Hey Baddies.
This episode is personal. I’m talking about what it really means to let love in — even when it terrifies you. For a long time, I thought being unbothered was power. I thought building walls meant I was strong. But lately, I’ve realized that all those defense mechanisms? They were keeping me from something softer… something real.
I open up about my first love, how it shaped me, and how I became the girl who broke hearts before hers could get broken again. But that girl isn’t me anymore. I’m learning how to trust myself again — to stop performing strength and start allowing softness.
In this episode, I talk about:
Why I stopped pretending I didn’t care
How being a heartbreaker was just my way of protecting myself
The loneliness that comes from emotional armor
What it’s like to finally feel safe choosing love again
And why I believe real love is soft, not scary
This is my breakup text to the version of me that needed to be guarded. If you’ve ever felt like you had to be tough to be loved — this one's for you. You’re not too damaged. You’re not too late. You are fixable. You are lovable. And you’re allowed to try again.
TIKTOK: TRINITY.BLAIR
INSTA: TRINYXO