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161. lessons you NEED to learn as an anxiously attached person.. DETACH & REVALUE YOURSELF.

35 min • 10 augusti 2024

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you some real life lessons from one anxiously attached girl, to another.

00:00 intro
02:33 everybody is your mirror
11:54 mastering cognitive reframing
18:22 stop concerning yourself with avoidant people
25:58 become your own safe space
29:16 RIP to your anxious attachment style

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