Why You’re Making Oral Sex Harder Than It Needs to Be

Let's talk about 69… because whether you love it, hate it, or have been too intimidated to try it, chances are nobody ever actually taught you how to do it well. In this episode I'm breaking down everything you need to know about giving and receiving oral sex simultaneously, including the modifications that turned me from a 69 skeptic into someone who actually gets it. I'm also answering your oral sex questions, from what to do when size makes a blowjob feel impossible to the listener who discovered the most unexpected erogenous zone of her life mid-session. If you've ever written off 69 or felt like you were doing oral sex wrong, this one is going to change some things for you.

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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

01:37 Why People Love and Hate 69

03:30 What Research Says About Giving Oral Sex and Happiness

05:00 How to Be a Better Giver in the 69 Position

07:30 Your Hands Are Your Best Friend in 69

09:00 How to Actually Receive Pleasure While Giving

11:00 Mindful Masturbation as a Tool for Better Receiving

13:00 The Sideways 69 and the Power 69

15:30 How to Stop Getting in Your Own Head During Oral

18:00 Question 1: I Discovered My Ear Is an Erogenous Zone Mid Session

21:00 The Science Behind Extra Genital Erogenous Zones

23:00 Question 2: How Do I Give Oral to a Much Larger Penis

25:00 Hands Lube and Permission to Mix It Up

27:00 The Only Rule That Actually Matters in Oral Sex

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