Episode 211: I'm a Jesus Follower and Church Leader But I'm Struggling

Let’s be honest—ministry isn’t all coffee dates, potlucks, and perfectly curated Sunday services. Sometimes it’s downright hard. In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain and admitting what many of us feel but don’t always say out loud: following Jesus while leading others can feel messy, overwhelming, and even lonely.

We share the real stuff—like what it looks like to put family first without guilt, how pride sneaks in when we least expect it, and why discipleship is less about having it all together and more about showing up faithfully (even when we’re tired and struggling).

Here’s what we dive into:

Why admitting “this is tough” is actually freeing
How your personal story might be the lifeline someone else needs
What happens when we stop pretending and start leaning on community
Finding peace in chaos (yes, it’s possible!)
Why making time with Jesus is non-negotiable if we want to keep going

This conversation is raw, honest, and hopefully a big sigh of relief for anyone who’s ever thought, “I love Jesus and I love the church… but I’m not okay right now.” Spoiler alert: you’re not alone, and God is right there in the struggle with you.

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