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100 | Ask Me Anything: Building Confidence, Post-Pandemic Dating, Money Mindset

56 min • 20 juli 2021

To celebrate the 100th episode of Balanced Black Girl, I'm answering your burning questions. From dating to podcasting to personal growth and everything in between.

Topics include advice I would give myself in my 20's, my favorite journaling prompts, advice for working with brands and building community as a content creator, and ways we can be kind to ourselves.

I also talk about...

Boundary-setting and healing from toxic relationships.
Having the confidence to take big leaps.
YouTube vs. Podcasting
Financial wellness habits.
Living alone for the first time.

Resources (contains affiliate links):

You Are a Badass at Making Money
We Should All Be Millionaires
I Will Teach You to Be Rich, Second Edition: No Guilt. No Excuses. No BS. Just a 6-Week Program That Works
Episode 53: Building Financial Wellness with Tonya Rapley
Episode 85: Getting Financially Fit with Ornella Yovo

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