402. Why trauma bonding feels so much like love ...

We’ve all heard the phrase trauma bonding, often used in jest to talk about two people who became friends after meeting in difficult circumstances. But trauma bonding is actually a psychological phenomenon which defines a relationship characterised by an abuser and their target, and a cycle that can be very hard to break out of. In this episode, we unpack the characteristics of a trauma bond, how you can identify if you might be experiencing one, and steps you can take to break away from one.

We explore:

• What a trauma bond looks like
• Why trauma bonds can happen
• What a trauma bond ISN’T
• Why trauma bonds can play out in a variety of relationships
• How to identify if you are experiencing a trauma bond
• Steps you can take to move away from a trauma bond

A few resources to help you if you are struggling with a trauma bond: 

The Attachment Project: HERE

Choosing Therapy: HERE

Watch on Netflix: HERE

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