Blood Flow for Her, Endurance for Him: The Sexy Science of Arousal | Sexuality Health

In Episode 4 of Season 7, host Eve welcomes back Sam Itshaki, creator of Mr. Get Bigger Now and CEO of the legendary Dr. Joel Kaplan Company, for his second appearance on Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast

This candid, educational conversation explores sexual wellness tools designed to support blood flow, sensitivity, endurance, and confidence — for all genders.

Building on his Season 6 appearance, Sam returns to share the latest data, devices, and innovations in sexual health, including pumps for men and women, endurance training, and the science behind arousal, aging, and prevention.

• How blood flow directly impacts sexual pleasure, sensitivity, and function

• Why sexual wellness is preventative care, not just a solution after problems arise

• The science behind penis pumps, extenders, and female vacuum devices

How regular pumping may support:

• Increased sensitivity

• Improved natural lubrication

• Enhanced erectile quality

• Vaginal and vulvar tissue health

• The connection between aging, atrophy, and sexual function in both men and women

• How women experience arousal and engorgement — and why it matters for pleasure

• A deep dive into penile endurance training and edging practices

• How men can dramatically increase stamina and control through guided training

• Why lasting longer isn’t a “problem to fix” — it’s a trainable skill

• How improved endurance can open the door to deeper intimacy, novelty, and fantasy

• A playful, fan-favorite role play segment exploring how to introduce new tools into a relationship

Sam Itshaki first joined Please Me! in Season 6 for a powerful two-part deep dive into male enhancement, sexual confidence, and the foundations of blood-flow-based sexual wellness. These fan-favorite episodes laid the groundwork for today’s conversation and are a great place to start if you’re new to Sam’s work.

Part 1:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6HFc6AVk1JMpIg3EZBfDnz?si=W5AZ4es3RZWJteUo7SqpHQ

Part 2:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nWGLezGEQW9KqLYfJkyrv?si=SlAXCixtTOu-NaGx25GnPA

Together, these episodes explore the origins of Mr. Get Bigger Now, early research on pumping and endurance training, and how men can reclaim agency over their sexual performance and pleasure.

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