Keeping the Magic in Your Marriage | Make an Effort to Love

In this episode we discuss what we do in order to keep things alive in our marriage and not let the fire die out. Rosie talks about how she had to tell Adam to keep pursuing her, or to keep date nights coming and that he needs to plan them without being reminded. We have realized that men need to be told what to do to make the woman happy, so that he will know how to make her happy. Otherwise it’s just a guessing game for him. A marriage can be great, but it’s completely up to us to make it that way and we have to remember to respect one another, never commanding the other to woo you, but always inviting them, or requesting them to. You have to keep your friendship alive because as Adam’s grandpa said, the lust will eventually go, but your friendship will stay alive.

Adam prioritizing our date 3:18
One reason it’s important to make an effort 4:54
How love is portrayed in society now 11:07
Letting down walls and surrendering 17:16

“When you think about love, or unconditional love, or someone that you’re going to marry, it can’t be based on lust love alone, because the person you’re going to marry is going to be the person that knows everything about you. There’s no one in the world that’s going to know as much about you as your spouse, which means that to be married to somebody, you have to let all your guards down.” 11:52

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