Anal Prep & Oral Risks for Gay Men | Health & Sexuality

In this bold continuation of the conversation, Eve is joined once again by gay OnlyFans creator Koby Falks for an unfiltered deep dive into gay sexuality, sexual health, safety, and the evolving culture around pleasure and protection.

Koby shares candid insights from his lived experience as a self-described bear and bottom, offering honest perspectives on anal sex preparation, communication, and the shifting norms within the LGBTQ+ community. Together, he and Eve explore how conversations around condoms, PrEP, DoxyPEP, and STI testing are changing modern sexual practices and what that means for intimacy, risk awareness, and responsibility.

The episode also breaks down practical, often unspoken topics like douching techniques, oral sex risks, and the importance of timing and preparation for safer, more comfortable experiences. A role-play segment highlights common breakdowns in communication around consent and safety, offering listeners real-world examples of how to navigate these moments with clarity and confidence.

This episode is a grounded, educational, and empowering conversation designed to replace stigma with knowledge and encourage healthier, more informed sexual choices.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between light and deep douching and when to use each

• Why condom use is changing in parts of the gay community

• How PrEP and DoxyPEP are reshaping sexual health practices

• The real risks of STI transmission through oral sex

• The importance of regular STI testing and prevention strategies

• How gut health and recovery matter after frequent anal play

• How to communicate boundaries clearly in sexual situations

Connect With the Guest

Koby Falks

Adult Content Creator & Advocate

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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