Teaching Kids Conflict Resolution and the Biblical Approach to Forgiveness
Conflict is an unavoidable part of life, but how we handle it—especially within our families—can shape relationships for years to come. In this episode, we explore the biblical principles of conflict resolution and forgiveness. From understanding how often conflicts arise in childhood to using scripture as a foundation for reconciliation, this conversation offers practical steps for guiding children through disputes in a way that fosters peace, understanding, and faith.
Whether you're navigating sibling rivalry, parent-child disagreements, or even conflicts within your marriage, this episode will equip you with the tools to model healthy conflict resolution and cultivate a home built on love and grace.
Episode Highlights:
[00:00:00] – Introduction: Why conflict resolution is essential for children and families
[00:03:00] – Biblical foundation: Matthew 5 and Matthew 18 on addressing disputes
[00:09:00] – A personal story: Learning to handle correction and avoiding resentment
[00:11:00] – Modeling forgiveness: Teaching kids to say "Please forgive me"
[00:14:00] – Why strong relationships reduce conflicts: A proactive parenting strategy
[00:16:00] – Teaching children to be "unoffendable" and quick to show mercy
[00:18:00] – Keeping Christ at the center: Encouraging gratitude and daily forgiveness
3 Takeaways:
- Conflict resolution is not about avoiding disagreements but about learning to navigate them with love, humility, and biblical wisdom. Teaching children how to manage disputes will not only help their sibling and peer relationships but will also set them up for success in marriage, work, and friendships as they grow.
- Forgiveness is a choice, not just a feeling. The Bible teaches that we should forgive as we have been forgiven, meaning that choosing to forgive—rather than holding onto resentment—leads to healing, unity, and restored relationships. Helping children understand this truth early on will equip them with the ability to extend grace to others.
- Strong relationships are the foundation for reducing conflict. When children feel secure, loved, and connected, they are less likely to engage in unnecessary disputes. Prioritizing family time, shared activities, and intentional conversations can create an atmosphere of peace and understanding.
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The Mind of a Child is an early child development podcast that exists to encourage and equip parents to raise their kids to love God and love others. If you're looking for Biblical principles, practical parenting solutions, and science-backed research, our discussions are specifically tailored for you. Our hosts are Leslie Dudley Corbell and Diane Doucet Matthews, who each have a combined 50+ years of experience in the early child parenting space.