Moving Forward Talk Show

The discussion starts with Jennifer, Kristi, and Emily sharing their varied experiences of Christmas, ranging from joyful traditions to navigating strict ideologies against the celebration of Christmas in high-control groups. Each reflects on their childhood and adult transitions, highlighting the influence of their upbringing on current traditions. The conversation evolves to explore the challenges of reconnecting with or forming new traditions after leaving controlling environments. They also touch on family dynamics, the struggle for acceptance, and the joy of creating new memories despite obstacles. Throughout, they emphasize kindness, understanding, and the spirit of Christmas as a unifying factor for growth and healing. They conclude with advice on embracing the holidays with positivity, advocating for questioning long-held misconceptions and embracing new perspectives. The hosts share anecdotes of adapting to life outside high-control groups, discussing the emotional complexities of navigating family relationships and building new traditions. The episode wraps with reflections on the meaning of Christmas and encouragement for listeners to cherish their unique celebrations.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow The moving forward trio invites Stephanie Niblock to the show. Stephanie shares her journey of leaving a high-control group, highlighting the challenges she faced in regaining financial independence. Stephanie explains how trauma affects one’s relationship with money and discusses the importance of addressing these emotional wounds to make better financial decisions. She offers advice on how people, especially women leaving controlling environments, can reclaim financial autonomy. As the discussion progresses, Stephanie delves into her personal story, revealing her experiences with bankruptcy and homelessness despite her initial financial success. She provides insights into how emotional factors and unresolved trauma contributed to her financial struggles. Through therapy, self-reflection, and professional education, Stephanie rebuilt her life, becoming a financial advisor. Christy, Emily, and Stephanie discuss practical steps for financial recovery, including seeking support, setting boundaries, and identifying personal values. The show closes with advice for women struggling with financial decisions in high-control groups, emphasizing personal growth and financial freedom.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow Jennifer Collins and her co-hosts, Emily and Christie, discuss their experiences with politics after leaving a high-control group. They reflect on how their views on political engagement have evolved, particularly concerning women in politics and leadership. The hosts share personal stories about how their high-control environments discouraged individual political opinions, especially for women, and how they’ve since deconstructed those beliefs. Emily and Christie also share their insights on current political events, and they discuss the challenges of navigating the political system while coming from a background of indoctrination. The conversation is open, thoughtful, and reflects on how far they’ve come in terms of political and personal growth. The second half of the conversation shifts towards a discussion on Christian nationalism versus patriotism, with the hosts exploring the complexities of balancing religious and national identities. They emphasize the importance of civic engagement, whether through voting, discussions, or petitions, and the significance of having a voice in the political process. The hosts also address the fear-mongering that often accompanies both politics and high-control environments, drawing parallels between the two. They conclude by encouraging listeners to critically engage with their political choices, stressing the importance of making informed decisions without being swayed by fear or external pressures.

Two-thirds of the Moving Forward Trio, Jennifer and Kristi, discuss the experience of life after leaving a high-control religious group, specifically, the Movement associated with William Branham. Since Emily is absent due to wedding preparations, the two remaining members reflect on their past involvement with Branham's movement and how it influenced the way they and others celebrated holidays such as Halloween. While the Movement did not have an official stance on Halloween, church leaders often imposed restrictions on how people could celebrate, with emphasis on avoiding traditional Halloween practices in favor of biblically-themed alternatives. The conversation shifts from personal childhood Halloween memories to experiences raising children in a group that strictly regulated holiday traditions, focusing on how control extended into seemingly innocuous areas of life like children's costumes and holiday decorations. The hosts further explore the broader implications of control within high-control groups, discussing how fear and spiritualization of everyday things like costumes, candy, and even cats were used to create boundaries and maintain influence over followers. They compare these experiences with current practices of letting children enjoy Halloween without fear, emphasizing the importance of fun and freedom. The show concludes by highlighting the process of healing after leaving such groups, emphasizing the importance of self-trust and community in moving forward.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow The conversation in the transcript explores how to recognize and avoid becoming involved in high control groups, often labeled as cults. The dialogue centers on the experiences of Naomi Wright, a guest who founded Be Emboldened Ministries, and how her background growing up in a high-control religious group shaped her mission to help others avoid similar traps. Wright discusses how questions were suppressed in the group she was raised in, creating an environment where followers accepted doctrines without examining them critically. Wright's story unfolds as she shares her personal journey, from losing her parents to eventually earning degrees in mental health and theology, which equipped her to guide others out of controlling religious environments. The hosts and guests emphasize key red flags in recognizing unhealthy groups, such as the suppression of questions, the centralization of leadership, and the shunning of those who leave. They discuss ways to equip children and young adults to recognize and avoid these situations, encouraging open communication and fostering a mindset that questions and independent thinking are vital for spiritual health. The conversation is both informative and personal, offering insights for listeners who may be at risk of, or are recovering from, involvement in controlling groups.

The Moving Forward trio, Jennifer, Emily and Kristi welcome special guest Lesie Wells, who shares her journey of leaving a high-control group. The conversation spans various topics, including the psychological and physical challenges she faced during her marriage, the impact of the group's doctrines on her personal life, and the process of rebuilding her identity and community after leaving the group. The discussion also highlights the importance of finding silver linings in adversity, particularly through personal growth and the formation of supportive relationships outside the group's influence. The participants reflect on their own experiences, emphasizing the strength and resilience required to move forward after such a significant life change.> The episode concludes with words of encouragement for those considering leaving similar groups, underscoring the strength that lies within and the better life that awaits outside of the oppressive environment. The discussion is candid and empathetic, providing valuable insights into the struggles and triumphs associated with breaking free from controlling groups.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow In this engaging discussion, we, Jennifer and Emily explore the nuances of terminology used within high control groups, sharing personal anecdotes and insights from our experiences. We introduce the concept of "believer," explaining how it specifically refers to followers of William Branham within their group, and reflect on the impact of this language on relationships and social interactions. The conversation flows into the symbolism of "barnyard chickens" versus "eagles," highlighting the false sense of superiority felt by followers of Branham and the implications of such beliefs on their sense of identity and community. As we delve deeper into the loaded language of their past, we discuss the term "bride" and its significance in creating a sense of exclusivity among followers. Our dialogue emphasizes the emotional and psychological effects of these terms, illustrating how they can both bond individuals to the group and isolate them from the broader society. Through candid reflections, we discover valuable insights into the complexities of leaving high control groups and the journey toward healing and understanding.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow The Moving Forward Talk Show, hosted by Jennifer Collins and Emily, discusses the transition from a high control religious group to a more open and personal Christian faith. The episode begins with Jennifer introducing the topic of Christian ordinances, specifically focusing on baptism, communion, and foot washing, and how these practices have evolved for them after leaving the high control environment. Emily shares her thoughts on the transition from ritualistic practices to a more meaningful and joyful expression of faith. The discussion includes personal anecdotes about their experiences with baptism and communion in the high control group. They reflect on the significance of these ordinances and how their understanding has changed. The show emphasizes the importance of relationship over ritual, highlighting that true faith is about the heart rather than strict adherence to prescribed practices. The episode concludes with a reminder that healing and growth are possible by moving forward in faith and relationship with God.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshowJennifer, Kristi and Emily discuss changing musical experiences in the wake of leaving a high-control group. The conversation centers around the evolving nature of personal music preferences and the subjective nature of music appreciation. They begin with a discussion about how musical tastes can change over time, influenced by personal experiences and cultural shifts. Each shared different experiences with all types of music, from classical music to more contemporary genres like rock and Christian rap. The three reflect on how their musical choices have been shaped by their backgrounds and personal journeys, including their experiences with high-control groups and the impact of their Christian faith on their listening habits.Further, the conversation touches on the emotional and cultural significance of music, exploring how certain genres and songs can evoke memories and feelings of nostalgia, even if those genres were initially disliked. The speakers emphasize the importance of music as a form of expression and connection, and how it can serve as a bridge to understanding and appreciating different perspectives. They also delve into the concept of music being inherently good or evil, concluding that music itself is neutral and its impact is largely dependent on the context and the listener's perception.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow Jennifer, Emily, and Kristi discuss transforming entertainment choices after leaving a high-control group. They share personal experiences, highlighting their evolving perspectives on entertainment. They recount childhood media restrictions and the shift to more liberated consumption of movies, TV shows, and other entertainment forms. The conversation touches on the emotional and psychological impacts, emphasizing the importance of finding balance and joy while navigating the complexities of leaving a restrictive environment. They explore topics like family beliefs' influence on entertainment choices, the media's role in shaping worldviews, and the challenges of integrating into mainstream culture. They discuss the healing process and how entertainment has played a crucial role in their recovery and personal growth. The dialogue offers reflections on how media can reflect and shape one’s identity after significant life changes.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow Diverging Spiritual Paths with our special guest Naomi Rozak This week, we have the great pleasure of chatting with Naomi Rozak, host of the podcast Sacred Self, Reiki healing practitioner, and passionate advocate for introspection, self-care, and spiritual exploration for everyone, but most especially for those affected by high-control religious groups. We discuss our diverse experience leaving The Message and the diverging paths of spiritual and faith practices we have found since leaving. Whether you are still Christ follower, have found another religious tradition, or have moved toward spiritual practices outside the confines of a religion, our sincere hope is that we can encourage you on your journey to find what speaks to your soul and what resonates with you at this point in your life. We may have started in the same place, but we are certainly not walking the same road now--and that is okay! Available on Spotify, Google, and Apple Podcasts: https://movingforwardtalkshow.com/#podcast For more information about Naomi and to connect with her resources, visit her website at https://naomirozak.com, or catch up with her podcast https://www.youtube.com/@seekingthesacredself

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow Join the “Moving Forward” trio as we address the concept of modesty for those that have left a high-control religious group that puts a lot of pressure on women to adhere to legalistic guidelines involving appearance and behavior. From dress codes to body autonomy, from sexuality to self-worth, we invite listeners to reimagine and reclaim their relationship with modesty, offering insights, support, and solidarity for those navigating life beyond the confines of religious dogma. Whether you're questioning the teachings of your past or seeking validation for your journey towards authenticity, this podcast provides a safe space to explore, learn, and grow. We don’t have to agree on the exact definition of modesty and its role in our lives, but it’s important that we all work through our own convictions, prejudices, and challenges so we can move on with confidence and without shame. Available on Spotify, Google, and Apple Podcasts: https://movingforwardtalkshow.com/#podcast

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow ​The Moving Forward Trio conclude our discussion about experiences with transitioning out of a high-control group. While within the Message all three of us lived with a vast number of rules about dress, conduct, and lifestyle, though the specifics vary from church to church and even family to family. Leaving often means having to navigate a huge variety of choices while deconstructing our faith, tending to strained relationships, and discovering our own personal preferences. It can be overwhelming!Throughout the discussion we will address changes to our clothing and hairstyles, embracing and enjoying music, and controversial lifestyle choices such as alcohol, tattoos, and piercings.Available on Spotify, Google, and Apple Podcasts: https://movingforwardtalkshow.com/#podcast

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow The Moving Forward Trio discuss our experiences with transitioning from our high-control group. While within the Message all three of us lived with a vast number of rules about dress, conduct, and lifestyle, though the specifics vary from church to church and even family to family. Leaving often means having to navigate a huge variety of choices while deconstructing our faith, tending to strained relationships, and discovering our own personal preferences. It can be overwhelming! Throughout the discussion, we will address changes to our clothing and hairstyles, embracing and enjoying music, and controversial lifestyle choices such as alcohol, tattoos, and piercings. We will also address a listener question at the end of part two! Available on Spotify, Google, and Apple Podcasts: https://movingforwardtalkshow.com/#podcast

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/FreeandClear Available on Spotify, Google, and Apple Podcasts: https://movingforwardtalkshow.com/#podcastJoin us as we chat with author and video blogger, Charity Rissler Wottrich to discuss the necessary but sometimes challenging task of establishing boundaries with friends and family when leaving a High-Control Group.What are healthy boundaries? How do we set and enforce them with people accustomed to High-Control dynamics? What are some healthy ways to enforce our boundaries, and what can we do to protect our mental health while navigating the turbulence that comes from shaking up the status quo?After leaving The Message at a young age Charity did the hard work of establishing boundaries with her family while writing her memoir, "Where the Willow Weeps" (Find it on Amazon here). Now a wife and mother, Charity has a heart to help others leaving The Message to deepen their relationship with God and take comfort in His word. In her devotional "When The Lies are Loudest" (Check it out here) she gives encouragement to help those struggling with anxiety to fight for their mental health using all the tools available for them—including the miracle of modern medicine, therapy, and self-care.Additional Links:Charity's Blog: Setting Biblical Boundaries https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTVLUE7jEjo&ab_channel=CRWottrichBlog: Establishing Healthy Boundaries (John Collins and Dr. Jesse Collins) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ezd3_WiJv-E&ab_channel=LeavingtheMessage"Boundaries" by Dr Henry Cloud and Dr John Townsend https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Updated-Expanded-When-Control/dp/0310351804"Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin" by Anne Katherine MA https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Where-Begin-Recognize-Healthy/dp/1568380305/ref=monarch_sidesheet 

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow Available on Spotify, Google, and Apple Podcasts: https://movingforwardtalkshow.com/#podcast Episode 2: Dating, Courtship, and Weddings The Moving Forward trio, Jennifer, Emily, and Kristi discuss their shared experience with High-Demand religious rules surrounding dating, courtship, and weddings. Jennifer and Kristi met their future spouses and married within the cult of William Branham, while Emily is currently engaged to a man she has met since leaving. The three have some common threads but plenty of variety in their lived experiences as well! It’s not just ‘saving sex for marriage’ when you’re in a High-Demand group. The rules about dating and courtship are plentiful, inconsistent, and often completely unreasonable for couples prior to marriage. Weddings are a minefield of expectations and judgment. Emily shares some of her wedding plans free from all of that, and Jennifer and Kristi explore the good, bad, ugly, and beautiful from their own histories. To learn more about the show, visit https://freeandclearshow.com. Moving Forward is a passion project from three former members of the pseudo-Christian sect commonly referred to as The Message—the cult following of William Branham. The goal is to demonstrate that healing happens, life goes on, and there is plenty of good and beautiful ahead as we embark on life’s journey free from our High-Demand groups. We strive to present an honest and relatable account of life after leaving. Our hope is that you might find comfort in knowing you are not alone in the struggles along the way and the scars that are left behind. For more information about The Message and its history, visit https://william-branham.org. **Content Warning: Brief discussion of DV If you or someone you know is currently facing DV, please contact the National DV Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE or visit their website at https://www.thehotline.org/get-help. You are not alone, and help is available now.

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/movingforwardtalkshow Available on Spotify, Google, and Apple Podcasts: https://movingforwardtalkshow.com/#podcastJennifer, Kristi, and Emily introduce the next phase of the Free and Clear Podcast: Moving Forward. 

Navigating relationships — of all kinds — after exiting a cult can feel impossible. There are so many new questions about who we are, how we trust, and what we believe, and many of the help out there just don't quite capture the trauma of our context.  From dating to parenthood, join John and Naomi as they answer your big questions about how to move forward post-cult. 

It's common for authoritarian religious leaders to use current events for increased control over their followers. Fear is a powerful tool. How does this tie into the tragic invasion of Ukraine by Russia? Tune in to find out. (We sincerely hope this episode helps you navigate the triggers of your past. With care, Naomi & John)

Many groups out there are claiming that the so-called sins of one person are the reason for the suffering of someone else. Is this true? Is it biblical? What other possible reasons could there be for teaching this from the pulpit? Naomi and John share their experiences, knowledge, and concerns for this harmful doctrine.