Letting Go of the Unicorn Era: Why Positivity Doesn’t Work in a 9 Year

There’s a belief I used to hold as a spiritual coach. One that sounded empowering… but over time, became draining and destructive.

It was this: “If you’re in alignment, you should only be attracting good. And if you’re not? You must be doing something wrong.“

In this episode, I share the one thing I’ve completely changed my mind about in my spiritual and coaching practice. I unpack how this belief (rooted in the Law of Attraction and high-vibe culture) can become toxic when we use it to judge or shame ourselves during hard seasons in business and life.

And why 2025, a 9 Universal Year, is the exact moment we’re being asked to let that belief go.

In Part 1, I explore:

• Why the belief that “we should only attract good” creates unnecessary suffering for soul-led entrepreneurs
• What the 9 Universal Year teaches us about polarity, endings, and spiritual maturity
• The difference between bypassing reality vs. building spiritual resilience within it
• What it truly means to thrive inside the full spectrum of life (not just the light parts)

“The goal isn’t to only attract good. The goal is to become someone who can flourish within the world as it actually is.”

In Part 2, I answer a listener question:

“How do I move from survival to thriving as a purpose-driven entrepreneur?”

We talk about the unique pressure that 22’s feel to “do it all” – and how many spiritually gifted leaders confuse survival mode with strength.

You’ll learn:

• How to distinguish between survival energy and thriving energy
• Why operating from fear and urgency often masquerades as productivity
• What it really means to build systems – starting with the internal ones
• Why collaboration, clarity, and devotion are key for 22’s

“You are not the savior. You are the steward of a mission, that moves you.”

Feel like you’re in survival mode too?

You don’t have to figure it out alone. If this conversation stirred something in you, I’d love to support you in the Success Numbers Audit. It is a 50 minute phone session with me, where we start to decode your core numbers in Numerology so you can build a business that feels more true, more supported, and more spiritually aligned.

Book here → The Success Numbers Audit

Want to submit a question for next month’s Q&A. Click here → Send me an email.

BIGGEST hugs…

~ Your Spiritual Coach & Numerologist, Nat

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