When School Feels Hard: Finding the Calm in the Storm

Originally recorded April 16, 2026.

When kids say “I hate school,” it can land hard.

Beneath those words are often big feelings, unmet needs, or hidden challenges—and as parents, it’s not always clear how to help.

In this honest and reassuring conversation, Peace At Home founder Ruth Freeman, LCSW, and educator Erica Brentan, M.Ed., explore what’s really going on when school feels difficult—for kids and for parents. Together, they unpack the powerful role of social-emotional learning—the skills that shape how children manage emotions, build relationships, and navigate challenges—and why struggles at school are often less about academics and more about these foundational life skills. You’ll hear real parent questions about homework battles, school avoidance, friendship struggles, and motivation—and walk away with practical, research-informed strategies you can use right away. This conversation will help you shift from reacting to school stress… to understanding it—and responding in ways that build confidence, resilience, and connection.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Understand what’s really behind homework battles and school resistance
• Support your child’s emotional regulation after a long school day
• Use simple routines to reduce stress and increase independence
• Respond to “I hate school” in a way that builds trust and insight
• Help your child navigate friendship challenges with confidence
• Partner effectively with teachers when concerns arise
• Recognize when learning, attention, or emotional challenges may need extra support

💛 Perfect for: Parents of elementary and middle school children who want less stress around school—and more clarity, confidence, and hope.


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