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The Empowering Parents Podcast – Child Behavior Help The Total Transformation Way

When Your Child Uses Anger as a Weapon

17 min • 4 oktober 2022

When children use anger to get what they want, it can feel for all the world like they’re pointing a loaded weapon at you. As a parent, you dread the ugly and sometimes violent emotional outbursts that come with this type of behavior.

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