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Popular Advice Christian Women Give that's Actually Unbiblical

29 min • 14 november 2022

Ep. 103 - Christian women are notorious for giving "feel good" encouragement. It might not be true. It might not be biblical. But, it makes us feel good in the moment.

"You're enough."
"Your turn is next!"
"You'll get that baby soon."
"Marriage is in your future."
"Good things are coming your way."

These all sound nice and great and make me feel good... but are they true? Are they biblical?

In today's episode, we're unpacking why this "fluffy feel good" advice is more damaging than helpful.

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