S2 EP 30 - SEL Summer Camp Week 3: Oceans of Emotion: Why Middle Schoolers Feel Everything All at Once

Why does your middle schooler seem happy, anxious, excited, embarrassed, frustrated, and overwhelmed—all before dinner?

In Week 3 of our whole family Socioemotional Learning (SEL) Summer Camp series, Suzanne M. Swain, EdS, LMSW, is joined by Jessica Ragnio, MSW, LICSW, Clinical Director at Mightier, to explore the fascinating world of adolescent emotions. Always a good hang with Jessica! 

Together, the duo discuss why emotions become more intense during the middle school years, how identity development, independence, social awareness, and puberty shape emotional experiences, and what neuroscience can teach us about the adolescent brain.

In this episode, you’ll discover:
🌊 Why middle school emotions can feel like an emotional hurricane

🧠 How the adolescent brain develops differently than the adult brain

💜 Why kids often experience multiple emotions at the same time

⚡ How emotional energy and emotional valence help us better understand feelings

🌡️ Why emotions show up in the body before children always have words for them

🎣 How families can build emotional awareness through conversation and play

You’ll also learn why social rejection can genuinely hurt, what cortisol has to do with emotional regulation, and how helping kids recognize body signals can strengthen lifelong emotional intelligence.

🎣 FREE FAMILY ACTIVITY: FISHING FOR FEELINGS

Download this week’s activity here:

https://www.mightier.com/resources/emotional-awareness-activities/

Fishing for Feelings helps families build emotional vocabulary, identify body signals, and create meaningful conversations about emotions in a fun and engaging way.

SPECIAL OFFER: Our friends at Mightier help children build emotional regulation skills through gameplay and biofeedback.

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Guest:
Jessica Ragnio, MSW, LICSW
Clinical Director, Mightier

Remember:

We don’t stop the waves. We learn how to ride them.

Stop. Regulate. Listen.

Stay clever, little foxes. 💜🦊

A very special thanks to StellaMix productions and Janine Stella for her incredible production work. Please go to stellamix.com for all of your podcasting needs.

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