Big Clit Energy™: How Empowered Sexuality Transforms to Close the Orgasm Gap | Sex Education

In this special repurposed episode, Eve shares her guest appearance on the Ask a Sex Therapist Podcast, hosted by Heather Shannon. In this cross-conversation, they explore core themes in sexual wellness, including sexual confidence, embodied awareness, pelvic health, and practical approaches to closing the orgasm gap.

A central focus of the episode is “Big Clit Energy™,” a concept Eve uses to describe embodied sexual confidence, self-awareness, and unapologetic ownership of pleasure. Through this lens, the conversation highlights how sexual empowerment is deeply connected to communication, consent, and a willingness to explore desire without shame.

Eve also shares parts of her personal healing journey following sexual trauma, offering insight into how recovery can involve rebuilding trust in the body, redefining safety, and gradually reconnecting with pleasure. The discussion emphasizes that healing is not linear, but supported through awareness, compassion, and informed exploration.

Together, Eve and Heather discuss how the orgasm gap persists and what practical steps can help bridge it—particularly through communication, extended foreplay, and a more holistic understanding of arousal, especially for women. They also normalize curiosity around fantasies and kink, offering grounded, accessible ways for individuals and couples to explore desire safely and consensually.

This episode blends education, lived experience, and practical tools, making it a supportive guide for anyone seeking to strengthen intimacy, deepen self-understanding, and cultivate a healthier, more empowered relationship with their sexuality.

What You’ll Learn

• How to embody Big Clit Energy™ and sexual confidence

• Practical ways to help close the orgasm gap

• Why foreplay is essential for arousal and pleasure

• Safe, shame-free approaches to exploring fantasies and kink

• How communication strengthens intimacy and consent

• The impact of shame and conditioning on sexual expression

• Tools for reconnecting with the body after trauma

• How embodied awareness supports sexual healing and confidence

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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