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152. “It’s Just Not Happening” - Letting Go of The When

28 min • 7 november 2023

I see so many female entrepreneurs eager to bring their desires into their life and achieve their goals. However, a common stumbling block in this journey is the fixation on specific dates.

The pressure and anxiety that arise when things don't align with predetermined timelines can be counterproductive to your success.

In today’s episode, we'll explore the power of patience in bringing your desired reality in, focusing on the role of the subconscious mind and the insights from neuroscience.

Topics covered on Letting Go of The When:

The importance of patience in the manifestation process.
The influence of the subconscious mind in shaping thoughts, beliefs, and actions.
How impatience can generate stress and anxiety.
The conflict that arises when specific dates are fixated upon.
The role of the Reticular Activating System (RAS) in filtering information.
How rigid deadlines can lead to tunnel vision.
The impact of stress and cortisol on the manifestation process.
The fear of failure and its effects on self-doubt and confidence.
Practical steps to release attachment to specific dates.
The significance of focusing on "what" over "when."
Embracing patience and trusting in the universe's timing.

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