s p / s x a t t a c h m e n t i s s t r a n g e . .

Enter the strange world of SP/SX attachment, with Elisa (SP/SX 3w2 378), Sara (SP/SX 6w7 614), and Kat (SP/SX 9w8 936) in this first edition of Hoes After Dark. Hosted by Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854).

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Show Notes 

1:00 When Did It Hit You That You Were Social Last?

3:35 The Not Giving A F**k Of SP/SX vs Hexad

8:06 Are There Clear Ways You’ve Noticed You’re An Attachment Type?

10:04 Navigating Social As A SP/SX Attachment Type

25:53 Can You And Do You Cosplay Social?

30:34 How Do You Notice Your SX Instinct Showing Up?

36:13 Hating On “Empowerment” As Soc-Blinds

39:16 Social Shame As A Blocker Of Eroticism 

42:14 What Gets Projected On You As A SP/SX?

51:48 Being Stigmatized By SX-Blind Women

56:03 Motherhood As A SP/SX

1:01:52 Navigating Social Disconnects With SP/SX

1:07:35 Devouring and Being Devoured

1:12:02 How Do You Decide Whether Someone Is Good or Bad?

1:25:14 Being Comfortable In The Dark Shadows Of Humanity