Good Men, Bad Choices | Why This Keeps Happening

No man sets out to marry a terrible woman. So why does it keep happening? I've talked to hundreds of men between 35 and 75 — divorced, remarried, or currently hiding in the garage — and every single one of them thought he was making a good decision at the time. She didn't trick you. You recruited her. You held the interviews. You skipped the background check. You waived the probationary period. And you handed over the keys in broad daylight while your friends tried to make eye contact with you. In this video I break down the 13 types of men who do this — the Illusionist who squints until the red flags disappear, the Romantic auditioning for the role of Prince, the guy who's "saving money" splitting bills, and the one who married her because everybody expected it. I've been at least four of them. This isn't a video about women being the enemy. There are a thousand channels selling you that, and every one will leave you angrier and more alone than when you showed up. The women in these stories aren't villains — they're people who accepted the terms a man offered them. You wrote the terms. Which means you can rewrite them. Figure out which one you are in the next 25 minutes and you might save yourself eleven years and half of everything you own. ⏱ CHAPTERS 00:00 — You didn't get tricked. You recruited her. 01:30— Why "women are the problem" is a useless answer 02:45 — PART 1: The Projectors 02:50 — #1 The Illusionist (the squint) 04:30 — #2 The Romantic (auditioning for Prince) 07:15 — #3 The Archetypist (he only read half the book) 10:00 — PART 2: Men who should not be dating 10:17 — #4 "I'll take whatever I can get" 12:15 — #5 The I can fix it Guy 14:11 -- # 6 The Simp 17:20 — #7The Pedestal Man 19:30 — PART 3: The Lazy Guys 18:52 — #8 The We split the bills" 21:32 -- #9 We've been together too long" 23:50 — #10 "At least I know her baggage" 25:05 — PART 4: "I didn't have a choice" 26:20 — #11 "I got her pregnant" 28:00 — #12 "Everyone expected it" 31:00 — #13 & 14: Sex and loneliness 36:15 — The three things that actually fix this 💬 COMMENT PROMPT Go back through the 13. You flinched at one of them — you probably rewound it. Drop just the number below. I read every one, and I promise you won't be the only one. 👉 NEXT — Knowing your number doesn't fix it. Men name the pattern, feel great for six days, then marry the exact same woman with a different name. Next video: why that happens, and the four questions you have to answer before you're allowed to date again. 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for provocative, uplifting conversations on dating, marriage, divorce, and what comes after — for men who want stronger relationships, not louder resentment. Join The Life 2.0 Community: https://life20.app Find all the equipment I use at my Amazon Store: https://a.co/d/0fWwzY5Z Sign Up for Coaching Today or grab a copy of my book at https://johnsgriffin.com https://john-griffin-shop.fourthwall.com For Life 2.0 Merchandise! APPLE POD CASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/john-griffin-life-2-0/id1850311400 SPOTIFY POD CASTS: https://open.spotify.com/show/64h436l3vdzLJba9O76wcS?si=0Ign58gGSo2TV30fuNRS_g Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGeYqbpkEVeYu_sRAGWGwpQ/join Harness Buddy dog harness as seen on Shelby and Jax: https://harnessbuddy.com/products/harnessbuddy?ref=qclugmwe ⚠️ Disclaimer: I do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research. Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialogue, music, and images that are the Intellectual Property of John Griffin, (Life 2.0) Health Coach & Personal Trainer. Please contact John Griffin if you wish to use this content in any way. Any unauthorized use of this content will be a violation of my copyright. © John Griffin, Coach www.johnsgriffin.com

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