64 | Newborn Sleep Made Peaceful Without Sleep Training: Safe Co-Sleeping Tips with Taylor McKay, Holistic Sleep Coach

Are you struggling to sleep because your newborn only wants to sleep on your chest? Do you keep finding yourself falling asleep with your baby, feeling guilty and frustrated? 

 In this episode, we’re breaking the taboo around co-sleeping, bed-sharing, and safe infant sleep—without the guilt, shame, or fear that mainstream advice so often stirs up.

Join Jaimie Zaki, IBCLC and mom of five, and her guest Taylor McKay, a holistic sleep coach based in Canada, as they unpack what real-life sleep looks like for new mothers—and how to make it safe, biologically normal, and confidence-building.

You’ll learn how to protect your peace, your milk supply, and your baby’s safety—without resorting to sleep-training or fighting your natural instincts.

🔎 In this episode, we cover:

• Safe co-sleeping and bed-sharing practices backed by evidence and maternal intuition

• How to create a safe sleep space for your newborn—whether you use a crib, bassinet, or share your bed

• What to do when exhaustion hits hard postpartum and “just don’t sleep with your baby” stops being realistic

• Common myths about co-sleeping safety that every mom deserves to hear the truth about

• Reducing risk of SIDS and infant suffocation deaths 

• Practical tips for safely bed-sharing while breastfeeding so everyone actually gets rest

• Why listening to your intuition matters more than rigid sleep rules

• Balancing family dynamics when your partner or relatives don’t understand co-sleeping

• How confident, informed mothers sleep better—and so do their babies

 

RESOURCES:  

• Need sleep support? Visit Taylor McKay on Instagram @Cozylittlesleepers

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 Episode timestamps:

00:00 — Welcome to Breastfeeding with Confidence
00:43 — Meet Taylor + why “safe co-sleeping” matters
01:46 — The reality of postpartum sleep and survival
05:12 — What safe bed-sharing actually looks like
08:12 — Debunking myths and navigating fear-based advice
13:52 — Real-life mom experiences and intuition-led sleep
34:10 — Final thoughts + your next step toward peaceful rest