The Anatomy of a Real Housewife with Candiace Dillard Bassett

Millions of people watch The Real Housewives, but few know what it's really like to be one. 

In this episode, Christiana sits down with former Real Housewives of Potomac star and Miss USA 2013, Candiace Dillard Bassett, for an honest conversation about fame, friendship, IVF, marriage, and what it actually takes to survive one of television's biggest franchises.

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01:16 Meet Candiace Dillard Bassett

02:17 Why Candiace became a Real Housewife

03:30 Candiace’s familial privilege  

05:20 Black American Princess (BAP) culture 

06:00 Feeling shame about growing up privileged 

10:00 From beauty pageants to Real Housewives

13:38 Crying as a Black woman on reality TV

18:49 Candiace and Monique Samuels’ friendship breakup

20:45 Drew Sidora’s salary leak and the economics of being a Real Housewife

29:44 The psychological toll of being on Real Housewives 

33:00 Going through IVF

37:08 On returning to Real Housewives

39:14 Colorism on reality TV

43:44 Candiace’s first test scene

45:10 Candiace’s longstanding relationships from the show

45:30 The Traitors season 4

48:08 What’s next for Candiace

54:20 Candiace’s marriage with Chris Bassett

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