give God. With the riches God has given you, are you generous with them? Jim shares from his book Full Capacity Man, how a generous man lives.
An overseer must be…free from the love of money.
—1 Timothy 3:2-3
Since an overseer manages God’s household, he must be blameless—…not pursuing dishonest gain.
—Titus 1:7 (NIV)
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You are Soft...Still, Identify w/Jim Ramos EP 487
Episode 436 called “You are Soft” was our most responded to podcast—good and bad. After listening to it recently, I still stand on what I said, “WE ARE SOFT.”
Soft equals weak. SO, when I say soft, I mean we are weak. Which is why I wrote the book, “STRONG Men Dangerous Times”
People think Jesus was a pastor, I think he was more of a coach.
Listen as Jim unpacks these thoughts.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Peacemaker - Equipping Men in Ten, EP 486
Are you the Peacefaker, Peacebreaker, or Peacemaker? In this episode from Jim's book the Full Capacity Man, Jim explains what each one is and what a full capacity man should be.
An overseer, then, must be…peaceable.
—1 Timothy 3:2-3
Now the overseer is…not quarrelsome.
—1 Timothy 3:2-3 (NIV)
“Peacemakers see conflict as an opportunity to solve problems in a way that not only benefits everyone involved but also honors God. They use conflict to glorify God, serve others, and become more like Christ.”
—Ken Sande and Kevin Johnson
Resolving Everyday Conflict
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What it Means to be a Values-Driven Man and What You Can Do About It w/ Ryan Chamberlin EP 485
What can happen in your life if you are driven by godly values? Dive into this podcast with Ryan Chamberlin and see what his values have driven him to create for you and me.
Ryan Chamberlin is an author, speaker, and leadership influencer.
For 25 years he worked with thousands of entrepreneurs, assisting them in growing their influence and profitability.
Ryan has authored 4 books on value-driven success including one with the late relationship expert Gary Smalley titled 'The Rich You Formula.'
In 2020 he ran for U.S. Congress in the most competitive race in Florida.
And in January of 2021, he co-founded the True Patriot Network which recently launched a value-driven social media platform called TPN.
Ryan has worked with Success Magazine, is a TEDX speaker, and frequently is asked to share at national conferences.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Hospitable Man EP 484
In this Equipping in Ten Episode Jim challenges our way of thinking when we seek to understand what it means to be a hospitable man. Can you say that you are that man?
For the overseer must be…hospitable.
—Titus 1:7-8 (1 Timothy 3:2)
“If a man be gracious and courteous to strangers,
it shows he is a citizen of the world.”
— Francis Bacon (1561-1626)
Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it.
—Hebrews 13:2
Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.
—Romans 12:13 (NIV)
“When you open your home to strangers,
you are opening your home to the Lord Jesus.”
—Ray Pritchard
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Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins. Be hospitable to one another without complaint. —1 Peter 4:8-9
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Just a Minute with a Child w/Wess Stafford EP 483
When you see a child what happens in your soul? For Wess Stafford he knows that one moment, one word can launch them into greatness. So, Wess doesn’t miss a chance to make a mark for Jesus in a child’s heart.
Dr. Wess Stafford is President Emeritus of Compassion International, one of the world’s largest Christian child development organizations, partnering with more than 60 denominations and 7,000 local churches and serving over 2 million children in 26 countries. Wess has worked both overseas and in leadership positions at ministry headquarters for four decades and served as President and CEO of Compassion International for 20 years.
Wess is an internationally recognized advocate for children in poverty, speaking up for those who cannot speak for themselves.
He earned undergraduate degrees from Moody Bible Institute and Biola University, and a master’s degree from Wheaton College, as well as a Ph.D. from Michigan State University.
The author of Too Small to Ignore: Why the Least of These Matters Most and Just a Minute: In the Heart of a Child, One Moment Can Last Forever.
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The Full Capacity Man, The Protector EP 482
In this Equipping in Ten episode Jim talks about what it means to be that man who is the protector.
-Never Pick a Fight. Finish It.
Now the overseer is… not violent.
—1 Timothy 3:2-3 (NIV)
An overseer…must (not) be…pugnacious.
—1 Timothy 3:2-3
“There is one fairly good reason for fighting—and that is, if the other man starts it…When you can be perfectly certain that the other man started them, then is the time when you might have a sort of duty to stop them.”
― T.H. White The Once and Future King
“Though God hates bullying, too many Christians don’t.”
—Paul Coughlin, Free Us from Bullying
“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. —Edmund Burke (1729-1797)
“Never violate a woman, nor harm a child. Do not lie, cheat or steal. These things are for lesser men. Protect the weak against the evil strong.” — David Gemmell (1948-2006) White Wolf
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What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters w/ Jim Ramos EP 481
In this episode, Jim shares from his newest book, Tell Them: What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters. This is a free download for a limited time.
In this book, Jim shares 200 things that dads should share with their kids. Each page is one day with a challenge and a scripture. It is filled with practical conversation-starters that will help you set your kids up for greater success in knowing who they are in Christ.
The Full Capacity Man, The Vigilant Man EP 480
In this episode Jim share about what it looks like to be a vigilant man. A man who is aware of his surroundings is a vigilant man.
A bishop then must be…vigilant.
—1 Timothy 3:2 King James Version
“Conquer yourself and you have conquered the world.”
—St. Augustine
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy;
I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”
—Jesus, John 10:10
Investing for Your Future w/Rick Robinson EP 479
In this podcast episode we hear from the semi-retired founder and CEO of Robinson Nursery Incorporated, Rick Robinson.
Rick shares about his philosophies for giving, and to whom. What does good stewardship look like and what he believes God's Word tells him to do with his resources is also discussed.
It’s no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose. -Jim Elliot
Boots on the Ground: Take a step of faith in your stewardship journey by giving 10 percent.
The Full Capacity Man, The Moderate Man EP 478
In this episode Jim share about what it looks like to be a moderate man. He shares about what areas in our lives we need to be moderate in and why? There are some areas that most people don't talk about that Jim talks about here.
How are you doing to be a moderate man?
Can you answer what is your why?
Do you have the ability to say NO to all things?
Can you name the acceptable sin in our culture?
For the overseer must not (be)…addicted to wine… but sober-minded —Titus 1:7-8 (NKJV)
An overseer, then, must be…prudent…not addicted to wine.
— 1 Timothy 3:2-3 (NASB)
“Complete abstinence is easier than perfect moderation.”
—St. Augustine (354-430 A.D.)
Building Your Legacy Now w/Rex Tignor EP 477
Rex Tignor from Manupministries.net shares about LEGACY. Men, what kind of legacy will you leave behind? You know, it’s never too late to start over.
L- Let it Go
E- Example
G- Grow Everyday
A- Accessible
C- Create Memories
Y- You – Be the Best You
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Rex is the Founder of ManUp Ministries (2006), and works closely with Iron Sharpens Iron Men’s Conferences. Rex is a Men in the Arena National Team Captain launching an Eastern Time Zone team in October.
Rex is passionate about helping men get out of the rut and he loves helping churches launch ministries to men.
Boots on the Ground: Here it is. Write down 50 things you want to say to your kids. These are words you want to leave them with them.
The Full Capacity Man, The Calm Man EP 476
The Calm Man sets the tone around him. A hot tempered man sets everyone else on pins and needles. Which are you?
For the overseer must…not (be) quick-tempered. —Titus 1:7
Keep calm and carry on.” —Great Britain Poster, 1939
“Stay calm. EXHALE. Squeeze. Follow through.” —Taped about my bow grip
Don’t sin by letting anger control you. Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry. — Ephesians 4:26,
“Anyone can hold the helm when the sea is calm.” —Publilius Syrus
This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. — James 1:19-20
Getting Back Up After Being Hit by a Train w/ Matt Hughes EP 475
What do you do when life knocks you down? UFC fighter Matt Hughes joined us to tell his story of perseverance despite difficult circumstances.
Matt Hughes is widely considered among the greatest fighters in the history of MMA. He is a two-time UFC Welterweight Champion, UFC Hall of Fame inductee, and NJCAA Hall of Fame inductee.
Matt ended his UFC career 45-9. During his tenures in the Ultimate Fighting Championship, Hughes put together two separate six-fight winning streaks, defeated all the available opposition in the welterweight division, and defended the belt a then-record seven times. In May 2010, Hughes became the eighth inductee into the UFC Hall of Fame.
During his reign, Hughes was considered the #1 pound-for-pound mixed martial artist in the world. He was also regarded by many as one of the greatest welterweight fighters of all time, as well as one of the greatest pound-for-pound fighters in the sport's history.
In 2008, Hughes published his autobiography, 'Made in America,' which made the New York Times bestseller list.
I love this part, “Hughes has no nickname, although because of his successes against Gracie Brazilian jiu-jitsu practitioners such as Royce Gracie, Renzo Gracie, Ricardo Almeida, and Matt Serra, people often refer to him as "the Gracie Killer".
Link to Matt's Highlight Finishes
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hd3wEsGzHfs
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The Full Capacity Man, The Witness EP 474
What do people in your community say about your witness? Do your actions show that you are a "Christian?"
An overseer, then…must have a good reputation with those outside the Church so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil. —1 Timothy 3:7
“In the midst of a world screaming for answers, Christians are stuttering.” —Howard Hendricks
You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the Lord. —Leviticus 19:18
“No one will receive Christ through you who will not receive you first.” —Joseph Aldrich, Gentle Persuasion
The second is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.” —Mark 12:31
What Matters Most, Psalm 46:10 Jim at Yamhill Christian Church EP 473
Jim is speaking at Yamhill Christian Church sharing how he listens to the voice of God. When was the last time you went into a quiet place to hear from God?
How to hear from God
- Heart of a Champion, Are you all in for Jesus?
- Pencil of a Sharp Shooter, Carry and notepad and pen or pencil.
- Eyes of a Hunter, Look for God in the midst of life.
- Ears of the Preyed upon. Listen for God’s voice.
The Full Capacity Man, The Respected Man EP 472
The Full Capacity Man Is a respected man. What does this look like? This episode touches on Jim's newest book that is coming soon, The Full Capacity Man.
The Greatest Gift a Man can Give
An overseer, then, must be…respectable.
—1 Timothy 3:2
“I firmly believe that respect is a lot more important, and a lot greater, than popularity.” — Julius “Dr. J” Erving NBA Star
“This is the same word, kosmios, that is translated ‘modesty’—literally, ‘with modesty’ in 1 Timothy 2:9. The basic meaning of the word is ‘orderly’. But Greek writers used it as a source of ‘respectable’ or ‘honorable.’” —Ralph Earle
Expositor’s Bible Commentary
Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments.
—1 Timothy 2:9
“I'm not concerned with your liking or disliking me... All I ask is that you respect me as a human being.”
—Jackie Robinson
1st African American Major League Baseball Player
Imperfect Parenting and How to Be Good at It w/Dave Wilson EP 471
How do we father well despite - and through - our mistakes? Author Dave Wilson joined us to discuss parenting wins and fails, and his book No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality. For the past twenty-five years, Dave and his wife Ann have been featured speakers at Family Life’s Weekend to Remember®, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country. Dave & Ann host a radio show for Family Life with featured guests on marriage/relationships/money and parenting.
Dave has served as the Detroit Lions Chaplain for thirty-three years. They have three grown sons, three daughters-in-law, and four grandchildren.
Dave and his wife co-authored the book, No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality which is our topic for today’s discussion.
The Four Stages of Parenting:
1. Discipline stage (ages one to five)
2. Training stage (ages five to twelve)
3. Coaching stage (ages twelve to eighteen)
4. Friendship stage (ages eighteen plus)
TOP FIVE PARENTING MISTAKES
Mistake #1: I left my soul at the office
Mistake #2: I was nicer to the mailman than to my kids
Mistake #3: I forgot the Bullseye
Mistake #4: I neglected my marriage
Mistake #5: I didn’t hug enough
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The Full Capacity Man, Live Above Reproach EP 470
The Full Capacity Man lives above reproach. What does this look like? This episode touches on Jim's newest book that is coming soon, The Full Capacity Man.
Are you blameless and unrebukeable? The Full Capacity Man works to attain this in his life.
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One Thing to do in a Restaurant that will Change your Life w/Doug Pollock EP 469
Doug Pollock is an author, a speaker, a YMCA chaplain, and an affiliate of Athletes in Action whose focus is to help Christ followers worldwide increase the quantity and the quality of their spiritual conversations in practical, doable, and authentic ways.
Over the years Doug’s ministry endeavors have taken him to 42 different countries and throughout most of the United States to share God’s never-changing message with an ever-changing world. Currently, his “God Space” book and workshop keep him busy speaking in faith communities worldwide.
We will take a look at what these phrases mean.
- Jesus Glasses
- Stepping Out and Entering In
- Information to Transformation
- God’s teeter-totter
- Spiritual appetizers
“If we’re going to create God Space for others, it has to start inside us. It takes safe people to create safe places.”
The Ten Killers of Spiritual Conversations
Killer 1: An Unbelieving Heart
Killer 2: Pre-Conversation History
Killer 3: Awkward Transitions
Killer 4: Our Language, Not Theirs
Killer 5: Disrespect
Killer 6: Agendas
Killer 7: Control
Killer 8: Judgement
Killer 9: Combativeness
Killer 10: It’s All About Me
Boots on the Ground:
The next time you eat out I want you to PRAY for your waiter of waitress.
The Full Capacity Man Introduction EP 468
Guys do you meet the qualifications of an elder? Do you know what they are?
Men, YOU are designed to carry the full weight of manhood.
God has designed you to live as a full capacity man.
This series of Equipping in Ten are to introduce Jim's newest book The Full Capacity Man.
Bouncing back from Fatherhood Faceplants w/Troy Magnum EP 467
Troy Mangum is an author, speaker, podcaster (The Kindling Fire) and men’s advocate. Creator of Hocoka Men- (an initiation experience for young men). A Lumbee Indian Tribal member. Troy lives in Raleigh NC with wife Kathy. He has two sons, two daughters and one son-in-law.
A former YWAM missionary, hardcore punk singer, substance abuse counselor, busker, long boarder, exotic fruit farmer, vert skater, singer-songwriter, software engineering manager, traveling hitchhiker and seminary dropout.
As fathers we mess up. We need to own these mess ups and find healing and move forward to find freedom.
The Fatherhood Faceplants book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3kMfHfl Troy's personal website: troymangum.comHow to Overcome being Snot-Bubbled in Life EP 466
Are there any areas in your life that can get you snot-bubbled? Many men live a life without regard to any consequences of their poor choices until they get taken out by them.
Do you have secrets in life that if revealed can take you out or hurt your integrity? Get them out into the light and deal with them like men.
Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Finishing Strong EP 465
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials
Finishing Strong Book/Organization
10. Brett Clemmer (Ep 233) No Man Left Behind
9. Clair Hoover (Ep 417) NCMM
8. Jim Whitmore (Ep 449) NCMM
7. Patrick Morely (Ep 366) Christian Man
6. Bud Lindstrand (Ep 219) MODA
5. Jack Deere (Ep 247) Even in our Darkness
4. Gene Getz (Ep 253) Life Essentials Bible
3. Gene Getz (Ep 255) Measure of a Man
2. Jerry Boykin (Ep 318) Never Surrender
1. Ron Deal (Ep 350) Smart Stepdad
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How will you Finish this Life? Episode 464
If done right a man’s greatest years are his final years, when he can enjoy the benefits of wisdom gained over a lifetime ascent up the mountain of God. It’s in his twilight that a man’s voice ech-oes most powerfully to the younger generations. Proverbs 17:6 reminds us of the truth that, “Children’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children.”
If you’ve passed the baton, take it back. Finish your life strong.
Life is more than the hike out of a scorching canyon and noon. It’s about those moments at the truck over an ice cold drink with someone you love—after that we learn the joy of a life well lived.
There are finishes and there are strong finishes. They are not the same. Sometimes a finish is a wrong finish. A divorce is a wrong finish. A suicide is a wrong finish. Getting fired from your job for reasons you could have avoided is a wrong finish. To live selfishly in retirement, refusing to impact others with your experiences, wisdom, and expertise is a wrong finish.
It may be the most tragic finish of them all.
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Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Leading Courageously EP 463
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials
Leading Courageously Book
- My favorite episode came from here
1. Bill Farrel (Ep 201) Red Hot Monogamy
2. Jason Karampatsos (Ep 239) Elephant in the Room
3. Gary Chapman (Ep 344) 5 Love Languages
4. Don Minter (Ep 178) 31 Days
5. Willard Harley (Ep 128) His Needs Her Needs
6. Michelle Watson Canfield (Ep 443) Let’s Talk
7. Wess Stafford (Ep 48) Too Small to Ignore, Just a Minute
8. Emerson Eggerichs (Ep 361) Love and Respect
9. Regi Campbell (Ep 293) Radical Husbands
10. Paul and Virginia Friesen (Ep 421) Interview w/Jim & Shanna
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What is the Apex of Manhood? EP 462
If there is a creator and He created you, don't you think he has a plan for your life? And in order for you to know what that plan is shouldn't you pursue the one who made you? What are some ways you pursue God?
Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Pursuing God Passionately EP 461
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials
Pursuing God Passionately Book
10. Seth Barnes (Ep 184) World Race
9. Jeff Deyo (Ep 269) Awakening Pure Worship
8. Michael Thompson (Ep 195,197) Heart of a Warrior
7. Robert Lewis (Ep 342) Raising a Modern Day
6. Greg Matthews (Ep 305) Wild Awakenings
5. Kenny Joyner (Ep 445,447) Without a Father
4. Bill Perkins (Ep 227) Jesus Story
3. Wayne Jacobsen (Ep 265) The God Journey/Shack
2. Justin Overlander (Ep 441) The Chosen
1. Rick Robinson (Ep 479) His Story
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The Greatest Battle a Man Must Daily Fight EP 460
Fighting Apathy is one of the greatest battles that a man must win each day. Do not become indifferent to the things in this world that matter. Do the hard things so you can reap a reward. The Climb is our study guide that goes with this episode. Go to our website and sign up for one of our virtual teams that will launch this fall. Join Our Program.
Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Fighting Apathy EP 459
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials
Fighting Apathy Book
10. Kenny Luck (EP 164) Dangerous Good
9. Paul Cole (Ep 338) Just a Bartender
8. Stephen Mansfield (Ep 130) God and Guinness
7. Elmo Winters (Ep 374) Overcoming Racism
6. Clarence Shuler (Ep 435) Keeping your wife
5. Paul Friesen (Ep 297) Lovin’ Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain’t No Jesus.
4. Todd Wilson (Ep 380) Family Man Ministry
3. Paul Coughlin (Ep 316) No More Christian Nice Guy
2. Brad Huddleston (Ep 453) Digital Cocaine
1. Allen Schwartz (Ep 281) Leadville 100
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Why a Man Should Protect His Integrity. EP 458
Protecting integrity should be seen as an important habit for men. Jim and Dale talk about what it is and why it is so important. Enjoy this episode. Leave a review and share the podcast with other men.
Men in the Arena Top 10 Podcasts on Protecting Integrity EP 457
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials
Protecting integrity - The Trailhead
10. Sam Black (Ep 334) Covenant Eyes
9. Joe Martin (EP 261) Real Men Connect
8. Matt Loehr (EP 263) Whose Got your back
7. Bill Hendricks (EP 352) Men of Influence
6. Rod Handley (EP 394, 396) Character that Counts
5. Tom Wilson (EP 411) Five Essential to Engage
4. BILL PERKINS (EP 88, 227) 6 RULES, BATTLES, JESUS STORY
3. Rick Johnson (EP 301) Power of a Man
2. Earl Wilson (Ep 126) Restoring the Fallen
1. John Eldredge (EP 94) Wild at Heart
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Are you Good or Nice? One Thing Jim does that will Help you Change your World. EP 456
Are you a Good Guy or a Nice Guy? Jim shares about something he has been challenged with in living out his faith. This one habit he has started to form has the potential to change him, his family and those he comes in contact with. We hope this episode challenges you to add this one thing into your life and see how it changes your world around you.
"You are either a missionary or a mission field."- Shanna Ramos
Unleash Your Best in Life and Work w/ Eric Boles EP 455
Eric Boles is the CEO and Founder of The Game Changers, Inc., a noted global expert in talent development and peak performance. Eric greatest impact and focus is on people. His perspectives on managing and leading change, transforming culture and overcoming complacency are laced with practical tools and principles that can be applied to a man’s personal life.
Eric learned many of his principles of peak performance, team dynamics and leadership from his experience as a Wide Receiver with the National Football League. . Eric is the author of a book entitled “Moving to Great...Unleashing Your Best in Life and Work.” Which is our focus of today’s episode.
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Write down each of the questions in the 4 quarters and answer them honestly and Ask your wife if you were honest
- Who Am I?
- How Did I get Here?
- Where Am I Going?
- How Do I Get There?
One Habit the Man in the "Stress Bubble" can not Neglect Part 2 EP 454
Jim Ramos shares his method of reads books, how he gets the most out of the book and when to put a book down when it does not speak to you. This podcast is packed with practical ways to get the most out of a book.
Winning the Digital Cocaine Battle and Navigating Through It with Your Family w/Brad Huddleston EP 453
If you are a dad you need to listen to this episode! Your kids probably already have an addiction to something and you may not even realize it!
Brad Huddleston is an internationally respected speaker, consultant, teacher and author on the important issues such as technology and culture. He has worked with universities, schools, churches and law enforcement, and spoken to hundreds of thousands around the world on both the advantages of well-used technology tools and the dangers of the growing trend toward technology addiction. Brad has an on-going collaboration with the Bureau of Market Research (BMR) and its Neuroscience Division at the University of South Africa. Brad has a degree in Computer Science and a Diploma of Biblical Studies and is a credentialed minister in the Acts 2 Alliance (A2A) movement in Australia. He's also a frequent guest on radio and television and author of Digital Cocaine: A Journey Toward iBalance and The Dark Side of Technology: Restoring Balance in the Digital Age. Brad and his wife, Beth, live in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley in Virginia (USA).
One Habit the Man in the "Stress Bubble" can not Neglect Part 1 EP 452
There are plenty of good habits that men in the stress bubble should have. Here is one that we believe you need to have to stay sharp and to lead well. Remember, "Leaders are Learners".
Get out in Front, Lead those you Love, do Something, Be the Tip of the Spear EP 450
This Equipping Episode is taken from Jim's newest book, STRONG MEN DANGEROUS TIMES, Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World. This chapter is Tip of the Spear, Lead by Example.
Guys, are you at least doing something to lead?
“You have to go out. You don’t have to come back.” ~Unofficial Coast Guard motto
Your Bad Father Is No Excuse for Your Poor Fathering w/ Jim Whitmore EP 449
Jim Whitmore shares about his "unique" relationship with his father and how he was still able to honor him. His father was married 15 times, and walked out of Death Row in the State Texas! His story should challenge all men in the area of honoring our parents.
Jim Whitmore has worked at FamilyLife for 23 years and currently serves as the Event Producer for FamilyLife events, like the Love Like You Mean it Marriage Cruise, FamilyLife Donor Events, Blended and Blessed, and the Summit on Stepfamilies Livestream. Jim currently serve as the President of the National Coalition of Ministries to Men, leading the Men's ministry at his church. He is passionate about reaching young men to experience God in a real, personal and practical way.
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Write a tribute letter to your dad. And share it with us.
Tribute (Blessing) Letter
From NCMM President Jim Whitmore to His Father
Edited: May 27, 2021
Dad, you never let me tell you how much I appreciate you and need you in my life. I guess it's your tough outer skin that hides on the softest hearts I have ever known. So, in the presence of my friends and family I would like to take the time to honor you publicly and to thank you. I am so very glad that I didn’t have the typical father; I don’t know that I would have become the man that I am.
You were no Ward Cleaver that’s for sure. But I know that no father could love a son more than you did. Ever since I can remember you have told me you love me more than life itself and I have never doubted that. So much of who I am is because of the experience you gave me. I took the best of your qualities and made them a part of who I am and learned from your mistakes, and there were plenty of them as well. We don’t always see eye to eye, but you have at least respected my values and beliefs even when they clashed with yours.
I can never express my gratitude for the experiences you have given me. You showed me the world through your eyes, our trips around the world expanded my horizons. You always wanted me to see the real side of life but more important than that, you wanted me to experience them. You have never sugar coated or hid the truth and for that I am eternally grateful.
So many of my greatest gifts have come from you. You gave me the gift of speech, the ability to be comfortable in any environment, and the confidence to look any man in the eye and consider him my equal. You have taught me to fear no one, except God.
You weren’t the model Dad, but you were my friend. I always knew that I could tell you the truth about anything and you loved me with all your heart. You gave me a liberal education and made me student of life. What a precious gift.
I confess before my friends and family you were the perfect father for me, you were my greatest fan, confidant, and supporter. You loved me and always affirmed me. Dad I love you. I accept you for who you are and thanks for always being there and giving me more than a last name and I will always be there for you.
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How to Be a Daughter Whisperer EP 448
This equipping episode is inspired by our interview with Michelle Watson Canfield. This is the T.A.L.K. method to use with your daughter.
Time: Carve It Out
Affection: She Will Get It Somewhere
Listen: Your Greatest Gift
Kindness: If It is Broken, DON’T Fix It
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Fatherly Words of Wisdom from a Fatherless Man Part 2 w/ Kenneth Joyner EP 447
Kenneth Joyner is the director and co-founder of Boys With A Purpose, a nonprofit After-school Mentoring Organization for young boys. The organization has been serving the Charleston, South Carolina area since 2016. Growing up without his father sparked a passion to help young men develop their gifts and to ultimately find their life’s purpose. The passion started in 1998 when he led a youth group at his church in Baltimore, Md. Boys to Men was the beginning of a lifelong mission to help build and develop strong young men. In 2016 this journey led him to Memminger Elementary School where he helped to start the organization he now runs.
Kenneth structured his book Without A Father: From Fear To Faith, around twenty core principles of being a father figure, which isn’t necessarily about being the biological father (although it can be), but it’s about playing the role of a father figure. These principles will be called W.O.W for Words of Wisdom.
W.O.W #9 Love Beyond Your Pain.
W.O.W #10 Don’t Worship Money.
W.O.W #11 Transform Your Thinking.
W.O.W #12 Be Responsible.
W.O.W #13 Be Present.
W.O.W #14 Finish What You Start.
W.O.W #15 Failure Produces Success
W.O.W #16 Do you - Discover Your Purpose.
W.O.W #17 Know and Develop Your Self-Worth.
W.O.W #18 Walk by Faith.
W.O.W #19 Play Until You Win.
W.O.W #20 Leave a Legacy.
W.O.W #21 Live in Truth and Obedience.
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What are 5 things a dad whisperer does? EP 446
Inspired by our interview with Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield:
What are 5 things a dad whisperer does?
#1 HE LIKES HIS DAUGHTERS AND ENJOYS BEING WITH THEM
#2 HE LETS THEM LEAP, LAUGH AND LOVE BEACUSE HE LETS THEM BE WHO THEY ARE
#3 HE LISTENS TO HIS DAUGHTER
#4 HE SETS LIMITS
#5 HIS DAUGHTERS FOLLOW HIS LEAD IN HONORING HIS FAITH IN JESUS
Fatherly Words of Wisdom from a Fatherless Man Part 1 w/ Kenneth Joyner EP 445
Kenneth Joyner is the director and co-founder of Boys With A Purpose, a nonprofit After-school Mentoring Organization for young boys. The organization has been serving the Charleston, South Carolina area since 2016. Growing up without his father sparked a passion to help young men develop their gifts and to ultimately find their life’s purpose. The passion started in 1998 when he led a youth group at his church in Baltimore, Md. Boys to Men was the beginning of a lifelong mission to help build and develop strong young men. In 2016 this journey led him to Memminger Elementary School where he helped to start the organization he now runs.
Kenneth structured his book Without A Father: From Fear To Faith, around twenty core principles of being a father figure, which isn’t necessarily about being the biological father (although it can be), but it’s about playing the role of a father figure. These principles will be called W.O.W for Words of Wisdom.
W.O.W #1 Know Who You Are.
W.O.W #2 Learn to Forgive.
W.O.W #3 Be Humble.
W.O.W #4 Learn How to Die.
W.O.W #5 Embrace Wisdom.
W.O.W #6 Let Life Teach You.
W.O.W #7 Learn to Love Knowledge.
W.O.W #8 Friends Equal Future.
Boots on the Ground:
Pick one of these principles above and teach it to a young boy this week.
The Most Dangerous Prayer for the Man in the Arena EP 444
You are not meant to be anonymous. God has placed you in the time place you are in to be a light for Him. So pray this prayer. God put me on display so that I can bring you glory. No more hiding in the pews at your church. Get into the arena!
Tips to Becoming a Daughter Whisperer From the Dad Whisperer w/ Michelle Watson Ep 443
In January 2010 Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield founded The Abba Project where she leads dads of daughters ages 13 to 30 to dial in with more intention and consistency to their heart space. She leads a local group in Portland, Oregon annually every year from September through May. (you can read more under The Abba Project)
Dr. Michelle has coached offspring Abba Project groups in Virginia and Washington State, with more to come.
Dr. Michelle has written a book for dads of daughters titled, Dad, Here’s What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter’s Heart and it’s also available in audiobook form in her own voice on Audible here.
Her second book, “Let’s Talk, Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters” is filled with scripts for dads to equip them to strategically lead their daughters into conversations that matter, with a focus on greater depth that will allow her to know herself better!
Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield hosts a radio program called The Dad Whisperer where her purpose is to provide practical resources for dads, especially those with daughters. (available here, iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and Google Podcasts)
http://www.drmichellewatson.com/
Boots on the Ground For every daughter you have sit down with them and ask them to talk and ask to hear their heart.
Persecuted? GOOD. One Thing the Godly Man Prays For - Equipping Men in Ten EP 442
Persecution of Christians is very prevalent around the world. In America we really don’t experience it. But the day is coming. How soft are we when it comes to our faith? We may need to pray for persecution. Are you ready?
The most important Thing to Lead Well w/Justen Overlander EP 441
Justen Overlander is the associate producer of The Chosen, the first-ever multi-season show about Jesus and His followers. The global success of The Chosen has allowed Justen to reach and remind people that Jesus meets you where you’re at. As a former teacher and coach, Justen is passionate about bringing the best out of everyone and reminding them that nothing can separate them from the love of God.
Boots on the Ground:
Download The Chosen app on your device and watch it with your family.
"Wow, we were amazed by the pilot episode of The Chosen. Our family would absolutely love to see a TV series about the life of Jesus created. We’d binge watch the whole season all at once... we’re praying for the success of this project." -The Robertsons (Stars of "Duck Dynasty")You Love Your Wife, but Do You Accept Her? EP 440
… Accepting your wife
Our first year of marriage was hell and you can read about it in my book Strong Men, Dangerous Times.
We were married 9 months after dating and really didn’t know each other the way we probably should have.
I discovered that it was easier to love her than to accept her. I needed to accept who she was.
I had to accept I had no power to change Shanna, but I could change my attitude towards her and try to win her.
We win our wives when we accept, love and serve them.
Boots on the Ground
Without using physical features, make a list of what you love about your wife. Then take her on a date and share this list with her.
Getting Help When Your Life Is Out of Control w/ Dan Wobschall EP 439
Dan Wobschall has been in sexual addiction ministry since 2012 and joined the team at Be Broken Ministries in 2015 where he currently serves as Director Gateway to Freedom. Dan is the currently Executive Director for BoldPath Life Strategies.
He is a sexual addiction recovery coach for men, has been a contributor to the Covenant Eyes blogging team, and worked with them at a few Covenant Eyes events.
This article from Covenant Eyes includes a self-assessment. Self-Assessment - "Am I a Sex Addict?" Private Sex Addiction Self-Assessment www.bebroken.com Dan@Bebroken.com Gateway to Freedom workshop Boots on the Ground: Take the assessment above. How do you score?Men in the Arena Books and Swag
Why Cohabitation Before Marriage Is an Ignorant, Dumb, Unwise, and Overall Bad Idea EP 438
Why it is Bad????
- The Bible
GEN 2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
1 COR 7: 1Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 3 The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
HEB 13:4 Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge
1 Cor 6:18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies.
- Testing the relationship creates a cracked broken relationship foundation because it is a relationship that based on a test and not commitment
- Marriage and children will never be convenient. If your marriage is based on this myth you will struggle.
- It dishonors the woman you are called to protect by parading her around.
- Statistics prove that it is a BAD idea with 70% of cohabitator divorcing over the already high 50%. Again, the Bible proves itself over the world’s wisdom
Psychology Today The new study is by Michael Rosenfeld and Katharina Roesler. Their findings suggest that there remains an increased risk for divorce for those living together prior to marriage and that prior studies suggesting the effect went away had a bias toward analyzing shorter versus longer-term effects. They found that living together before marriage was associated with lower odds of divorce in the first year of marriage, but increased odds of divorce in all other years tested, and this finding held across decades of data.
SOLUTION “IF you are claiming to follow Jesus” If you do not, then do what you want.
- Get married asap
- Move out asap
- Keep doing what you are doing and pay for it.
Do you Have the Grit Needed to See Your Dreams Come to Fruition? Jim in Prattville Alabama EP 437
In this episode we will hear from Jim Ramos speaking At Boones Chapel in Prattville, Alabama. Every so often we will feature Jim speaking live at one of his event. At the end of this episode go to www.meninthearena.org and pick up Jim’s newest Book, Strong Man Dangerous times. Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World.
Jim speaks on Grit. Men, never give up. They don't throw in the towel. They don't hide and defer. They get in the arena and fight each day and finish well.
You Are Soft, Identify Where EP 436
Have you ever been called soft? Or maybe, you think you are so hardcore with no flaws. We all have something we need to work on. What is yours? A man in the arena allows other men to speak into their lives and help them identify their weaknesses.
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Keeping your Wife your best Friend w/Clarence Schuler EP 435
Dr. Clarence Schuler was filmed as a marriage expert for one session of Oprah’s “Love Goals” reality show in 2020. He & his wife Brenda are members of FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team. He serves on the Fatherhood CoMission Board. Clarence partners with Gary Chapman and speaks at The Five Love Languages and Date Night events. He has authored 10 books including our book for today, Making your Wife your Best Friend.
"Conflict is not about winning. It’s about understanding."
"If couples prays together, they have a 1 in 10000 chance of divorcing."
"How I treat the gift (my wife) is a reflection of my worship for God."
Boots on the Ground
Ask yourself this question, and your wife. Are you a pleasure to be married to?
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Strong Men Dangerous Times: Part 5 EP 434
The TRAIL’S END is FINISHING STRONG because it is the functional as well as foundational component of manhood. Why do so many men finish wrong and so few finish strong?
Men in the Arena. Men in the Stress Bubble raising kids right now, listen up! Do you want to finish strong? GOOD!
Here is how.
Finish every day strong (6:00 -9:00), compounded over time, will equal a strong LIFE finish.
Without these four things, a man is in SERIOUS danger of finishing wrong. This is so important guys!
REPUTABLE (1 Timothy 3:7)
- There is nothing in my private life that could cause embarrassment to me or my family if it became public.
- Those who know me best, respect me the most.
WISE (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8)
- People often come to me for advice.
- I seek the advice from people I trust before making and big decision.
TACTFUL (1 Timothy 3:3, and Titus 1:7)
- I try to make peace when a conflict begins, rather than welcoming a fight.
- I am not considered to be argumentative.
BALANCED (1 Timothy 3:2)
- I rarely overcommit myself.
- I regularly make time to regroup, reflect, and refresh.
7 Tools every Father needs w/Kent Evans EP 433
Kent Evans is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps fathers become disciple-makers. After a twenty-year career as a business leader, he embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He’s appeared on television, radio, web outlets and podcasts. He’s spoken at parenting and men’s events. His first book, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, was written to help men learn how to find mentors and wise counsel. Learn more at https://manhoodjourney.org/ or https://fatheronpurpose.org/
THE TOOLS
TOOL #1: TRUST GOD “If you’re headed down the path of being a godly dad, you won’t get too far without something guiding your direction. You’re gonna need a true north. Trusting God is the first tool you need in your pack.”
TOOL #2: KNOW SCRIPTURE
TOOL #3: PRAY FERVENTLY “The more you trust God and the more you know His Word, the more you realize you need Him. You can’t do this alone. You need help. Reliance on God requires communication with God. It’s a two-way transmission that never stops.”
TOOL #4: BUILD RELATIONSHIPS “You’re not built to go through this life alone. Forces are waging war against you. For you to have the tool of building relationships, you’ll need to head these relationship killers off at the pass— PRIDE: Self-focus is so subtle you often don’t see it until it’s too late CULTURE: You’re told real men keep silent–if you talk, you’re the odd-man-out COMPETITION: You compete all the time and it’s exhausting.”
TOOL #5: SERVE OTHERS “When we serve out of duty, we’re doing it begrudgingly. We do it because we have to. When we’re serving from a place of devotion, we’re serving because we care about the other person. We do it because we choose to. When we serve from a heart of delight, we’re actually, looking forward to serving. We do it because we get to.”
TOOL #6: STEWARD RESOURCES “The Godly dad understands everything he has is not his own. His money, time, family, possessions, influence. These are all gifts that must be stewarded well.”
TOOL #7: MAKE DISCIPLES “The Godly dad makes disciples. There are two places where you should be discipling others.”
Strong Men Dangerous Times: Part 4 EP 432
The DESCENT is LEADING COURAGEOUSLY because it is the functional as well as foundational component of manhood. Every year more people die on the DESCENT than the climb.
SERVANT (1 Timothy 3:1, and Acts 20:28)
- I find true joy in serving others.
- My family would say that I am a willing servant.
TEACHER (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:9)
- I regularly share my Christian beliefs.
- I often share with others what I have learned in the Bible.
LEADER (1 Timothy 3:4 and Titus 1:6)
- I consistently lead by Joshua 24:15, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
- My wife trusts my spiritual leadership.
SELFLESS (Titus 1:7)
- I live by C.S. Lewis’ quote that, “Humility is not thinking less of yourself. It is thinking of yourself less.”
- I am willing to listen and adjust if someone’s idea is better than mine.
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Finding Victory over your counterfeit Self w/Patrick Tyndall EP 431
Patrick is the founder and Executive Director of Ironman Outdoors, a men's ministry whose mission is to "Connect Men to Christ in the Outdoors." Patrick and his army of volunteer pro staffers lead over 40 weekend hunting and fishing retreats for men each year. From humble beginnings in his Sunday School class, the ministry has grown to 14 states and offers life changing weekends for men each year. Patrick and his wife Sheron have 4 children and reside in Blythewood, SC.
Our ministry reaches men for Christ through our "manhood discussions." We create a Bass Pro Shop atmosphere where men feel safe taking off their camo!
Boots on the Ground:
Go to BVOAM Measure where you are as a man to see where you need to take your face paint off.
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Strong Men Dangerous Times Part 3 EP 430
The summit is PURSUING GOD PASSIONATELY because it is apex of masculinity It is the summit of manhood.
PURSUING GOD PASSIONATELY
HOSPITABLE (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8)
- I come alive when I can bless someone with a gift or help them in a time of need.
- I love to make people feel welcome.
GENEROUS (1 Timothy 3:3 and Titus 1:7)
- I give at least 10% my income to the causes I care about.
- I am known as a generous man.
GOOD (Titus 1:8)
- I long for the things that please God.
- I do not allow anything into my mind that would hinder me from becoming God’s best version of me.
DEVOUT (Titus 1:8)
- I strive to find victory in my life over sin.
- My life looks different than those who do not follow Christ.
Finding Hope in despairing Times w/Thane Marcus EP 429
Thane Marcus Ringler is a former professional golfer turned speaker, writer, and development coach living in Denver, CO with his wife Evan. Thane is the host of The Up & Comers Show, a podcast all about the process of becoming and living with intentionality, while sharing stories from other inspiring up and comers along the way. Today we are talking about his short ebook called, Catalysts For Hope: Unlocking Energy, Optimism, And Your Full Potential, which is today’s topic for the show.
Boots on the Ground
Hit Thane up on his website. And go listen to EP 415 The Two Most Important Questions a Man Needs To Answer, and Jim will help you craft your own purpose statement.
Strong Men Dangerous Times Part 2 EP 428
Fighting Apathy -
FAITHFUL (1 Timothy 3:2)
1. I follow strict moral boundaries to ensure my fidelity.
2. My wife would say that I consider her the most important person to me.
MODERATE (1 Timothy 3:3; Titus 1:7)
1. There is no food, drink, or foreign substance that has mastery over me.
2. I am not overweight for my age, body type, and height.
PEACEMAKER (1 Timothy 3:3)
1. People tell me that I am a team player who works well with others.
2. When I have a problem with someone, I go to them instead of ignoring it.
DISCIPLINED (1 Timothy 3:6)
1. I exercise at least 3-4 times a week.
2. I do not engage in gossip or negative talk.
Freedom and Victory from Lust w/Joe Rigney EP 427
Joe Rigney is assistant professor of theology and literature at Bethlehem College & Seminary in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He is also a pastor at Cities Church in St. Paul and the author of: 5 Books including our book for today— More Than a Battle: How to Experience Victory, Freedom, and Healing from Lust. He lives in Minneapolis with his wife and three sons.
Boots on the Ground:
Women, have a conversation without being threatened about lust with your husband.
Men, get into a group of men who will push you because they want you to win.
Strong Men Dangerous Times Part 1 EP 426
PROTECTING INTEGRITY
A. RESPECTED (1 Timothy 3:2)
- I have been told that I am a role model.
- I am known as a man of my word.
B. PATIENT (Titus 1:7)
- Those closest to me would say I am a great listener.
- I model thinking before speaking.
C. GENTLE (1 Timothy 3:3)
- I am careful not to inflict guilt or shame upon someone when they make a mistake.
- I am sensitive to the feelings of others.
D. FAIR (Titus 1:8)
- I judge a person by their character more than their color, religion, appearance.
- I am known as a someone who is fair.
Thinking differently to Unleash your Potential w/Greg Stoughton EP 425
Greg Stoughton was born with ectrodactyly, a rare genetic condition causing him to miss a few fingers and toes at birth, with some of those have being fused. Yet, Greg is an overcomer!
Greg Stoughton has served in full time ministry for over three decades with Cru—formerly Campus Crusade for Christ—with Athletes in Action.
Throughout Greg’s 30-years in ministry, a passion to reach and equip men is evidenced in many roles.
Greg authored a book about his faith and life journey, Born Wrong, Made Right: Thinking Differently to Unleash Your Potential. It’s our focus of today’s conversation.
Boots on the Ground:
Take a piece of pare and draw a straight line and make a timeline of your life thus far. Write down you highlights and lowlights. Then identify where God was in your life.
Jim's Magnum Opus (Life Work) Reveal EP 424
Jim Ramos Reveals his Life Work that we believe will be live changing for 1000's of men around the world. With the help of God's word Jim helps men to identify what a godly man looks like and for men to identify where they are at on their journey.
How to Become a Better Stepdad w/ Ron Deal Ep 423
Did you know that more and more families have a step situation in them today. In this Podcast Ron Deal helps dads win in step parenting through the day to day conflicts that arise.
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies, Director of FamilyLife Blended, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the Smart Stepdad which we will be talking about today.
His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today.
Sexpectations: 5 Secrets to Getting More Sex EP 422
1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things.
When we step into manhood we think Her first. When we act like a male AKA, a boy we think of ourselves first. If you want to have more satisfaction in the arena of sex, then put her first.
Your Best Marriage Starts Now! w/ Jim and Shanna Ramos and Dr's Paul and Virginia Friesen's EP 421
This is a special episode with Jim and Shanna Ramos, and Dr's Paul and Virginia Friesen. You do not want to miss this one!
Dr's. Paul and Virginia Friesen have been involved in Family Ministries for more than 40 years through family camps, church staff positions, speaking, consulting, and writing. In 2003, they founded Home Improvement Ministries (www.HIMweb.org), a non-profit organization dedicated to equipping individuals and churches to better encourage marriages and families in living out God's design for healthy relationships.
As the lead resource couple at Home Improvement Ministries, the Friesen's regularly speak at marriage, men’s, and women’s conferences in the US and internationally, as well as local family and parenting seminars, and have an ongoing ministry with professional athletes. Paul and Virginia both have Doctorates in Marriage and Family Therapy from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary.
Between them they have authored more than fifteen books and curriculums on parenting and marriage, including Letters to My Daughters, In Our Image, Raising a Trailblazer, Before You Save the Date, The Marriage App, and most recently, Lovin’ Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain’t No Jesus.
Paul and Virginia were married in 1976 and are the parents of three young adult women, two of whom are now married to wonderful, Godly men. Their middle daughter is living fully for Christ as a single woman and trusting God for His best. Paul and Virginia’s greatest joy in life is knowing that their children are “walking in the truth.”
The Marriage App is available to you for 50% off during the month of March with code: Arena at check out.
Boots on the Ground
Sit down with your wife and ask each other for forgiveness. Also, take notes on these applications and do them.
Why Your Wife Wants to Control You EP 420
Jim Ramos answers the question, Why your wife wants to control you. Wether it is conscious or subconscious she has a natural propensity to do this and it has been happening since the beginning of time. Why is this?
What is the Purpose of Sex? w/ Sean McDowell EP 419
We live in a world that has fallen so far from biblical truth regarding sex, and many in Church have bought the lie. I regularly battle “Christian” men and their anti-biblical views of cohabitation, homosexuality, divorce, and sex outside of marriage.
Dr. Sean McDowell is a gifted communicator with a passion for equipping the church, and in particular young people, to make the case for the Christian faith. In addition to his role as Associate Professor in the Christian Apologetics program at Talbot School of Theology, Biola University, Sean travels throughout the United States and abroad, speaking at camps, churches, schools, universities, and conferences. Sean is the co-host for the Think Biblically podcast, which is one of the most popular podcasts on faith and cultural engagement. He has written, co-written, or edited more than twenty books and has a leading apologetics blog at seanmcdowell.org. In April 2000, Sean married his high school sweetheart, Stephanie. They have three children and live in San Juan Capistrano, California.
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The one thing to do to make your marriage last a life time. EP 418
Do you pray with your spouse? Is this something you never do or maybe just when you are in crisis? We would like to encourage you to make this an ongoing habit in your marriage and you will be surprised at how God moves in your relationship.
How to Deal With a Crisis? w/ Clair Hoover EP 417
In this episode we interview Clair Hoover with NCMM, National Coalition of Ministries to Men. Clair shares about that gut shot that every man gets. Are you ready for the gut shot when it comes? Because it will come.
Clair is a business owner specializing in commercial real estate development and management and has a calling to challenge and encourage men as Christ followers. Clair has a background in the marketplace with an emphasis in Accounting and Information Technologies and a degree from Millersville University.
For the past 14 years, he has also led the Men’s Ministry Leadership team at his home church and has had the opportunity to minister to and encourage over 10,000 men. Clair is currently serving as the Executive Director for the National Coalition of Ministries to Men.
Clair has a passion for encouraging men at all points in their journey to become all God designed them to be. Clair and his bride Bonnie reside with their two sons in Manheim, Pennsylvania.
“Boots on the Ground”
What’s next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard?
Here it is.
Guys if you are not involved with at least another guy in a Bible Study you have been gut shot already. Get plugged in and join or start one.
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Do you want a more fulfilled life? EP 416
A more fulfilled life comes with having a mentor/ confidant. Where do you find this guy? Why do so many guys lack this person in their life? We would love to hear from you on this.
The Two Most Important Questions a Man Needs To Answer EP 415
Have you ever been asked what your mission in life is? What are you here for? Or do you have a vision for your life? Guys we have to answer these questions. You knowing this will help you to live your life with direction. It is a tragedy to live your life aimless, with no vision. Don't be that guy. Live out your purpose.
Evaluating Your Progress With Your Goals You Set for the Year EP 414
How are you goals coming along that you set for the year. Jim shares some things that have worked for him in the past when it comes to achieving his goals in hopes that they will help you on your journey.
Man on a Mission w/Dan Meers EP 413
Dan Meers is a man on a mission. Living his life to brighten the day of others is what he is committed to. Being a mascot for Jesus is a big deal to Dan!
Dan Meers has been KC Wolf, the mascot of the Kansas City Chiefs, for more than 30 years. In 2006 he was selected as the first NFL mascot inducted into the Mascot Hall of Fame. Dan travels throughout the United States and the world entertaining thousands of people both in and out of costume. He has performed in over 30 states and ten different countries.
He is in high demand not only as a mascot but also as a humorous and motivational speaker to audiences of all ages. His enthusiasm, optimism and love for life are contagious and make Dan an inspiration to all those he meets.
Be it young or old, executive or blue collar, his audiences walk away with a smile and a renewed spirit to live life to the fullest.
Whether you’re a Kansas City Chiefs fan or not, you’ll enjoy Dan Meers as he shares his unique wit and wisdom about life.
Wolves Can’t Fly – Faith, Family and Fur
Mascot on a Mission – Living a Life of Influence
Tyranny of the Urgent by Charles Hummel
Boots on the Ground:
Men, get Into a group now. You need to be in some sort of group with other men.
How do you know you love money more than God? EP 412
We all worship something, and the way we spend our money and resources shows what we love and worship. Are you a generous person, giving to kingdom causes? Or are you building wealth for your comfort?
What does the way you spend and invest in say where your heart is?
What can make your life and marriage more fulfilling? EP 411
Tom Wilson has been in ministry for over 50 years. 30 plus years with Young Life. The last 15 he has been working with National Young Life, mentoring and leading “leaders”, Tom spent 10 years as CEO of Leadership Network------ working with the top innovative churches in the country, and CEO of Halftime with Bob Buford. Bob wrote the book “Halftime, help men move from Success to Significance. During those 10 years, Tom had the opportunity to help coach men who wanted to do something “that mattered” during their second half of life. During this time, he has taught Men’s Fraternity for five years with several hundred men. Now Tom is the CEO of BetterMan, helping build this new ministry and rolling out the new curriculum that Robert Lewis wrote.
In this episode you will learn what can make your life more fulfilled. What will help you be a better husband and father as well.
Boots on the Ground:
Get a confidant. Get an older guy in your life that you can confide in. Who will walk with you. Who will meet with you once a week to help you become your best version.
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Stupid or Smart- Evaluating your New Years goals EP 410
Are your goals SMART?
- Specific
- Measurable
- Attainable
- Realistic
- Time Sensitive
In order to reach your goals these are very important things to consider.
Link to Jim’s Message
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The Master Plan of Evangelism and Discipleship EP 409
Scotty Kessler is the Director of The Robert Coleman School of Discipleship and The Wes Neal School Of Sports Ministry at Faith International University and Seminary in Tacoma (WA) (https://faithseminary.edu/) where he is also an adjunct professor in both programs.
Scotty is also a consultant on initiatives related to advancing the Kingdom of God through prayer, discipleship and the integration of sport and faith.
He has over 35 years of Head and Assistant Football Coaching and Consulting experience, having coached primarily at the college level with stops in Illinois, Tennessee, Texas, California, Florida and Washington State.
Scotty received a Doctor of Humane Letters (honoris causa) from Faith International University and Seminary for his body of work and intensive approach to leadership and character development, spanning over three decades, equipping (discipling) men who disciple other men
He lives in Omaha (NE) with his wife Tammy and daughter Rylee. Additionally, he has two adult sons, Taylor and Reid Roelofs
Scotty has written multiple documents on making disciples, prayer and the integration of sport and faith, including YouTube seminary/university video course content/teachings of the previous subjects on the website - https://scottykessler.com/
Boots on the Ground:
Find a FATC guy. And Start discipling him.
2020 Men in the Arena Year in Review EP 408
God has done some amazing things in and through the ministries of Men in the Arena. We are beyond excited about what He has accomplished and what we know He will do in 2021. Listen to what is ahead for all of us in The Arena!
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Breaking out of addiction W/ Jack Levine EP 407
This is our second part of our interview with Jack Alan Levine. Jack has authored nine books, including My Addict Your Addict, and his newest books Addiction and Recovery Handbook to be released in January.
He is the creator of the online video program "Free for Life At Last" for those struggling with addiction and their families and speaks frequently at churches and men's conferences on “Overcoming Addiction”
He currently serves as Executive Pastor at his church.
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Boots on the Ground:
If you have identified an addictive behavior in your life, get in a group now.
How does iron sharpen iron in a bro-lationship EP 406
The episode is from a message Jim Ramos gave to the men at our weekly Arena Men's Gathering.
Bro-lationships are so important and Jim unpacks what they should look like. Are your bro-lationships unhealthy and co-dependent? Or are you and your bro's sharpening each other? Are you calling each other out and upward? Do you need a small group? We have teams of men meeting around the country on virtual teams. Reach out and let us know.
Jim Ramos preaches Eternal Father at Yamhill Christian Church EP 405
Jim Ramos preaches at Yamhill Community Church. What is in a name? In Jesus Name? This Christmas do you celebrate the Jesus in the Bible? The Messiah. The only uncreated one.
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Pandemic Fit; How to build a garage gym EP 404
In this episode Jim shares how he built his garage gym to stay fit during the pandemic. Jim shares what to look for and what to avoid. Follow @themeninthearena on instagram to see pictures of Jim's garage gym. Reach out if you want more info.
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The First Step in Victory of Addiction EP 403
Jack Alan Levine has authored nine books, including My Addict Your Addict, and his newest books Addiction and Recovery Handbook to be released in January.
He is the creator of the online video program "Free for Life At Last" for those struggling with addiction and their families and speaks frequently at churches and men's conferences on “Overcoming Addiction”
He currently serves as Executive Pastor at his church.
The manliest thing you can do Part 2 EP 402
When asked what is the manliest thing a guy can do, what comes to mind?
In this equipping episode we want to challenge you to think differently. When you think of confession what does this cause you to think of? What does it look like?
This is the last few days to get your free download of the Field Guide, so get it now!
Are You in a Season of Obscurity? w/ Scott Silverii EP 401
Many of us have experienced being in a season of obscurity. Maybe we are in it right now. What is God doing in us in this season? You are challenged to think about the fact that he is activating your anointing.
Dr. Scott Silverii is a son of the Living God. Thankful for the gift of his wife, Leah, they share seven kids, a French bulldog named Bacon and a micro-mini goldendoodle named Biscuit. A highly decorated, twenty-five year law enforcement career promptly ended in retirement when God called Scott out of public service and into HIS service. The “Chief” admits that leading people to Christ is more exciting than the twelve years he spent undercover, sixteen years in SWAT, and five years as chief of police combined.
Scott has earned a Master of Public Administration and a Ph.D. in Cultural Anthropology. Education and experience allow for a deeper understanding in ministering to the wounded, as he worked to break free from his own past pain and abuse.
In 2016, Scott was led to plant a church. Exclusive to online ministry, Five Stones Church.Online was born out of the calling to combat the negative influences reigning over social media. Scott’s alpha manhood model for heroes is defined by, “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love.” (1 Corinthians 16:13-14)
Scott and Leah love the Lord and the passion He’s placed on their hearts for ministering to people. An experienced speaker, mentor and confidential accountability partner, Scott is available for workshops, conferences and churches. He and Leah operate a nonprofit Christian publishing house that helps people share their stories with the world. Contact Five Stones Press for more information.
Five Stones Church Online - https://www.facebook.com/FiveStonesChurchOnline
Boots on the Ground: Ask God to show you what season your’e in. If you are in a season of obscurity hang in there and let God work in you.
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The manliest thing you can do Part 1 EP 400
When asked what is the manliest thing a guy can do, what comes to mind?
In this equipping episode we want to challenge you to think differently. When you think of confession what does this cause you to think of? What does it look like?
This is the last week to get your free download of the Field Guide, so get it now.
Thanksgiving 2020 EP 399
So, it Thanksgiving 2020. It's been a tough year. For many people it's been harder than any other year. How do you lead your family on Thanksgiving Day? As the leader you must lead. You still have things to be thankful for. Lets celebrate those things with our families. What you do and how you do it is so important.
ARE YOU BULLET PROOF? EP 398
Chad Zueck has been in full time vocational ministry for 15 years (a Lead Pastor for 10 yrs), and has been working in men’s ministry for 18 years.
Chad was not raised in a Christian home and after his parents divorced at age 4, his upbringing was very challenging. This fueled insecurity and frustration through the teenage years. Three days after high graduation, Chad joined the US Navy. Marla and Chad got married shortly after enlisting.
Chad gave his life to Christ at 21 and began to be fathered by God. Chad got connected to a PK group at his church and grew a bunch in a short time.
Chad learned how to be a father by being fathered by God. This sent him on a journey of Spirit filled self-discovery. Chad has been healed of many wounds and he is on a mission to help men find healing for their wounds.
Chad has developed some material that will be in an ebook. It is called the “Six Bulletproof Ways to Become a Better Man.” Also, he has a podcast called, “New Kind of Man” that spurred out of Luke 2:52 and Ephesians 4:22-24.
Instagram:
@anewkindofman
@chadzueck
Boots on the Ground:
Follow Chad on Instagram ad when his book comes out, get it.
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10 QUESTIONS TO ASK THE MEN IN YOUR GROUP EP 397
In this episode Jim shares the 10 questions that Rod Handley uses with his accountability groups. This episode is inspired by EP 394 and EP 396.
Question #1 “Have you spent daily time in Scriptures and in prayer?”
Question #2 “Have you had any flirtatious or lustful attitudes, tempting thoughts, or exposed yourself to any explicit materials which would not glorify God?”
Question #3 “Have you been completely above reproach in your financial dealings?”
Question #4 “Have you spent quality relationship time with family and friends?”
Question #5 “Have you done your 100% best in your job, school, etc.?”
Question #6 “Have you told any half-truths or outright lies, putting yourself in a better light to those around you?”
Question #7 “Have you shared the Gospel with an unbeliever this week?”
Question #8 “Have you taken care of your body through daily 1) physical exercise and 2) proper eating and 3) sleeping habits?”
Question #9 “Have you allowed any person or circumstance to rob you of your joy?”
Question #10 “Have you lied to us on any of your answers today?”
Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours? Part 2 EP 396
This episode is part 2 of the two part interview with Rod Handley.
Rod Handley is the Founder & President of Character that Counts, a ministry established in 2000. Rod speaks all across the nation to men, women and teenagers about character, integrity and accountability issues. He has written over 30 books including "Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours?" which details the “why’s” and “how’s” of accountability. For over 35 years, Rod has shared at hundreds of men’s events, conferences and retreats all across the nation.
From 1986-1999, he served on the staff of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, including 11 years as the COO/CFO. He has also spoken at hundreds of chapel services for a number of NFL, NBA and MLB teams, including serving as team chaplain for the Kansas City Royals (1995-2009) and the Seattle SuperSonics (1986-89). Rod and his wife Janna live in Lee's Summit, MO and they have four children (ages 19-26).
The Untold Truth About Your Wife EP 395
You've heard it said that the woman is the weaker counterpart to a man. What does this mean? Today this is an inflammatory statement to most if the world. Jim talks about the awesome characteristics of a woman and how we are to treat her.
Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours? Part 1 EP 394
This episode is part 1 of the two part interview with Rod Handley.
Rod Handley is the Founder & President of Character that Counts, a ministry established in 2000. Rod speaks all across the nation to men, women and teenagers about character, integrity and accountability issues. He has written over 30 books including "Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours?" which details the “why’s” and “how’s” of accountability. For over 35 years, Rod has shared at hundreds of men’s events, conferences and retreats all across the nation.
From 1986-1999, he served on the staff of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, including 11 years as the COO/CFO. He has also spoken at hundreds of chapel services for a number of NFL, NBA and MLB teams, including serving as team chaplain for the Kansas City Royals (1995-2009) and the Seattle SuperSonics (1986-89). Rod and his wife Janna live in Lee's Summit, MO and they have four children (ages 19-26).
Become a Leader of Men EP 393
Some are terrified to lead a group of men. We want to help take that fear away. We believe you can do it. We have created this episode to help you become a leader of men.
https://meninthearena.org/new-team-launch-steps
Overcoming Tragedy and Adversity EP 392
Aaron Sullivan is an Average Joe from Bennington, VT who has overcome mass tragedy and adversity. From the death of his family and obesity he has endured and with courage has overcome.
His goal is to reach the young men that are lost and either being the person to listen to them or getting them connected with an older/seasoned man that can listen and guide them.
Aaron was born into a hurting family. His parents had dealt with the loss of their first-born son and one of their only supports within a few months of each other. He played sports in school but stopped mid-high school when his friends convinced him to check out the computer classes and that skill set took off. Even attended the Skills USA competition for the classes.
Now he am a happily married to his best friend, which is a funny story. And the Lord blessed them with the children they have prayed for. Aaron prayed for a son to carry on the Sullivan name and Stacie prayed for a little girl.
From Aaron:
I am no expert in any areas, I know I joked around when I was younger being a jack of all trades, but a master of none. I tend to learn or take in knowledge to have tools that I may need for any given moment.
If anything, I can bring to the podcast is an example of hope and the Lord’s grace. Due to the fire, I had tried to fill the void with everything and anything, BUT God’s grace was there and protected me against my poor choices.
And when you feel like you are so far from Him, He has this way of being right there even when all you expect is His back facing you, but He is there with arms wide open for you.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Grab a battle buddy and have him expose the areas in your life so that these things do not consume you.
5 STEPS TO BECOMING YOUR BEST VERSION EP 391
5 Steps to becoming your best version
- Go to meninthearena.org
- Pick up one of our free resources
- Buy on of our resources for small groups
- Join or start a small group with your buddies. Virtual or in person. Reach out at info@meninthearena.org if you need help.
- Tell us your story. info@meninthearena.org
What is Positive Leadership? EP 390
Best Selling Author and Keynote Speaker
Jon Gordon's best-selling books and talks have inspired readers and audiences around the world. His principles have been put to the test by numerous Fortune 500 companies, professional and college sports teams, school districts, hospitals, and non-profits. He is the author of 15 books including 5 best-sellers: The Energy Bus, The Carpenter, Training Camp, You Win in the Locker Room First and The Power of Positive Leadership. Jon and his tips have been featured on The Today Show, CNN, CNBC, The Golf Channel, Fox and Friends and in numerous magazines and newspapers. His clients include The Los Angeles Dodgers, The Atlanta Falcons, Campbell Soup, Dell, Publix, Southwest Airlines, LA Clippers, Miami Heat, Pittsburgh Pirates, BB&T Bank, Clemson Football, Northwestern Mutual, Bayer, West Point Academy and more.
Jon is a graduate of Cornell University and holds a Masters in Teaching from Emory University. He and his training/consulting company are passionate about developing positive leaders, organizations and teams.
Connect with Jon on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram and Youtube.
How do you bid on items in the MITA Auction? EP 389
This is how you bid on items.
1. Register on the Web. https://secure.qgiv.com/event/mitaauction/
2. Download the GIVI App.
3. Enter Ticket # that was emailed to you.
4. Enter Payment Info.
5. Start Bidding.
OR
1. Download the GIVI App. on your phone.
2. Register
3. Search for Men in the Arena GIVI through the App.
4. Start Bidding.
Help for Fathers of Athletic Children EP 388
Pat Combs spent 8 years playing professional baseball for the Philadelphia Phillies (1st Round selection, 1988) and Milwaukee Brewers. As a collegiate athlete, Pat represented his country as a baseball player for Team USA. Pat was an All-American and Academic All-American at Baylor University, where he was later inducted into the Baylor Athletic Hall of Fame.
Currently, Pat is a behavioral analytics consultant for numerous professional athletes, MLB & NFL teams, and corporate leaders. He is also the Chairman of Combs Capital Partners, a wealth management firm. He’s a broadcast color analyst for Fox Sports college baseball and serves on multiple corporate and non-profit boards.
He and his wife, Christina, have 3 sons: Carson, Conner & Casey and a daughter-in-law, Sarah Rose. Pat continues to mentor & coach young men through select summer baseball leagues and at his church in Southlake, Texas.
More Than The Score: How Parents and Coaches Can Cultivate Virtue in Youth Athletes
Boots on the Ground
The Flip Flippin. Ask your wife to rank your marriage 1-10, And Go tell it to one of your bros who you trust and has the guts to call you out.
Assessing your best version of a man Part 3 EP 387
How does a man measure if he is actually his best version? Well we have thought about this and came up with a method to do just that. Listen to this 3 part series on Assessing your best version of a man to see what is coming your way real soon. The BVOM will be a great tool for all men!
These are attributes 11-20 That a man should be or do.
Tactful
Peacemaker
Gentle
Generous
Leader
Respected
Goodness
Fair
Devout
Disciplined
What does intergenerational, masculine, discipleship look like? EP 386
Scott Haima’s life work has been intergenerational, masculine, discipleship. This passion was developed as early as age 10 when his Dad started a Royal Rangers Outpost in Trenton, Michigan. Scott was very active in this until 1999, when he became active in Christian Service Brigade (CSB).
Professionally Scott took a few paths before full-time ministry. He served in the United States Air Force. A second path led to finance positions at Price Waterhouse-Coopers, Buffalo Sabres, and Merchants Insurance Group.
In 1999, a third path developed. He was asked to serve on the Board of Directors for CSB Ministries in 2009 then felt the call to accept the full-time position of Regional in 2010. In 2015 Scott was selected as President of CSB Ministries.
Scott has three sons and one daughter. Still active at his local church, speaks regularly at men’s breakfasts, events, and Iron Sharpens Iron men’s conferences, and is working on becoming an Adirondack 46er. It is his fervent prayer to see godly men take responsibility to serve, lead, and disciple each generation.
https://www.facebook.com/CSBMinistries
Boots on the Ground
Challenge you to get into an accountability group of 2-5 other guys.
Assessing your best version of a man Part 2 EP 385
How does a man measure if he is actually his best version? Well we have thought about this and came up with a method to do just that. Listen to this 3 part series on Assessing your best version of a man to see what is coming your way real soon. The BVOM will be a great tool for all men!
Servant
Fidelity
Reputable
Hospitable
Balanced
Prudent
Teacher
Moderation
Selfless
Patient
What to do when a mountain lion attacks EP 384
Josh Cowger is a husband, father, hunter, and the owner of Cowger Electric, a small electrical shop based in Newberg Oregon. He has 2 sons ages 8 and 10. His hobbies include hunting, Brazilian jiujitsu, coaching youth sports, and photography. He has been a self-employed for 8 years and an electrician for 16. Josh’s wife would describe him as someone who doesn’t need another hobby, but he wouldn’t always describe himself as someone who always had hobbies. Things changed for Josh in 2015, he had testicular cancer, and that gave him a perspective change. Josh was 35, he had a list of things that were interests, things that he always said he would do when he got in better shape, and had more time. Then Josh realized that he had been saying the same thing since he was 24. So, he made a change.
In this episode Josh shares about the time a cougar changed his life.
Assessing your best version of a man EP 383
How does a man measure if he is actually his best version? Well we have thought about this and came up with a method to do just that. Listen to this 3 part series on Assessing your best version of a man to see what is coming your way real soon. The BVOM will be a great tool for all men!
Going from bondage to freedom w/Rick Aldred EP 382
Rick Aldred was born in Springfield, MO, and he graduated from Missouri State University. In 2010, he received his commission as a 2LT in the US Army. Rick spent the next 8 years on active duty, deploying to Iraq, Afghanistan, as well as numerous training exercises in Europe. During his time in Europe, Rick began a series of emotional and physical affairs with multiple women. He eventually confessed his sin to his wife in October of 2016, 1 month after their first “miracle” baby was born. Rick was given the ultimatum to leave the military or his wife was going to leave.
This began a long road of recovery and reconciliation, and, through it all, Rick discovered a desire to help others through his own brokenness. He will graduate from Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in May of 2021 with his M.A. in Counseling.
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5 things to tech proof your home EP 381
Technology was made to help us but it can also hinder our families and especially our kids. In this episode we will give you 5 tools to help you tech proof your home and help your kids to thrive.
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Dad, Just say, "Sure." EP 380
TODD WILSON, is a dad, grand dad, writer, conference speaker, and former pastor. Todd’s humor and down to earth realness have made him a favorite speaker at homeschool conventions, retreats, and churches across the country…each year speaking to thousands of dads and moms.
As founder of Familyman Ministries, his passion and mission are to remind dads and moms of what’s most important through a weekly e-mail for dads, seminars, and books and products that encourage parents.
Todd, and his wife Debbie, presently homeschool three of their eight children (FIVE have graduated…FOUR are Married) in northern Indiana and travel America in the Familyman Mobile RV. You can read more at www.familymanweb.com
Boots on the Ground:
When your kid/kids come to you and ask you to do something with them, just say "SURE."
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4 Laws Every Father Should Live By EP 379
1. You are a homeschool dad. You are the ultimate teacher.
2. Don't give up on your kids. Don't give up on fathering.
3. Just say SURE!
4. Smile at your kids. Make sure they know you like them. They know you love them, but do they know you like them?
Why you should create a crisis. EP 378
This interview with Jay Penton is a Regular Joe Episode.
Jay is 52 and lives in Prattville, AL with his wife Dana. They have 2 children. Delaney who is 21, a special needs adult who helps mom at home and Joey who is 19 and attends the University of Alabama-Huntsville. Jay has been in law enforcement most of his adult life. He joined the Army as a MP in 1989. Was part of the US invasion of Panama and the first Gulf War. In 1996 left active duty and joined the National Guard and retired after a total of 22 years in the military. In 1997, Jay became an Alabama State Trooper and is still there. Jay became a Christian at the age of 8, but wandered as a young adult. After marrying his wife God moved on his life and drew him back to Him. Now, after wading around in the mud for so many years he now gets to pull other guys out of the mud with His strength.
He has been a member of Boones Chapel Baptist Church since 2006. Jay was ordained as a deacon in 2009 and was called to men’s ministry in 2013. Jay serves as the Men’s Pastor at Boones Chapel.
Boots on the Ground
Create a crisis, Find the people you love and ask them where you need to grow.
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Make decisions against yourself EP 377
Do you regularly make the easy decisions for the soft and easy life? In this episode Jim will challenge you to make the tough decisions. The ones that most men won't choose. The ones that cause you to have discipline.
One prayer every man in the arena needs to pray EP 376
Jay Payleitner spent a decade in major market advertising. (Chicago, Michigan Avenue)
But God called him into Christian media. And he became a busy freelance radio producer for Josh McDowell Radio, Today’s Father, Jesus Freaks Radio for Voice of the Martyrs, Project Angel Tree with Chuck Colson, and others.
He speaks at marriage conferences, men’s retreats, and Iron Sharpens Iron events in 20 states.
Jay has written more than 25 books and sold more than a half million copies including the bestselling 52 Things Kids Need from a Dad, What If God Wrote Your Bucket List? and The Jesus Dare.
Jay’s books have been translated into more than ten languages.
Jay and his high school sweetheart, Rita, live in the Chicago area where they raised five great kids, loved on ten foster babies, and just welcomed grandchild #7.
Boots on the Ground:
Read Proverbs 30 and write a prayer for your life.
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3 lies that men believe about courage. EP 375
Jim Ramos unpacks 3 things that men believe about courage.
1. Courage is not a spiritual gift.
2. Courage is not a fruit of the spirit.
3 Courage is not one of the Ten Commandments.
Leave us a positive review. Find us on social media and engage in a conversation about this podcast.
Tactical Relationship Training - How to deal with different, and difficult people. EP 374
Elmo Winters is the Founder/Executive Director of the KINGDOM Group International, Inc., an organization dedicated to racial healing, unity and reconciliation utilizing the life changing Gospel of Christ. The KINGDOM Group hosts events to bring diverse groups together for dialogue and relationship building. Reverend Winters has been in ministry for over 42 years as a Church Planter, Pastor, Bible Institute Instructor and Hospice Chaplain. Additionally, he has served as a short-term Missionary to Kenya, Mexico, and Russia, where he trained pastors and ministry leaders. Working with EndPoint Ministries of Nairobi, Reverend Winters continues to assist with church/school planting in the south eastern region of Kenya. Having earned a Masters in Business Administration (MBA), he provides business consulting to non-profit organizations, ministries, and small businesses. Winters serves on the boards of Gulf South Men of Louisiana, the National Coalition of Ministries to Men (NCMM), the Louisiana Lagniappe Country Walk to Emmaus (LCWE) and the Mercy Education Foundation of Liberia, Africa.
Elmo Winters is married to the lovely Therese Winters and reside in Baton Rouge, LA. They are proud parents of five children and nine grandchildren.
Boots on the Ground:
Walk across the room to someone who is different than you and look them in the eyes and shake their hand. Start to see people with the eyes of Christ.
Order OVERCOMING RACIAL AND CULTURAL BARRIERS To Disciple Men
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3 steps each man should do to become his best version w/Kent Evans EP 373
Kent Evans with Manhood Journey joins us again to break down the 3 steps that each man should do to become their best version.
- Climb Down - Humility - Admit you need help.
- Determine the Gaps - What are some areas you need to grow as a man?
- Spot Helpers - You need guys around you that can help you identify your week spots.
Finding your best version as a father w/Kent Evans EP 372
Kent Evans is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps fathers become disciple-makers. After a twenty-year career as a business leader, he embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He’s appeared on television, radio, web outlets and podcasts. He’s spoken at parenting and men’s events. His first book, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, was written to help men learn how to find mentors and wise counsel. Learn more at manhoodjourney.org or fatheronpurpose.org.
Kent’s life has been radically affected by godly mentors and his lovely wife, April. They have been married twenty-five years and have five sons and one daughter-in-law. He lives in Louisville, Kentucky, USA. You can find him on social media @manhoodjourney
www.manhoodjourney.org
www.fatheronpurpose.org
Boots on the Ground:
When was the last time you observed another man’s expertise and asked him to help you with that skill? Seek out this guys and ask. Have coffee or lunch together.
The Four Things You Need To Know About Courage. EP 371
We believe many are confused what courage look likes. Jim Ramos gives us Four things that we should know.
Courage is a personal choice.
Courage is a character trait over time.
Courage is a call to action.
Courage is a sign of strength.
Navigating through grief w/Joe Myall EP 370
Joe Myall has been married three times and has four biological children, 3 sons and 1 daughter, as well as two stepsons. He has 13 grandchildren, with number 14 due in November. Joe’s first marriage ended in divorce in 1989 after 19 years for a multitude of reasons, most of which can be boiled down to one statement- “He was not the man God wanted him to be.” Joe married Robyn in 1990. Although he had made an intellectual decision to accept Christ as Savior in 1968, it was 1998 before Joe truly had a conversion experience. That fall, Joe decided he was tired of having to always be right, being judgmental of others and he turned his life over to God. In 2002, Joe was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma, went through chemotherapy and is now 17 years post-chemo.
In 2006, Joe and Robyn “retired” and moved 1000 miles from the Central Coast area of California, about mid-way between LA and SF, to western Washington across the Puget Sound from Seattle. Robyn had worked as a psychiatric RN and Joe had been in law enforcement. Eventually, Robyn went to work part time for the local mental health agency and Joe worked with the county drug court program for a few years.
Between 2006 and early 2019, Joe was involved in several ministries in his church and his community, including working with the youth pastors, men’s ministry and as a chaplain with the local fire district.
In the Spring of 2015, Robyn became ill and was diagnosed with stage-4 metastatic cancer of unknown origin, with a prognosis of 2-3 months to live. Robyn declined any diagnostic tests or treatment, opting for quality over quantity of life. God gave Joe and Robyn 2.5 more years together, before she began experiencing extreme pain in August of 2017. In September, Robyn was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Lymphoma with weeks to live. She passed away at home with Joe, her sons and a daughter in-law by her side.
Boots on the Ground
Sit down with your wife face to face. Look her in the eye and tell her you love her. And share with her why you are thankful for her.
Grief Share- 13 week programmed study
Experiencing Grief by Norm Wright
Shattered Dreams by Larry Crab
What is more important, the wedding or the marriage? EP 369
So many spend a great deal of money and attention on the wedding, but when it comes to the marriage they fail to invest financially or put in the work to make it great. As a parent, what will you be willing to do to help your kids' marriage succeed? Pay for an expensive wedding or invest in their marriage?
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Help! My life is a mess! EP 368
Marsh Bull is a technical type guy working with computers for 5 decades. His focus until turning 51 was on my career & getting ahead in the corporate world. He believed he was a good man, working hard to take care of his family.
Focusing on his career, he had allowed his home life to crumble. He was working 14 hours a day for IBM when his brokenness finally caught up with him. It was Sat. October 21, 1995 when he pulled off the road and shouted a one-word prayer, “Help.”
Instantly a sensation of total love permeated his entire body. It felt like a warm molasses covering him from head to toe. At the time, He didn’t understand it was the Holy Spirit entering his body.
This is what defines Marsh, his life before Christ & his life after Christ. He was probably like you if you don’t know Christ!
Boots on the Ground:
Head on over to Marsh Bull’s website and pick up some of his free resources, grab some guys and start a group.
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What daughters need to hear from their dad EP 367
Men, it so important for our daughters to hear from us that they are beautiful. They need to be hugged by us and told they are loved. If we don't do it some hormonal boy will fill in the gap.
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The Christian Man w/Patrick Morley EP 366
For decades Patrick Morley has been regarded as one of America’s most respected authorities on the unique challenges and opportunities facing men. Through his speaking and writing, he is a tireless advocate for men, encouraging and inspiring them to change their lives in Christ.
“The ministry of Man in the Mirror exists,” says Patrick Morley, “in answer to the prayers of all those wives, mothers, and grandmothers who have for decades been praying for the men in their lives.”
Patrick Morley graduated with honors from the University of Central Florida. He has earned a PhD in management, completed postgraduate studies at the Harvard Business School and Oxford University, and graduated from Reformed Theological Seminary. He lives in Winter Park, Florida, with his wife, Patsy. They have two married children and five grandchildren.
www.christianmanbook.com www.maninthemirror.org
Boots on the Ground. Got to website download the free coaching guide. and Buy the book The Christian Man. Read it.
Daily prayer of a Husband. Father, I said til death do us part. I want to meet it. Help me to love you more than her and her more than anything or anyone else, help me bring her into your presence today. Make us one like you are three in one. I want to hear her, cherish her, and serve her so she would love you more and we can bring you glory.
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The three most important things your children must hear from you! EP 365
Do your kids know you love them? Do they know that you are proud of them? This episode is short, but could be the most impactful thing for your kids if you can learn from it.
What is Intimacy Anorexia? EP 363
Intimacy anorexia is relationship disorder that is marked by a lack of intimacy in a relationship. It occurs when someone in a relationship actively withholds emotional, spiritual and sexual intimacy from their spouse or partner. This lack of intimacy harms the marriage, damages the relationship causing pain and loneliness and impacts the spouse or partner significantly.
Dr. Douglas Weiss coined the term "intimacy anorexia" when he started seeing a separate, yet related aspect of sexual anorexia in his private psychological counseling practice. He was able to link these cases of sexual anorexia into a broader spectrum of related issues and noted that people engaging in this type of withholding behavior did it for other reasons that those typically associated with sexual anorexia.
So, what is your grade? No marriage is perfect. But with hard work it can become better each day.
Great Husbands Do Radical Things w/ Regi Campbell EP 362
The late Regi Campbell authored the book, What Radical Husbands Do: 12 Steps to Win and Keep Your Wife's Heart, This is one of the greatest books on marriage! It is short but packed full of great principles. True manhood, masculinity, mentoring, marriage success. and men's ministry tips can be found in this episode.
Regi Campbell was an experienced investor and entrepreneur by trade, having been involved in the founding of 15 companies. He wrote four books and spoke on mentoring, marriage, and marketplace ministry. His real passion was mentoring younger men. In 2007, Regi founded Radical Mentoring to help encourage and equip mentors and churches to build disciple-makers through intentional small group mentoring.
Boots on the Ground Moment: Make a list of the top 5 things that your wife loves. Start loving those things with her.
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Simple Steps to Disarming Your Angry Wife w/ Emerson Eggrichs EP 361
Emerson Eggrichs author of Love & Respect has gieven us a recipe to disarm our angry wife. www.loveandrespect.com
What phrase can you say to disarm your angry wife? As men, we have tried many and failed miserably. We wish to give you the tools to respectfully stop the crazy cycle.
5 Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage When You Are Stuck at Home w/ Gary Chapman EP 360
The COVID-19 pandemic has affected all facets of life. The health crisis has overwhelmed medical workers, business closings have exacerbated financial stress, and—perhaps most unexpectedly—sheltering in place has placed married couples in endless, unprecedented proximity.
Whether this has been challenging or delightful for you and your spouse, let this time be an opportunity to renew your love. Learn how to do so in 5 Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage… When You’re Stuck at Home Together by Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The New York Times bestseller The 5 Love Languages®. This guide will help enrich your time stuck together.
What Are the Differences Between Men and Women? EP 359
There are certain things that separate men from women. Jim calls these 5 things characteristics the Manhood Pentagon. What are are these and how do they contribute to our masculinity?
Learning How to Parent by Using the Art of Questioning and Not Lecturing w/ Hal Perkins EP 358
Learning how to parent by using the art of questioning and not lecturing. Join us with Hal Perkins as he shows us how to ask the right questions to our children.
Hal and Debbi have given 40 years in studying and strategically applying the principles of making disciples that Jesus modeled and commanded of His followers. Both formally and informally, they relationally discipled their four children (now all in full-time Christian ministry) and those in their churches willing to invest time in their own relationship with Jesus and then to help others.
HeartWalk FoundationsIn 1969 Hal was dramatically called into professional ministry. He and Debbi began their first full time pastoral role in June 1 of 1970 and concluded 40 years of pastoral ministry on June 30, 2010. They have been married 41 years. At marriage, Hal was a math teacher and coach. Debbi finished college to become an elementary teacher.
During their 40 years of professional ministry, Hal and Debbi served five Nazarene churches as senior pastor. Debbi taught in both public and Christian schools, served as administrative assistant to the Lieutenant Governor of Oklahoma, and ministered as a chaplain in 10 corporations.
357. The 5 Things Men Carry On Their Manhood Journey
Men are made to carry heavy loads. What does that mean? What different things are men required to carry to be a Man?
356. How a does a man Man Up? w/ Jody Burkeen
Jody Burkeen is the Lead Pastor / Elder for Ignite Church. Jody is an author, speaker and a lover of the word of God. In 2010 he founded Man Up God’s Way, a national men’s ministry that is challenging men to step up for the kingdom of God. The MAN UP! ministry was birthed out of a desire to change the way Christian men do Christianity. Jody's self-described "Damascus Road Transformation" led him on a journey to search the scripture to find what he had been missing his whole life, which was Jesus Christ. did. The MAN UP! Gods Way ministry is Jody’s hope that he can challenge men to live a separated life.
“All men have only five problems: sex, women, work, kids and money. That’s how simplistic we are. So somewhere out there, there is an accountability partner for you. You just have to want it. We will continue to have these problems until we lay them at the feet of Jesus. Get someone to help you. Begin the process together.” -Jody Burkeen
Boots on the Ground:
Head over to www.ManUpGodsWay.org and pick up a copy of Jody’s book, Man Up God’s Way and go to the back of the book and take the 30 day challenge.
353. Learning to love those you love
Do you know your loved one's love language? Check out the quiz online. We encourage you to take it and have your spouse and kids take it.
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352. Are you a man of influence? W/Bill Hendricks
Bill Hendricks is President of The Giftedness Center, a Dallas-based consulting firm specializing in organizational effectiveness and individual career guidance. He is the author or coauthor of twenty books, including Your Work Matters to God, Living by the Book, and The Power of Uniqueness. He has written for numerous publications and shares his thoughts regularly at www.BillHendricks.net.
Bill holds an undergraduate degree in English from Harvard University, a master of science in mass communications from Boston University, and a master of arts in biblical studies from Dallas Theological Seminary. He is the proud father of three grown daughters by his late wife, Nancy, and is now married to Lynn Turpin Hendricks.
Specialization or Expertise: author of Men of Influence: The Transforming Impact of Godly Mentors, coauthored with his father, the late Dr. Howard Hendricks.
Boots on the Ground: Ask yourself this question: If it were not for blank, I would not be who I am today. Call them and thank them. If you don’t have one, find a mentor. And you also need to find someone to mentor.
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351. Creating a climate of connection in your blended family
This Equipping in Ten breaks down some practical steps that you can do to create a climate of connection in your blended family. Jim takes some nuggets from Ron Deal's book Building Love Together in Blended Families. Jim also shares what his family did when he was in the growing up in his blended family.
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Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting.
Helping Your Blended Family Thrive w/ Ron Deal EP 350
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman
His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today.
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349. The 5 P's of Stepparenting w/Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman
His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today.
The 5 P’s
1. Partnering- With your spouse
2. Pursue- The kids hearts, pursue a relationship with the kids.
3. Pace- Your Pursuit
4. Patience- Tell yourself that it’s ok to take time building a relationship.
5. Persistence- Keep on
Bonus P – Prayer
Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting.
348. Loving your wife through sickness and health.
This is the first of a half dozen strategic times a year we interview what we call our “Average Joes Arena Heroes”. We also highlight these guys on our weekly E-Blast through our WAMGI (When a man Gets It) story. These are guys like you and me who are in the arena fighting for those people and causes they love.
Don’t get me wrong, our experts and authors are WILL continue to be our bread and butter but it’s the Average Joe who is the local hero of the Men in the Arena organization.
George Sielski is 73 from Jamestown, NY. George has been married to Annette for 54 years in July.
George is retired and drives a bus two days a week doing medial transportation. He has been a Gideon for 20 years. He is a Deacon in his church, runs a Virtual Men in the Arena Team as well as helping lead the MITA forum on Face book as an Arena Coach.
Quotes:
"The Lord will put things in my way. It’s up to me to say yes or no."
“Loyalty is a rare commodity nowadays.”
"If you are messed up in your marriage you need to take a look at that. If you are looking at her you have a problem."
“There is a special crown in heaven for the people that work with little kids.”
"You don’t know how things will affect you later in life when you are young."
"You are what you eat, That’s a fact."
"Spend as much time planning your marriage as you do your wedding."
"If you don’t want your prayers hindered, do right by your wife."
"I know He is proud of me when I take care of my wife."
"You are going to run into storms. Your vows are going to be the only thing that keeps you there."
"Are you thinking about cheating? You think its greener on the other side? Let me tell you something. The devil fertilizes it with a lot of manure."
Boots on the Ground
If you are lacking Grit, get around Men who will challenge you to be a man of Grit.
347. 7 Virtues of a Strong Man
In Mark Batterson's book, Play the Man, he writes about the 7 virtues a man should have to become the man God created him to be. Jim Ramos breaks each one down in this short equipping podcast.
1. Tough Love
2. Childlike Wonder
3. Will Power
4. Raw Passion
5. True Grit
6. Clear Vision
7. Moral Courage
346. No Grit, No Glory!
We believe that too many men these days lack Grit. If things get hard some males bail. If the "Feeling" of love dwindles they bail. "Men are made for pressure" - Brian Doyle
In this episode we challenge men to have Grit.
Boots on the Ground
If you are lacking Grit, get around Men who will challenge you to be a man of Grit.
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345. How to build Grit into your life
In this episode Jim shares about those areas in our lives that we may need to build some grit into. For some it may be our diet. For some it might be purity or thought life. Only you know what that is for you. Jim wants to encourage you to build some grit where you may be lacking.
Learning Your Wife's Love Language w/ Gary Chapman EP 344
Gary Chapman has a passion for helping people form lasting relationships. He is known around the world as a marriage counselor, director of marriage seminars, and his nationally-syndicated radio programs air nationally on Moody Radio Network and over 400 affiliate stations.
He has authored many books including Five Love Languages that has sold over 12 MILLION copies. He is also the co-author of CHOOSE GREATNESS: 11 Wise decisions that Brave Young Men Make
Quotes:
-“Our definition of a “great life” is taking what you have and using it to enrich the lives of others.”
-“However, you will only reach your full potential if you choose greatness”.
-“We are now looking back on our own lives and realize that many of our most important decisions were made when we were teenagers.”
-“Life was never meant to be lived alone. As young men, we need the wisdom of our fathers and mothers. Otherwise, we may make decisions based solely upon our feelings rather than upon facts.”
-“It Is not a sign of weakness to seek help. It is a sign of strength”
-“But what else is involved in respecting women, and why should we?”
-“We want you to be a man who respects all women in public and in private.”
- “In every generation there are young men who grow up to make the world a better place, and others who leave behind a trail of pain because of their poor decisions”
“Let’s get our Boots on the Ground”:
What’s next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard?
Here it is! Compare the 5 Love Languages and discover which on matches. Your wife the best. Take the test. www.5lovelanguages.com
343. Saying Goodbye to Fear
During uncertain times we may find ourselves scared or fearful. Jim Ramos shares what our response to fear should look like. What has caused you fear recently and where is your focus?
What is a Better Man? w/ Robert Lewis EP 342
Boots on the Ground
Get involved with some virtual men's group. Betterman.com or Men in the Arena. And, Get involved in your churches men's ministry.
Finding Joy in the Midst of Covid-19 EP 341
This episode is from our Covid-19 series which we have been producing Live on Facebook each day at 4pm PST. To find all of these video messages follow this link.
With all the distractions in this world what is causing you not to focus on Jesus so you can find your joy and peace?
340. Who's your Wingman?
Chad Hennings joins us and shares about his service to our country flying the A10 Thunderbolt in combat to playing in the NFL and winning 3 Super Bowls with the Dallas Cowboys, to starting Wingmen ministries and being a part of Promise Keepers.
Boots on the Ground
Get into some kind of virtual group. Find some sort of online men’s small group. Let us know if you need help.
339. Be the CALM in the midst of the storm.
In this episode Jim shares some practical advice from scripture on staying CALM in the midst of the storms of life. Especially in the midst of Covid-19. What does it look like to stay CALM?
338. How to achieve your goals
Paul Cole shares from his book Just a Bartender, Unexpected People Change Their World.
Paul Louis Cole is President of the Christian Men’s Network Worldwide and Founding Pastor of C3 Church in Dallas, Texas. CMN is active in 138 nations, connecting over 86,000 leaders. Paul is married to Judi Cole, a wonderful leader and talented designer. Paul writes, speaks and travels extensively encouraging and advancing the men’s movement around the world. He and Judi started Hope C3 Church in 1999 and in 2011 transitioned into full-time mens ministry as his son Brandon and wife Meredith accepted the role as Lead Pastors of C3 Church DFW.
Paul and Judi are proud grandparents of the wonderful Reese Holsinger, Dylan Holsinger, and Cameron Holsinger, daughters and son of Pastor Niles and Lindsay Cole Holsinger. Niles is associate pastor at Gateway Church, Grand Prairie.
They have two sons, creator and pastor Brandon Cole, married to Meredith, and noted musician and coach Bryce Cole. Brandon is the Lead Pastor at C3 Church with his wife Meredith. Bryce, now living in Nashville, is a songwriter and a High School basketball coach.
Paul’s sisters are Lois Crase and Joann Webster. Lois is an attorney and she and her husband Mark live in the Fort Worth area. Joann Webster is the CMN Vice President and publisher of Resolute Books. She and her husband Richard live in Satellite Beach, Florida.
Paul has been a business owner, global marketing consultant and award winning television/film producer for over 30 years… and he has a lifetime membership at Starbucks. You can read his blog at paullouiscole.com.
Boots on the Ground
Find a quiet place. Carve out time to sit and listen to God. Find out who you are in Jesus.
337. Covenant Eyes Resources
Sam Black from Covenant Eyes has some great free resources for you. Plus a free month of monitoring and accountability through this link. Get your free ebook today.
336. Arena questions with Gary McCusker and Ray De La Nuez Pt. 2
Nathan from Minnesota, How do you go about meeting single Christian women... I mean seriously, there seems to be an issue within Christian men and Christian culture or maybe it's me. I just don't get it. Dating is the dumbest thing and same with courtship. I'm darn near just becoming a bachelor for life.
Aaron lives in Missouri Why is it so hard to get the church involved in the discipleship of men?
Joe lives in Washington Jim, you have referred to Job 29 as the counterpart to Proverbs 31. Please unpack that.
Ryan lives in New York What’s your advice for someone who’s experienced spiritual abuse from a church, lost their faith, has recently come back to faith in God but has a hard time attending a church due to past experiences?
Aaron lives Oregon. How to pick a church after you have moved to a new state?
Boots on the Ground:
What can you do to make the movement, Men in the Arena push back the darkness’s, We are looking for arena coaches. Men to lead virtual teams, and admin skills. We want to challenge you men.
335. How do I roast my own coffee?
In this episode Cody from Skyway Roasters from Buffalo Wy, shares his expertise on roasting your own coffee at home. You don't have to stockpile coffee from the can. You can have your own awesome coffee even if the world is shut down!
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334: Porn - Have You Made a Covenant with Your Eyes?
Sam Black is the VP of Covenant Eyes. At Men in the Arena we believe that every man should protect his family by protecting all of the devices in his home with Covenant Eyes. We are affiliates with Covenant Eyes and you get 30 days free by using our link below.
Sam shares the statistics that includes kids and ages that struggle and are exposed porn during this pandemic. You may think this doesn't affect you, but you may be surprised.
Boots on the Ground:
Get Covenant Eyes on ALL your devices in your home.
333. What every man should physically provide for his family.
The 5 B's:
Body, Beans, Bandaids, Bullets, Bullion
Jim breaks these all down for you in the podcast. These are things you should have on hand to take care of your family.
332. Arena Questions with Gary McCusker and Ray De La Nuez Pt. 1
Gary McCusker and Ray De La Nuez help us tackle these Men in the Arena questions.
Matt from IL. If a single never married man marries a woman who divorced her previous husband, but there was no infidelity is that marriage a continual sin?
Joshua from in New Hampshire. I struggle most with balancing my life. God, full time single Dad, raising a toddler, work (self employed in my case), church, family and friends, all while trying to improve myself. My question is what do other men do to find and maintain balance?
Dennis from in Nevada. Why do men have a problem stepping up and being the man God needs them to be?
Joe from New York. How does a man make more of an impact on his children than this worldly, unbiblical culture?
Luke I have been in the military for the past 13+ years and move around a lot. One thing I found hard is finding Godly men to connect with and lean on. So my question is how do you go about finding those men to confide in?
Carl from Nebraska What advice would you give a single man who's never married about sex and understanding his sexuality?
Robert from NY. What does spiritual leadership in the home look like?
Danny from San Luis Obispo. Like a lot of guys i have struggled with porn in the past. It has taken me a while to learn that even though i'm no longer consuming it, it has had an effect on my sex life with my wife. My relationship with sex was the desire for instant gratification which I think porn had a very real influence over. I have done a lot of work in trying to re-wire my brain and check my intentions in all my interactions with my wife but I'm wondering if ya'll have any tips for that. How to have a healthy loving sex life with your wife rather than just a pleasure first approach?
Boots on the Ground
We have three ways to engage in this ministry. Enlist in the Army like this.
A. Subscribe to the Podcast
B. Join the Men in the Arena Facebook Group for Men.
C. Go to our Website and sign up for the Equipping E-Blast and receive your free copy of the Bathroom Book for Men. The Field Guide.
331. What every man should carry on or near him at all times.
This episode covers the 3's. What should every man carry on or near him for 3 seconds, 3 minutes, 3 days, 3-6 months, or 3 years? Jim reveals what he thinks is important for every man to have.
330. Are you living the rugged life?
Jack Ward is founder and president of Rugged Faith Ministries located in Springdale, Arkansas. A former high school coach turned businessman, Ward now directs a Christian non-profit that uses outdoor adventure to equip believers and reach the lost.
Rugged Faith hosts week-end retreats called Rugged Faith Boot Camp. These one and two day camps feature a blend of outdoor adventure and sound biblical teaching.
Ward is the author of two best selling books on outdoor adventure ministry. “Rugged Faith” published in 2010 and “Adventure with a Purpose,” published in 2018
Each year Rugged Faith hosts the “Lewis & Clark Trail ATV Adventure” across the Bitterroot Mountains in Idaho.
Rugged Faith also hosts “Rugged Faith Israel” a 12-day backpacking trips to Israel in Nov. every-other-year
For more information on Jack Ward and Rugged Faith Ministries go to www.ruggedfaith.net or call (870) 404-8586
Email Jack at jack.rugged.faith@gmail.com
Boots on the Ground:
Plan an adventure for 2020!
Use this link to enter to win this book.
329. Arena Man Answers 3
You ask the questions and Jim Ramos will attack them for you. How do you set an example of strength even when we feel weak?Do men have to be physically fit and love sports to be considered masculine? As a man of Christ how do you bring wife back to Christ?
328. Dare to Prepare
God has given you five innate passions as a man
- Protector Defender: Your family FIRST…
- Fighter Provider
- Pursuer Builder
- Leader Sacrificer
- Finisher Conqueror
My Plan
3 Minutes: Pocket knife, cell phone, doctor numbers, Notes with all pertinent info. MY car has duct tape, tool and other necessities
3 Hours: Electricity goes out/ snow day
3 Days: 72-hour kits in many local stores, Emergency Essentials: www.Beprepared.com
3 Months stock for three days’ worth of inventory
Exit strategy. Where will you go if you need to leave
the city or suburb
3 Years: The 5 B’s…Here is what I recommend
- Body (Diet and exercise)
- Bandaids (meds, anti-inflammatory, antibiotics)
- TP and Tampons
- Radio
- Beans (Food)
- Bullets (.22/.17, large bore rifle, black gun, shotgun, pistol (500 shotgun and pistol, 1000 per rifle
- Bullion (Precious metals, and other tradable items)
WATER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
3 days- 3 weeks: MRE’s/Mountain House
3- 2 months. Add water only: Beans, rice, potatoes, milk, coffee, eggs, oats, pancake mix, veggies)
Stored in 5 gallon bucket, Gamma lid, mylar bags with oxygen absorber, Pasta w/sauce packets, Pancake mix w/syrup, Sea Salt, Rice, Beans, Sugar/Powdered sugar, Coffee, Powdered milk, Oats, Dehydrated Eggs, Dehydrated Potatoes, Dehydrated veggies
Read:
James Rawles Patriots
James Howard Kunstler World Made by Hand
Cormac McCarthy The Road
Holly Deyo Dare to Prepare
Glenn Tate 299 Days
Movies:
Contagion, Andromeda Strain, Outbreak, The Road, Book of Eli
Series: The Walking Dead
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327. Arena Man Answers 2
You ask the questions and Jim Ramos will attack them for you. How do you know who your battle buddy is and why is it so difficult to open up to him? How do you find a battle buddy? And the second question is, how do you know when you are a man?
326. What is a Promise Keeper?
Judge Vance Day - President, Promise Keepers
Vance Day is a modern-day profile in courage who strongly believes in helping to raise a generation of leaders equipped to address an ever-changing world.
Day graduated magna cum laude from Warner Pacific University in 1984. He studied Biblical Historiography at the Institute of Holy Land Studies in Jerusalem and Public Policy at Regent University before earning his Doctor of Jurisprudence degree from Willamette University College of Law in 1991.
An accomplished trial lawyer, he has tried over 300 bench and jury trials.
Vance served the State of Oregon for nearly four years as the Chairman of the Oregon Republican Party. He has lectured on military history and leadership theory at The White House and before members of Congress.
In September 2011 Mr. Day was appointed to serve as a Circuit Court Judge in the Third Judicial District, and was electedto a full six-year term in November of 2012.
In 2012, Judge Day started a veteran’s treatment court in Salem, Oregon. The goal of these courts was to target the root causes of veterans’ criminal behavior through a program created collaboratively by the prosecutor, the defense attorney, the judge, other veterans, treatment providers, mentors, and support teams. While Day was running the program, there was a zero rate of recidivism, and beyond that, it transformed lives. One veteran said,
“I don't know how much more I can say. I mean he saved my life, you know.”[i]
In 2014 Judge Day, based on his Christian convictions, quitely recused himself from marrying same-sex couples—a decision that in no way prevented same-sex couples from getting married. As a result, he became the focus of a sustained, vicious attack that sought to end his career, take away his license to practice law, strip him of his possessions, ruin his reputation, and even have him imprisoned. In October 2018, the State’s criminal case was dismissed, and the house of cards constructed against Vance collapsed from the weight of its own preposterousness. Vance Day remained a Circuit Court Judge until January 7, 2019, when his term of office expired.
In December of 2018, Judge Day joined the leadership team at Promise Keepers as Chief Operating Officer. In June of 2019, Day was elevated by the Board of Directors to the position of President. He also serves as a Member of the Board of Directors and as Promise Keepers General Counsel.
Vance and his wife have been married for over 33 years, and are the proud parents of three adult children, and three grandchildren. They live in high desert of Central Oregon.
Boots on the Ground
Go to the Promise Keepers website and pray about being an ambassador. Mobilize some men to get involved.
325. Arena Man Answers 1
You ask the questions and Jim Ramos will attack them for you. This is the first of those questions. How do you teach your kids to be a true man when the all the media sends so many mixed messages? How does the curse of toiling affect us?
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324. Who are your men on the roof? Jim Ramos live in Mattoon IL.
Jim Ramos is speaking to the men of Mattoon IL about the men on the roof in your life. Jim is a passionate and challenging speaker that will cause you to inspect your life and apply principles that will help put you and your family on a new course towards Christ.
Boots on the Ground:
You need to find some men who you can count on to call you out and up. For some, you may need to find a different friend group. Who are your men on the roof?
If you would like Jim to speak at your next event contact us at? www.meninthearena.org
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323. Men Make the Investment
Tom Cheshire and Tom Gensler with RPM share from their book Real-Life Discipleship. They will take a look at Chapter 4. What are the obstacles when starting a discipleship relationship?
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322. Dying Well, A tribute to Regi Campbell, Founder of Radical Mentoring
This episode is dedicated to Regi Campbell, the Founder of Radical Mentoring. Kevin Harris helps us to get a better picture of who Regi was and his heart for mentoring men.
As the President of Radical Mentoring, my primary role is to connect with independent mentors and church leaders who are passionate about creating a culture of disciple making and to assist them in launching a mentor movement that will shape families, communities, and churches around the world. In 2002, I was invited to join a mentoring group led by our founder, Regi Campbell. I am also in the process of mentoring my 4thgroup of men.
Kevin Harris is the President of Radical Mentoring. Prior to joining Radical Mentoring, Kevin led a sales team at Wells Real Estate Funds and served in sales positions at CNL and Atlas Energy. Kevin and his wife Susan have two boys, Thomas and Bo, and a 160 lb. Newfoundland, Bella.
Today, Radical Mentoring works with over 330 Churches across the country with almost 12,000 men having been mentored.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Carve out an hour and a half and write a 500 word obituary about your life. How will you be remembered?
Our Podcast with Regi Campbell is Episode #293 What Radical Husbands Do
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321. Live by Wisdom Nuggets
Jeff Kemp wrote Facing the Blitz- Jim reads 36 Nuggets/quotes from the book that should inspire you. If you haven't done so, make sure to pick up Jeff Kemp's book today.
320. Discipleship Making Relationship
Tom Cheshire founded RPM, Relevant Practical Ministry for Men, which is designed to be a resource to pastor’s, leadership and men to help equip them to disciple and mature their men, so that they may establish or re-create a sustainable disciple-making ministry to men in their local churches. RPM desires to see EVERY man maturing in Christ in their local church.
Tom Gensler - Most recently Tom has written Chapter 43 “Allowing Yourself to Be Discipled” in the book HOW TO DISCIPLE MEN 45 Proven Strategies from Experts on Ministry to Men. He has acquired an Advanced Christian Life Coaching Certificate and has completed a Church Planting and Leadership Course through Dove Christian Fellowship International(DCFI) and is presently working to acquire a Discipleship Certificate from The Downline Institute.
As a result of their own marriage struggles, the Gensler family is passionate about men understanding all that God intended for them and in-turn love seeing marriages and families thrive.
Tom & his wife, Lisa started volunteering with RPM in 2007 and joined full-time staff as missionaries in Feb of 2013.
Boots on the Ground:
Get into a disciple making relationship. Find a guy who can disciple you and one you can disciple.
319. If your marriage is ok you're in trouble
How is your marriage? Is it "good"? What would your wife say? Many times what men think is not the same as what their wives believe about their marriage. This episode will pose a few challenging questions that will help you answer whether or not you have an ok marriage or and awesome marriage.
Never Surrender w/ LT General Jerry Boykin EP 318
Lieutenant General William G. Boykin, a native of North Carolina, was commissioned a 2nd Lieutenant in the Infantry from Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University in 1971. His early assignments in conventional units included the 2nd Armored Division, the 101st Airborne Division, and as a company commander in the 24h Infantry Division (Mechanized).
Special Operations assignments included positions as: A Platoon Leader and then the Company Executive Officer in 1st Battalion (Ranger) 75th Infantry, Fort Stewart, Georgia; Branch Chief at the Florida Ranger School, Eglin, Florida; and Director for Operations at the Joint Special Operations Command, Fort Bragg, North Carolina. Additionally, LTG Boykin has served a total of thirteen years in the Special Forces Operational Detachment - Delta, as a Detachment Commander, Staff Officer, Squadron Commander (twice), the Deputy Commander, and finally, as the Commander.
In 1994, LTG Boykin was assigned to Washington, D.C. and the Pentagon as the Chief, Special Operations Division, Office of the Joint Chiefs of Staff followed by a posting to the Central Intelligence Agency as the Deputy Director of Special Activities and promotion to the rank of Brigadier General. Next, he was assigned to the Army Staff as the Deputy Director for Operations, Readiness, and Mobilization. In 1998, LTG Boykin was assigned to Fort Bragg, North Carolina as the Commanding General, United States Army Special Forces Command. In 2000, he was assigned as the Commanding General, United States Army John F. Kennedy Special Warfare Center, Fort Bragg, North Carolina.
In 2003, following the creation of the Office of the Under Secretary of Defense for Intelligence, LTG Boykin was assigned as the Deputy Under Secretary of Defense for Intelligence in charge of Intelligence and Warfighting Support.
LTG Boykin earned a Bachelors of Science Degree from Virginia Tech University in education and a Masters Degree from Shippensburg University in Public Administration. He attended the Armed Forces Staff College and the Army War College.
Some of LTG Boykin's badges include: the Master Parachutist Badge, the Ranger Tab, and the Special Forces Tab. LTG Boykin is a combat veteran who has participated in numerous operations; some of which include the Iranian Hostage Rescue Mission, Granada, Panama, and with Task Force Ranger in Mogadishu, Somalia.
Some of LTG Boykin's awards include the Distinguished Service Medal, Defense Superior Service Medal (with 3 Oak Leaf Clusters), Legion of Merit (with Oak Leaf Cluster), Bronze Star Medal, Air Medal, and the Purple Heart (with Oak Leaf Cluster).
Recently, LTG Boykin was the Wheat Professor of Leadership Studies at Hampden- Sydney College in Farmville, Virginia. Currently, he is the Executive Vice President of Family Research Council. He is married to the former Ashley Steele of Darien, Connecticut, and they have five children between them.
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Boots on the Ground:
You need to have a battle buddy! Someone you can confess your sins to, call at 2am, you would take into the dark alley, and someone you meet with once a week.
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317. Jim's Annual State of the Ministry Report
What is the ministry up to? How can you get a free book or t-shirt? How can you get involved in the Men in the Arena?
Enjoy this episode.
No More Christian Nice Guy w/ Paul Coughlin EP 316
Paul Coughlin is an expert witness regarding bullying and the law, and is a FoxNews analyst and contributor. He is a popular speaker who has appeared on Good Morning America, Nightline, C-Span, The LA Times, The New York Times, Newsweek and other media outlets. Paul is a best-selling author of eight books, including the freedom-from-bullying parent and teacher resource Raising Bully-Proof Kids, as well as a former newspaper editor. He works with numerous professional organizations to diminsh bullying, including the Baltimore Ravens. His anti-bullying curriculum is used throughout North America as well as in South Africa, Uganda, Australia, New Zealand and Brazil among other countries.
Paul is a boys varsity soccer coach, where he was voted Coach of the Year twice. Paul has also previously served as a member of the Board of Trustees for St. Mary’s School in Medford, Oregon.
Paul is a popular men’s conference speaker who has inspired thousands across North America as well as in Wales and England.
In this ground-breaking book with a timeless message to men and also women, Paul Coughlin explains why being a “nice guy” is disastrous to everyone involved. Instead, Paul shows how the abundant life that God has for us is found through a more assertive orientation toward life, growing faith, saving marriage, bolstering careers, and in some cases even saving life itself.
186. Raising Protectors of the Weak Pt. 1
188. Raising Protectors of the Weak Pt. 2
Boots on the Ground
Identify one area in your life where you are soft and Fix it. Do this so you are a good man and not a nice man.
315. P.M.S. Every Man's Greatest Battle
We believe that men battle with P.M.S. Passive Male Syndrome. Jim speaks to this epidemic in this Equipping Men in Ten.
Rick Johnson - The Power of a Man
Robert Lewis - Raising a Modern Day Night
Where are the Men? w/David Murrow
314. Strategies of turning your trials into triumphs w/ Jeff Kemp
Jeff Kemp is a champion for families, teamwork and God’s love. He graduated from Dartmouth College and entered the NFL in 1981 as a long-shot free agent. He quarterbacked for 11 seasons with the RAMS, 49ERS, SEAHAWKS and EAGLES. Kemp led the Rams to the playoffs in 1984 and helped the 49ers to the playoffs in 1986, throwing 11 touchdowns in 6 weeks replacing an injured Joe Montana.
For the next 25 years, he helped lead organizations that strengthen marriages and families. He founded and led Stronger Families in the Northwest and then served 5 years as a VP/Catalyst at FamilyLife, where he and Stacy speak for Weekend to Remember marriage events. Jeff is a Fatherhood Ambassador for the Fatherhood CoMission. His speaking & retreat mission is to build men’s identity, purpose and relationships. Leaders and businesses call on Jeff as a CEO Soul Coach and team builder through JeffKempTeam.
Jeff brings humor, honesty and actionable vision to men, couples and organizations to build great teams. He uniquely combines epic leadership principles from the greatest NFL and athletic coaches with relationship principles and the loving ways of Jesus. He’s the author of Facing the Blitz –Three Strategies for Turning Trials into Triumphs. His next release, Real Good Man, will help men with their identity and journey to authenticity and benevolence. Jeff has lived his life in huddles on and off the field...committed to the power of men’s friendship and mentoring.
Jeff and his wife, Stacy, have four married sons, Kyle, Kory, Kolby and Keegan and four grandchildren. They love to ski, play tennis and mentor young couples.
Boots on the Ground:
Throw the Hail Mary! Find that trusted friend and tell him your secret sin. Throw it out there and expose it to the light.
313. Manhood Myths
There are a few myths out there about what it means to be a man. How old do you have to be to be a man? What do you have to drive, do for a job, or how many women do you have to be with to be a man? Enjoy this episode.
312. Unless you plan on dying tomorrow it's not too late!
As President of pureHOPE, Jasper leads the team while also focusing on operations, program strategy and execution, internal and external relationship building and growth. Jasper first came to pureHOPE as a long time board member and chairman.
Before joining our team, he spent over 20 years at Microsoft in IT management developing people. He has a strong ministry background as a worship music director and leader helping plant Transformation Church in Indian Land, SC, with prior service as interim music director for Calvary Church, and song leader at Central Church both in Charlotte, NC. Jasper is a Winthrop College Graduate.
Jasper lives in the Charlotte, NC area with his wonderful wife of over two decades and counting, Sandy, and his three awesome teen and college-aged kids. He is active in his local community with a mission to be a passionate leader, a man who loves and cares well for family and friends, and an effective communicator of the things that bring joy and fulfillment.
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311. Life Lessons Learned
The One Eighty Champion has come to an end. Jim Ramos has completed 180 workouts in 180 days. He has had numerous face to face meetings with men from around the nation. In this episode Jim shares what he has leaned about habits, consistency, and support.
310. Ten Books Every Man Should Read
Jim Ramos reads about 50 books a year and here is his top 10 that every man should read. In order to keep your brain fresh you have to exercise it. Reading is the thing that keeps it fresh.
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309. Being Fully Alive and Dad Tired
Jerrad Lopes speaks to being a father and our role as the spiritual leader in our home. Men have the responsibility to lead and Jerrad gives practical advise for all men.
Jerrad Lopes is a Christian pastor and the founder of DadTired.com, a non-profit ministry focused on equipping men to lead their family well. He hosts the weekly Dad Tired Podcast, listened to by nearly two million men from around the world. He and his wife Leila live in Portland, Oregon with their three children.
Jerrad speaks at mens conferences around the country and has been featured on FamilyLife, Moody Radio, the Hallmark Channel, and many more. He is the author of the best-selling book, “Dad Tired: Stumbling Your Way to Spiritual Leadership” and “Stop Behaving: A Gospel-Centered Devotional for Men”.
Boots on the Ground:
Quit Something! There is something you said yes to that you should have said no too. Quit that thing so you can do the thing that is important.
308. Leveraging your masculine influence
Scott Hagan shares many quotes and thoughts that will cause men to stop and ponder how they are doing in many areas of their lives. This podcast should challenge all men to ask themselves if they are really living into their best version.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Go to https://www.facebook.com/note2leaders/ and Like the page. Scott will begin to equip you!
307. Strengthening Your Fragile Marriage
Marriage is work. It does become great without great intention. Is she your #1 and does she know it? In the episode we want to encourage you to ask yourself some honest questions about your marriage. Your marriage doesn't have to be mediocre.
306. Leading your family through the Christmas season Pt. 2
Merry Christmas from all of us at Men in the Arena. Men, what will you do to point your family to Jesus this Christmas? We want to encourage you to do something. Anything.
Wild Awakening: How a Raging Grizzly Healed My Wounded Heart w/ Greg Matthews EP 305
Mr. Matthews is a national speaker and author of Wild Awakening: How A Raging Grizzly Healed My Wounded Heart. Mr. Matthews is the Division Antiterrorism Officer for the US Army Corps of Engineers, protecting the nation’s Dams, Hydro-Power Plants, and Inter-Coastal Locks.
After serving during Desert Storm in the USAF, Mr. Matthews spent the next 35 years in the fields of Fire & Rescue, Emergency Medical Services, Hazardous Materials, Rescue Special Operations, Aviation Search & Rescue, Emergency Management, Antiterrorism/Counterterrorism, Intelligence, Fugitive Recovery and Security Risk Management.
Mr. Matthews operated from September 15th-October 8thas a rescue specialist in the response effort at the site of the World Trade Center attack. Following his work at 9/11 Greg would go on to establish a Terrorism Response Operations Division and then later accept a position as a Homeland Security Manager for the City of San Diego.
Following his work for the City of San Diego, Mr. Matthews was appointed as the Navy Region Southwest HQ Antiterrorism Officer responsible for securing the largest US Naval fleet concentration area in the world.
Mr. Matthews and his family are believers in the Lord Jesus Christ. Mr. Matthews outreach efforts includes international consulting to design and established a national rescue and emergency medical system in Uganda, East Africa.
https://chasewhatmatters.today
Boots on the Ground:
Think of a guy you trust. Take 60 Seconds and unleash your garbage on them.
There is nothing better than finding the 60 seconds of courage to share with another man about your junk. Find a guy and dump all your stuff on them. And get out of your prison!
304. Leading your family through the Christmas season Pt. 1
Men, we want to encourage you to do something with your family this Christmas season. To do nothing is not acceptable. What will you do to lead them to Jesus?
303. The Surrender Principle
302. Do you think full and are you thankful?
This holiday season, you need to ask yourself, are you thankful and do you think full? What are you thankful for? And how do you show that? A man should have a mindset of thinking full. A man looks at the things he does have and celebrates those things. He does not think and dwell on what he doesn't have with envy.
301. Realizing your power as a man.
There is power in a man's words. It is so important that men use these words for building up. A man is made for greatness and his words convey greatness or a wimpy man who is just existing.
In 2001, bestselling author and speaker Rick Johnson founded Better Dads, based on the urgent need to empower men to lead and serve in their families and communities. Rick’s books have expanded his work to include influencing the whole family, with life-changing insights for men and women on parenting, marriage, and personal growth. Inspiring and equipping through innovative multimedia presentations and seminars, Rick’s resources, methods and personal approach have been transforming the lives of men, women, and their families for over ten years.
Rick JohnsonBoots on the Ground:
Pick a Wednesday and track yourself for 24 hours and see how much time you have wasted on self indulgences. Evaluate that for yourself. As yourself, am I wasting my life on these things?
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Popsicle of Death EP 300
There’s a buzz among hunters in the PNW about the reintroduction of wolves into the northwest. A man recently showed me a picture of a wolf track that he said came from the Coast Ridge Range just a few miles west of McMinnville, which is why the story in Rick’s book caught my attention! In his book Rick tells about a technique Eskimos use for hunting wolves. They dip a razor-sharp hunting knife in fresh blood and let it freeze. They repeat this process over and over until the knife is coated and looks (and smells) like a tasty blood-sicle. The knife handle is then secured in the ice, ground, or other stable place with the bloody blade exposed. When a wolf finds the knife, he licks the exposed blade with increased passion, as he tastes the thawing blood. Quickly, the blood frenzy he reaches a climax as the wolf’s tongue is sliced deeper and deeper through his own blood lust. Eventually, the wolf bleeds to death—a self-inflicted wound (James 1:13-15).
299. Dream in your heart
Give to a cause you believe in and care about.
298. Burn the Ships
In marriage you need to be all in. Some of you need to purge your social media. Some have relationships that need broke off. Your wife is you only plan. There should never be a back up plan. Enjoy this episode.
297. How to Love Your Wife Well
Drs. Paul and Virginia Friesen have been involved in Family Ministries for more than 40 years through family camps, church staff positions, speaking, consulting, and writing. In 2003, they founded Home Improvement Ministries (www.HIMweb.org), a non-profit organization dedicated to equipping individuals and churches to better encourage marriages and families in living out God's design for healthy relationships.
As the lead resource couple at Home Improvement Ministries, the Friesens regularly speak at marriage, men’s, and women’s conferences in the US and internationally, as well as local family and parenting seminars, and have an ongoing ministry with professional athletes. Paul and Virginia both have Doctorates in Marriage and Family Therapy from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary.
Between them they have authored more than fifteen books and curriculums on parenting and marriage, including Letters to My Daughters, In Our Image, Raising a Trailblazer, Before You Save the Date, The Marriage App, and most recently, Lovin’ Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain’t No Jesus.
Paul and Virginia were married in 1976 and are the parents of three young adult women, two of whom are now married to wonderful, Godly men. Their middle daughter is living fully for Christ as a single woman and trusting God for His best. Paul and Virginia’s greatest joy in life is knowing that their children are “walking in the truth.”
Lovin’ Your Wife is available to you for 50% off with code: arena2019 at check out.
Boots on the Ground
Commit to regularly praying for your wife. If you already do that, Take your wife on a creative date. One that you plan, doing things that she loves.
Intimacy Anorexia EP 296
Intimacy anorexia is relationship disorder that is marked by a lack of intimacy in a relationship. It occurs when someone in a relationship actively withholds emotional, spiritual and sexual intimacy from their spouse or partner. This lack of intimacy harms the marriage, damages the relationship causing pain and loneliness and impacts the spouse or partner significantly.
Dr. Douglas Weiss coined the term "intimacy anorexia" when he started seeing a separate, yet related aspect of sexual anorexia in his private psychological counseling practice. He was able to link these cases of sexual anorexia into a broader spectrum of related issues and noted that people engaging in this type of withholding behavior did it for other reasons that those typically associated with sexual anorexia.
So, what is your grade?
No marriage is perfect. But with hard work, it can become better each day.
Why Bro Relationships Matter w/ David Smith EP 295
David Smith Shares about Relationships and being connected to other men. Without these connections men are toast!
https://formingconnections.com
David Smith combines a lifetime of personal experiences, the research skills of a sociologist and his Christian faith to create for men a practical and engaging guidebook for building better human relationships. David has a heart for men and believes God has given a life purpose to each man that can be identified, supported and completed. David is a former public-school superintendent and high school and college teacher and is now a conference speaker for a variety of business and faith-based events. He earned an interdisciplinary social studies and social policy PhD from Northwestern University. David and his wife Sue Ann live in suburban Chicago.
Boots on the Ground:
Buy a buddy a cup of coffee or a cold one to just see how they are doing.
294. Your perfect marriage is flawed...
Many times people judge their marriage by looking at other people's marriages on social media or from a distance. You really do not know what goes on behind their closed doors. No marriage is perfect. But with hard work it can become better each day.
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What Radical Husbands Do w/ Regi Campbell EP 293
Regi Campbell authored the book, What Radical Husbands Do: 12 Steps to Win and Keep Your Wife's Heart, This is one of the greatest books on marriage! It is short but packed full of great principles.
Regi Campbell is an experienced investor and entrepreneur by trade, having been involved in the founding of 15 companies. He’s written four books and speaks on mentoring, marriage, and marketplace ministry. His real passionate is mentoring younger men. In 2007, Regi founded Radical Mentoring to help encourage and equip mentors and churches to build disciple-makers through intentional small group mentoring. Regi currently lives in Atlanta, GA with his wife Miriam. They attend North Point Community Church, where Regi has served as an elder.
Boots on the Ground Moment: Make a list of the top 5 things that your wife loves. Start loving those things with her.
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292. Wife>Kids
There should be no question that your wife should be made more important than your kids. When your kids see that you do this they will see what a healthy relationship looks like. When the marriage thrives, the family thrives.
Get Regi Campbell's book, What Radical Husbands Do, 12 Steps to Win and Keep Your Wife's Heart.
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291. Do you pass the test of a strong man of God?
In Robert Kelley's book, The Strong Man of God he shares with us the roles and responsibilities of the Strong Man of God.
Strong Man Ministries was formally launched October 1, 2005. It was the culmination of efforts by Rev. Kelley to reach and restore black American males through the Gospel of Jesus Christ that since then expanded to males from every ethnicity so great is the assault upon men as God designed them. Reaching men has led the Ministry to the web, radio and into churches, prisons, recovery programs, football fields and city streets. Nearly 1,000 males have made decisions to follow or rededicate themselves to Christ. We believe when men are restored, they restore their families and communities to the glory of God!
Boots on the Ground:
Take the test- 4 things you must do. 1. Do you accept the 4 roles God assigns? 2. Do you obey God to the death? 3. Do you rely on God for everything? 4. Do you trust God for vindication?
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290. Love the secrets out of her
Men are to love their wives in such a way that they feel safe and excited to share their hopes and dreams with them. How well are you loving her so that she gives up the secrets in her heart?
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289. Who has your Six?
David Dusek, founder of Rough Cut Men challenges men to make sure they have a guy in their life that has their six. Because, if the enemy takes out the man, he takes out the family. You may remember our previous podcast with David Dusek on episode 122. Make a Brand New End W/David Dusek.
Boots on the Ground:
Find a guy who has your six. A guy that you can call at 2am. If you have that then maybe you need to purge your social media of unnecessary women. If there is no great reason to have them their then you need to get rid of them.
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288. 4 Responsibilities of a Strong Man of God
From his book, The Strong Man of God, Rev. Robert Kelley shares what the four responsibilities of a strong man of God are.
Leader, Provider, Teacher, and Protector.
Enjoy this episode and leave us a positive review.
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287. Reign in Life
Ray De La Nuez is the founder of the Reign in Life Podcast. He can be found on youtube and many other sites.
Ray's passion is to see OUR generation rise up & take hold of our identity in Him. From that place, all will come to the realization that we are called to co-reign as fellow heirs with Jesus.
Reign in Life is a movement for all men to rise up & take hold of their identity in Christ.
Boots on the Ground:
Who are you engaged in? If you don't have an accountability group that you are in let us know and we will help you.
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286. The 7 roles of a strong man of God
From his book, The Strong Man of God, Rev. Robert Kelley shares what the 7 roles of a strong man of God are. Enjoy this episode and leave us a positive review.
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285. Vigilante Truth and sex trafficking in America PT. 2
Bo Quickel shares about the sex industry in a way that many do not know or understand.
Serial entrepreneur and ex-international real estate developer, Bo Quickel is now the leading authority in North Carolina for advocating against the Demand for Sex Trafficking, He is a leadership team member of “HT Charlotte”; and has been involved in the Abolitionist movement to End Sex Slavery in the USA since early 2012, via the founding of the Non-Profit Vigilante Truth.
The primary focus of “VT” is to radically diminish the Consumer Demand for services provided within the Commercial Sex Trade.
The passionate efforts to reach the goal of ENDING Sex Slavery in the USA is being accomplished through Education, Public Awareness, Hotel John Interventions, Adult Massage Parlor surveillance, and creating high school clubs that create value understanding in, and of, priceless females.
Boots on the Ground:
Go to Vigilantetruth.com and watch the video. Then reach out to Bo.
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284. Are you carrying the burden of manhood.
Men carry the burden of manhood. That they.....
Carry the Cross
Carry the mantle of Manhood
Carry Light
Carry the cup of Blessings
Carry their Brothers
Carry their Presence
Are you carrying the burden of Manhood?
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283. Vigilante Truth and sex trafficking in America part 1
Bo Quickel shares about the sex industry in a way that many do not know or understand.
Serial entrepreneur and ex-international real estate developer, Bo Quickel is now the leading authority in North Carolina for advocating against the Demand for Sex Trafficking, He is a leadership team member of “HT Charlotte”; and has been involved in the Abolitionist movement to End Sex Slavery in the USA since early 2012, via the founding of the Non-Profit Vigilante Truth.
The primary focus of “VT” is to radically diminish the Consumer Demand for services provided within the Commercial Sex Trade.
The passionate efforts to reach the goal of ENDING Sex Slavery in the USA is being accomplished through Education, Public Awareness, Hotel John Interventions, Adult Massage Parlor surveillance, and creating high school clubs that create value understanding in, and of, priceless females.
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282. Who's team are you on?
When we champion/financially support a cause, we get to celebrate with them when they win. These causes are now working on your behalf for your heavenly reward. Our hope is to inspire you to champion the causes you believe in.
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Overcoming Adversity to Find Victory w/ Allen Schwartz EP 281
We can all make excuses. But, we don’t have to let our circumstances stop us from going forward.
Allen Schwartz is a son, brother, father and husband. He lives on a Century Farm in McMinnville Oregon with his bride of 32 years.
Allen is 6x starter and finisher of the Leadville Trail 100 MTN Bike Race.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Pick a physical goal and go after it. And enjoy the journey!
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280. Lessons learned about manhood below cloud peak
Jim Ramos shares 5 lessons he learned from climbing the tallest mountain of the Bighorn Mountains. Did he summit? Listen to the podcast and find out.
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279. Are you a Legacy Minded Man?
When it comes to leaving a legacy many men fall short. Many leave brokeness. What kind of legacy will you leave for those you love?
Joe Pellegrino is a men’s pastor, author, speaker, certified life coach, consultant and entrepreneur. He is the President and founder of Legacy Minded Men, whose mission is to “Transform lives by engaging, encouraging and equipping men to build a Christ-centered legacy”. He has appeared several times on television including Fox News and TBN and been featured on many radio programs across the country speaking on men’s issues. Joe is the co-author of the books Safe at Home, Transformed, That’s My Dad! And Fathers Say. Joe has also developed and presents several workshops and seminars including Standing in the Gap, Not Just An Average Joe, The 5.5 Questions Everyone Must Answer and Transformed. He and his wife, Bethanne, have three children and one grandchild.
Boots on the Ground:
Write your very own epitaph. What do you want on your tombstone?
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278. Who owns your member?
There are three owners of your member. Dr. Douglas Weiss speaks on the owners of the member and what is the protocol when it comes usage of said member.
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277. No longer living a life of quiet desperation
Haines Maxwell is a part of a men's ministry that meets each week in a barn where men get real with each other. The things that happen there can only be described as heart surgery. You will be inspired to A. Find a "Barn" near you or B. Start your own "Barn" ministry. Because men no longer need to live a life of quiet desperation!
https://www.facebook.com/BarnBrothers/
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Get away and ponder this question. Who is your 2am friend? If you don't have one, you need to get one.
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276 . The one question every man should ask about his wife
When you look at your wife who and what do you see? In this episode men will be challenged by how they see their wives. If they don't see the beauty they married anymore, then some tough questions need to be answered.
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275. Do you have permission to look at that?
Dr. Douglas Weiss has some of the best tools for men to beat their porn addiction. Or you may say you just dabble a little bit. It all leads to destruction. You are going to hear about this topic in a whole new way that we believe will help you overcome this struggle/battle.
Dr. Douglas Weiss is a Licensed Psychologist and the Executive Director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado. As Director, Dr. Weiss maintains a number of counselors, support groups, 3 and 5 Day Intensive workshops. Dr. Weiss is also the President of the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (AASAT). Dr. Weiss is a frequent guest in the national television, radio and print media and a prolific writer on marriage, addiction and self help topics pertaining to Intimacy in marriage, singlehood, men’s and women’s issues and recovery from addiction. He is an international conference speaker on healthy marriages, and men’s recovery.
Clean: A Proven Plan for Men Committed to Sexual Integrity
Boots on the Ground:
Get Covenanteyes on all of your devices! You wouldn't walk into a porn store, would you? That is what you are doing when your phone and computers are not protected. Get some guys that you are accountable to on your team.
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274. Affirm your daughters femininity
Men, it so important for our daughters to hear from us that they are beautiful. They need to be hugged by us and told they are loved. If we don't do it some hormonal boy will fill in the gap.
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273. Every man has a monk and a pirate within him
Nate Larkin, author of Samson and the Pirate Monks, shares about the struggles men face with porn who are in the church, his story and how he overcame it, and what other men can and should do.
Nate Larkin is the founder of the Samson Society. A graduate of Princeton Theological Seminary, Nate started out as a church planter in the 1980’s but abandoned the pastoral ministry after five years because he was in despair over his inability to gain victory over porn and prostitution. He went into business, forming Engineering Support Team, a company that provides marketing, customer care and technical writing services for forensic engineers.
After two decades of secret sexual behavior, Nate was discovered by his wife. That’s when he finally sought help. His first steps toward freedom came in a 12-step recovery program, which breathed new life into his experience of the gospel. In 2004, Nate and a few friends launched the Samson Society in Franklin, Tennessee, as a place where Christian men of every description – not just those battling addiction – can bring their real selves, say the real truth, and walk together in the light. The Samson Society has grown to more than 400 local groups and dozens of virtual groups that connect online.
You can learn more about Nate’s story in the book “Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood,” which was published by Thomas Nelson in 2007, or his I Am Second video on YouTube. Nate also wrote, with NASCAR legend Darrell Waltrip, “Sundays Will Never Be the Same: Racing, Tragedy, and Redemption – My Life in America’s Fastest Sport” (Simon and Schuster 2012). He is the co-host of the Pirate Monk Podcast and the Positive Sobriety Podcast and a frequent speaker at conferences and retreats.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Go on to the Samson Society website and check out their groups.
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272. Moving your sons into manhood
When a boy is called out to be a man by men he responds. It takes a man to call manhood out of this boy. In this day males are so confused about manhood. So, we have to initiate a rite of passage for our sons!
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271. Masculinity called out
Gordon Dalbey is the author of, Healing the Masculine Soul. There is such a thing as a rite of passage for men. Most men have no idea when or how they become a man. Gordon speaks to this and how the Heavenly Father is calling the man out in you.
Gordon Dalbey's first book Healing the Masculine Soul pioneered the Christian men's movement in 1988 and is still a bestseller, with French and Italian translations. The author of eight books, he has ministered around the US and world, including France, Italy, England, Hong Kong, Australia, New Zealand, Canada, and South Africa. Gordon has been a Peace Corps Volunteer in Nigeria, high school teacher in Chicago and San Jose (CA), and pastor in Los Angeles. A popular conference and retreat speaker, he has appeared on Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and hundreds of other radio and TV shows. He holds an M.Div. from Harvard, an M.A. in journalism from Stanford, and a B.A. from Duke. He and his wife Mary, a psychologist, live in Santa Barbara, CA.
Boots on the Ground moment:
Go back to your church, your family, or community and come up with a rite of passage for the boys in your life.
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270. Kill the flatscreen
Matt Friedeman believes that restricting the time our kids watch tv is the best thing we can do for them. Or...kill the flatscreen all-together! it's a radical statement, listen to the statistics surrounding your kids and the television set.
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Every Man Worships Something EP 269 w/ Jeff Deyo
Many men go to church and struggle with the "worship". Jeff Deyo challenges men to look at "worship" differently.
Jeff Deyo (@jeffdeyo) is a worship leader, author, recording artist, songwriter, speaker, podcaster, and professor who could eat Mexican food for every meal! He is known internationally as the former lead singer of the Grammy-nominated, Dove Award-winning group, Sonicflood, and lives to help people grow closer to God. He recently published his first book, Awakening Pure Worship, worldwide through Destiny Image Publishers, and he is the creator of the Pure Worship Podcast and the Pure Worship Institute. He holds the high honor of being a professor at North Central University in Minneapolis, MN, and he is one of the worship pastors at Celebration Church in Lakeville, MN. He travels extensively leading worship, speaking, and coaching worship teams, and is a regular leader and speaker at different men’s events. He has been happily married to his college sweetheart, Martha, since 1992. Together, they have four beautiful children, Roman, Evan, Channing, and Clara as well as two pet leopard geckos, two beta fish, and one mouse named Raton.
Boots on the Ground: This Sunday go to church. Show up and be present. Go for the only reason to meet with your creator. Let us know how that goes.
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267. Discipleship and your kids
Matt Friedeman shares on the topic of discipleship and who's responsibility this is in a man's home. How intentional should a man be at discipling his kids in his home? Can't a man just take them to church?
The John M. Case Professor of Evangelical Studies @ Wesley Biblical Seminary for 32 years, Founding and Current Pastor – DaySpring Community Church, Author of multiple books including The Master Plan of Teaching, The Accountability Connection, Discipleship in the Home, Life-Changing Bible Study, Discipleship, Hidden in the Heart: A Catechism for Children. Currently minister regularly as a chaplain at a local prison and outside an abortion clinic. Have had a local/statewide/national radio broadcast – The Matt Friedeman Show. Have had a regular local (2x weekly) newspaper column in the op-ed page of our statewide-daily – The Clarion-Ledger. Political analyst for local TV – WAPT.
Robert Coleman's book; Master Plan of Evangelism
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Get together with your wife and craft an Age 18 List for your kids. What do you want to see your have victory over when they turn 18?
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Moving Away From Performance Based Religion w/ Wayne Jacobsen EP 265
Wayne Jacobsen unpacks his book, He Loves Me with Jim Ramos. Are you stuck in thinking do good, get good, do bad get bad? Wayne helps men look at their relationship with Jesus completely different. Not in a way that you are trying to good.
As an author and speaker Wayne travels the world helping people find freedom from performance-based religion, so they can embrace a relationship with God deeply rooted in his affection for them. His most popular titles include He Loves Me: Learning to Live in the Father's Affection, So You Don't Want to Go to Church Anymore, Finding Church, In Season, and A Man Like No Other. He was also co-writer and publisher of The Shack, which sold over twenty-four million copies worldwide. A former pastor, Wayne now hosts Lifestream.org, which provides resources for spiritual growth and a podcast at TheGodJourney.comto encourage people thinking outside the box of religious obligation. Both have inspired many to a more vibrant faith and a greater understanding of living in the church Jesus is building in the world. He has been married to Sara for 44 years and lives in Southern California where they enjoy their adult children and grandchildren.
Boots on the Ground:
Get away for an hour or so. Ask yourself how you can be a safe place for your wife, kids, and others around you.
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264. When a man gets it Pt. 4
When a man gets it...
Families are saved, communities thrive, fatherlessness is eradicated, the porn industry goes limp, drug and alcohol abuse goes down, and the world changes. And God wants to start with you, man.
"Fix the men and you fix 80% of the world's pain and suffering." - Wes Stafford
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263. Accountability with Action!
Matt Loehr talks about accountability with action. Most accountability relationships include confession but do not require action. Are you asking the tough questions, and are you willing to be called out? Are you meeting each week with a purpose?
In this episode you will learn about D.A.R.E. in accountability.
Discover, Ask, Require, and Evaluate.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Add one more accountability partner to your Arsenal. Ask tough questions and Evaluate progress.
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262. When a man gets it Pt. 3
In the Bible when God started a movement he almost always started with a man. Our question is, what is your church doing to reach men? If men are the solution shouldn't the church be intentional about reaching them?
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261. No more excuses, be a man!
Men don't have an excuse on why they aren't being a man. Joe Martin helps men wherever they are at or what their past looks like. Joe is an award-winning international speaker, author, educator, and certified “man builder.” He's authored or co-authored nine books, including Are You the Man: 201 Lessons I Wish My Dad Would Have Taught Me, The Real Man Spiritual Leader Blueprint, and Gifts & Handkerchiefs: A Lesson in Servant Leadership. Joe has spoken for more than 750 businesses, organizations, churches, colleges & universities, and K-12 schools/districts, and he was voted "National Speaker of the Year" by the Association for the Promotion of Campus Activities. He’s also the host of “Real Men Connect,” the #1 top-rated radio podcast on iTunes for Christian Men. To find out more about his remarkable story of redemption from abject poverty, abandonment, abuse, and addiction, visit him on the web at www.RealMenConnect.com, or email: joe@realmenconnect.com
Boots on the Ground
Find a "Howard". Find a mentor! Add a mentor to your arsenol. Find the man who is respected and will walk with you to disciple you to be a better man.
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260. When a man gets it Pt. 2
Don't go at it alone,men! Get after life with a group of men! It's biblical. Men need to band together to defend against the darkness. Your family needs you to have a defense plan.
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259. Death Ruck 2019
Men do hard things. They do things that stretch them. Hear from some of the men who finished the 2019 Death Ruck in Oregon. They had to overcome many things and prepare for the long journey. We want to challenge you to do something hard this year. What will it be for you?
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258. When a man gets it Pt. 1
It is said that men are responsible for 80% of the world's problems. But they are also the solution to those problems. Are you part of the solution to the world's problems? When a man gets it everyone wins!
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257. The Irreplaceable Father
The Father is irreplaceable to his children. Men, you are needed by them. We hope this episode encourages you to step into that role with boldness and passion.
Pete has been involved in developing men for over 40 years, helping guys come to understand who they are as God’s sons and how the Father is willing to invest Himself in developing them every day of their lives so that they can become the men He always intended them to be and who they deeply desire to be: real men!
His passion is to leave no man left behind on the battlefield of life and to help men flourish, for as men flourish spiritually so do women, children, churches and culture! He desires to show how Grace builds guys into men and men into mentors.
A Californian, Pete founded a PCA church in Orlando, Florida, where he served for 26 years as Senior Pastor. He has served churches in California, Illinois, Connecticut and Florida. He is a graduate of Biola College in Communications, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School (M.Div) and Reformed Theological Seminary (D. Min) in Oviedo, Florida. Pete was one of the first speakers on the Man in the Mirror faculty and now is Pastor Emeritus, Executive Director, FORGE, City Wide Ministry to Men
In Orlando, Florida (www.ForgeTruth.com). Pete has taught Communications and Theology of Ministry at Reformed Theological Seminary in Oviedo, Florida and Theology of Ministry at Knox Seminary. His first book is, Like Father, Like Son, How Knowing God As Father Changes Men, published by New Growth Press. Pete is on the Board of Key Life Network and has participated in the Friday radio broadcast with Steve Brown for many years.
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Pastor Emeritus, Executive Director FORGE
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256. Men on the Roof Pt. 4
You Are The Sum Of The 5 People Closest To You. With that said who are the men on your roof, in your corner, and who call you to greatness? We need those in our lives who have enough courage to call us out and up into manhood.
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The 20 Attributes of a Godly Man. How Do You Measure Up? w/ Gene Getz EP 255
Gene Getz speaks of the 20 attributes of a man. We have to ask ourselves, How do we measure up?
There are thousands of books published every year. However, very few stay in print—especially for years!
“The Measure of a Man” is one of those exceptions. It has never gone out of print for over 40 years!
This amazing publishing story began in 1973! Dr. Gene Getz had just launched the first Fellowship Bible Church the previous year in November. Word spread and growth was immediate in this new and innovative environment.
Reflecting on those early months, Gene shared his immediate concern that numerical growth parallel spiritual growth.
“I didn’t want a church that was a mile wide and an inch thick,” he said. “I was certainly not opposed to quantitative growth. After all, the first church in Jerusalem grew by leaps and bounds. But the New Testament is clear! All of the New Testament letters focus on spiritual growth—measuring up to the stature of the fullness of Christ” (Ephesians 4:11-16).
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254. Men on the Roof Pt. 3
Men need men in their lives that will bring them to the healing touch of Jesus. When a man is broken and hurting they need men with guts to walk with them into healing. Reach out. Find those guys who will walk with you.
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The Man Bible is Here w/ Gene Getz EP 253
Dr. Gene Getz is a graduate of Moody Bible Institute, earned a BA from Rocky Mountain College, an MA from the Wheaton Graduate School and a Ph.D. from New York University. He has served as a professor at Moody Bible Institute and Dallas Theological Seminary.
After 20 years in the academic world, Gene became involved in church planting and, in 1972, launched the Fellowship Bible Church movement. Today, some 30,000 people worship in approximately 12 churches in the Dallas area alone and hundreds of Fellowship churches throughout the United States trace their roots back to Gene’s church planting efforts.
Gene is also a prolific author. Most of his 60 books have grown out of his experience as a pastor. “The Measure of a Man” has become a classic and is used around the world for personal and group study. His books, “The Measure of a Healthy Church” and “Elders and Leaders: God’s Plan for Leading the Church” (both published by Moody) remain breakthrough biblical studies for church leaders.
Gene now serves as President of the Center for Church Renewal and has completed a 7-year Bible project using the Holman Christian Standard Bible. The Life Essentials Study Bibleis the first Multi-Media Study Bible which contains 1,500 principles from Genesis to Revelation.
Gene also airs a 2-minute daily feature on numerous radio stations called “Bible Principles” which can be accessed by going to www.bibleprinciples.org where you’ll discover information about Gene’s Life Essentials Study Bible. A free app is also available for iPhone, iPad and Android named “Life Essentials.”
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252. Men on the Roof Pt. 2
In this episode, Jim speaks about those men that we need in our lives that call us out. What kind of men are they and where are they in our life? We will become like those we spend the most time with.
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251. Entering the Stress Bubble prepared and encouraged
Daniel Lagan has worked for Iron Sharpens Iron Men's Ministry fo rthe past 8 years. At the age of 30 Daniel has a lot of wisdom because of the men he surrounds himself with. He was raised with a work ethic and he was humble enough as a young man to learn from those who have gone before him so that he can be prepared for what God has before him today.
Boots on the Ground:
Go to ironsharpensiron.net look for an equipping conference or marriage conference in your area and sign up.
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250. Men on the Roof PT. 1
Who are the men on the roof that we are refering to? These are the guys who got your back. Men need these guys in their life. THey need men with guts, and passion. Who aren't afraid to call you out and up. Enjoy this 4 part series on Men on the Roof.
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249. Living the best version of your life
He is a veteran of many worlds and has spent time in corporate America, a start-up, and built an international 8-figure business based on relationship, intimacy and sexuality. He currently teaches and lectures within the US and internationally and runs a successful consulting firm helping small businesses to become marketable and profitable.
He is the host of the highly successful podcast, TuffLove and author of the recent Amazon #1 Best Seller – unHIDDEN – A Book for Men and Those Confused By Them.
Robert is an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness.
His coaching style is challenging, highly rewarding, and definitely not for the faint hearted. He has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”.
He is an supporter of the MENtour – a male- only, mentorship driven education nonprofit based in Los Angeles. Founded in 2012, The MENtour™ champions transformative experiences for middle school students, males specifically, through the vehicle of mentorship. Rooted in social emotional learning techniques, provide students with the tools necessary to succeed in the classroom and beyond.
Boots on the ground. If you are not confronting something that you need to confront, do it. Find a friend to help you. Don’t live anymore with out confronting the thing you need to.
248. Champion the causes you care about
There may be many causes that men care about. But, if they do not support them they do not get to celebrate with them when they when. How can a man say that a certain team is their team if they never buy a ticket, never put on the team gear, or somehow financially support the team. We want to challenge men to get in the arena and champion the causes that they care about.
Navigating the Dark Times of Life w/ Jack Deere EP 247
Jack Deere, formerly an associate professor of Old Testament at Dallas Theological Seminary, is a writer and lecturer who speaks on friendship with God and on the gifts of the Holy Spirit. He is the author of the bestselling book, Surprised by the Power of the Spirit. Follow Jack on Facebook.
Boots on the Ground Set a regular time to pray to feel the affection from God. Focus in on your time with God. Listen and build a relationship in Prayer.
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246. Fight for your marriage
Five Key things that will help you in fighting for your marriage from Jason Karampatsos' book, The Elephant in the Marriage.
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245. The Christian Man w/Patrick Morley
For decades Patrick Morley has been regarded as one of America’s most respected authorities on the unique challenges and opportunities facing men. Through his speaking and writing, he is a tireless advocate for men, encouraging and inspiring them to change their lives in Christ.
“The ministry of Man in the Mirror exists,” says Patrick Morley, “in answer to the prayers of all those wives, mothers, and grandmothers who have for decades been praying for the men in their lives.”
Patrick Morley graduated with honors from the University of Central Florida. He has earned a PhD in management, completed postgraduate studies at the Harvard Business School and Oxford University, and graduated from Reformed Theological Seminary. He lives in Winter Park, Florida, with his wife, Patsy. They have two married children and five grandchildren.
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Boots on the Ground. Got to website download the free coaching guide. and Buy the book The Christian Man. Read it.
Daily prayer of a Husband. Father, I said til death do us part. I want to meet it. Help me to love you more than her and her more than anything or anyone else, help me bring her into your presence today. Make us one like you are three in one. I want to hear her, cherish her, and serve her so she would love you more and we can bring you glory.
244. You're a victor not a victim
Keith Collins shares a simple concept of being a victor in life instead of being a victim. Most have had unfortunate things happen in their life, but those things don't define us.
243. Rising above your excuses and into your best version
Keith Collins shares about his book, Fatherless. Keith Collins believes that we are all more than our past. In a motivational guide for men of all ages, Collins details his own past as he grew up in Atlanta, witnessed his parents’ breakup at the age of three. Then he helplessly watched as a string of males entered his life without any commitment to being the father figure he needed. Collins faced many challenges and obstacles for several years as he struggled to find his way. Collins, who today travels the country motivating men and fathers to rise above their past, shares a practical roadmap that guides men to learn from their life experiences and reach their fullest God given potential. While offering insight into his personal experiences, Collins also examines the biblical and societal role of the male in today’s society, the effects of a fatherless household, the victim mentality, and the ABCs of salvation. Included with each chapter are introspective questions that will help men look within for answers, discover self limiting beliefs, and unleash the endless possibilities. Fatherless shares a guidance and wisdom that empowers and encourages men to overcome obstacles and become all they are called to be. “Keith’s purpose in writing this inspirational book is to stimulate all young men to persevere to be the best that they can be!” -James H. Burton, Ph.D. Author, Human nature meditations-Concentrations for managers and other human beings
Boots on the Ground: Leaders are readers. Find one book on manhood, and read it.
242. Change your diet, change your life
Change doesn't just happen. When you change your diet you will change your life. We hope this podcast inspires you to become the best version of you!
241. Develop a battle plan for your life
Yves Johnson is the President of Christ Is My Savior Ministries. He is a leader in developing and facilitating training programs for team building, team growth and executive coaching, and motivational speaking to Faith-Base organizations, military, government, private organizations, as well as not for profit entities. The training programs directly aided employees in promotions, personal development and skills development.
Boots on the Ground: Pray and Develop an battle plan for your life.
240. Draw closer to your wife
In this episode Jason Karampatsos shares from his book The Elephant in the Marriage on what is means to draw closer to your wife. How is this done and what are the effects of doing so?
Perception vs Reality in Changing Your Marriage w/ Jason Karampatsos EP 239
Be ambitiously curious about your spouse.
Dr. Jason Karampatsos is the lead pastor of New Life Assembly of God in Janesville, Wisconsin, the co-founder of the City of Refuge Counseling Network and the author of The Elephant in the Marriage. As an ordained minister and a licensed counselor with a Ph.D. in pastoral counseling, he helps men navigate both spiritual and mental health challenges.
He writes extensively on the impact of perspectives and perceptions upon everyday realities and especially upon marriages. He is an active speaker for men’s conferences, marriage retreats and workshops, and speaks to pastors and churches across the country on how to thrive in their relationships.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Sit down with your wife and listen to her, to discover one new nugget about her.
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238. What is a Man? The Man Card Book Pt. 2
This part 2 episode covers The Man Card Book, 5 Characteristics Separating Men from Boys. We live in a confusing world where many have no idea what a man is and does. We will unpack this in this two-part equipping podcast.
237. Being an All-Pro Dad
BJ Foster gives us tools to become a better dad. We tackle the importance of fully engaging with our kids as they grow. Being a dad who takes care of our kids financially is not enough. Men, there is more to be done.
BJ Foster is Director of Content Creation for Family First, a national nonprofit that helps families love each other well. Family First includes three programs (All Pro Dad, iMOM, and the Family Minute with Mark Merrill) that offer parenting and marriage advice that receive over ten million visitors every year. BJ has written hundreds of articles and has been a speaker on the subjects of manhood, marriage, and fatherhood. He utilizes his experience in the corporate world, politics, and over fifteen years working with adolescents. BJ grew up in Philadelphia, but currently lives in Tampa, FL with his wife and two children. However, he remains a passionate Philadelphia sports fan.
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236. What is a Man? The Man Card Book Pt. 1
This episode covers The Man Card Book, 5 Characteristics Separating Men from Boys. We live in a confusing world where many have no idea what a man is and does. We will unpack this in this two-part equipping podcast.
234. Have the talk with your wife
We as men are great at protecting others. But, we are not so great at protecting ourselves. There are some questions we need to ask our wives that will help us be protectors of ourselves as well.
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One Thing You Can Do to Be the Best Version of You w/ Brett Clemmer EP 233
Brett Clemmer is a husband, father, disciple-maker, outdoor enthusiast, and avid Boston sports fan.
Brett joined Man in the Mirror in 2000 and serves as President. His passion is to make the church relevant to younger men and men on the fringe. In his writing and speaking, Brett breaks through the resistance that many men feel toward spiritual topics with his use of personal stories and humor.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Do one thing. Find out when and plan on attending the next men’s event at your church. If you don’t go to church, grab your family this week and go!
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232. 4 Life giving phrases of a patriarch
As men, we possess power in our words. What we speak over our wife and kids can bring life or destruction. This episode should challenge you in the way you speak over them.
231. Men raise your hand!
Men need to reach out, raise your hand, ask another man to mentor you, disciple you, help you to become stronger in your weak areas. Simply raising your hand and asking another man to come along side you on this journey is the beginning of great things.
Scott Wiggins has spent the last 30 plus years leading men and women. For over 26 years of that time, Scott served in the United States Air Force. A retired Brigadier General, he held numerous positions of leadership from flight to squadron to group to wing commands. As a pilot, he has extensive combat experience and the unique honor of working for Air Force One for two years. Since leaving the Air Force, Scott has served as the Director of Staff of Pinelake Church. Pinelake is a multi-site church with five campus locations in Mississippi. Scott pastors and oversees the staff of 150 who, in turn, shepherd a weekly congregational attendance of over 11,000.
Boots on the Ground Moment: Raise your hand. Ask a guy you respect to help you.
230. What Men Carry?
229. Looking death in the face
Corey Davis was on a fishing boat when the bow cracked and started sinking. He almost died 3 times while helping to save the crew. Enjoy this heroic story!
Boots on the Ground Assignment. Find One Thing that you will do to express your love for your wife and children everyday.
228. Tension between the man and the fan in the arena
To be known or to be anonymous is the question. There is a tension between the man and the fan in the arena. What do we see in the church? Are men being put on display for Jesus or are they sitting back quietly so as to not bring attention to themselves? How are we suppose to live? What does the Bible say about this?
A Great Resource for You and Your Wife w/ Bill Perkins EP 227
Jim and Bill discuss the book that Jim reads to and with his wife daily.
The Jesus Story blends all four Gospel accounts into a single harmonious narrative while capturing the essence of each writer.
Bill Perkins has conducted business and leadership seminars across the country for companies such as Alaska Airlines and McDonald’s. Bill has appeared on nationally broadcast radio and television shows, including “The O’Reilly Factor.” He addresses men’s groups around the world and has conducted chapels for major league baseball teams.
Bill served as a senior pastor for 24 years and is the founder and CEO of Million Mighty Men, White Horse Press and White Horse Ministries. He is a graduate of the University of Texas and Dallas Theological Seminary.
Bill has authored or collaborated on 22 books, including the best selling Six Battles Every Man Must Win and When Good Men Are Tempted. He also wrote 6 Rules Every Man Must Break, the Jesus experiment, and When Good Men Get Angry. Bill coauthored the business book Give ‘Em the Pickle!, and the Handbook to Leadership. He also published The Jesus Story, a blending of the four Gospels.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Pick a study or devotional and commit to doing it daily.
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226. Are you a man or fan in the arena?
Many men are merely fans in the Arena! What the world needs, is more men in the Arena! We hope this podcast motivates men to rise up and get into the arena of manhood.
225. Every Man a Warrior
Lonnie Berger is the Global Director TWR Men’s Ministry and the author of Every Man A Warrior, a men’s ministry discipleship curriculum that has sold more than 100,000 books in 25 countries and been translated into 9 languages. Before coming to TWR, Lonnie served with The Navigators for 40 years.
90% of a man’s life energy will be spent on the issues of: Money, Marriage, Children, Sex, Work, and Hard Times. Every Man a Warrior helps men to succeed in each of these areas.
Lonnie’s passion is to help men love God, succeed in life and spiritually multiply. When men are trained, and the Lord transforms their hearts, divorce rates drop, children are protected, and men begin to love and lead in the family in a way that makes our Christianity attractive to those without Christ. Changing the hearts of men is the KEY to reaching a culture for Christ.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
- Memorize the Marriage Commitment -
- Set up a weekly meeting with each of your children and go through the 6 step process. Make it safe, learn to ask the questions, make it about them, shut up and listen, pray with them and speak building blocks of truth into their lives.
224. What is a man in the Arena?
There are some major differences between men and women. And a Man in the Arena does certain things. Enjoy this episode as we dive into what is a man in the arena.
223. Sex and a Man's Brain
Kirk M Samuels is “The Intimacy Incubator”. He is a gifted speaker and an award-winning member of Toastmaster’s International.
For thirty of the first forty years of his life, Kirk was addicted to pornography. Numerous relationships and careers suffered as a result. At his lowest point, Kirk was ready to end his life. Then, after the most significant of breakthroughs, Kirk created a class for men called Free Indeed. Kirk’s real, practical experience makes him uniquely qualified to speak about today’s porn consumer and relationships. His book For Your Eyes Only: The Inside Scoop About Men, Porn, and Marriage reveals to women how her man can become addicted to her. Kirk is a featured radio personality on The Real Traci Rock Show and The Corner Café Radio. In June 2018, Kirk launched the Uplift communities, where people who have been impacted by pornography can connect and learn from experts how to grow in mind, body, and soul. Uplift consists of a platform for men and a platform for women to connect through bi-monthly webinars.
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222. Understanding your woman's words
What does she really mean? Your wife says, "what are you thinking about"? What is she really asking? When she asks certain questions is she really asking that question or is it code for something else? We did some research and have the chilling answers.
221. A Man’s Greatest Questions
What are the questions a man should be asking his friends? Do you care about their eternity? Jeff Hart answers these questions and more.
Jeff Hart is the Portland Area Director of Search Ministries, since 1992. He leads Open Forum outreaches to seekers, and organizes seeker-sensitive events. He meets on a regular basis to disciple new and mature believers in the essentials of the Christian faith. Jeff leads apologetics and lifestyle evangelism courses in homes, churches, and organizations. He manages Advisory Team. Prepares annual strategic plan and budget, and implements all fundraising initiatives.
His Highlights: Developed unique Apologetics leadership training intensive study course. Established volunteer-based supervised ministry.
- Oregon State Director, Fellowship of Christian Athletes, 1986-1992
- Ministered to Oregon state coaches. Coordinated athletic camps.
- Established FCA Huddles in area junior high schools, and colleges.
- Inspirational and educational speaker. Trained adult leaders and youth in small group mechanics and lifestyle evangelism.
Athletic Career:
Offensive Lineman, Los Angeles Express (United States Football League) 1984-1985 Team Captain. Player Representative.
Offensive Right Tackle, Baltimore Colts (National Football League) 1979-1984 Team Captain. Assistant Player Representative.
Two Year Starter, Winnipeg Blue Bombers (Canadian Football League) 1977-1978 Offensive Tackle and Special Teams.
Offensive Tackle, New Orleans Saints 1976-1977 Offensive Tackle and Special Teams
Offensive Tackle, San Francisco Forty Niners (National Football League) 1975-1976 Third Round Draft Pick
Boots on the ground moment: Pick one of your buddies, ask them about their spiritual journey.
220. One thing you should never leave home without
It is so important that the whole world knows that your wife is #1. Do other women know you are married and unavailable? There is a simple way to let them know. Enjoy this episode.
Longevity in Life w/ Bud Lindstrand EP 219
Checking out and retiring from life and your purpose is not an option for the Christian Man. He lives each day to the fullest, giving back to others, and making his world a better place.
Bud Lindstrand was the former CEO of Moda Health Plans, now MODA Health, a major provider of health insurance in Oregon. When he began with Moda Health, it was a small company with 23 employees and $4 million in revenues. When he retired, Moda Health had over 400 employees and revenues in excess of $400 million. Lindstrand received a B.A. in History from Northwestern in 1954, attended Western Conservative Baptist Seminary (1955) and the University of Oregon (1956-57) and is a 1983 Alumnus of the Harvard Business School. He worked with Aetna Life & Casualty in various management positions (1957-74) before going to work with Moda Health. Lindstrand was married to Roxann from 1953 until her death in 2000. They raised two children, Marty and Deon. In May 2002 he married Gail, a family friend of 35 years. Their marriage brought her children, Dodd and Paige, into his family. They have fourteen grandchildren.
Born and raised in a Christian home, Lindstrand made a public profession of Christ and was baptized at age nine; however, he says his true conversion took place during his freshman year at Northwestern. Lindstrand has taught adults in Sunday school and other Bible study settings for more than 40 years, and has served on church boards wherever he has worshipped. An interest in music, which began at Northwestern, has grown to include singing with church choirs and special music groups, as well as solo work. Lindstrand's board work includes the Western Conservative Baptist Seminary, Oregon Health and Science University, Oregon Symphony Association, American Symphony Orchestra League, Business Committee for Arts, The Capital Initiative, Association for Portland Progress, WorldVenture Mission Board, IDEAS-Christian Humanitarian Society, Oregon Symphony Foundation, Lewis & Clark Trustee, and Medical Society of Metropolitan Portland.
Bud and his wife, Gail, currently serve as volunteer National Prayer Coordinators with the Luis Palau Evangelistic Association in Portland, Oregon.
Boots on the Ground Moment:
Find a guy 10-20 years plus ahead of you. Approach him and meet regularly to have him help you in your journey.
218. Discovering your life's calling
Who am I and why am I hear is asked by many men? Well, what brings you life? Not sure of your calling? This episode will help you to do a few things that will help you on your journey.
Understanding Who You Are EP 217
Gary Barkalow has a passion and desire to help men know their calling and live into it. Check out his links below.
Boots on the Ground: Collect the dots in your life. Collect all the intel that you have Gary of the past and present that bring me to life. Who are you and what is your calling?
Gary Barkalow gary@thenobleheart.com www.thenobleheart.com www.WhatAreYouDoingHere.info
216. Disarming your angry wife
What phrase can you say to disarm your angry wife? As men, we have tried many and failed miserably. We wish to give you the tools to respectfully stop the crazy cycle.
215. Living the Adventurous Life
So many men live the sedentary life when they are created to live The Adventurous life. They must choose to live a life of adventure or let life just happen. We suggest you choose the latter.
"Genius is the capacity to retrieve wonder at will." Jeff Andrechyn
Captain American Airlines 35 years
Boots on the Ground Moment-
Plan an adventure, Death Ruck, scuba certified, Back to school, dream job, take your wife on a vacation.
214. Answering the 4 most important questions your wife is asking
In every woman, there is a gland called the security gland. She is asking you 4 questions. What are they and are you making sure that she is secure with you?
213. Finding Balance in the midst of the busyness
Life in the Arena (AKA the Bubble) is hectic. It can be exhausting at times with no end in sight. Are you stressed out? Has the busyness of life knocked you off kilter? How do we get a win over busyness and find elusive balance? Today's show will help you win in the Arena. Join us with the founder of Bowtech Archery and serial entrepreneur John Strasheim as he shares his wisdom, experiences, and regrets of being a tremendously successful businessman.
Boots on the Ground Moment this week is to do something BIG in 2019 and tell us about it.
212. When to use force to defend the weak and powerless
Should we be passive as Christian men or are we called to step in and defend the weak? What are you doing to defend the weak and powerless?
211. Unleash yourself on this world by finding victory from past wounds
Much of what hinders us as men, is our inability to live as FREE MEN. We carry the scars, and wounds of our past. Things like unforgiveness, being violated or watching a loved one suffer, slows us down in our journey to manliness. Our brokenness often comes from a father or authority figure that disappointed us, which not only increases our load in life. But hinders our view of God as a loving Father and renders us less effective in the Arena.
Tim Spykstra- Pastor and President of Oceans Ministries.
Boots on the Ground Moment: Write a blessing letter to your father or a man who has been a father to you.
210. Choose the Strenuous Life Over Comfort and Ease
It's easy to sign up for the comfortable life. We were created for the strenuous life, where we strive for greatness and climb the mountains of adversity. This new year how will you choose the strenuous life and reject the passive comfortable life?
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209. Gillette and Toxic Masculinity
What is the difference between being a man and a boy? Can you be a man and also, posses the attributes of toxic masculinity? In this episode, we weigh in on the commercial from Gillette.
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208. The Man Card, 5 Characteristics Separating Men from Boys
Is there really a Man Card? How do we define Manhood? In this episode, we address the confusing topic of Manhood. The world can cause us to think that Manhood is achieved by age, strength, gender, or financial status. We disagree with these things. We are sure you will enjoy this episode.
The Boots on the Ground Moment: Get your copy of The Man Card, Five Characteristics Separating Men from Boys
207. Who's got your back? How far will you go for your friends?
Men have problems building friendships sometimes. It is so important that you find a cultivate real friendships in your life. Who has your back? Who will be there for you when life gets tough?
Justin & PatrickBorn just over 36 hours apart, Justin & Patrick are life-long friends with a rich, deep relationship that spans beyond 40 years. They travel together, live life together through its ups and downs, and most importantly, will do anything for each other.
I'll Push You is a story of friendship and love, a story of hope and sacrifice, a story that explores the raw, deep human condition and the connections we all long for. The Camino de Santiago serves as a backdrop to the lives of Justin Skeesuck and Patrick Gray. I'll Push You provides insight into what it means to live for one another, what it means to overcome limitations, and what it means to push one another toward who we each long to be.
At first glance, this story appears to be an adventure tackling a physical challenge in order to fulfill the dream of a man who lives life from a wheelchair. The reality of I'll Push You is there are many ways we can push one another. Justin's perspective on life and the way in which he lives it pushes Patrick beyond his fears and doubts. Join us as we discover what it means to let go of safety and what it means to rest completely in faith.
206. The Most Important Parenting Questions
How much do you know about your kids? Do you lecture or listen? What is on their hearts? What do they struggle with? In this Equipping in Ten, episode we will look at the most important questions that parents should ask.
205. Fat to Fit and Blind
Listen to the amazing story of Brian Trent who lost over 300lbs after his obesity led to him losing his eyesight. In this episode, we get a glimpse into his amazing journey.
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204. A Good Dad's Best Play
Good dad's do certain things that are key in connecting with their kids. How well are you doing in these areas? What do you need to commit to today?
Is Your Wife Crazy? Love and Respect w/ Emerson Eggerichs EP 203
Is your marriage in the crazy cycle? Is there mutual respect in your marriage? Emerson Eggerichs, author of the best selling book Love and Respect, joins us to discuss the crazy cycle and how to get your marriage out of it.
202. Is Your Marriage a Three Legged Race
How well are you doing in the Three Legged Race with your spouse? Where does your relationship need a tune up?
Want a Better Sex Life in Your Marriage? w/ Bill Farrel EP 201
Many call sex the glue that bonds a marriage together. What does your sex life say about your marriage? How often are you and your wife having sex?
Bill and Pam Farrel are popular speakers for marriage conferences, date nights, singles and parent groups. Here are some of their most popular topics:
Men are like Waffles, Women are like Spaghetti Red Hot Monogamy The Marriage Code The Best Decisions Every Parent can Make www.love-wise.comGet Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters
200. Sex is the Gorilla Glue Bonds the Marriage
In this episode, we discuss the thing that bonds a marriage together. You guessed it! Sex. By the amount of sex you and your wife have how healthy is your marriage?
199. Don't Lecture Me
Learning how to parent by using the art of questioning and not lecturing. Join us with Hal Perkins as he shows us how to ask the right questions to our children.
Hal and Debbi have given 40 years in studying and strategically applying the principles of making disciples that Jesus modeled and commanded of His followers. Both formally and informally, they relationally discipled their four children (now all in full-time Christian ministry) and those in their churches willing to invest time in their own relationship with Jesus and then to help others.
HeartWalk FoundationsIn 1969 Hal was dramatically called into professional ministry. He and Debbi began their first full time pastoral role in June 1 of 1970 and concluded 40 years of pastoral ministry on June 30, 2010. They have been married 41 years. At marriage, Hal was a math teacher and coach. Debbi finished college to become an elementary teacher.
During their 40 years of professional ministry, Hal and Debbi served five Nazarene churches as senior pastor. Debbi taught in both public and Christian schools, served as administrative assistant to the Lieutenant Governor of Oklahoma, and ministered as a chaplain in 10 corporations.
198. Healthy Marriage Evolution; Leave Weave Cleave
What are the components of a healthy marriage? Join us in this Equipping in Ten as we discuss the Leave, Weave, and Cleave components of a marriage.
Becoming a True Warrior Part 2 w/ Michael Thompson EP 197
Michael Thompson helped birth Zoweh Ministries and Authored:
Search and Rescue: The Life and Love Looking for You (2011)
The Heart of a Warrior: Before You Can Become the Warrior You Must Become the Beloved Son (2015)
Brazen: Fearless, Bold and Without Shame (2019)
Zoweh is a Discipleship and Friendship Initiative that serves and functions as both a Medic Unit and an Outpost for people to know and experience the Life God has for them.
The context of our days could best be described as the greatest of love stories set in the midst of the fiercest of wars. We need help. We all need help.
A Medic Unit: A group of people, also in the battle, but willing to help those who have been wounded or taken out. As our team, friends, and allies advance in this great battle for the hearts of men and women, we often come across wounded and hurting people—the casualties of war.
Wounded and disoriented hearts desperately need Christ to bring healing to their brokenness, freedom from their bondage, and orientation and restoration to their lives. Zoweh aspires to provide relationships and environments for people to recover and experience the love, life, freedom, and restoration offered by Jesus Christ in the midst of a fierce battle for the heart.
An Outpost: A place that exists to provide essential equipment and provisions for Life—shovels and swords, maps and a compass, food and clothing, wisdom and understanding—a place where men and women can receive resources, information, and tools to walk well with God.
We all need good information, but just as important, we all must understand the experience we are having in this larger story. The Sons and Daughters of God, His family, need to know more than just the theology of the Bible (though this is a very good thing). They must also know the experience they are to have with the truth. That is when one becomes more free, more alive, and ultimately more of who God created them to be… Oriented!
196. Your Most Important Guardrail
What is the most important guardrail around your marriage? Is it smart to talk about your wife negatively with other women? Or, is it really necessary and wise to have lunch/coffee dates with other women for "work"? The cultural norms are killing marriages every day!
Becoming a True Warrior Part 1 w/ Michael Thompson EP 195
Michael Thompson helped birth Zoweh Ministries and Authored:
Search and Rescue: The Life and Love Looking for You (2011)
The Heart of a Warrior: Before You Can Become the Warrior You Must Become the Beloved Son (2015)
Brazen: Fearless, Bold and Without Shame (2019)
Zoweh is a Discipleship and Friendship Initiative that serves and functions as both a Medic Unit and an Outpost for people to know and experience the Life God has for them.
The context of our days could best be described as the greatest of love stories set in the midst of the fiercest of wars. We need help. We all need help.
A Medic Unit: A group of people, also in the battle, but willing to help those who have been wounded or taken out. As our team, friends, and allies advance in this great battle for the hearts of men and women, we often come across wounded and hurting people—the casualties of war.
Wounded and disoriented hearts desperately need Christ to bring healing to their brokenness, freedom from their bondage, and orientation and restoration to their lives. Zoweh aspires to provide relationships and environments for people to recover and experience the love, life, freedom, and restoration offered by Jesus Christ in the midst of a fierce battle for the heart.
An Outpost: A place that exists to provide essential equipment and provisions for Life—shovels and swords, maps and a compass, food and clothing, wisdom and understanding—a place where men and women can receive resources, information, and tools to walk well with God.
We all need good information, but just as important, we all must understand the experience we are having in this larger story. The Sons and Daughters of God, His family, need to know more than just the theology of the Bible (though this is a very good thing). They must also know the experience they are to have with the truth. That is when one becomes more free, more alive, and ultimately more of who God created them to be… Oriented!
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194. Knowing Where You Are?
Knowing who you are? Knowing where you are? Knowing why you are? It is important to be an oriented man. You need to know who you are.
Overcoming Life's Tragedies w/ Ron Heagy EP 193
Ron Heagy broke his neck the day before his 18th birthday in a surfing accident. He is now a quadriplegic, paralyzed from the neck down. But he chooses to Never Give Up. After receiving a masters degree by typing with a stick in his teeth, he is now an inspirational speaker, mouth painter, author, father, and founder of a special needs camp located in Oregon, which has given freedom to numerous individuals to explore the wonderful outdoors. He is also the founder of Life Is An Attitude LLC.
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192. Men Do Hard Things
What secrets do you need to bring into the light? In this Equipping in Ten we ask the question are you hiding anything? Do you need to make some hard decisions? We hope this episode inspires you to do these things.
191. When Your Loved Ones are Violated
190. Does Your Beauty Need Rescuing?
When was the last time you rescued your beauty? Your wife needs to be rescued. In this Equipping in Ten we challenge you to go from a zero to her hero. Men, we do not have the option to defer our responsiblity to rescue her.
189. Finishing Strong Starts Now
Men living in the stress bubble of life can't see the forest through the trees. They are so busy living in the now they can't see the finish. A good finish starts with a good start. Join us as with Dan Critchett as we unpack this.
Dan's goal for Second Half Now is to provide multiple opportunities for “Second Halfers” to receive information and inspiration that touches their lives in meaningful and practical ways. Through radio shows, podcasts, blogs, events, networking, educational and motivational presentations, coaching, and multi-media platforms, his passion is to literally help today’s 50-plus American live a life that matters.
Second Half Now is committed to the health and happiness of America’s Baby Boomers. There are seventy six million of us, and we want to have a measure of purpose and meaning in our lives. There is a deep need inside each of us to make a difference in some way, and to live out our potential.
188. Raising Protectors of the Weak Pt. 2
There are three types of people in this life. Sheep, Wolves, and Sheep Dogs. Raising a child who isn't a bully isn't enough. Raising a child who is bully-proof isn't enough. Raising a child who is a protector of the weak is the goal.
Protectors, founded in 2005, was born from personal experience and a unique understanding into a fundamental weakness to existing anti-bullying programs. As a Target of bullying while in elementary school, Founder and President Paul Coughlin knows just how damaging such a campaign of cruelty can be to a person’s emotional and psychological wellbeing—damage that can harm a person well into adulthood. Some never recover.
Unlike traditional anti-bullying efforts that focus primarily upon reforming children who bully and which are historically ineffective, The Protectors focuses primarily upon the potential strength, heroic desire, and rescuing capacity of Bystanders, transforming them into what we call “Alongside Standers.” We also provide assertiveness training for Targets, help Authority dispel the many damaging myths about bullying, and inspire children who bully to employ their power in life-affirming directions instead.
Studies show that Bystanders possess the most potential power to transform what we call the “Theater of Bullying” into a theater of character, freedom and justice. One study revealed that if only one Bystander, who doesn’t even need to be popular, uses his or her assertive but non-violent words in defense of a Target, that the incident of bullying can end 58% of the time within 6 to 8 seconds. By intervening on behalf of Targets, Bystanders will not only create safer and happier schools, but also create greater character within themselves and others.
187: Bully Proofing Your Kids
How do you know that your kids are prepared to deal with bullies at school? What is the right response to a bully? We don't believe that we teach them to turn the other cheek.
Join us to this equipping in ten on Bully Proofing your kids.
186: Raising Protectors of the Weak Pt. 1
There are three types of people in this life. Sheep, Wolves, and Sheep Dogs. Raising a child who isn't a bully isn't enough. Raising a child who is bully-proof isn't enough. Raising a child who is a protector of the weak is the goal.
Protectors, founded in 2005, was born from personal experience and a unique understanding into a fundamental weakness to existing anti-bullying programs. As a Target of bullying while in elementary school, Founder and President Paul Coughlin knows just how damaging such a campaign of cruelty can be to a person’s emotional and psychological wellbeing—damage that can harm a person well into adulthood. Some never recover.
Unlike traditional anti-bullying efforts that focus primarily upon reforming children who bully and which are historically ineffective, The Protectors focuses primarily upon the potential strength, heroic desire, and rescuing capacity of Bystanders, transforming them into what we call “Alongside Standers.” We also provide assertiveness training for Targets, help Authority dispel the many damaging myths about bullying, and inspire children who bully to employ their power in life-affirming directions instead.
Studies show that Bystanders possess the most potential power to transform what we call the “Theater of Bullying” into a theater of character, freedom and justice. One study revealed that if only one Bystander, who doesn’t even need to be popular, uses his or her assertive but non-violent words in defense of a Target, that the incident of bullying can end 58% of the time within 6 to 8 seconds. By intervening on behalf of Targets, Bystanders will not only create safer and happier schools, but also create greater character within themselves and others.
185. Raising Defenders of the Weak
In this Equipping in Ten our goal isn't just to raise children of high moral character. We need to be raising children who defend the weak. Are you raising protectors in your home? What do they see in you?
Adventurous Living with Reckless Abandon w/ Seth Barnes EP 184
Being on this planet is not about just surviving, it's about thriving. Life is an adventure that is meant to be lived above mediocrity.
Seth Barnes, Founder and CEO
Seth founded Adventures in Missions in 1989. In the years since, the organization has provided opportunities for more than 110,000 people to participate in mission trips all over the globe. Outside of his work as CEO, Seth is a speaker, author, and prolific blogger. His blog, Radical Living, can be found at www.sethbarnes.com. Seth and his wife, Karen, have five children and two grandchildren and live near Gainesville, Georgia.
183. Your Most Important Person on the Planet
In this Equipping in Ten we dive into what your phone says about who is important to you. When your wife looks at your phone what does she see? Who is the most important person on the planet to you? Is your wife your lock screen home screen picture?
Getting Out of Life's Rut w/ Rex Tignor EP 182
Someone once said the only difference between a rut and a grave is the size of the hole. But what they didn't say is how you get out of the rut when you find yourself in it. Join us with Rex Tignor the founder of Man Up Ministries as we discuss this rut concept.
His heart and passion is helping men unlock their God-given potential and helping churches build an effective ministry for men.
Rex is the author of Living Out of the Rut, Boot Camp for Men, Just Show UP!, and co-author of Be Intentional: Devotional Conversation Starters for Men. While serving as eastern director for People Matter Ministries, he co-authored Why Minister to Men with Dr. Dan Erickson.
Rex is a former member of the leadership team and Men’s Ministry training director for the Washington Area Coalition of Men’s Ministries (WACMM). And also served as Men’s Ministry director for Redemption Ministries for the state of Virginia, which assisted more than 70 churches.
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181. What Picture are You Painting of Your Wife
When your buddies think of your wife what picture do they have of her from how you paint her? Is she a rock star or a nag. How you frame your wife is so important! What does that even mean? Join us in this Equipping in Ten.
180. Being a Magnum Man
What does it mean to be magnum? What kind of life is this? With Troy Mangum.
Founder of the Kindling Fire podcast.
http://thekindlingfire.com/blog
179. Discovering Your Wife's Brokeness
In this Equipping in Ten we look at affirming our wives brokeness. We are all broken and bring our brokenness into our relationships. You will see her flourish when you discover and affirm her brokeness
Living the Best Version of Your Marriage w/ Don Minter EP 178
Building and sustaining the best version of your marriage is possible. If you were to rank your marriage 1-10 what would it be? What would your wife say it is? Like most of us, you probably need to do some work. Don Minter gives us tools to achieve a better version of our marriage.
Don has pastored and taught (Nazarene Bible College) during the last 32 years. He and Laura have shared a casual approach to life and ministry during each of the rewarding adventures that God has provided during that time. Their adventuress spirits remain open to the vast array of opportunities life provides. The journey continues...
177. Men Do the Work
Do the Work is a mentality of getting up each day and giving it your best. In your home and in the work-place. Don't live the entitled life.
176. Being a Man's Man
What does a man's man look like and what kind of church would attract that man? We think Glen Dry has nailed it.
Glen Dry, is the Founder and President of Experience Excellence ( Man to Man Ministries, The Family Outdoor Expo, RezFest and LegacyHunts )
Steward of Son Valley Ranch purchased in 2015
Lead Pastor and Founder of the Sportsman’s Church which launched February 3, 2013 – www.sportsmanschurch.com
Contributing Writer for the Sportsman Devotional.com
Author of Men’s Bible Studies and Accountability Resources
Current Board Advisor to Perpetual Help Home
Current Board Member at The Vine School
Former Board Member of the National Coalition of Ministries to Men
Hunting, Fishing, and the Outdoors are a top 5 priority for Team Dry
174. Manhood Academy W/ CJ Stewart
On December 22, 2009, the "STRIKE" Brigade received orders to spearhead the new surge of forces into the southern region of Afghanistan in support of Operation Enduring Freedom. The 2nd Brigade Combat Team (BCT), 101st Airborne Division, Air Assault - Combined Task Force (CTF) STRIKE deployed in support of Operation Enduring Freedom (OEF) X-XI from 10 May 2010 to 30 May 2011, as the main effort brigade of the President's "surge" force in Afghanistan. CTF STRIKE conducted a comprehensive counterinsurgency strategy in Arghandab, Zharay, Maiwand, and Panjwai'i Districts, Kandahar Province, to defeat the insurgency and improve the security situation in the "militant birthplace of the Taliban." CTF STRIKE simultaneously developed and enabled the Afghan National Security Forces (ANSF) and district governance to assume control in the region. During the year-long deployment in Southern Afghanistan, STRIKE defeated the Taliban in these critical districts and established over 29 combined Coalition and ANSF bases in Taliban contested areas. Combined Task Force STRIKE extended governance into previously inaccessible areas establishing district administration, health and educational services, and providing the people of Kandahar Province a voice in their government. During the deployment, Combined Task Force STRIKE effectively reduced violence along major civilian supply routes by attacking the insurgency deep in historic enemy-held terrain. STRIKE's use of persistent intelligence, surveillance, and reconnaissance platforms prevented the reemergence of the Taliban in the critical terrain. The actions of CTF STRIKE resulted in the significant reduction of Taliban influence where hostile activity the area of operations dropped significantly and allowed for greater engagement of the population by ANSF and local government leaders. Success in Kandahar Province provided the Afghan people the choice to support the Government of the Islamic Republic of Afghanistan and the opportunity for peace and prosperity in the future.
CTF STRIKE's deployment in Afghanistan saw the award of a Distinguished Service Cross, 5 Silver Stars, 38 Bronze Star Medals with Valor, 111 Army Commendation Medals with Valor, and 491 Purple Hearts. CTF STRIKE executed more than 7 major operations during which 65 STRIKE Soldiers made the ultimate sacrifice. In recognition of their efforts under extreme combat situations, the STRIKE Brigade Combat Team was awarded the Presidential Unit Citation (PUC) for OPERATION DRAGON STRIKE and operations in Kandahar, as well as a Valorous Unit Award for the deployment. 1st Battalion, 502d Infantry Battalion, Combined Task Force TALON, received the Valorous Unit Award for their actions to remove hardened Taliban fighters and supporters in eastern Zharay District from September to November 2010.
"I am a STRIKE Soldier: I fight where told, and win where I fight!"
173. The Art of Finishing: Equipping in Ten
How you finish is key. Stay focused, go against the flow, and finish strong.
172. The Men in the Arena W/ Shaun Strong
This episode is all about the Men in the Arena. Who are they and how do you become one of them? How do you join a virtual team? Listen now!
171. Rest: Equipping in Ten
We all need rest. Don't think you can say yes to everything.
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170. Death Ruck Recap: The Journey
The Death Ruck is done for this year and it was conquered with great success. Hear from Jim Ramos, Jacob Duke, and Dallas Ruehlen on what it took to accomplish it and what they learned from it for next time.
169. 3 Things Your Children Must Hear: Equipping in Ten
Do your kids know you love them? Do they know that you are proud of them?
168. Noble Warriors W/ Mike Young
Mike has a passion to see men grow, serve and lead as godly men… Noble Warriors even. He especially wants to see this in his three sons and the man that he hopes his daughter will someday marry.
Launching Noble Warriors in 2005 was the result of a clear calling to move into full-time ministry to men. Today Mike leads the ministry, by God’s grace, to serve churches as they equip men to walk with Christ and lead well.
167. Bridging the Gap of Faith: Equipping in Ten
What does it mean to make an impact in your home and community? And How do you do it?
166. Alone W/ David McIntyre
David McIntyre is the season 2 winner of History Channel's Alone survival show. He spent 66 days on the north end of Vancouver Island living off the land in isolation. He is the author of the post-apocalyptic fiction series The Fall. For fifteen years he was a church planting missionary in Belo Horizonte, Brazil, where he founded the Per Ardua Wilderness Ministry and the Bushmaster Wilderness Survival School. David has practiced wilderness survival in the Appalachian mountains, Alaska, and Brazil's Atlantic Rainforest and Tropical Alpine ecosystems, just to name a few. In fact, he says he never feels comfortable in a new location until he has survived in that area's wilderness. David now lives in Grand Rapids Michigan with his three children (15, 18, and 25).
165. Raising Kids You Like: Equipping in Ten
Are you the parent your kids need you to be or the friend you want to be? In this episode we want to encourage Dad's to parent well.
164. Dangerous Good W/ Kenny Luck
Kenny Luck
RANCHO SANTA MARGARITA, Calif.,April, 2018 –Kenny Luck throws down the gauntlet to a generation of men who have become comfortable with a culturally safe Christian faith in his new book, “Dangerous Good: The Coming Revolution of Men Who Care”(July 3, 2018, NavPress, $15.99, ISBN 978-1-63146-890-2).
“Too often men suffer from a malaise that leads them to settle for mediocrity, play it safe and blend into our broken culture,” Luck, founder of Every Man Ministries, said. “But deep inside every man is the impulse to confront the evil around him, to embrace the ‘dangerous good’ that comes with being a committed follower of Christ. I want this book to awaken the sleeping giant within the community of men that will be an aggressive force for good.”
Throughout the book, Luck explains how Jesus was considered radical in his time and the perfect model for the dangerous good man who is not defined by his feelings, circumstances, material possessions, successes or failures. Instead, this man is defined by God and God alone. Jesus consorted with social outcasts like lepers, tax collectors, and prostitutes. And He not only overturned the moneychangers’ tables in the temple, He flouted every kind of social and religious convention.
“Dangerous good behavior is Spirit-empowered behavior that is counter-intuitive to a watching world,” Luck writes in the book. “It’s show-stopping: Just when they expect you to do the self-protective thing, you do a Spirit-filled thing out of love for God and people. You take the road less traveled, and the tension inside of you releases itself into faithfulness to Christ for the sake of another.”
Using examples from his personal life and the Bible, Luck provides men with the tools to be who God has called them to be and put an end to today’s gender wars, as seen through the relationship between Barak and Deborah in the Book of Judges. Together they led Israel to victory against the Canaanites. Barak set an example that is still worth following today. “Smart men honor, dignify and partner with great women to achieve far more than they ever would by themselves,” Luck writes.
“My prayer is that this book helps men to realize that we need to stop sitting on the sidelines because the fact is it’s the opposite of who we are,” Luck said. “We were called to be an active fighter in the battle between good and evil. God expects us to fight for the good of our faith, restating our identity in Christ to the world.”
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163. No Lone Rangers: Equipping in Ten
Rick Johnson's book 10 Things Great Dad's Do covers relationships that men should have. In this episode, Jim covers the importance of relationships for men and how deep we should go in those relationships.
162. Fifty and Fit W/ Ira Brown
Ira Brown turned 50 and decided it was time to take control of his health. His journey is an inspiring story.
161. Say, I Love You: Equipping in Ten
What are the last words you spoke to your loved ones today? We hope "I Love You" was the main thing!
160. Bringing Freedom W/Kenny Sacht
159. 10 Things Great Dad's Do Recap: Equipping in Ten
This podcast summarizes the 10 Things That Great Dads Do by Rick Johnson. Add 100 men to our Facebook page The Men in the Arena and we will send you a copy of Rick's book.
158. Leading Young Men W/ Eric "Bear" St. Pierre
Illinois State Director
Eric discovered Cross Trail Outfitters in October of 2009 and fell in love with the three cornerstones: Building Men, Preserving our Heritage, and Sharing our Faith. CTO allows Eric to mentor boys as he himself was mentored as a developing youth. “If it weren’t for the men in my life who decided to take an interest in me when I was young, I don’t know where I would be today. In the town where I grew up there were many opportunities to stray down the wrong path. I am just thankful that the Lord was able to put me in a place where I could see I had a choice to do something different than all my friends, and I hope I can provide that same opportunity to boys today.”
You can contact Eric ‘Bear’ St. Pierre for speaking engagements or any questions about CTO via email: estpierre@teamcto.org or by phone 217-480-2327. http://teamcto.org/about/team/52-eric-st-pierre157. P.M.S. in Your Health: Equipping in Ten
156. 10 Great Things Great Dads Do #2 W/ Rick Johnson"
In 2001, bestselling author and speaker Rick Johnson founded Better Dads, based on the urgent need to empower men to lead and serve in their families and communities. Rick’s books have expanded his work to include influencing the whole family, with life-changing insights for men and women on parenting, marriage, and personal growth. Inspiring and equipping through innovative multimedia presentations and seminars, Rick’s resources, methods and personal approach have been transforming the lives of men, women, and their families for over ten years.
Rick speaks at many large conferences across the US and Canada and is a popular keynote speaker at men’s and women’s retreats and conferences on parenting and marriage. Rick also speaks at mental health conferences, home schooling conferences, various marriage conferences, and the armed forces. He is a nationally recognized expert in several areas having been asked to deliver papers at venues such as the County of Los Angeles Child Abuse Prevention Conference and the State of New York Fatherhood Conference. Rick’s work with men and fathers was recognized when he was invited to the White House as part of the Champions of Change ceremony in 2012.
Prior to becoming a bestselling author and speaker, Rick was a small business owner for 16 years, owning and operating an environmental engineering firm. He attended George Fox University receiving a Bachelor of Arts degree in Management and Organizational Leadership, and has a Masters Degree in Education from Concordia University. He is a veteran of the United States Navy, has served on the Board of Directors for several community and business associations, and coaches high school basketball in his spare time. Rick has been featured in many national publications such as New Man Magazine, Crosswalk.com, Christianity.com, Christianity Today’s Men of Integrity, Relevant Magazine, Pentecostal Evangel, Thriving Family, and Proverbs 31 Ministries Magazine.
He is the bestselling author of the books, That’s My Son: How Moms Can Influence Boys to Become Men of Character, Better Dads Stronger Sons: How Fathers Can Guide Boys to Become Men of Character, The Man Whisperer—Speaking a Man’s Language to Bring Out His Best, That’s My Teenage Son: How Moms Can Influence Boys to Become Good Men, and The Power of a Man: Using Your Influence as a Man of Character all by Revell Publishing.
155. P.M.S. #3 Snot-Bubbled: Equipping in Ten
Do you have secrets in life that if revealed can take you out or hurt your integrity? Get them out into the light and deal with them like men.
154. 10 Great Things Great Dads Do #1 W/ Rick Johnson
In 2001, bestselling author and speaker Rick Johnson founded Better Dads, based on the urgent need to empower men to lead and serve in their families and communities. Rick’s books have expanded his work to include influencing the whole family, with life-changing insights for men and women on parenting, marriage, and personal growth. Inspiring and equipping through innovative multimedia presentations and seminars, Rick’s resources, methods and personal approach have been transforming the lives of men, women, and their families for over ten years.
Rick speaks at many large conferences across the US and Canada and is a popular keynote speaker at men’s and women’s retreats and conferences on parenting and marriage. Rick also speaks at mental health conferences, home schooling conferences, various marriage conferences, and the armed forces. He is a nationally recognized expert in several areas having been asked to deliver papers at venues such as the County of Los Angeles Child Abuse Prevention Conference and the State of New York Fatherhood Conference. Rick’s work with men and fathers was recognized when he was invited to the White House as part of the Champions of Change ceremony in 2012.
Prior to becoming a bestselling author and speaker, Rick was a small business owner for 16 years, owning and operating an environmental engineering firm. He attended George Fox University receiving a Bachelor of Arts degree in Management and Organizational Leadership, and has a Masters Degree in Education from Concordia University. He is a veteran of the United States Navy, has served on the Board of Directors for several community and business associations, and coaches high school basketball in his spare time. Rick has been featured in many national publications such as New Man Magazine, Crosswalk.com, Christianity.com, Christianity Today’s Men of Integrity, Relevant Magazine, Pentecostal Evangel, Thriving Family, and Proverbs 31 Ministries Magazine.
He is the bestselling author of the books, That’s My Son: How Moms Can Influence Boys to Become Men of Character, Better Dads Stronger Sons: How Fathers Can Guide Boys to Become Men of Character, The Man Whisperer—Speaking a Man’s Language to Bring Out His Best, That’s My Teenage Son: How Moms Can Influence Boys to Become Good Men, and The Power of a Man: Using Your Influence as a Man of Character all by Revell Publishing.
153. P.M.S. in Fathering: Equipping in Ten
What are you doing to be a great father? Now is the time to step up and not the time to coast.
152. BE MEN W/ JT McCraw
JT McCraw began working when he was just nine years old. In those days, he picked up scraps for his dad who was a professional tradesman and small business owner. Years later, JT would rise to become one of Nashville’s premier upscale custom home builders. His clients ranged from executives to professional athletes to entertainment stars. As a third-generation construction professional, JT built his reputation on his innate ability to collaborate with architects, engineers and designers and produce stunning high-quality products. He was also known as an industry leader who could transform complex issues into simple, innovative solutions.
Though JT was externally successful in those years, his personal life was slowly eroding and eventually collapsed. It was then he began painstakingly learning the valuable lessons of noble manhood. He then underwent his own personal “manhood renovation.”
Today, JT is the founder of the BE MEN Movement and is one of the leading men’s ministers in the United States. He has traveled around the globe teaching men what he learned during his dark days of personal crisis. He also demonstrates how to build high quality noble manhood into the lives of men by drawing from his years as a successful builder. He's also in process of becoming a certified speaker, trainer and coach with the John Maxwell Team.
JT has been married to Shelley for twenty-six years and has five children. He spends his spare time doing projects around his home, riding motorcycles, hunting, and continuing his ongoing search for the best brisket in the nation.
151. P.M.S. :Equipping in Ten
150. Pain, People, Purpose, Power, Play W/Tom Gensler
149. Real Life to Expert: Equipping in Ten
Have you noticed a change in the last year of the podcast? We are working to find experts in the field of manhood.
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148. Second Chances W/Steve Etner
The Point of Purity Program-a 1-on-1 accountability program geared to help men begin the process of living free from the pull of lust, pornography and masturbation.
www.thepuritycoach.com(our ministry website)
www.facebook.com/manofpurity(posts on purity & godliness)
“Extreme Mind Makeover” (my book on how to glorify God)
“The Pure Man’s Devotional Guide” (my devotional book on sexual purity)
“Are You A Super Man? How to Become God’s Man of Steel” (an interactive Men’s Bible Study)
Be Watching for the release of my newest book
“Removing the ‘I’ from LIFE: How to dethrone and depose King Me”- coming August 2018!
FREE App - “My Purity Coach”
If you would like to donate in support of this ministry: click hereThe Pure Man Ministry HIGHLY RECOMMENDS Covenant Eyes - Internet Accountability
The Warrior Wife: Equipping in Ten EP 147
We all need a warrior wife. What exactly is a warrior wife?
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The Rubber Band Man: Equipping in Ten EP 145
As our kids grow up and pull away, we are to engage them in their world. DO Not disengage.
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The Rescuer W/ Scott Stoutenberg EP 144
Scott Stoutenberg is a volunteer for Destiny Rescue.
Destiny Rescue is an internationally-recognized Christian non-profit organization dedicated to rescuing children trapped in the sex trade. Our vision is to rescue the sexually exploited and enslaved, restore the abused, protect the vulnerable, empower the poor and be a voice for those who can’t speak up for themselves.
We currently operate our various programs in Thailand, Cambodia, the Dominican Republic, the Philippines and India. We also have offices in three donor nations: United States, Australia and New Zealand.
Since 2011, we’ve rescued over 2000 children enslaved around the world, helped keep hundreds more from entering the sex trade through our various prevention programs, ensured justice for those who have been wronged, and raised awareness to untold numbers. And we’ll continue to expand to reach even more children in the days ahead!
Destiny Rescue realizes that human trafficking is a global problem. We’re determined to respond to God’s call to set captives free worldwide. Until no more children are sold, forced or coerced into the sex trade, Destiny Rescue is fully committed to fighting for their freedom, their restoration and their futures.
https://www.destinyrescue.org/us/
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The Men in the Arena Answers #2, Equipping in Ten EP 143
What do we do with people who are "friends" who use us, mistreat us, and frankly don't seem like friends?
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Six Essentials to Live By w/ Dr. Pat George EP 142
In this episode, Dr. Patrick George unpacks the six essential we should live by. If one is out of balance it can have devastating effects on the rest of our bodies. Enjoy this episode.
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Be the Leader in Your Home; Equipping in Ten EP 141
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What are your Essentials W/ Greg McKeown EP 140
Greg McKeown has dedicated his career to discovering why some people break through to the next level—and others don’t.
The definitive treatment of this issue is addressed in McKeown’s latest project: the instant New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestseller, Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less. As well as frequently being the #1 Time Management book on Amazon, this book challenges core assumptions about achievement to get to the essence of what really drives success.
McKeown is the CEO of McKeown, Inc., a company whose clients include Airbnb, Apple, Google, Facebook, Pixar, Salesforce.com, Symantec, Twitter, VMware and Yahoo!.
His writing has appeared or been covered by Entrepreneur, Fast Company, Fortune,HuffPost, Politico, and Inc. Magazine. He is among the most popular bloggers for the Harvard Business Reviewand LinkedIn’s Influencersgroup: averaging a million views a month.
McKeown has been interviewed on numerous television and radio shows including NPR’s All Things Consideredand NBC’s Press: Here.Entrepreneur Magazinevoted his interview at Stanford University the #1 Must-See Video on Business, Creativity and Success.
McKeown is an accomplished public speaker. He has spoken to hundreds of audiences around the world including in Australia, Bulgaria, Canada, China, England, India, Ireland, Italy, Japan and Singapore.
Recent highlights include speaking at SXSW, interviewing Al Gore at the Annual Conference of the World Economic Forum in Davos Switzerland and receiving a personal invitation from Haakon, Crown Prince of Norway, to speak to his Annual Innovation Conference.
McKeown challenges conventional wisdom in a unique and engaging style from the first moment to the last instant. As the event organizer at Greater Public said after McKeown addressed their 1,000-person conference, “I have been part of this event for 16 years and McKeown is the best speaker we have everhad!”
McKeown is an active Social Innovator. Serving as a Board Member for Washington D.C. policy group Resolve(KONY 2012)and as a mentor with 2 Seeds, a non-profit incubator for agricultural projects in Africa. He has also been a speaker at non-profit groups including The Kauffman Fellows, Net Impact and Stanford University: he recently gave back to Stanford University by co-creating a popular class called, Designing Life, Essentially.
He serves as a Young Global Leader for the World Economic Forum. He recently moderated a session at the “Summer Davos” in China called, “Unpacking Social Innovation Models for Maximum Impact”, served as a panelist at the “Sharpening Your Creative Edge” working session at the Forum.
Prior to this, McKeown collaborated in the research and writing of Multipliers: How the Best Leaders Make Everyone Smarter and worked for Heidrick & Struggles’ Global Leadership Practice assessing senior executives.
Originally from London, England, McKeown now lives in Silicon Valley with his wife and their four children. He graduated with an MBA from Stanford University.
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Helicopter, Bulldozer, and Participation Trophy Parents: Equipping in Ten EP 139
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Mentors Needed! w/ Ray Howell EP 138
OUR MISSION: Put a bow in a kid’s hand and lead their family to the Lord—one-on-one. The Kicking Bear Ministry is a nationwide faith-based, non-denominational youth program. It was founded in 2000 by Ray Howell as a 501(c)3 organization. Kicking Bear is valued as an important outreach to the Christian community. By using God’s great outdoors and archery as tools, we are able to proclaim the Good News of the Gospel to reach those who have yet to accept Jesus as their personal Savior.
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The Men in the Arena Answers #1, Equipping in Ten EP 137
Go to the Men in the Arena Page on Facebook and post your questions about manhood.
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Man on Target w/ Vince D'Acchioli EP 136
Vince D’Acchioli is the founder and president of On Target Ministries, a Christian outreach to men, pastors, and couples. In the past two decades, Vince’s seminars, workshops and church services have touched the lives of tens of thousands of people across the United States and Canada.
Prior to founding On Target Ministries, Vince served as the Executive Vice President of Every Home for Christ, a worldwide missions ministry with offices in more than 200 countries. During the years leading up to this transition into full-time ministry, Vince functioned as the vice president of a Fortune 500 company involved in retailing, manufacturing, and wholesaling distribution.
Before moving to Colorado Springs in 1991, Vince was an elder and member of the church board at The Church On The Way in Van Nuys, California, pastored by Jack Hayford. Vince, along with his wife, Cindy, directed the ministry to married couples.
Vince also served as one of the teaching pastors at Woodmen Valley Chapel in Colorado Springs, Colorado for a number of years. In 2013 Vince served as Executive Pastor for Water Of Life Church in Fontana, California–a church of 16,000 members serving the Inland Empire.
In addition to being a gifted speaker for many secular and Christian organizations, Vince is known as a stimulating presenter. His sense of humor and dynamic motivational approach enable him to effectively communicate the principles of practical discipleship and balanced spirituality at home, work, church and community.
Vince has also authored a number of articles for both secular and Christian publications, and is the author of Wired To Work, Huntington House Publishers, available today at all the popular book web sites.
Vince and Cindy, married for 52 years, have two daughters and six grandchildren. They reside in Temecula, CA.
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The Hill to Die On: Equipping in Ten #2 EP 135
What is a hill that you are willing to die on? We want to help you with our many resources! Find them on our website.
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Tackling Life w/ Brent Jones EP 134
Brent Michael Jones (born February 12, 1963) is a former American football tight end who played almost his entire National Football League (NFL) career with the San Francisco 49ers from 1987 to 1997. He was selected in the fifth round of the 1986 NFL Draft by the Pittsburgh Steelers. Jones won three Super Bowl rings with the 49ers and was three times named All-Pro (1992–1994) and is a four-time Pro Bowler (1992–1995). He finished his 11 NFL seasons with 417 receptions for 5,195 yards and 33 touchdowns.
Shortly after his playing career ended, Jones became an analyst for The NFL Today. Jones worked for the NFL on CBS from 1998 to 2004. Jones decided to leave CBS Sports prior to the 2005 NFL season in order to focus on his business in California, Northgate Capital, which he founded with former teammates Mark Harris and Tommy Vardell.[1] Jones is a former member of the board of directors for San Jose Sports & Entertainment Enterprises, which owns the San Jose Sharks of the National Hockey League.[2]
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The Hill to Die On #1: Equipping in Ten EP 133
What is a hill that you are willing to die on?
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BRONation W/ Trent Fisher EP 132
Trent Fisher and Kody Kellom started https://www.bornandraisedoutdoors.com
Born and Raised Outdoors is a group of "Hardcore Bowhunters" that push the physical limits of their bodies to bring you the reality of "Over The Shoulder" bowhunting. Well, it has been a couple years in the making, but it is finally here. We released our latest project this last week, which encompasses our journey through an entire bow season. Feel the blisters, sweat, and tears as we push ourselves to the breaking point while pursuing Roosevelt's in the rainforest jungle of Oregon.Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters
Becoming the Best Version of You #3: Equipping in Ten EP 131
We want you to become your best version. In this episode we will recap these great principles.
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Manly Man Vs. Weak Wimp w/ Stephen Mansfield EP 130
Are you a manly man or a wimp? No one wants to be known as a wimp but so few know what is a manly man looks like. What maxims should a man live by? Who wants to be the best version of himself? Join our show with New York Times Best Selling Author Stephen Mansfield as we dive into his list of manly maxims.
Stephen Mansfield is a New York Times bestselling author and a popular speaker who also leads a media training firm based in Washington, DC.
He first rose to global attention with his groundbreaking book The Faith of George W. Bush, a bestseller that Time magazine credited with helping to shape the 2004 US presidential election. The book was a source for Oliver Stone’s award-winning film “W.” Mansfield’s The Faith of Barack Obama was another international bestseller. He has written celebrated biographies of Booker T. Washington,George Whitefield, Winston Churchill, Pope Benedict XVI, and Abraham Lincoln, among others. Publishers Weekly described his book, Killing Jesus, as “masterful.”
Stephen’s humorous but fiery Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men has inspired men’s events in the US and abroad. His more recent The Miracle of the Kurds has been selected as “Book of the Year” by Rudaw, the leading Kurdish news service. As a result of this book, Mansfield has become a respected voice in support of the Kurds against the evils of ISIS in the Middle East.
Stephen speaks widely about men, leadership, faith, the lessons of history, and the forces that shape modern culture. His media training firm, The Mansfield Group, has worked with top politicians, CEOs, rock stars, major publishing firms, and educational institutions around the world.
Mansfield lives in Nashville and the nation’s capital with his wife Beverly, an award-winning songwriter and producer.
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The Friend: Equipping in Ten EP 129
Do you have that one friend who has your back? Are you that friend who will call your brothers up? Enjoy this episode.
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What Your Woman Needs w/ Dr. Willard Harley Jr. EP 128
Young men are clueless and what a woman really needs and are shell-shocked when they discover that everything they thought about women changed the day AFTER they got married. What's worse is when a man discover this 25 years later when his wife leaves him after the children leave the home. Don’t be that man. Learn the top needs of your wife so that your marriage will be its best version. Join us with author Bill Harley and his classic book His Needs Her Needs with over 4 million copies sold!
Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D. is best known as author of the internationally best selling book, His Needs, Her Needs: Building An Affair-proof Marriage. Over four million copies have been purchased, and it is available in twenty-two foreign translations.
Dr. Harley earned a Ph.D. degree in psychology from the University of California at Santa Barbara in 1967 and has been a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in Minnesota since 1975. For the first ten years after earning his degree, he taught psychology at both the graduate and undergraduate levels. During those years, he was also a frustrated part-time marriage counselor with little success in helping couples.
In 1973 he discovered that he was not alone in his failure to save marriages -- almost everyone in the marital therapy profession were also failing. So he spent the next two years designing an entirely new approach (see How Dr. Harley Learned to Save Marriages). When his success rate skyrocketed in 1977, he resigned from his teaching position to counsel full-time. Over the next ten years his solo practice developed into the largest network of mental health clinics in Minnesota (thirty-two locations) with over one hundred psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers and chemical dependency counselors working with him to provide a full range of mental health services. He became the exclusive provider of mental health and chemical dependency services in ten counties, and had offices in other counties as well.
One of his responsibilities was to write support materials for the clinical program he directed. He created over one hundred questionnaires and wrote numerous articles that were given to clients as part of their therapy. Among the materials he wrote was His Needs, Her Needs, which was first published in 1986. Although it was written to be a support text for his marriage counseling program, within three years it had become a national best-seller and a basic reference for marriage counselors throughout the nation.
By 1988 he found himself spending almost all of his time administering his clinics, and very little time doing what he enjoyed most -- improving his marital therapy program. So he began turning his clinics over to the counselors who worked with him, and the ownership of his last clinic was transferred in 1993. Since then, he has written 19 more books and hundreds of articles.
Dr. Harley continues to write, speak, and lead seminars throughout the US and Canada. For information regarding booking arrangements for his weekend seminar, "How to Fall in Love and Stay in Love," click this link for more information.
Dr. and Mrs. Harley also host a daily one-hour call-in show, Marriage Builders Radio. It can be heard on radio stations and on the Internet. They have been married for 54 years and live in White Bear Lake, Minnesota. They have two adult children, who are now working with them as marriage coaches, and four grandchildren.
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Becoming the Best Version of You #2: Equipping in Ten EP 127
Want to become the best version of you. Jim will help you on the journey in this episode.
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Marriage After Infidelity w/ Dr. Earl Wilson EP 126
“God has called Sandy and me to minister to people in crisis resulting from pornography and other forms of sexual entanglements. These invariably bring pain and destruction.
“After having lived for the Lord for many years I became entangled in my own sexual sin. My entanglements had reached addictive proportions, and my sinful choices had put in jeopardy all the things I claimed to be near and dear to me: my marriage, my family, my career, and my writing and speaking ministry. I had been “sorry” for my sexual sin, but I had never truly repented. I now understand that true repentance demands turning around and running away from the sin. I finally did repent in 1989. I remember crying out to God, ‘Lord I will face it all, and I will forsake it all.’ Repentance became the foundation for a prolonged period of emotional and spiritual healing leading to recovery and restoration. I am grateful for the Lord, my wife, family, and the spiritual care team who walked with me through the process.”
Dr. Earl Wilson received his ThB. degree from Multnomah University and his Ph.D from the University of Oregon. Earl became a counselor at Idaho State University and then a faculty member at the University of Nebraska, where he was promoted to tenured full professor and director of the Counseling Psychology and Rehabilitation Counseling Programs.
During the 1970-1971 school year, Earl and his family took a leave of absence, and Earl taught counseling at the National University for Teachers Education in Tehran, Iran.
In the fall of 1977, Earl joined the faculty of Western Seminary as a professor in the doctoral program in psychology. He served in that capacity until 1989 when his sin became public. After serving a year of probation levied by Oregon State Board of Psychologist Examiners, Earl returned to private practice but shifted the focus to men who are entrenched in sexually compulsive behavior (sexual addiction).
Earl has authored and co-authored 15 books and booklets. His video series Especially for Men is available for viewing on this website.
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Becoming the Best Version of You #1: Equipping in Ten EP 125
What is your SHAPE?
Do your own SHAPE test. www.freeshapetest.com
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Finding Victory After Divorce w/ Joshua Zarzana EP 124
Joshua is a Christian, husband, Dad, author, public speaker, writer, and Pastor. Joshua authored The Son Who Chases the Father.
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Mission Statement #2: Equipping in Ten EP 123
What is your mission statement for your life? In this episode, we will give you tools for crafting your mission statement. Enjoy this episode.
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Make a Brand New End w/ David Dusek EP 122
David Dusek, 52
Founder and Executive Director of Rough Cut Men Ministries
Author of : “Rough Cut Men: A Man’s Battle Guide to Building Real Relationships with Each Other and with Jesus” (#1 on Amazon in “Men’s Christian Living” in 2016)
Forthcoming Book: “The Battle: Tactics for Biblical Manhood Learned from LTG Hal Moore and the Men of LZ X-Ray”
Keynote at the US Military Academy at West Point and working with the US Army worldwide (101st Airborne, 1st Cavalry Division, 3rd Infantry Division, etc.) in the US, Korea and Germany. Also, creating a video series for the US Army (that’s a whole different story and a cool one at that)
He has a passion to break down walls in the lives of men, in an effort to combat isolation and friendlessness. In a word, we help men find their “battle buddy” as they go through life. In the military, isolation leads to addictions, alcoholism, domestic violence and even suicide.
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Mission Statement #1: Equipping in Ten EP 121
What is your mission statement for your life? Do you have one? Do you know what one is? In this Equipping in Ten episode, we will look at some of these questions. Enjoy this episode.
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Authentic Leadership w/ Kai Munshi EP 120
Kai Munshi is a Security Manager for a Federal Agency based in Georgia.
Federal Law Enforcement for 16 years previously serving with:
- S. Department of Justice – Office of Inspector General in Washington, D.C. as a Special Agent
- S. Secret Service as a Special Agent in Denver Field Office and later with the Counter Assault Team in Washington, D.C.
Prior to becoming a Special Agent, served for 8 years as an infantry officer in the U.S. Marine Corps (peacetime service -- no combat deployments) with:
- 3rd Marine Division in Kaneohe Bay, Hawaii
- Marine Corps Ground Defense Security Forces in Guantanamo Bay, Cuba
- Marine Corps Combat Development Command in Quantico, Virginia
My proudest professional accomplishment is earning the title of a U.S. Marine and serving as an infantry officer. My experience as a Marine instilled a set of values, physical and mental fortitude, and drive to succeed that define my work ethic. That experience early in my adult life also helped me become extremely adaptable to change. I embrace change and love it.
Personally (and most importantly), I absolutely adore and am very proud of my wife and daughters. They are kind, loyal, funny, and inspire me to be a better man.
I am very passionate about the concept of authentic leadership. There are a lot of different definitions of an authentic leader but mine would be an individual who is self-aware of their strengths and weakness, leads with integrity, has purpose, puts others above themselves, and doesn’t pretend to be something they are not. The world is seriously lacking in these types of individuals.
My mission at the present time is to develop into a truly authentic leader – a man who leads with the same conviction at home that he does at work. If I am being consistent and truly genuine in all my interactions, my friends and family should see me in the same light as my co-workers, subordinates, and superiors.
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Defending the Feminine Hearts in Your Life w/ Jeff Voth EP 119
What guardrails are you building to protect your bride and daughters? Men are like rugged thermos mugs but women are like a precious piece of China. Both are equal in purpose but different in honor and our treatment of them. Author, speaker, and Cavetime Founder, Jeff Voth discusses the ways we as men can protect and defend the women we love the most.
Jeff earned a doctorate in the areas of leadership and spiritual formation and holds masters degrees in apologetics and divinity. He is a professor, pastor, and author/speaker. He is married to Lori and has four grown children, a son-in-law, daughter-in-law, and two grandchildren.
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State of the Union: Equipping in Ten EP 118
We have some new and exciting things we want to share in this podcast.
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Positive Leadership w/ Jon Gordon EP 117
Best Selling Author and Keynote Speaker
Jon Gordon's best-selling books and talks have inspired readers and audiences around the world. His principles have been put to the test by numerous Fortune 500 companies, professional and college sports teams, school districts, hospitals, and non-profits. He is the author of 15 books including 5 best-sellers: The Energy Bus, The Carpenter, Training Camp, You Win in the Locker Room First and The Power of Positive Leadership. Jon and his tips have been featured on The Today Show, CNN, CNBC, The Golf Channel, Fox and Friends and in numerous magazines and newspapers. His clients include The Los Angeles Dodgers, The Atlanta Falcons, Campbell Soup, Dell, Publix, Southwest Airlines, LA Clippers, Miami Heat, Pittsburgh Pirates, BB&T Bank, Clemson Football, Northwestern Mutual, Bayer, West Point Academy and more.
Jon is a graduate of Cornell University and holds a Masters in Teaching from Emory University. He and his training/consulting company are passionate about developing positive leaders, organizations and teams.
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A Man is a Lifetime Learner: Equipping in Ten EP 116
In this episode, Jim shares his list of books that will help men on their pursuit of manhood.
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Success in Failure W/ Marty McLaughlin EP 115
Failure is part of life. We must not let failure paralyze us from doing great things. This episode should inspire men to do something great.
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You Are First: Equipping in Ten EP 114
We hear all the time that we are to put ourselves last. But, in reality, it should look a little different. Are we talking about humility or self- care? Enjoy this episode.
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Sacrifice, Hard Work, And Success w/ Joe Smith EP 113
Too much too soon will wreck you. Hard work and dedication will plant the seeds for greatness down the road. Enjoy today's episode with Joe Smith, the head football coach of Linfield College.
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Six Lessons on Goals EP 112
Don't let those goals slip away. Here are six lessons Jim has learned about goal setting and maintaining them over the years.
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Locking Arms with a Buddy in Crisis w/ Aaron Porter EP 111
How can you really help a friend? Aaron shares his expertise in this episode.
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Stay the Course! Goals EP 110
It's so easy to forget and put off our goals. In this episode we want to encourage you to finish this year well.
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A Leader's Strategic Insertion w/ Keith Sherman EP 109
As a leader in our homes we need to insert ourselves into the lives of our kids and grandkids. We need to show them that they are important to us.
Keith Sherman is a master at being a part of his kid's lives and his grandkids.
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Goals 1 EP 108
Goals keep us on point and help us to see the bigger picture in life. Do you have any goals for the new year?
Made for the Battle w/ Shannon McGurk EP 107
I’m the happily married father of 12 children and live on a farm in Virginia, but this is a miracle. In 1992, I was a broke, divorced father of a two-year-old son. I didn’t want to marry again and I didn’t want any more children. Today I have a strong marriage, eight sons and four daughters. Pretty crazy.
The most formative years of my adult life were in the Army. For 20 years I was an Armored Cavalry Officer and China Foreign Area Officer. I served in the U.S., Europe, throughout the U.S. Government, in The Pentagon, the Hong Kong Consulate and the Beijing Embassy. I left the Army in 2002 to start businesses but had to do it part time because I had to feed my family. I worked for Northrop Grumman, IBM, ManTech and other corporations. I got the best training in the world from the Army and these iconic American corporations. I started my first business in 2002. Business ownership is scary, liberating and addictive, but making money using your creativity and wits is life-changing. I have started several companies, but I crashed the best one in 2007 when I tried to drive it too fast. That same month my daughter got cancer and that same year my son was diagnosed with Type I diabetes. Lots of challenges. Crashing that business when I did made me look hard in the mirror and confront my life. As a husband, as a father, as a man, I wasn’t stacking up. I had to learn new skills and dig deep to get back on my feet. I had to heal a lot of wounds I had caused. I had to grow, learn and improve. A lot. I think I have and I’d like to offer my own experiences to you.
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LIVE!!- When a Man Gets It—Everyone Wins EP 106
This episode was recorded live from the October Banquet! Listen to the transformation story from Brent Morrow.
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Looking Back at the Last 100 Episodes EP 105
Join us as we reflect on the first 100 podcasts and share about the ones that really impacted us. Share with us your favorite podcasts and why.
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Where are the Men? w/ David Murrow EP 100
MEET DAVID MURROW
It’s Sunday morning. Where are the men? Not in church. The average congregation in North America draws an adult crowd that’s more than 60% female. Why do men and boys avoid church? And why do churchgoing men seem so passive and bored?
David Murrow has dedicated his life to answering these questions. He's the author of the best-selling book Why Men Hate Going to Church, with more than 150,000 copies in print in 12 languages. He’s helped thousands of churches around the world attract, retain and empower men.
Murrow is an entertaining speaker who handles this taboo subject with humor and grace. He's a television producer and writer by trade, and brings strong visual content to his presentation. You’ll never see church the same way again.
Murrow lives with his wife of 33 years, Gina Medaris Murrow, in the bustling metropolis of Chugiak, Alaska.
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Embrace the Suck EP 99
In this episode we talk about what it means to be fully alive and embrace the suck of life.
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Life Coach w/ David Hoyt EP 98
Men, where is your life headed? Are you thriving or are you running a race that you can't sustain? This podcast will help you take a serious look at your life and where you are headed.
- Intentional Living - John Maxwell
- The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth - John Maxwell
- The Advantage - Patrick Lencioni
- The Five Dysfunctions of a Team - Patrick Lencioni
- Visioneering - Andy Stanley
- Soul Keeping - John Ortberg
- All the Places to Go - John Ortberg
- Scary Close - Donald Miller
- In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day - Mark Batterson
- The Call - Os Guinness
- The Land Between - Jeff Manion
- The True Measure of a Man - Richard E. Simmons
- Goliath Must Fall - Louie Giglio
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Marriage Covenant vs. Contract EP 97
What is a marriage covenant? Is it different than the marriage contract? Our hope is that you have made a covenant with your wife and didn't just enter into a contract.
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Manliness w/ Mike Yarbrough EP 96
Mike Yarbrough is a Podcaster, Ring Maker, and blogger. Check out Wolf and Iron Podcast, and his website Rustic and Main where you will find the most unique and amazing rings.
Mike shares our passion for helping men to see their true identity, to lead, to grow, and to be a man. Enjoy this podcast. Share this episode with a friend and leave a review.
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Men Cry EP 95
Are you calloused? Men, it is ok to cry. There are very appropriate times for a man to cry. Check out our take on this subject.
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The 3 Core Purposes of the Man Who is Wild at Heart w/ John Eldredge, EP 94
In one of our legacy episodes (published under the name The Man Card Podcast and ministry name The Great Hunt for God) bestselling author John Eldredge joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book Wild at Heart. They talk you through the three purposes of every man. Every man lives to have an Adventure to live, a Beauty to rescue, and a Battle to fight.
John Eldredge is an American author, counselor, and lecturer on Christianity. He is known for his bestselling book Wild at Heart.
Eldredge describes himself, "I’m 55. I live in Colorado Springs, Colorado. My wife Stasi and I have three sons. My graduate degree is in counseling. Professionally, I’m a writer and a speaker. I don’t pastor. I’m not a preacher. I don’t have a church that I lead."
While living in Los Angeles Eldredge was looking for a "worldview." After exploring other religions, Eastern mysticism, Lao-Tzu, and New Age spirituality, he discovered the writings of Francis Schaeffer, whom he calls one of the best philosophers of the 20th century. Through Schaeffer, Eldredge came to Christ and later to the church. He eventually got a master's degree in counseling and practiced in Colorado Springs before working for Focus on the Family, where he served as Senior Fellow for Christian Worldview.
John received his undergraduate degree in theater from California Polytechnic University (Pomona) and his MA in biblical counseling from Colorado Christian Universityunder the direction of Dr. Larry Crabb and Dr. Dan Allender. Prior to joining Focus on the Family in 1988, John served for five years on the staff of Sierra Madre Congregational Church in Southern California.
In July 2000, John left Focus on the Family, where he worked for 12 years, to launch Ransomed Heart Ministries. John travels extensively in the U.S. and abroad. John, his wife, Stasi, and their three sons live in Colorado Springs, Colorado. In addition to publishing many books, he has produced three videos: Risky Business: A Look at Gambling, Whatever Happened to Marriage?: A Look at Divorce, and Created Different?: A Look at Homosexuality.
Popeye Moments w/ Vince Miller EP 93
This episode is the last of three interviews that Vince Miller did with Jim Ramos for his Resolute Podcast. Enjoy the episode and check out Vince Miller at www.beresolute.com
Man Talk with Vince Miller is a podcast for men.
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Grinding it Out w/ Mark Huelsing EP 92
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Finishing Well w/ Vince Miller EP 91
This Episode is an interview Jim did for Vince Miller on his Resolute Podcast.
Check out Vince Miller's podcast on leadership for men. Resolute
Also, check out his website.
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Live With Conviction w/ Vince Miller EP 90
We really enjoy talking to Vince Miller. In this episode, we talk about Vince's new book Convictions. What is the difference between living with Conviction and being Convicted?
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The Stress Bubble w/ Vince Miller EP 89
Vince Miller from Resolute interviews Jim in this episode. What is the stress bubble of life? Check out Vince Miller's podcast on leadership for men. Resolute
Also, check out his website.
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Men Rebel Against the Rules w/ Bill Perkins EP 88
Bill Perkins is the president of Million Mighty Men, a speaker, an author of Christian and business books and the teaching pastor at Coast Hills Community Church in McMinnville, Oregon, United States. Perkins has been a pastor for 20 years.
To any church who Books Bill for a Men’s Conference, Bill will donate 30 hardback copies of 6 Rules Every Man Must Break!
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Men Seek Wisdom EP 87
Do you use wisdom? Where do you seek it? Men seek wisdom from wise men.
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John Wayne-isms w/ Peter Mosby EP 86
Peter Mosby is an Elementary School Principal in Colorado. Married for 13.5 years and has 5 children. He took 2nd in the Outdoorsman Challenge in the over ten years challenge on the Outdoor Channel.
He is inspired by John Wayne, but who isn't?
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Deep Roots EP 85
We have become very transient these days. Many people are not putting down deep roots. It affects our families and communities in a negative way. We want to challenge men to sink their roots deep in their communities. Amazing things happen when we do this!
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Position and Respect EP 83
In this episode, we discuss our position in life and the respect that comes with it. Are you respected by those around you?
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Godly Compassion EP 81
Do you possess it? Godly Compassion is a must have for men. We explain what that looks like in this Equipping in ten.
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Social Justice EP 79
What wrecks you in this world? And, what are you doing about it?
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Staying Close to Your Kids EP 77
Do you know what's on your kids' hearts? If we don't stay close to them they will find someone or something else to fill your spot.
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A Man Remembers His Past EP 75
Do you glorify the failures of your past or learn from them? Celebrate the victories and allow them to guide you in the future. Remember what caused you the greatest growth.
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Spiritual Margins EP 73
What are spiritual margins? Do you have any in place?
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Social Margins EP 71
Who do you spend the most time with? Do they make you a better man? Let's look at a man's social margins in his life.
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Physical Margins EP 69
Have you made margins in your life for your physical health?
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Intellectual Margins EP 67
Are you learning on a daily basis, or are you coasting with the knowledge you received in the past? Men continue to learn and grow as they go through life. How are you doing in this area of manhood?
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Margins for Rest EP 65
We all need to take a day off. But do we do it. We were designed for a day of rest. Magnum men go for speed ahead. Many times without any bresaks. In this episode we will change you to make margins for rest in your life.
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Compartmentalization of Men EP 63
Are you the same at home as you are in public?
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How to Identify Blindspots in Your Life EP 61
Men get snot-bubbled when they have blindspots and no one is there to help them. What is going to snot bubble you?
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10 Important Guardrails Every Man Must Put Up EP 59
Without guardrails, men get taken out. Jim Ramos goes through the 10 Guardrails that we believe men should most definitely have in their lives.
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3 Phases of Love EP 57
As we mature in love we pass through different phases. Jim unpacks those here today for you. What phase are you in?
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Redeem Your Marriage w/ Tom Cheshire EP 56
Tom Chesire is just an ordinary man who serves an extraordinary God and needs His grace everyday.
Tom lives in Williamsville, Illinois.
By working with the network of local churches and pastors and gospel resources God has given me to disciple men one on one, or small groups using relevant and practical materials and resources that find their root in Scripture to restore and build his relationship with Jesus, through strong spiritual gospel-centered disciplines so that he is equipped to serve and lead in his marriage, family, workplace, church and community.
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The Man Card Definition Wrap Up EP 55
In this episode, we wrap up The Man Card Definition.
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Finishing Strong EP 53
Many men finish the day wrong and over time they finish their lives wrong. We want to challenge you to finish every day strong! This will help you to finish your life strong and leave a legacy of a life well lived.
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Leading Courageously EP 51
Our family, community, church, and others are watching us. How well are you leading those you love?
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Fighting Apathy EP 49
Equipping Men in Ten
When a man comes home from work it is not time to clock out. It is time to clock in. Your family needs you. Your wife needs you. Your community needs you.
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Living with Passion w/ Wess Stafford EP 48
Life is too short to live it without purpose. Wess Stafford has an amazing story and a challenging message for us all!
Dr. Wess Stafford, President Emeritus of Compassion International, is an internationally recognized advocate for children in poverty.
Wess’ life experiences have uniquely prepared him for this role. With earned undergraduate degrees from Moody Bible Institute, Biola University and a master’s degree from Wheaton College, as well as a Ph.D. from Michigan State University, Wess often says, “Everything I really need to know to lead a multinational organization I learned from the poor, growing up in an African village.”
As the son of missionaries to the Ivory Coast, Wess grew up as one of the village children cared for by a wise and loving African “extended family.” But his young heart was often broken as he watched his African friends die from the cruel ravages of poverty. Wess felt privileged to continue his parents’ commitment to the poor through the ministry of Compassion International.
Wess joined the staff of Compassion International in 1977 and worked with the ministry, both overseas and at headquarters. He served as President for 20 years.
Wess is a veteran, having served four years in the U.S. Army as a linguist in military intelligence.
He is also an avid outdoorsman and committed family man, living on a small ranch near Colorado Springs, Colorado, with his wife Donna who was a Compassion sponsor even before she met Wess. They have two daughters, Jenny and Katie — the two children in the world for whom Wess is the greatest advocate of all.
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Pursuing God Passionately EP 47
Why is it so important to pursue God? Is this a religious thing? Listen to Jim and Dale as they discuss why this is so important to Manhood.
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Living with Life's Limps w/ Dwayne Pickett EP 46
Dwayne Pickett is a Father, Husband and Visioneer
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Dr. Dwayne K. Pickett, Sr. is senior pastor of New Jerusalem Church of Jackson, MS since March 1996. Under Pastor Pickett’s godly leadership; his obedience to Christ; and his philosophy of team ministry, NJC has grown from less than 200 to more than 7000 members. God has blessed NJC to conduct multiple services at multiple locations in Jackson-Metro area. The vision employed at NJC is to minister to the needs of the whole man (mankind) to develop devoted disciples of Christ. This vision encompasses a host of ministries within the church and in collaboration with other ministries within the community, in the state, and in the global community.
Pastor Pickett, an educator by trade, founded New Jerusalem Christian School (NJCS) in 1997. NJCS currently consists of 2 preschools, an academy, and 2 after schools at its various campuses. NJCS educates children from 6 weeks to 6 grade.
A native of the small town of Itta Bena in the Mississippi Delta, Dwayne graduated from Terry High School in Terry, MS. He earned a Bachelor of Science in Elementary Education from the University of Southern Mississippi in May 1994; a Master of Education in Administration from the University of Southern Mississippi in May 1995; a Master of Arts in Christian Education from Reformed Theological Seminary (Jackson, MS) in 2000; and a Doctor of Philosophy in Christian Education from New Orleans Baptist Seminary in May of 2011.
Dwayne is married to Tracy Evans of Laurel, MS since May 1991. The Picketts have five sons – Julian (Elyane), Kendedrick, Malcolm (Nikeya), Dwayne, Jr., and Keishun. They also have two beautiful granddaughters: Maleah and Nylah.
In addition to preaching and teaching weekly at New Jerusalem, Pastor Pickett has been a guest preacher nationally and internationally. Also, he has trained leaders for churches, businesses, and foreign governments. Past service includes his roles as Executive Director of the General Missionary Baptist State Convention Youth Department and Director of Christian Education for the Southern Regional Youth Conference. He also hosted monthly weekend men’s retreat for more than 4 years, where he taught Bible study on biblical manhood along with Dr. John Perkins. Pastor Pickett has also been commissioned by the Christian Men’s Network to train men worldwide. Recently, he was appointed to oversee leadership development for the Full Gospel Baptist Church Fellowship.
Pastor Pickett’s civic service includes successfully chairing the steering committee for a Hinds County Bond Issue of $21.5 million; enlistment in the Army National Guard, including a tour of duty in Desert Storm/Desert Shield (September 1990 to December 1991); and serving as assistant principal at Brinkley Middle School in Jackson.
Ultimately, it is Pastor Pickett’s belief that in order to operate a KINGDOM church there are four phases that must be in operation at all times : 1) educational empowerment, 2) evangelistic empowerment, 3) economic empowerment (breaking the curse of poverty), and 4) experiencing God fully through the Holy Spirit in His church. Dwayne K. Pickett, Sr. is simply a humble servant seeking to build God’s Kingdom by making disciples for His glory.
How is Your Integrity? EP 45
Protecting integrity is important for men. Jim and Dale talk about what it is and why it is so important. Enjoy this episode. Leave a review and share the podcast with other men.
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Man Laws EP 43
There is some confusion about man laws. We aim to help men know what they are and how to navigate around them. You will enjoy this short episode.
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4 Misconceptions of Manhood EP 41
Jim and Dale talk about what we believe are four misconceptions of manhood. Enjoy this short episode.
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Made for This w/ Brian Doyle EP 37
Brian Doyle serves as Founder and President of Iron Sharpens Iron, a national conference network serving churches across the nation. His passion is to see the local church become effective in reaching and discipling men of all ages.
Brian has served with The Navigators in New England in various capacities, as the New England Area Manager for Promise Keepers and as the Director of Men’s Ministries for Vision New England. He and his wife, Barbara have five children and reside in Winter Springs, FL.
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