Prince or Frog? Who to Look for When It’s Time to Date

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Frogs vs. Princes: Who are you attracting? 👑

Are you currently dating, waiting to date, or maybe even hiding a relationship? This week, we’re getting real about the types of guys out there and why waiting is actually your greatest superpower.

Inspired by the incredible training "Princes Take Longer than Frogs" by Dr. Doug Weiss (Psychologist and founder of Heart to Heart Counseling Center), we are breaking down the characteristics of the guys you'll meet and why your "Glow" deserves a Prince, not a Frog.

🐸 What a "Frog" Looks Like:

Frogs are often motivated by their own insecurities and secret habits. Watch out for these red flags:

Motivation by Fear: They use guilt trips like, “If you loved me, you would do _____.”
Secret Sins: Many young men are struggling with porn addiction; what he does in secret will eventually hurt you.
The "Win" Mentality: They are liars who tell you exactly what you want to hear just to "win" you.

👑 What a "Prince" Looks Like:

A Prince takes longer to mature, but he is worth the wait! A true Prince:

Values Purity: He wants to protect your relationship with God and your body.
Has Strong Mentors: He has a solid relationship with a Christian dad or a godly male role model.
Inner Circle: He surrounds himself with Christian friends who push him to grow.
Knows His Identity: He has a clear sense of who God created him to be and speaks life over you.

Don’t Believe the Lies!

Frogs are attracted to girls who don't know their worth. Don't let yourself believe:

❌ "I'm not good enough or I'm broken." (God says you are amazing!)
❌ "I need a man to validate me." (God has already validated you!)
❌ "He said he loves me, so it must be true." (Actions speak louder than "frog" words!)

Special Thanks: Huge shout out to Dr. Doug Weiss for his life-changing training for Christian teen girls. You can learn more about his work at Heart to Heart Counseling Center.

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