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41. navigating your 20's w/ Tess Barclay | Self confidence, comparison, friendships, dating, spending habits, negotiating your salary & MORE

77 min • 20 oktober 2022

Hi ladies ! In today's episode I have on Tess Barclay, Influencer, Host & Founder of Busy Blooming Marketplace. We have the ULTIMATE girl chat where we discuss:
- Tess's stardom on Youtube and how she had the confidence to post her life on social media
- How we deal with hate comments as influencers on Tiktok
- How not to compare yourself to others
- Toronto city life and budgeting tips so that you can still life your best life
- Normalizing not having a big friend group in your 20's
- Dating advice and how to know if he's the one
- How to love your job even if it's a 9-5
- Tips on negotiating your salary and the gender pay gap
- How to stay motivated in life by stepping into a new "era"
- AND MORE!
Tess Barclay's Social Media Handles:
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Youtube
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