171: “You’re Not Behind. God is Keeping You Single For a Reason” w. Lama Aboubakr

Why are so many Muslims struggling to get married and are still single? Lama Aboubakr is a mindset, life, and relationship and marriage coach combining cognitive psychology with Islamic spirituality, and she even uses hypnosis as a therapy tool. This episode breaks down why you're still single and how to find your spouse. Are you chasing a feeling instead of a real marriage? Is your dua sincere if you secretly don't believe it'll be answered? Are you marrying your ego or your values? What if the story you've been telling yourself about why you're single is the actual problem? We go there: fear, shame, unrealistic expectations, family pressure, and what true tawakkul looks like when everyone around you is already married. Everything you need to know before you get married. *JOIN OUR YOUTUBE MEMBERSHIP*OR*Support us on Patreon:* https://www.patreon.com//theansaripodcast*Ayubi Collective*FREE 10-Part Masterclass “How to Build Your Own Multi-Billion Dollar Business”https://www.ayubi.com/ansari*Provision Capital:* https://www.provisioncapital.com00:00 Hypnosis to heal04:20 Are You Marrying Your Ego?10:39 #1 Reason People Cant Find a Spouse14:08 Ad15:47 The 1st Step to Finding a Spouse24:42 What Men Get Wrong About Women27:46 What Women Get Wrong About Men32:30 Ad33:06 Single After 25/30! Are You Broken?!41:32 The Heartbreak of Being Single 48:03 You're Religious Yet Allah Holds back Marriage? 56:17 You're Finally Engaged!01:02:34 Ad01:03:09 Is there a Formula for Getting Married?01:12:47 Duaa is the key to marriage 01:23:01 Final Thoughts#marriage #relationship #podcast *Listen on All Audio Platforms:* https://tr.ee/JeX-ILYSyj*Follow The Ansari Podcast**Instagram:* https://instagram.com/ansaripodcast*TikTok:* https://tiktok.com/@theansaripodcast*Twitter/X:* https://twitter.com/ansaripodcast