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The Mindset That Makes People Instantly Trust You — With Former FBI Spy Recruiter Robin Dreeke

36 min • 30 april 2025

You can’t fake real connection — but you can learn how to create it.
Robin Dreeke spent his career recruiting spies for the FBI, building trust with people trained to trust no one. In this unforgettable conversation, he reveals the mindset that transforms strangers into allies — and the key habits that turn everyday conversations into powerful relationships.

Whether you're trying to lead a team, build influence, or just stop overthinking your social interactions, this episode will reset how you think about human connection.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
– The 4 keys to instantly building trust – Why emotional safety is more powerful than persuasion – How to stop making it about you — and become the person people open up to

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The Mindset That Makes People Instantly Trust You — With Former FBI Spy Recruiter Robin Dreeke

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