115. Maddy Lettuce on Opting Out of Life's Biggest Default Setting

In this episode, Keltie hosts childfree content creator, Maddy Lettuce, for a conversation about why its critical we question parenthood as the default life choice, and Maddy's personal childfree journey. You'll hear them discuss:

• The importance of questioning societal norms, and why self-discovery is a key part of this process.
• How personal life experiences shape decisions, and some of the key experiences that informed Maddy's childfree choice.
• How relationship dynamics play into the decision to have or not have kids, and some of the misconceptions about men's desires.

(0:36) Meet Maddy & her Kids or Childfree story; (16:42) Parenthood as a default setting; (35:34) The impact from Maddy's upbringing; (48:04) Childfree dating & partnership; (1:07:27) Who has authority to discuss the Kids or Childfree decision

About Maddy:

Maddy Lettuce is a childfree content creator and writer based in New Hampshire. She creates content at @whozyourmaddy on TikTok, where her childfree content has accumulated 21 million views in the past year. She's currently working on a book called Opting Out: A Thinking Person's Guide to the Biggest Default Setting of Your Life, a prescriptive nonfiction book examining how parenthood became the default setting nobody questions, and what it would mean to actually treat it as a choice. Het content focuses on raising awareness that the decision to have children is exactly that, a decision, and giving people permission to examine it honestly before they make it.

As mentioned in the episode: Find Maddy on Substack, TikTok, and Instagram at @whozyourmaddy. Sign up for our September 16th Kids or Childfree Group Program start.

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