Girly law of power #32: Stop trying to be understood by everyone

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We've made it to law #32! Not that it's a particularly important number...I'm just grateful to have all you baddies here <3

Being understood is bloody exhausting. It's also a way we get emotional safety, because we've been brainwashed to believe that our truth is only valid if others understand and accept it. What a load of baloney.

In this episode, we're throwing out this rotten baloney by discussing:

• How being understood is a fear-based response
• Why the patriarchy benefits from our compulsion to feel understood
• How this damages people's perception of us & makes them respect us less
• 5 ways to unlearn this compulsion
• The patriarchy loophole we can exploit when we stop trying to be understood

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki

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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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