MILF Manor Reality Star talks Healing, Hookups & Hard Truths | Empowered Sexuality

In this bold and emotionally rich episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with reality TV star Lanette West from MILF Manor for an honest conversation about sexuality, healing, and self-love.

Lanette opens up about her experience on reality television, including the realities behind filming a provocative dating show, navigating personal boundaries on set, and what it means to publicly reclaim identity in a highly sexualized environment. Together, she and Eve explore how labels like “MILF” can be redefined and reclaimed as a source of confidence and empowerment rather than shame.

The conversation also goes deeper into Lanette’s personal journey through divorce, dating, and rebuilding intimacy afterward. She shares her experiences with modern dating apps, navigating emotional connections, and learning to trust herself again after major life transitions.

Lanette also speaks candidly about her recovery journey, including her mental health challenges, addiction, and reaching over 1,000 days of sobriety. This becomes a powerful thread throughout the episode as she reflects on healing, self-worth, and the role pleasure and self-acceptance can play in recovery.

This episode is a raw, real, and inspiring exploration of resilience, identity, and the freedom that comes from owning your story without shame.

What You’ll Learn

• How reality TV shapes and challenges personal boundaries

• What reclaiming sexual labels like “MILF” can mean

• The realities of dating after divorce and starting over

• How addiction recovery intersects with identity and self-worth

• Why shame blocks pleasure, connection, and healing

• How self-love supports emotional and sexual recovery

• The importance of boundaries in dating and intimacy

Connect With the Guest

Lanette West

Reality TV Star (MILF Manor)

Resources from Eve

The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/

30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/

Connect With Eve

Website: https://pleaseme.online

Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com

Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast

Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast

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