The Narcissist's Obsession with Winning at All Costs Podcast #3

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One of the most confusing and exhausting dynamics survivors face is this: the narcissist isn’t trying to resolve conflict—they’re trying to win it. And not just win… win at all costs.

In this episode, we break down the narcissist’s relentless need to come out on top, even if it means lying, rewriting reality, destroying relationships, or sacrificing their own long-term stability. Because for the narcissist, losing isn’t just uncomfortable—it feels like psychological defeat.

You’ll learn why they escalate situations that could have been resolved, why accountability feels like an attack to them, and why they will often burn everything to the ground just to avoid being “wrong.”

If you’ve ever walked away from an interaction feeling confused, drained, or like nothing made sense… this episode will connect the dots.

This isn’t about communication.
This is about control, ego survival, and the illusion of superiority.

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Jill Wise is a narcissistic abuse recovery coach helping survivors from all over the world break trauma bonds, heal from Complex PTSD, and rebuild their lives.