Reframing Parenting in Your Christian Walk

98% of a worldview is formed by age 12. And if you are handing your kids a device and expecting Sunday morning to do the discipleship, the math does not add up. This episode is a completely unplanned but deeply needed conversation about raising resilient kids — from screen time and sheltering to the culture of your home and how God uses the hardest parenting seasons to form you.

In this episode:
• Why the goal is not to raise kids who are protected from everything but kids who can engage with anything
• The difference between sheltering and discipling — and why both matter
• What Darren asks his kids every time he drives them to school
• Why your instinct to shut it down when your kid asks a hard question is the exact wrong move
• Connection is everything — how to stay the safe place as they get older
• Bring them up in the culture of the Lord — what Ephesians 6 actually says about parenting
• What to do when you realize you are parenting with tools your own parents gave you that are not working

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Hosted by:
• Pastor Darren Rouanzoin — https://www.instagram.com/darrenr
• Angela Halili — https://www.instagram.com/angelahalili
•  Lindy Cofer — https://www.instagram.com/lindy_cofer

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TIMESTAMPS
0:00 — Welcome Back and Heart Check-In
5:00 — Lindy's Boys, LeBron, and the Unexpected Parenting Moments of This Week
10:00 — Parker Wrote a Song — Freedom Crew and What God Is Doing in the Next Generation
15:00 — The Hardest Season — Amos and a Year of Night Terrors
20:00 — Prayer, Fasting, and a Community Contending for Your Kid
24:00 — Is Obedience Not the Highest Form of Worship? — Lindy's Story of Two Babies Nine Months Apart
28:00 — The Domestic Monastery — What Parenting Small Kids Has in Common With the Monastic Movement
32:00 — How to Stay Calm When Your Kid Comes Home With a Bad Word36:00 — Connection Before Correction — What Chase Taught Lindy Without Saying a Word
40:00 — How to Raise Kids Who Can Talk to People Who Are Not Like Them44:00 — You Are Not Just Correcting Behavior — You Are Building a Culture48:00 — Bring Them Up in the Culture of the Lord — Ephesians 6 Unpacked52:00 — The Tools You Were Given Are Not Always the Tools You Should Keep
56:00 — Closing: You Do Not Have to Be Perfect — You Just Have to Stay Present