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66. situationships, bread crumbing & secure attachment styles | a pepp talk

54 min • 13 april 2023

Hi everyone! In today's episode we talk about situationships 👀⬇️

-what is a situationship
-why we get into situationships
-the difference between a situationship and a secure attachment style
-how to tell if you're getting "breadcrumbed"
-why your beliefs play a huge role in the health of your relationships
-how to express your feelings to a man
-when you should walk away
-how to learn to "go with the flow" in a relationship
-tips for people with anxious attachment styles
-navigating talking stages & communication
-how to tell if someone is into you or is playing you
-advice from your sister is when it comes to getting into relationships that are not what you truly want
-AND MORE

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